Kei te whakaaro tō tamaiti kāore ia e aroha ana ki a koe? Tērā pea he Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)!

E ngā māmā, e ngā pāpā, kua kite, kua rongo rānei koutou i ētahi tamariki nohinohi kāore e whakaatu ana i te aroha, i te ngākau aroha rānei ki ō rātou kaitiaki, tae atu ki ō rātou mātua? Me te mea nei kei te noho mokemoke rātou i roto i tō rātou ake ao. He āhuatanga tino pouri tēnei, ā, he whakamārama hauora anō hoki mō tēnei. I tēnei rā kei te kōrero tātou mō tētahi o aua āhuatanga, e kiia nei ko te 'Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD).'

He aha te 'Rēreactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)'?

Ki te kī māmā noa iho, ko te 'Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)' he āhuatanga e kore ai e taea e te tamaiti nohinohi te hanga hononga kare ā-roto hauora ki ōna kaitiaki, pērā i tōna whaea me tōna pāpā. Ko te take matua mō tēnei he kore i whiwhi te tamaiti i te aroha kare ā-roto me te haumaru tika i ōna tau tōmua, i te kore rānei i arohia, i tukinotia rānei ia. He uaua ki ngā tamariki whai 'RAD' te whakahaere i ō rātou kare ā-roto. He tino uaua hoki ki a rātou te hanga hononga tata ki ētahi atu. He mea whakamiharo, i ētahi wā ahakoa he tino aroha me te atawhai ō rātou kaitiaki, kāore pea ēnei tamariki e tata ki a rātou, ā, tera pea ka mataku.

Ko wai te mea ka nui ake te tūponotanga ka pāngia e te `Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)`?

Ko tēnei āhuatanga e tino kitea ana i roto i ngā tamariki nohinohi e kore e arohia, e tukinotia ana rānei i te taha tinana, i te taha hinengaro rānei. Heoi anō, ka pā pea ki ngā tamariki pakeke ake. Ko ngā tamariki e nui ake te mōrearea ki te whakawhanake i te RAD ko:

• He maha ngā kaitiaki: Whakaarohia he tamaiti e nekehia ana mai i tētahi whare whāngai ki tētahi atu, mai i tētahi whānau whāngai ki tētahi atu rānei, ā, kāore e taea e ia te hanga hononga tuturu ki tētahi atu.
• Te wehenga i muri i te piripono: Kia whakawhanakehia e te tamaiti he hononga kare ā-roto pai ki tōna kaitiaki matua, me wehe atu ia i a rāua.
• Ngā mate pōuri i te tīmatanga o te ao: Mena ka pāngia te tamaiti e ētahi mate nui, ngā raruraru rānei i te wā taitamariki, ā, kāore e taea e ia te whakamanawanui.
• Ngā mātua kāore e ngana ana ki te piri tata ki ngā kare ā-roto: Kāore ētahi mātua, ētahi kaitiaki rānei e ngana ana ki te piri tata ki ngā kare ā-roto o tā rātou tamaiti.
• Te Whakatūnga Whare: Mena me noho koe i tētahi wāhi pēnei i te whare pani, me te kore he aroha o ngā mātua.

I ētahi wā, ka uaua ki ngā mātua whāngai te hono atu ki te tamaiti hou ki te whānau, nā te mea kāore rātou i te mōhio ki ngā āhuatanga o mua o te tamaiti. Ina koa mēnā he āhua koretake te kare ā-roto o te tamaiti. Mēnā he mātua hou koe, kei te whakaatu tō tamaiti i ngā tohu o te 'RAD', kei te uaua rānei koe ki te hono atu ki tō tamaiti, me kōrero ki te tākuta o tō tamaiti, kia tirohia ai tēnei mate.

He pēhea te auau o te 'Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)'?

Ina hoki, he uaua ki te kī tika i te auau o tēnei, nā te mea he maha ngā kēhi kāore i te pūrongohia. Heoi, e kiia ana kei waenganui i te 1% me te 2% o ngā tamariki te mate RAD. Ko ngā tamariki kua tangohia mai i ō rātou kāinga, ā, kua whakanohoia ki ētahi atu wāhi, pērā i ngā whare pani, ka nui ake te tūponotanga ka pāngia e te RAD. Tata ki te haurua o ēnei tamariki ka uaua ki te hanga whanaungatanga ki ētahi atu i roto i te wā.

He aha ngā tohu o te 'Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)'?

Ka rerekē pea ngā tohu o te RAD i ia tamaiti, engari ko ētahi o ngā tohu e kitea ana i roto i ngā pēpi me ngā tamariki nohinohi ko:

• Kāore i te whakaatu i ngā kare ā-roto pai: Ina noho tahi rātou me ētahi atu, kāore rātou e whakaatu i ngā kare ā-roto pai pērā i te whakamarie, te aroha, me te harikoa.
• Te karo i te titiro kanohi me te pa tinana: Te kore e hiahia ki te titiro tika ki te kanohi o tetahi, ki te pā atu rānei ki a rātou.
• Te whakaatu i te wehi me te riri: Te riri tonu, te tangi, me te pouri.
• Te ngana ki te whakahaere: Ka ngana rātou ki te whakahaere i ngā mea e karapoti ana i a rātou. Ka ārahi tēnei i a rātou ki te takahi i ngā ture.

He aha te rerekētanga i waenga i te 'Inhibited Reactive Attachment Disorder' me te 'Disinhibited Social Engagement Disorder (DSED)'?

Ko tētahi atu āhuatanga e pā ana ki te `Inhibited Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)` ko te `Disinhibited Social Engagement Disorder (DSED).` Engari he rerekētanga kei waenganui i ngā mea e rua. Kia tirohia tātou he aha rāua.

`RAD` (Āraihia)

E mōhio ana ngā tamariki whai `RAD` ki ngā mea e pā ana ki a rātou, engari kāore e aro atu ki ngā āhuatanga kare ā-roto. Kāore rātou e whakaatu, e rapu rānei i te aroha mai i ngā kaitiaki, i ētahi atu rānei. E pai ana ki a rātou te noho mokemoke. Ko ngā āhuatanga ko:

• Te karo i ngā kaitiaki.
• Te noho tawhiti atu i ngā āhuatanga pāpori.
• Kāore e pai ki ngā mea whakamarie (hei tauira, te awhi).

`DSED` (Kāore he aukati - tuwhera ki waho, engari kāore he here)

Tērā pea ka tino hoa ngā tamariki e pāngia ana e te `Disinhibited Social Engagement Disorder (DSED)` ki ngā tāngata tauhou. Tērā pea ka aru haere rātou i a rātou me te kore e tono ki ō rātou mātua. He maha ngā wā, ka mahi ēnei tamariki i te mea he tamariki ake i tō rātou tau, ā, ka rapu pea i te aroha mai i ētahi atu i roto i te āhua pōuri. Ko ngā tohu ko:

• Kāore he hononga whiriwhiri (pērā i te katoa).
• E rapu ana i te aro o te katoa.
• Te whanonga kāore e tika ana mō te tau o te tangata.
• Kāore e mārama ki ngā rohe pāpori.

Hei tauira, ka wehe pea te tamaiti whai `RAD` i ētahi atu i tētahi pāti, ā, ka noho ko ia anake i te kokonga. Engari ka haere te tamaiti whai `DSED` ki ngā tāngata tauhou, ka kōrero ki a rātou, ka piki pea ki runga i ō rātou waewae. He raruraru piripono hauora tō rāua tokorua, engari he rerekē te huarahi e whakapuaki ai rāua i a rāua anō.

He aha ngā take o te 'Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)'?

Kāore he take motuhake kotahi e pāngia ai ngā tamariki whai RAD e tēnei mate.E whakaatu ana ngā rangahau he maha ngā take kāore e taea e te tamaiti te hono atu ki ōna kaitiaki:

• Te tukino, te kore aro rānei: Ka rongo te tamaiti kua whakarērea, kua mokemoke. Hei tauira, ki te whawhai pinepine ngā mātua, ā, kāore e tirotiro i te tamaiti, kāore te tamaiti e whiwhi i te aroha me te manaaki e hiahiatia ana e ia.
• Te kore kai: Ina kore te tamaiti e whiwhi i te kai me te inu e tika ana, he matea taketake tēnā.
• Ngā āwangawanga haumaru: Mēnā kei te mataku te tamaiti kei roto ia i te mōrearea.
• Te kore o te ma: Ka noho te tamaiti i roto i ngā nāpi mākū mō ngā hāora, ki te kore tetahi e whakawhiti.
• Ngā panonitanga maha o ngā kaitiaki: Kāore pea te tamaiti e mōhio ko wai hei whakawhirinaki atu.
• Te manaaki koretake: Mena ka tutukihia ngā hiahia o te tamaiti i ētahi wā noa iho, ina koa mena kāore te tamaiti i te mōhio āhea me tumanako ki te aroha me te whakamarie mai i ngā kaitiaki.

Ka hanga hononga hauora ngā tamariki nohinohi ina tutukihia ā rātou hiahia taketake i runga i te auau me te pumau . Mā tēnei ka hanga whakawhirinaki i waenga i te tamaiti me ngā kaitiaki. Ki te kore e tutukihia tika ngā hiahia tinana me ngā hiahia kare ā-roto o te tamaiti, ka tūpono rātou ki te whakawhanake i te 'RAD'.

Me pēhea te tātaritanga o te 'Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)'?

Hei tātaritanga i te RAD, ka pātai atu te tākuta o tāu tamaiti ki a koe mō te hītori hauora o tāu tamaiti me ngā tohu e whakaatuhia ana e tāu tamaiti. Hei mārama ake i ngā tohu o tāu tamaiti, ka pātai pea te tākuta i ēnei pātai:

• Kua tukinotia, kua whakarērea rānei tāu tamaiti i mua?
• Nōnahea koe i kite tuatahi ai i ēnei tohu?
• He aha ngā āhuatanga i kitea tuatahitia e koe?
• Kei te pēhea te whanaungatanga i waenganui i a koe me tāu tamaiti?
• Kei te pēhea tō āhua noho?
• He ētahi atu kaitiaki kei te mahi tahi me te tamaiti?

Ki te whakapae tō tākuta kei a koe te RAD, ka tukuna pea koe me tō tamaiti e rātou ki tētahi tākuta tamariki, ki tētahi tākuta hinengaro, me tētahi tākuta hinengaro hei āwhina i te tātaritanga o te mate o tāu tamaiti, me te tūtohu i ngā maimoatanga hei āwhina.

Ka taea te whakapoauau i te 'Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)' me te 'Autism Spectrum Disorder'?

I mua i te whakatau he `RAD` te mate o te tamaiti, ka whakahaerehia e te tākuta he whakamātautau hei whakakore i ētahi atu take, inā koa ko ngā āhuatanga pēnei i te `Autism Spectrum Disorder`. Ko te `Autism Spectrum Disorder` he āhuatanga whanaketanga e pā ana ki te whanonga me te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero a te tangata. I te tirohanga tuatahi, ka rite pea ngā tohu ki te `RAD`. Ko te rerekētanga nui ko te tukino, te kore rānei e aro ki te take o te `Autism Spectrum Disorder`, engari ka pā ki te tautuhi i te `RAD`.

Me pēhea te rongoā i te `Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)`?

Ko te arotahi matua o te rongoā i te RAD ko te waihanga i ngā hononga hauora kare ā-roto i waenganui i ngā tamariki me ō rātou kaitiaki.me/ranei hei whakaora i ngā whanaungatanga whakamataku, uaua. Ka whakapakari ēnei maimoatanga i te hinengaro o te tamaiti, ā, ka āwhina i te tamaiti ki te whakawhanake i ngā whanaungatanga hauora ki ētahi atu. Ka whai hua ngā tamariki me ngā kaitiaki i ēnei mahere maimoatanga. Kei roto pea i te maimoatanga:

• Whakaora Hinengaro/Tohutohu: Ka mahi tahi te kaitohutohu hauora hinengaro me te tamaiti me ngā mātua hei āwhina i a rātou ki te whakawhanake i ngā pūkenga kare ā-roto hauora me te whakaiti i ngā whanonga raruraru e whakararuraru ana i te hononga.
• Whakaora Whānau: Kei roto i tēnei ko te mahi tahi a ngā kaitiaki matua me te tamaiti ki te whakawhanake i ngā huarahi taunekeneke hauora.
• Te Wawaotanga Pūkenga Hapori: Ka akohia e tēnei whakaora te tamaiti me pēhea te whanonga tika ki ētahi atu tamariki o taua tau i roto i ngā āhuatanga pāpori noa. Ka whai wāhi atu hoki ngā mātua ki tēnei, ka āwhina i te tamaiti ki te whakamahi i ēnei pūkenga kua akohia i waho o te whakaora.
• Mātauranga Motuhake: Mena e hiahiatia ana e te tamaiti, ka taea e ngā kaupapa taumata kura te āwhina i ngā tamariki ki te ako i ngā pūkenga e hiahiatia ana e rātou kia angitu ai i roto i te ao mātauranga me te ao pāpori.
• Ngā Akoranga Pūkenga Mātua: I roto i ēnei wāhanga, ka taea e ngā mātua te ako i ngā huarahi whai hua ake hei whakahaere i ngā whanonga uaua o ā rātou tamariki.

He raruraru anō kei te hono atu ki te `Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)`?

Ae, he nui ake te mōrearea o ngā tamariki whai `RAD` ki te pāngia e ngā raruraru maha i te wā o tō rātou tamarikitanga me te taiohitanga nā te kore aro me te tukino tinana, kare ā-roto, me te pāpori. Tērā pea kei roto i ēnei raruraru:

• Ngā whakaroa o ngā taumata whanaketanga me te heke o te tipu tinana.
• Ngā raruraru kare ā-roto, hei tauira, te pouri, te manukanuka, te mate ahotea muri i te whara (PTSD), me ngā raruraru whakahaere riri.
• Ngā mate kai.
• Ngā mate whakamahi matū.
• Ngā raruraru i te kura (ngā raruraru ako me/ngā raruraru whanonga rānei).
• Ngā raruraru i roto i ngā whanaungatanga (ki ō hoa, ki ngā pakeke, kātahi ki ngā hoa rangatira).
• Ngā whanonga mōrearea, hei tauira, te whai i ngā mahi moepuku i te wā taitamariki, te whai rānei i ngā wā maha.

Kia pēhea te roa ka whanake ai he whanaungatanga hauora mā taku tamaiti i muri i te maimoatanga?

Ki te kore he maimoatanga, ka pāngia pea ngā tamariki whai RAD e ngā tohu tae noa ki te pakeketanga. Ka pāngia pea tā rātou mahi i roto i te hapori. He tukanga roa te maimoatanga e tautoko ana i te tamaiti i roto i te hinengaro. Tērā pea ka hiahiatia mō te oranga katoa. Kāore he wā kua whakaritea mō te wā ka whanake ai he whanaungatanga hauora mā tāu tamaiti. Heoi, ko te maimoatanga me te tautoko a ngā kaitiaki ka puta ngā hua pai rawa atu.

Me pēhea te ārai i te `Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)`?

Ko te huarahi pai hei ārai i te RAD ko te āwhina i ngā tamariki ki te whakawhanake i ngā whanaungatanga hauora me ō rātou mātua me/ranei ētahi atu kaitiaki matua. Ka hangaia ngā whanaungatanga hauora ina mahi ngā kaitiaki i ēnei e whai ake nei:

• Te whakatairanga i ngā hononga whānau mā roto i ngā whanaungatanga pumau, haumaru hoki.
• Te mea kia rongo ngā tamariki i te aroha me te manaaki.
• Te tautoko i ngā tamariki i ngā taumata rerekē o tō rātou whanaketanga.
• Me whakatutuki i ngā hiahia taketake o te tamaiti i ngā wā katoa.

Me pēhea taku āwhina i taku tamaiti ki te hanga whanaungatanga hauora?

Hei kaitiaki, ka taea e koe te āwhina i tāu tamaiti ki te whakawhanake i ngā hononga hauora mā te:

• Te whakatakoto rohe: He pai te taiao pumau mō ngā tamariki katoa. Nō reira, he mea tino nui te whakatakoto rohe. Mā te whakatakoto rohe whaitake me te whiu tika, ehara i te mea ā-tinana, ka mārama ngā tamariki ki ngā mea e tumanakohia ana mai i a rātou me te aha ka puta mēnā ka takahia e rātou ngā ture. Mā tēnei ka whakaitihia te wehi o ngā tamariki, ka akiaki hoki i a rātou kia whanonga tika.
• Kia marino ina whanoke tāu tamaiti: Ina whanoke tāu tamaiti, kia marino; kaua e tauhohe ina riri koe. Whiua tāu tamaiti kia rite ki ngā ture kua whakatūria e koe i mua, ā, e mōhio ana tāu tamaiti. Kia marino tāu tamaiti, ā, kua rite mō tētahi whanaungatanga pai, whakaaturia te aroha me te atawhai. Mā tēnei ka whakaatu ki tāu tamaiti kei reira koe mōna, ahakoa i ngā wā uaua.
• Whakaaturia te aroha me te aro tonu: Whakapaua te wā ki tāu tamaiti. Kōrero ki a ia, waiata ki a ia, tākaro ki a ia. Puritia ia, awhiawhi ia, mahi rānei i ētahi atu mea hei whakaatu i te aroha me te manaaki a te kaitiaki ki a ia. Heoi, kia mahara ko ētahi tamariki kāore i te tino tuwhera ki tēnei momo aroha i ētahi atu. Ko te pupuri i te aroha me te manaaki ehara i te whiu e whakaaetia ana.

He aha ngā mea ka tumanakohia e au mēnā he tamaiti tāku e pāngia ana e te `Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)`?

He maha ngā tamariki e whiwhi maimoatanga ana mō te RAD ka whakawhanake i ngā whanaungatanga pumau, hauora me ō rātou kaitiaki matua me ētahi atu tāngata i roto i ō rātou oranga. Ko ngā tamariki kāore e whiwhi maimoatanga ka tūpono ki ngā raruraru kare ā-roto tonu. Waimarie, kāore i te roa rawa te rapu maimoatanga mō ngā āhuatanga hauora whanaketanga me te hinengaro, tae atu ki te RAD. He mea nui kia maumahara ki ēnei mea:

• He maha ngā tamariki i whāngaihia mai i ngā whare pani, he tino hauora, he pai hoki ō rātou oranga. Ehara i te mea ko ngā tamariki whāngai katoa ka pāngia e te 'RAD'.
• Ko ngā tamariki kua pāngia e te whara nui i mua, tera pea he take mōrearea anō mō ​​te hauora hinengaro me ngā wero whanonga. Hei tauira, ko te pānga ki ngā raau taero, ki te waipiro rānei i te wā e hapu ana, ko te hītori whānau rānei o ngā mate kare ā-roto, ka whai wāhi atu ki te RAD.

Kia pēhea te roa o te wā e pāngia ana te 'Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)'?

He mate mō te wā roa te Mate Āpiti Tauhohe (RAD). Heoi, mā te maimoatanga me te tautoko ka āwhina i te tamaiti ki te whakawhanake i ngā whanaungatanga hauora puta noa i tōna oranga, ā, ka taea hoki te whakapai ake i tōna oranga hinengaro me tōna oranga pāpori.

Āhea ahau me toro atu ki te tākuta?

Ki te kite koe kei te uaua tāu tamaiti ki te hanga whanaungatanga noa, ki te kite rānei koe i ētahi tohu o te 'Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)' i roto i tāu tamaiti, me toro atu ki te tākuta o tāu tamaiti kia arotakehia, kia tukuna atu rānei ki tētahi tohunga. Mā te tātaritanga me te maimoatanga wawe ka āwhina i ngā tamariki me tēnei mate kia pai ake ngā putanga.

He aha ngā pātai me pātai atu e au ki taku tākuta?

• Me tuku taku tamaiti ki te tari tohutohu?
• He aha te take e whakaatu ai taku tamaiti i ngā tohu o te 'Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD)'?
• Ka taea e koe te tuku mai i ahau ki tētahi tohunga, ki tētahi rōpū tautoko rānei e mahi tahi ana me ngā tamariki me ngā whānau e pāngia ana e tēnei mate?
• Ka rerekē ngā tohu o taku tamaiti i a ia e pakeke haere ana? He aha ētahi mea me tino mōhio ahau?

He mea nui kia hono atu koe ki tāu tamaiti, kia atawhai hoki i a rātou i roto i te huarahi e arohaina ai rātou. Mēnā kāore tāu tamaiti e whakawhanake ana i tētahi hononga kare ā-roto whakamarie ki a koe, ki tōna kaitiaki matua rānei, me toro atu ki tō kaiwhakarato tiaki matua. Ahakoa te rapu tohutohu, te rapu maimoatanga rānei, ehara i te mea he mātua kino koe. Engari, ka huaki te kuaha ki te hanga i tētahi whanaungatanga kaha, hauora, mō te wā roa ki tāu tamaiti.

Ngā mea tino nui hei maumahara (Karere hei kawe ki te kāinga)

Ehara te Mate Āpiti Tauhohe (RAD) i te mea hei whakapouri. Mā te kitenga wawe, te maimoatanga tika, me te taiao aroha, pumau, ka taea e ngā tamariki te noho harikoa, hauora hoki. Kia maumahara:

• He rerekē ia tamaiti: Kāore e rite te urupare a ia tamaiti ki te maimoatanga. Kia manawanui, kia mārama hoki.
• Kāore koe i te mokemoke: ​​Tērā atu anō ngā mātua e pāngia ana e ngā āhuatanga rite. Rapua he āwhina mai i ngā tākuta, i ngā kaitohutohu, me ngā rōpū tautoko.
• Aroha me te pumau: Ko te mea pai rawa atu ka taea e koe te hoatu ki te tamaiti ko te aroha mutunga kore me te taiao pumau, haumaru hoki.
• Āwhina ngaio: Ki te ruarua koe, kaua e whakamā, kaua hoki e mataku ki te rapu tohutohu hauora. Koinei te āwhina nui rawa atu ka taea e koe te hoatu ki tāu tamaiti.

He kawenga tā tātou katoa ki te whakarato i tētahi tamarikitanga haumaru, aroha hoki ki ā tātou tamariki. Kia mahi tahi tātou katoa kia tutuki ai tēnā!

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