Ekimu ku bintu abakyala bangi bye batya bulijjo kwe kusanga ekintu ng’ekizimba mu bbeere. Ddala mugugu munene ku birowoozo. Naye tulina okujjukira nti si buli kizimba nti kookolo. Kyokka, kikulu nnyo gye tuli okukimanya mu bujjuvu era n’okwetegekera ekintu kyonna nga bukyali. Leero twogera ku bukulu obw’ekitalo obw’okuzuula kookolo w’amabeere amangu nga tuyita mu mboozi ya munnakatemba omututumufu mu nsi yonna Christina Applegate . Emboozi ye etuyigiriza bingi.
Lwaki kikulu nnyo okukebera nga bukyali?
Christina teyafuna kookolo mu bwangu. Mu butuufu yali yeetegese okukikola. Ensonga eri nti nnyina yalina kookolo w’amabeere n’enkwaso. N’olwekyo Christina yatandika okukeberebwa amabeere buli kiseera okuva ku myaka 30.
Teebereza engeri kino gye yakifaako.
Wabula bwe yali wa myaka 36, omusawo yagamba nti, "Ebitundu by'amabeere go biba biwanvu nnyo nga tosobola kulaba bulungi ng'okebera amabeere gokka." Oluvannyuma omusawo yamusindika okwekebejjebwa MRI.
Ng’ebula emyezi mitono Christina azuuliddwa nti alina kookolo, yayiga ekintu ekyandimuwuniikiriza. Kyabadde kikwata ku bizibu abakyala abato abaali mu bulabe obw’amaanyi obw’okukwatibwa kookolo, naye nga tebalina ssente ze zimu ze bayitamu. "Oluvannyuma lw'okukola MRI yange omulundi ogw'okubiri, waliwo eyannyamba yagamba nti abakyala bangi abato, abali mu bulabe obw'amaanyi tebafuna MRI scan eno kubanga ya bbeeyi nnyo." "Nnanyiiga nnyo bwe nnawulira ekyo!"
Nga tewannayita mwaka mulamba bukya ekyo kyaliwo, mu 2008, Christina yakwatibwa kookolo w’amabeere. Ekirungi, olw’okukebera okwo okwa MRI kwe kwazuulibwa nga bukyali nnyo.
"Nnali wa mukisa nnyo. Nnali munyiikivu nnyo mu kukeberebwa kwange, sisubwako lunaku lwe nnalina okugenda. Tewaaliwo kookolo mu kukeberebwa okumu. Naye oluvannyuma lw'emyezi esatu, MRI yakiraga. Teebereza, mu myezi esatu, kookolo yali atuuse ku ddaala eriyinza okuzuulibwa mu mubiri gwange. Singa nnalindirira emyezi emirala mukaaga oba omwaka gumu, ani amanyi wa we yandisaasaanyizza?"
Obulabe bw'obuzaale & Obujjanjabi
Oluvannyuma lw’okuzuulibwa nti Christina alina kookolo, yasooka kulongoosebwa bitundu bibiri. Naye awo we waava ebyava mu kukeberebwa obuzaale bwe ne bikomawo. Bazudde nti yalina enkyukakyuka ya BRCA1 .
Mu ngeri ennyangu, kino kiringa obunafu obw’obuzaale obweyongera emikisa gy’okukwatibwa kookolo.
Oluvannyuma lw’okukimanya kino, okusalawo kwe ku bujjanjabi kwakyuka ddala. "Nnayogera n'omusawo. Mu kusooka, nnali nwakanya nnyo okulongoosebwa amabeere . Nakaaba ne ŋŋamba nti ekyo sijja kukikola. Naye ate amangu ago ne nkitegeera nti nnina emikisa egisukka mu 50% egya kookolo okudda . Saayagala kubeera na kutya okwo obulamu bwange bwonna. Bwentyo ne nsalawo ne nsalawo okulongoosebwa amabeere ag'enjuyi zombi."
Abasawo bagamba nti eri omuntu nga Christina alina enkyukakyuka mu buzaale bwa BRCA, kino kya magezi okusalawo kubanga bali mu bulabe bwa maanyi nnyo obw’okukwatibwa kookolo mu bbeere eddala. Wabula ku bakyala abatalina bulabe buno obw’obuzaale era nga balina kookolo ow’oluusi n’oluusi, tewali mugaso gwonna gukakasibwa nti guggyibwako amabeere gombi.
Abawala abato nabo bali mu bulabe bwa kookolo w’amabeere?
Abantu bangi balowooza nti kookolo w’amabeere abeera mu bantu abakadde bokka, naye eyo ndowooza nkyamu ddala .
Okusinziira ku musawo wa Christina, abawala bonna, so si abo bokka abali mu bulabe obw’amaanyi, beetaaga okubeera ku bunkenke ku kino. "Abakyala abato balina okumanya nti tewali bukakafu nti tebajja kufuna kookolo wa mabeere nga bakaddiye. Ne bwe kiba nti tewali muntu yenna mu maka gaabwe abadde amufunye, obulwadde bwa kookolo ono bweyongera mu bakyala abato."
Ensonga ki eziviirako kino?
- Okuzaala omwana asooka nga kikeeredde.
- Okwongera omugejjo.
- Okwolesebwa ebintu nga obusimu mu butonde.
Christina anyumya emboozi eno wammanga ku mukwano gwe:
"Omuwala gwe mmanyi yalina kookolo w'amabeere ow'omutendera ogw'okusatu. Bwe yalaga omusawo ekizimba mu mabeere ge omwaka gumu emabega, omusawo yagamba nti, 'Kiyinza okuba nga kyali kiterekeddwamu kalisiyamu katono,' kyokka n'atakola kukebera kwonna. Singa baali bakiggyewo mu kiseera ekyo, osanga kyandibadde kookolo wa mutendera I. Kati kisaasaanye n'ennywanto ze, era ali mu mbeera mbi nnyo."
Kino kintu kya nnaku nnyo. N’olwekyo bw’olaba enkyukakyuka mu mubiri gwo, togibuusa maaso.
Ebintu 3 buli mukyala alina okumanya
Kuno kwe tukugattidde amagezi asatu amakulu Christina n’omusawo we ge bawa buli mukyala. Kino kijjukire bulungi.
| Okuwabula | Okunnyonnyola |
|---|---|
| 1. Weegendereze amabeere go. | Olina okuba ng’omanyidde ddala engeri amabeere go gye galabika n’engeri gye gawuliramu. Yogerako n’omusawo wo ku ky’okwekebera amabeere. Mu ngeri eno, osobola okuzuula amangu enkyukakyuka zonna ezitali za bulijjo (ebizimba, enkyukakyuka mu lususu, obulumi). |
| 2. Beera Mugumiikiriza | Bw'oba owulira nga waliwo "ekintu ekikyamu" ekikukwatako, naye omusawo oba omuntu w'omu maka n'akigoba ng'agamba nti, "Ekyo tokimala," tokigoba. Olina okweyogerako. Laba omusawo omulala bw’oba weetaaga. Sigala ng’ogezaako okutuusa ng’okubuusabuusa kwo kuweddewo. |
| 3. Londa ttiimu y’abasawo esinga obulungi | Tolina kutandika bujjanjabi na musawo gw’osooka okulaba. Olina obudde. Londa ttiimu y’abasawo abakusanyusa, abakutegeera, era abamanyi ku bujjanjabi obupya (okukebera obuzaale, neoadjuvant therapy). Si kirowoozo kibi n’akatono okufuna endowooza eyookubiri. |
Obulamu n’obulamu bw’obwongo oluvannyuma lwa kookolo
Kookolo yakyusa obulamu bwa Christina mu ngeri nnyingi. Yafuuka afaayo nnyo ku bulamu bwe. Yamalawo ddala situleesi mu bulamu bwe.
Era ekyokulwanyisa ekisinga okumuyamba okuwangula olutalo luno kwe kuseka . "Nnaseka nnyo mu kiseera ky'okulongoosebwa n'oluvannyuma lw'okulongoosebwa okusinga bwe nnali nseka mu bulamu bwange," bw'agamba.
Naye olugendo lwennyini terwali lwa kamwenyumwenyu. "Okuggyibwako ebbeere kiringa okusalako. Mpozzi abasawo bagamba nti kati osinga kulabika bulungi , naye si nga bwe wali edda. Omubiri gwo, enneewulira zo, emmeeme yo, buli kimu kiyita mu bulumi obwo."
Kale agamba nti omuwala yenna ayita mu kintu nga kino alina okukwatagana n’abalala ababadde n’obumanyirivu bwe bumu. "Okwetaaga abantu b'osobola okwogera nabo, abantu abategeera obulumi bwo."
Maama wa Christina bulijjo yagamba nti, "Kkookolo kigambo, so si sentensi."
Mu nkomerero agamba nti toleka kookolo kukunnyonnyola. "Kkookolo si ky'oli. Kintu kyokka ky'okolagana nakyo."
Obubaka Obutwala Awaka
- Okuzuula amangu kiyinza okutaasa obulamu. Tobuuka kukeberebwa kw’abasawo okutegekeddwa naddala okukebera amabeere.
- Singa omuntu yenna mu maka go abadde alina kookolo (ebyafaayo by’amaka), kakasa nti oyogera n’omusawo wo ku nsonga eno.
- Bw’olaba enkyukakyuka yonna etali ya bulijjo mu mabeere go, togibuusa maaso. Ggwe omukuumi w’omubiri gwo asinga.
- Olina eddembe lyonna okufuna endowooza eyookubiri. Londa ttiimu y’abasawo gy’olina obwesige era gy’owulira nga weeyagaza.
- Obuwagizi bw’ab’omu maka, emikwano, n’abalala abayise mu mbeera ezifaananako bwe zityo kikulu nnyo mu lugendo luno. Tobonaabona wekka.
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