A chang chuan naupang thenkhat nungchang inthlak danglam thut kan hmu thin. Naupang nuih, tlan kual leh inkhelh thin chu a ngawih thut a, pindan pakhatah amah chauhin a awm a, a hlauthawng reng ang maiin a lang. Naupang taksa pum puiah hliam leh hliam i hmu mai thei. Heng thilte kan hmuh hian kan thinlungah zawhna lian tak leh hlauhna kan nei a, "He naupang hi thil dik lo a awm em?" Hetah hian thupui sensitive tak leh serious tak, khawtlang anga kan hriat chian a ngai, chu chu naupang tihduhdahna hi a ni.
A awlsam zawngin, naupang tihduhdahna chu eng nge ni?
Naupang tihduhdahna chu tumruh taka taksa emaw rilru emawa naupang tihnat emaw, ngaihsak loh emaw mai a ni. Lungchhiatthlak tak chu a tam zawkah chuan he tihduhdahna hi naupangin a hriat leh a rintlak mi pakhatin a ti thin a ni. He mi hi nu leh pa, chhungte hnai tak, enkawltu, a nih loh leh chhungkaw ṭhian a ni thei.
Sri Lanka dan ang chuan, chutiang bawkin khawvel ram tam tak dan angin, naupang kum 18 hnuai lam tumruh taka tihduhdah, tihbuai, emaw, ngaihsak loh emaw chu thil sual lian takah ngaih a ni
Naupang tihduhdahna chi hrang hrangte chu engte nge ni?
Naupang tihduhdahna hi chi khat chauh a ni lo. A chi hrang hrang a lo thleng thei. Hei hi hriat chian a pawimawh hle.
| Thil tihsual chi hrang hrang | Hei hian a awmzia chu... |
|---|---|
| Taksa lama tihduhdahna | Naupang vuak, nawr, vuak, vuak, vuak, tihnghing, hal, etc. Tin, naupang mamawh bulpui, ei leh in, leh toilet kal te tihhlawhtlin phal loh hi he category-ah hian a tel a ni. |
| Emotional Abuse tih hi a ni | Thu hmanga naupang tihnat reng. Entirnan, naupang sawichhiat te, dem reng reng te, na taka hau te, vau te, au te, etc. Hei hian naupang inngaihhlutna nasa takin a tichhe thin. |
| Sexual Abuse hmanga tihduhdahna | Naupang chu mipat hmeichhiatna lama tihduhdah te, dik lo taka naupang khawih te, naupang saruak thlalakna atana hman te, a nih loh leh chutiang thil chu naupang hmuhtir te. Hei hi thil sual lian tak a ni. |
| Damdawi lama tihduhdahna | Tumruh taka naupang natna siam tum emaw, naupang natna enkawl loh emaw. |
| Naupang ngaihsak lohna | Naupangin an mamawh bulpui: ei leh in, silhfen, in him, zirna, damdawi lam enkawlna, leh a bik takin hmangaihna leh enkawlna pek loh. |
Spanking hi naupang tihduhdahna a ni em?
Hei hi kan khawtlang nunah kan sawi fo thin thupui a ni. Naupangin an tihsual hunah an thunun theih nan light spank pek chungchangah ngaihdan hrang hrang a awm. Mahse hei hi damdawi lam thlirna atanga kan ngaihtuah a ngai a ni.
Naupang chu hliam, hliam, a nih loh leh hliam thlen thei tûra vuak hmanga hrem a nih chuan, chu chu taksa lama tihduhdahna anga ngaih a ni ngei ang .
Research atanga a lan dan chuan naupang taksaa hremna (spanking) hian an khawtlang hmasawnna a tikhawlo thei a ni. A bik takin, heng naupangte hi mahni inngaihsakna hniam, zirna lama hlawhtlinna tha lo, leh chhungkaw inlaichinna chak lo tak tak an neih theihna chance a sang zawk a ni.
Naupang hrem hmain heng zawhnate hi inzawt hmasa phawt ang che:
- Hetiang thil hi naupang chu eng emaw zirtirna atan nge naupang rilruah hlauhna tuh turin ka ti em?
- Ka fa hian ka hmangaih tih a hria em?
- He hremna hmang hian naupang hi eng zirlai nge ka zirtir?
- He thutlukna hi nakinah ka lawm thei ang em?
Naupangte discipline zirtir dan tha, hrisel tak tak a tam hle. Hemi chungchang hi i fa doctor nen inbia a, thurawn lak a phu hle.
Naupangte tihduhdah an nih hian engtin nge an nungchang a danglam?
Naupang tihduhdah tuar nungchang leh rilruah danglamna nasa tak a awm a. Ṭhenkhat chu kan hmuh a awlsam a, a then erawh chu hriat a harsa deuh.
| Thil tihsual avanga lo awm thei symptoms | |
|---|---|
| Pawn lam mizia leh nungchang | |
| Mipat hmeichhiatna lama thil dik lo tih tum. | Taksa natna, pum na leh lu na te complaint fo thin. |
| Naupang ang maia nungchang leh (e.g., kut zungtang hrual, khumah hnim hrual ). | In atanga tlanbo tum. |
| Mahni intihhlum (e.g. taksa peng hrang hrang tan). | Thiltih dan inthlak danglam nghal, na tak. |
| Psychological characteristic thup tak tak te | |
| Lungngaihna leh lungngaihna nei reng reng. | Zirna leh ngaihtuahna seng harsa. |
| Trauma na tak (Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder - PTSD) natna lan chhuah dan. | Emotional development tlakchhamna. |
| Mahni inngaihhlutna hniam tak neih. | Mumang chhia leh mahni intihhlum tum fo thin. |
Mi tihduhdahna kan rinhlelh chuan engtin nge kan tih ang?
He thuziak hi a pawimawh ber a ni. Naupang tihduhdah a ni tih rinhlelhna tlemte pawh i neih chuan ngaihthah ngai suh. Step tlemte i tih chuan naupang nunna zawng zawng a chhanhim thei a ni.
1. Naupang chu biak rawh
I fate nungchang a danglam tih i hriat chuan, inngaitlawm tak leh hmangaihna nen inbia ang che. A ring thei che tih a hriat tir ang che. I fa chu thudik hrilh che hlau lo turin fuih la, tu emaw hnenah tu hnenah mah hrilh lo turin a hrilh a nih pawhin.
2. Ṭanpuina dil nghal rawh
Hlauh vang emaw, zah vang emaw hian hetiang thil hi thup suh. Ṭanpuina i dil hunah i hming a lang ang tih hlau suh. Thuneitute chuan chu thu chu thurukin an vawng tlat a ni.
I biak theihna tur hmunte:
- Naupang chu a hlauhawm nghal a nih chuan: Police emergency number 119 ah call nghal rawh.
- Naupang tihduhdahna report tur chuan: National Child Protection Authority (NCPA) darkar 24 chhunga hotline 1929-ah biak theih a ni a, hei hi Sri Lanka rama hemi atana inpe agency lian ber a ni.
- Damdawi lam thurawn dawng tur chuan: Naupang chu damdawi in hnai ber emaw, i chhungkaw doctor emaw hnenah hruai rawh .
3. Tih tur leh tih loh tur
- Thuneitute hriattir an nih hma chuan naupang chu pawngsualtu lakah hla takah dah rawh.
- Mi tihduhdahtu nia rinhlelh chu vau ngai suh la, dan pawh i kuta lak tum ngai suh. Hei hian dinhmun a tichhe zual thei chauh a ni.
Naupang tihduhdah tuar tan chuan hmalam hun chu eng ang nge ni ang?
Enkawl loh chuan naupang tihduhdahna hian hun rei tak chhung naupang nunah nghawng a nei thei a ni. Taksa hliam bakah hian zirlai lama harsatna, rilru lama harsatna, leh khawtlang inlaichinna siam harsatna a thlen thei a ni. Puitling kan nih tawh pawhin lungngaihna te, ruihhlo ngawlvei te, midang rin harsat te ang chi harsatna a awm thei a ni.
Mahse, hei hian naupang tihduhdah tuar zawng zawng hmalam hun chu a thim tihna a ni lo. Damdawi inenkawlna leh counseling mumal tak an neih chuan heng naupangte hian nun hrisel, hlim tak an nei leh thei a ni. Chu rinna chu kan nei vek tur a ni.
I fa chu tihduhdah a nih tawh chuan i doctor nen inbia la, heng zawhnate hi zawt rawh:
- Tunah hian ka fa hian eng physical therapy nge a mamawh?
- Eng therapy chi nge ka fa chu a puih ber ang?
- Chhungkaw anga counselling kan zawn hi a hlawkpui em?
- Engtin nge ka fa chu a dam thuai theih nan ka puih theih ang?
- Kan fate hmaa kan sawi loh tur leh tih loh tur thenkhat chu engte nge ni?
Naupang tihduhdahna hi thil lungchhiatthlak tak a ni. Mahse, chu chu kan hriat chian a, a chhinchhiahnate kan hriat chian a, a dik taka hma kan lak hian naupangte kan humhim thei a ni. Mi tihduhdahna i rinhlelh chuan ngawi reng suh. I fa chu mi tihduhdahtu lakah humhim la, professional tanpuina zawng rawh.
Take-Home Thuchah a ni
- Naupang tihduhdahna hi taksa tihduhdahna ringawt a ni lo. Rilru lama tihduhdahna te, mipat hmeichhiatna lama tihduhdahna te, naupang ngaihsak lohna te pawh hi tihduhdahna pawi tak a ni.
- Vawi tam tak chu mi tihduhdahtu chu naupangin a hriat chian leh a rintlak tak a ni.
- Naupang nungchang emaw, mize emaw, sawifiah theih loha inthlak danglam thut i hmuh chuan, tihduhdahna chhinchhiahna a ni thei.
- Naupang tihduhdah a nih i rinhlelh chuan ngawi reng suh . Kum 1929 khan National Child Protection Authority emaw 119 ah police hnenah report nghal rawh .
- Damdawi lam leh rilru lam enkawlna dik tak chuan naupang tihduhdah tuar chu a dam leh theih nan leh nun hlawhtling tak a neih theih nan a pui thei a ni.
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