Ojjukira olunaku omusawo lwe yakugamba nti omwana wo alina autism? Oboolyawo wawulira ng’ensi yonna ezze ekukuba. Amangu ago, obulamu bwo, ebirooto byo, enteekateeka zo, byonna byakyuka. Kino si kya ggwe wekka, wabula kya buli maama ne taata ayise mu mbeera eno. Naye eno si nkomerero ya lugendo, wabula ntandikwa y’olugendo olupya, olw’enjawulo. Leero, ka twogere ku ngeri y’okukuumamu enkolagana y’amaka ey’omukwano, ey’amaanyi ng’oyita mu lugendo luno olupya.
Autism kintu ekikwata amaka gonna.
Abasawo bagamba nti obulwadde bwa autism tebukosa mwana yekka, wabula n’amaka gonna . Nga ejjinja mu kidiba bwe liwuuma, okwongera omwana alina autism mu maka kiyinza okukosa maama, taata, baganda be, bajjajjaabwe, n’abooluganda abalala. Wadde nga buli maka ga njawulo, waliwo ebizibu ebimu buli muntu by’ayolekagana nabyo. Obunene bw’okusoomoozebwa kuno buyinza okwawukana okusinziira ku buzibu bw’obulwadde bwa autism bw’omwana. Naye ensonga ze twolekagana nazo okusinga ze zimu.
Okusoomoozebwa okusooka: Okukyusa ebisuubirwa mu bazadde
Omwana waffe tulina ebirooto bimeka? Bajja kugenda ku ssomero basome bulungi, bagende ku kampusi, bafune omulimu omulungi, bafumbirwe era babeere mu ssanyu... Tulina ebirooto omutwalo nga bino mu birowoozo byaffe. Naye bwe tukizuula nti omwana waffe alina autism, essuubi lino likyuka nnyo. Kiba ng'okuteekateeka olugendo olulungi e Italy n'ova ku nnyonyi n'owulira "Welcome to Holland."
Oyinza okunyiiga amangu ago, oyinza okuwulira ennaku . Oyinza okulowooza nti, "Nnali njagala kugenda Italy! Lwaki wanleese wano?" Naye bw’oba munakuwavu ku Yitale, tojja kusobola kulaba bulungi bwa Holland, tulips, ebyuma ebikuba empewo.
Era n’olugendo luno bwe luli. Kiyinza obutaba bulamu bwe wali olowooza. Naye obulamu buno bwa njawulo, bwa njawulo, era bulungi . Okusobola okulaba obulungi obwo, tulina okusalawo.
Okusoomoozebwa okw’okubiri: Okutya Abooluganda
Singa wabaawo abaana abalala ng'oggyeeko omwana alina autism, ekimu ku bisinga okutya abazadde kwe kuba nti, "Omwana omulala anaasigala emabega? Anafiirwa okufaayo kwange?" Kya bulijjo okuwulira nga tolina budde kulabirira baana bo abalala, n’ebintu nga therapy n’okukyalira omusawo, ng’odduka omwana wo alina autistic.
Naye ekyewuunyisa, okunoonyereza kuzudde nti baganda b’abaana abalina autism batera okutereera obulungi mu birowoozo ne mu nneewulira.Bayiga okutwala obuvunaanyizibwa n’okulaga obusaasizi mu bwangu okusinga abalala.
Naye ekyo tekitegeeza nti tusaanidde okubyerabira. Kikulu nnyo okubawa omukisa okumala obudde naffe bokka.
| Ebizibu ab’oluganda bye bayinza okwolekagana nabyo | Bye tuyinza okukola ng’abazadde |
|---|---|
| Nga balowooza nti tebalina kufaayo kwa bazadde. | Mala olunaku lumu mu wiiki wekka n’omwana oyo (e.g., maama amala obudde n’omwana alina autistic ate taata n’azannya n’omwana omulala). |
| Okuwulira ensonyi oba okutya olw’enneeyisa ya muganda wo ng’emikwano gizze awaka oba ku ssomero. | Kiriza omwana wo okwogera mu lwatu ku nneewulira ze. Bategeeze nti kya bulijjo ggwe okuwulira bw’otyo. |
| Okunyiiga nti tebasobola kukola bintu bye baagala olw’omuganda waabwe alina autistic. | Wa ekitiibwa enneewulira z’omwana wo. Nnyonnyola nti, "Ekyo tokyogera kubanga oli mwana mubi." Bayambe okukola ku nneewulira ezo. |
Oluusi, omwana alina autistic w’atasobola kwefuga, baganda be basobola. Omukwano ogwo gwe gunywevu bwe gutyo.
Okusoomoozebwa okw’okusatu: Okukosa obufumbo
Guno mulamwa gwa maanyi nnyo. Omwana bw’azuulibwa ng’alina obulwadde bwa autism , kiteeka akazito kanene ku bufumbo bwonna. Emirundi mingi, bamaama ne bataata embeera eno bagikwata mu ngeri ya njawulo.
Ebiseera ebisinga, wadde nga bamaama bawulira ennaku etagumiikiriza, bakola mangu . Batandika okunoonya obujjanjabi bwe balina okukolera omwana, abasawo be balina okunoonya, ne buli kye basobola okukolera omwana. Naye bataata bangi essira balitadde ku mirimu gyabwe . Abamu tebaagala kukkiriza mbeera eno, oba bagezaako okugidduka.
Ababiri bano bwe balowooza mu ngeri ez’enjawulo, enjatika ezisooka mu bufumbo zitandika okulabika. Maama afiirwa omuntu gw’agabana naye ennaku ze. Ekisinga okugonjoola kino kwe kufunira obudde mwembi , ne bw’oba bbize otya. Kiyinza okuba nga banyumya okumala eddakiika 15 ng’abaana bamaze okwebaka, oba nga batudde wamu ne banywa caayi. Era kyetaagisa nnyo okwefunira obudde wekka.
"Ne bw'oba olina eddakiika 15 okunaabira wekka, kigwana. Funa ekiseera ekituufu okukola ekintu ekitono, ng'ekintu kye wali onyumirwa, ng'okusoma ekitabo, okuwuliriza oluyimba."
Okusoomoozebwa okw’okuna n’okutaano: Essanyu mu maka n’obulamu bw’abantu
Ebintu bye twakolanga mu ngeri ey’akaseera obuseera, gamba ng’okugenda mu luwummula, okugenda ku mukolo gw’amaka, oba okugenda ku kabaga ka mukwano gwaffe, kati kusoomoozebwa kwa maanyi? Okutwalira awamu abaana abalina autism tebaagala nkyukakyuka mu nkola zaabwe eza bulijjo . Kale ebintu bino biyinza okubakaluubiriza ennyo.
Naye eky’okugonjoola kino si kukomya bintu ebyo, wabula okubikyusa okutuukana n’omwana waffe .
- Okugenda ku lugendo? Genda mu kifo ky’omanyidde ky’ogendako buli lunaku. Mu ngeri eyo, omwana wo ajja kukimanyiira. Bw’oba ogenda mu kifo ekipya, mulage omwana wo ebifaananyi by’ekifo ekyo nga bukyali era annyonnyole ebigenda mu maaso eyo.
- Okugenda ku kabaga? Muveeyo nga bukyali katono ng’abalala bonna tebannatuuka. Mu ngeri eyo, omwana wo asobola okumanyiira ebintu ebimwetoolodde ng’abantu tebannaba kutuuka. Genda mu mmotoka bbiri. Omwana wo bw’afuna obuzibu okusulayo, omu ku bo asobola okumutwala awaka.
- Okufuluma okulya? Bw’okuba essimu mu dduuka n’oteeka ekifo, saba emmeeza mu nsonda gy’otogenda kutaataaganya balala.
Omwana wo bw’akola mu ngeri ey’enjawulo mu maaso g’abantu abalala, akutunuulira n’omwana wo mu ngeri eyeewuunyisa. Kizibu okugumiikiriza. Naye ekiseera bwe kinaagenda kiyitawo, ojja kuyiga okukibuusa amaaso. "Ekiseera bwe kinaagenda kiyitawo, ojja kuwulira ng'okuza olususu olupya wansi w'olususu lwo." Singa omuntu akutunuulira mu ngeri eyeewuunyisa, ojja kuba n'amaanyi okumwenya n'ogamba nti, "Tewali kweraliikirira, buli kimu kifugibwa ."
Famire yaffe terina kubeera nga "perfect family" mu lupapula lw'amawulire. Amaka gaffe gasobola okuba ag’enjawulo nga bwe twagala. Nga tulina abaana bano, tusobola okufuna essanyu mu bifo ebisinga okuba ebyewuunyisa mu bulamu.
Obubaka Obutwala Awaka
- Autism si kizibu ky’oyolekagana nabyo wekka, kikwata amaka gonna, olugendo buli omu lw’ayitamu awamu.
- Kya bulijjo okuwulira ennaku olw’ebiseera eby’omu maaso bye wali olowooza. Naye ennaku eyo bw’eggwaawo, gezaako okulaba obulungi obuli mu lugendo luno olupya, olw’enjawulo.
- Faayo nnyo ku baana bo abalala. Baleke boogere. Ba maanyi okusinga bw’olowooza.
- Kuuma obufumbo bwammwe. Wulirizagana, buli omu ategeeragana, era buli omu afune obudde.
- Toggwaamu maanyi mu biseera by’amaka eby’essanyu. Zikyuse zituukane n’ab’omu maka go.
- Tofaayo ku balala kye balowooza. Tewali kikyamu famire yo okubeera essanyu mu ngeri "ey'enjawulo".
- Bw’oba owulira nga bino byonna biyitiridde okugumira, nsaba oyogere n’omusawo wo oba omubuulirizi wo . Okusaba obuyambi kabonero ka maanyi.
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