Office-a inkhawm pawimawh takah i tel ve ang tih han ngaihtuah teh. Tlem i la naupang tê avângin i ngaihtuahna ṭhate chu tumahin an ngai pawimawh lo. A nih loh leh, i upa deuh tawh avangin, "Aw, he technology thar hi i ti thei tawh lo a, midang hnenah pe ila," tiin an nawr chhuak che a ni. In lamah pawh, "Aw, tunah chuan i upa tawh lutuk, chutiang chu i ti thei lo," tiin i tih duh thil tih khap che a ni mai thei. He kum avanga inthliarna leh hnawhchhuahna hi ‘ageism’ kan tih mai hi a ni. Hei hi kan khawtlang mi tam takin an hriat loha an tih thin a ni a, mahse a na em em a ni.
Kawng eng emaw zat ‘Ageism’ kan tawk thin.
Hei hi ngaihdan dik lo eng pawh ang bawkin kan beisei loh ber hmunah kan nunah a rawn lut a ni. Hei hi eng ang nge a nih theih ang tih i lo en ang u.
1. Mahni inhriatthiam lohna Ageism
Hei hi a mak deuh. A châng chuan heng inthlâk danglamnate hi pâwn lam mi aṭangin a inṭan lo va, keimahni aṭangin a inṭan a ni. I thiante leh chhungte pawhin an upat deuh deuh chuan an kum chungchang an sawi tih i hre tawh ngei ang. "Aw, tunah chuan ka tar tawh a, chutiang chu ka ti thei lo," "He kawr hi ka hak hunah chuan ka hmelchhiain ka lang ang," an ti a. Phên dangin sawi ila, an kum avângin an thil tih theih leh an nun duh dân chu an tikhawtlai a ni.
Entirna dang sawi tur chuan:
- Thil i theihnghilh chuan, "Aw, tunah chuan ka tar tawh a, 'senior mom moment ' a ni tawh," tiin i inpum a ni.
- "Tunah chuan ka tar tawh a, chuvang chuan thawmhnaw dik lo ka ha thei lo va, hmun dik loah ka kal thei lo va, thil dik lo pawh ka ti thei tawh lo," tih ngaihtuah chungin.
- Kum hi i natna zawng zawng chhan a ni tih ngaihtuah. Natna thenkhat chu a takah chuan kum nena inzawm ni mah se, engkim hi kum avanga lo awm a ni lo. Doctor nen inbia a, chiang taka hriat a tha ber.
2. Hnathawhna hmuna Ageism
Hei hi naupang leh puitling pawh nghawng thei thil a ni. Vawi tam tak chu hnathawhna hmunah chuan miten ngaihtuahna chi hrang hrang an nei thin.
- Kum upa lam tan: Technology hmanga hna chak tak an thawk thei lo va, thil thar an ngaihven lo va, taksa thawhrimna ngai hna thawk thei lo anga ngaih an ni.
- Tleirawl zawkte tan: An naupan vangin, tawnhriat an nei lo va, an hre tam lo va, mawhphurhna lian tham pek theih loh an inngai thin.
A chang chuan hei hian nghawng lian zawk a nei thin. Entîr nân, mi pakhat kum chuan promotion, special project , a nih loh leh hna pawh a dal thei a ni.
A pawimawh ber chu mi pakhatin a theihna chu a kum a\anga teh ni lovin, a hriatna, thiamna leh tawnhriat a neihte a\anga teh tur a ni.
3. Media lama kum upa lam (Ageism).
TV-ah te, movie-ah te, lehkhabuah te, leh social media-ah te pawh tarte nuihzat, tanpui ngai lo, theihnghilh thei, leh engmah ti thei lo anga lantir an nihna hi chhiar sen loh a awm. Chungte kan hmuh hian chutiang ngaihdan dik lote chu khawtlang mipui rilruah pawh a zung kai a ni.
Media siam chhuah ageist ngaihdan tlanglawn thenkhat:
- Tarte chuan engkim an theihnghilh vek.
- Nursing home hi "no-can" mi awmna hmun a ni.
- Tarte chu mahni chauha awm, tanpui ngai lo, puitu tur an mamawh a ni.
Hetiang thil hi engtin nge dik taka kan chhân lêt?
Thil lian ber chu hetiang inthliarna hi kan hriat chian theih hi a ni. Chu chu i hriat chian chuan nangmah ngeiin i ngaihdan dik lo thlîr tûrin a ṭanpui thei che a ni. Mahse midang chunga hetiang thil tih hi sawi hi a harsa deuh thei.
1. Mi dik tak, kawng dik takin biak rawh.
Hei hi chhungkaw member kum chungchang sawi a nih chuan, mimal taka inbiakna neih a tha ber mai thei . Mahse office-a thil thleng a nih chuan mi sang zawk emaw, i human resources (HR) department emaw i biak a ngai mai thei.
2. Muangchangin awm rawh.
Hetiang thil kan sawi hian awlsam takin kan thinrim thei. Mi dang chuan, "Aw, ka fiamthu mai mai a ni," tiin mahni inven a tum mai thei. Mahse, thinrimna hian heng harsatnate hi a chinfel sak lo tih hre reng ang che. A lo awm a nih chuan in pahnih hian he nungchang hi chiang takin in ngaihtuah thei lo vang a, in sawi thei lo vang. Thâwk la la, muangchangin thil awmdan chu hrilhfiah rawh.
3. Puhna siam ai chuan inbiakna neihpui rawh.
I kal nghal a, "Ka tar tawh avangin min thliar hrang a ni!" Chuvângin, direct-a puh ai chuan zawhna hmangin inbiakna chu ṭan rawh. Entirnan, "Chutiang i sawi tum chu tlem tal min hrilhfiah thei ang em?"
Eng chiah nge kan sawi duh?
Okay, tunah chuan ageism chu eng nge a nih leh engtin nge i sawi ang tih i hre tawh ang. Mahse, eng thu chiah nge sawi tur chu? I hman theih dan tangkai tak tak te chu hetiang hi a ni.
| Thil awmdan chu | I Sawi Theih Dan |
|---|---|
| Miin kum chungchangah "fiamthu" a siam hian. | "Fiamthuin i sawi a ni mai thei, mahse chutiang tawngkam chuan mi rilru a ti na thei a ni. Mi kum hi fiamthu lo ila, a tha em?" |
| Miin hna pakhat atan "upa lutuk" emaw "naupang lutuk" emaw a tih hian. | "Ka kum hi rei lo te chhung chu dah bo ila. He hna atana ka theihna leh tawnhriat te hi han sawi ila? Hei hi ka ti tha theiin ka hria." |
| Mi pakhatin, "Ka nuihzat mai mai a ni," tiin a dikna a lantir hian. | "Thil tihthinrim i tum lo tih ka hria. Mahse hetiang thawnthu hian khawtlang nunah kum chungchanga ngaihdan dik lo a tichak a ni. Chuvang chuan he thu hi ka rawn chhuah a ni." |
| Team pakhata naupang leh tawnhriat ngah inkara inthlauhna a awm chuan. | "Experience atanga hriatna kan neih leh thalai te ngaihtuahna thar te hi kan team hlawhtlinna atan hian a hlu hle a ni. Mi zawng zawng ngaihdan ngaithla ila, thawk ho ila." |
Miin agnostic ngaihdan a sawi hunah i ngawi reng chuan, chu mi chuan a thusawi chu a dik tih a ngaihtuahtîr thei tih hre reng ang che. I ngawih rengna hi endorsement a ni lo. Chuvangin thu sawi hlau suh.
Tin, hriat reng tur pakhat chu, tawnhriat nei te hian thil thar an ngaihtuah thei lo tih dan a awm lo va, thalaite hian tawnhriat an nei lo tih pawh a awm lo. Mi kan en hian an kum label tihbo a, an theihna leh thiamna en hi kan zir vek tur a ni .
Take-Home Thuchah a ni
- Ageism chu kum a zira inthliarna a ni. Tupawh a nghawng thei a, naupang emaw, puitling emaw pawh a ni thei.
- Hei hi hnathawhna hmunah chauh ni lovin, khawtlangah, chhungkuaah chauh ni lovin, keimahni chhungrilah pawh kan hriat loh pawhin a thleng thei a ni.
- Agism hriatchhuah hi a hmasa ber a ni. Chutiang dinhmunah chuan ngawi reng suh, muangchangin leh zah takin sawi rawh.
- Mi hlutna hi kum a\anga teh tur a ni lo va, a theihna te, a hriatna te, a thiamna te a\angin teh tur a ni.
- Hetiang thilte hi i rilru a hah a, i lungngai a, i lungkham a nih chuan, i ṭhian i rintlak tak, i chhûngte, a nih loh leh i doctor biak chu hlau suh . I rilru hriselna a pawimawh.
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