Tunah hian naute nei turin i inpeih tawh em? (Chhungkaw ruahmanna) Hemi chungchang hi han sawi ila!

Kan nunah thutlukna kan siam thin. Ṭhenkhat chu a awlsam hle. Vawiin hian eng nge i ha ang tih emaw, dawrah eng biscuit nge lei tur tih ang chi thutlukna siam hi chutiang chuan a harsa lo. Mahse, thutlukna "Tunah hian naute kan nei tur em ni?" a thuk zawk, a lian zawk hle a ni lawm ni? Hei hi mawhphurhna lian tak, mi pahnih inkawp a ngai a ni. He thutlukna siam hmanhmawh hi a tha lo. Chuvangin he zinkawng lian takah hian i inpeih tak tak em tih i hriat theih nan he thuziak hi ka ziak a ni.

"Ka pasal nen nau neih kan ngaihtuah tan tirh khan Colombo-ah kan awm a. Kan nu leh pa pahnih hi khuaah an cheng a. An hnen atanga hla taka naute neih chu a dik ang em tih ka ngaihtuah a. Kei pawh hi kea kal leh thiante nen kal dun hi ka ngaina em em bawk. Tin, naute vawi khat a lo thlen chuan chu nunphung chu a bo mai ang tih ka hlau bawk. Thubuai lian ber chu pawisa a ni. Hengte hi kan lei thei dawn em ni." hmaralna?" Hei hi kan rama nupa tuak thar tam takin zawhna an zawh thin a ni. Thla tam tak, kum tam tak pawh ni thei, hetiang zawhna tam tak nei nupa tuak khat pawh an awm. Chuti a nih chuan engtin nge tunah hian i inpeih tawh tih chiang taka i hriat theih ang? A hnuaia zawhna palite hi in pahnih hian "yes" tiin in chhang thei a nih chuan in ngaihtuah aiin in inpeih zawk mai thei.

1. In inzawmna a nghet em?

Strong tih hian inzawmna famkim, harsatna nei lo tihna a ni lo . Chutiang inzawmna chu a awm lo. Mahse, in pahnih hian in inbiak pawhna tha tak leh harsatna in chinfel theih em? In zah tawn em? Inchhung hna leh mawhphurhna i insem em? Hengte hi a pawimawh ber a ni.

A châng chuan nupate chuan sum leh pai, sex, leh nu leh pa nih chungchângah inrem lohna tê tê an nei ṭhîn. Naute neih hmain heng thilte hi a theih ang anga chinfel a pawimawh. A chhan chu heng thil tenau te hi naute neih avanga stress leh busyness lo awm thin nen hian a lian zawk thin. Chuvangin, in inzawmna lungphum chu tichak hmasa phawt ang che. Nangmah chauha naute neih i tum a nih chuan, i tanpui turin chhungte emaw, ṭhiante emaw ṭanpuina system nghet tak neih chu ngaihtuah rawh.

2. I career piah lam nun atan i rilru i siam thei em?

Nausen a lo thlen hnua pa mawhphurhna a pun chhoh laiin, nuin a hmachhawn tur harsatnate chu a nasa lehzual a ni. Chung zingah chuan naupai lai taksa hahna leh nuam lo te, naute neih hnua hnathawhna hmuna kir leh leh loh chungchanga thutlukna siama rilru hahna lo awm thin te pawh a tel. Nu tam tak chuan an inthiam lo hle a, "Hna ka thawh leh chuan ka naute chungah dik lo ka ti ang em?"

Chuvangin naupai hma hianNangni pahnih hian thu dun in he thu hi in sawi dun a ngai a ni.

• Naute an neih hnuah hna an bansan em ?
• A nih loh leh in pahnih hian hna thawkin in kal em?
• Chutiang a nih chuan tuin nge naute chu enkawl ang? (An nu leh pate hnen atangin tanpuina an dawng dawn em ni? A nih loh leh mi an la dawn em ni? Daycare-ah an dah dawn em ni?)

Hengte hi thutlukna sensitive tak tak a nih avangin ruahmanna siam lawk hian nakin lawkah stress tam tak a chhanhim thei che a ni.

3. I hnathawhna hmuna maternity/paternity leave i hriat chian em?

Sri Lanka-a pawl zawng zawng hian maternity/paternity leave policy inang an nei vek lo. Sawrkar leh private sector-a dan awmte chu a inang lo hle. Private sector khata pawl hrang hrangte pawh a inang lo hle bawk. Chuvangin, in pahnih hian in pawl hrang hranga HR department-ah hemi chungchang hi in zawtfiah tur a ni.

• Ni engzat nge maternity leave i hmuh? (paid/paid pek loh) .
• I kawppui hian ni engzat nge paternity leave a hmuh?
• He chawlh hun hi a tawk lo a nih chuan kum tin chawlh i neihnaah i belh thei ang em?
• Hun rei lote chhunga chawlh hahdamna dang a awm em?

Hei hi hriat lawk a, ruahmanna siam a pawimawh hle a, a tul chuan hmachhawn turin sum engemaw zat khawlkhawm ang chi hi a pawimawh hle. Nau neih hnu thla hmasa berte hi a hlu hle. Chutiang ruahmanna chuan chu hun chu thlamuang tak leh hlim taka i naute nêna hman theih nân a ṭanpui ang che.

4. Sum leh pai lamah i inpeih em?

He zawhna hi zawh hlau suh. "Financial readiness" tih hian in chhawng hnih, car pahnih, leh i credit card zawng zawng pek chhuah vek a ngai tihna a ni lo. Chutiang a thlen hma chu i nghah chuan engtikah mah naute i neih a ngai tawh lovang.

Mahse, thla tin i sum lakluh a\angin naute mamawh bulpui phuhrukna tur sum i khawlkhawm thei tur a ni. A awlsam zawngin, naute nitin senso (diaper, formula, thawmhnaw), damdawi hman man, leh naute enkawlna senso te chu rough idea i nei tur a ni.

Heng zawng zawng ngaihtuah hian hlauhna tlem a awm hi thil pangngai a ni. Mahse, hei hi khawvela nu leh pa zawng zawngte hmachhawn tur harsatna a ni tih hre reng ang che. A pawimawh ber chu in pahnih hian in sawi dun a, ruahmanna siam turin in thawhhona a ni.