Kulankhulana kwa mwana wanu wazaka 1-2 (Kulankhulana kwa Ana): Kodi tiyenera kudziwa izi?

Pamene mwana wanu akukula, palibe chosangalatsa kuposa kuwaona akukula. Makamaka akamayandikira tsiku lawo la kubadwa lachiwiri, luso lawo lolankhula ndi kulankhulana limakula mofulumira kwambiri. Zili ngati tapanga makina olankhula m'nyumba mwathu! Sikuti amangomvetsa zomwe timanena, komanso amayamba kulankhula, nthawi zina amagwiritsa ntchito manja ndi manja. Sikuti amangokonda kumvetsetsa ndikuchita zinthu zazing'ono zomwe timanena. Nthawi zina amabweranso kwa ife kudzatipatsa malamulo, monga "Ndipatseni mpumulo!" ndi "Chitani izi!" Iyi ndi nthawi yabwino kwambiri, tiyeni tikambirane za izi pang'ono.

Kodi ana aang'ono amalankhulana bwanji nafe? Kodi anzeru aang'ono awa amalankhulana bwanji?

Pa msinkhu uwu, luso la ana lolankhula, kutanthauza kulankhula ndi kumvetsetsa, limakula m'njira zosayerekezeka.

Nkhani zofotokozedwa m'mawu

Tangoganizirani, mwana wanu akakwanitsa miyezi 15, amayamba kunena mawu amodzi kapena awiri kupatulapo "mama" ndi "dada." Mwina "baba" ndi "mpira." Pofika miyezi 18, akhoza kukhala ndi mawu atatu kapena kuposerapo mwa awa. Pofika zaka ziwiri, adzakhala ataphunzira mawu ambiri ndipo adzatha kulumikiza mawu awiri kuti apange ziganizo zazifupi. Adzatha kunena zinthu monga "Ndikufuna mkaka," "Tiyeni tidye mpunga," ndi "Ndipatseni mpira." Iyi ndi njira yaikulu yolankhulirana.

Kumvetsetsa mawu asanalankhulidwe

Koma kumbukirani, amamvetsetsa zambiri zomwe mukunena ngakhale asanayambe kunena mawu awo oyamba. Mwana wanu ayenera kukhala wokhoza kumvetsetsa ndikuchita zinthu zosavuta zomwe mukunena. Mwachitsanzo, mukanena kuti, "Patsani mpira kwa amayi," ayenera kuyang'ana mpirawo ndipo mwina ayesere kuchita zimenezo. Ayeneranso kuyang'ana ndikugwira dzanja lanu mukatchula dzina la chinthu chomwe timachiwona ndikugwiritsa ntchito nthawi zambiri, monga chidole kapena chakudya.

Nkhani zofotokozedwa kudzera mu malangizo

Pa msinkhu uwu, pamodzi ndi mawu, manja, kapena manja ndi mapazi, ndi njira yawo yaikulu yolankhulirana. Amayamba kuchita zinthu monga kupsompsona, kufikira chinachake, ndikugwedeza mutu wawo kuti anene "inde." Manja amenewa amakhala ovuta kwambiri chaka chino. Amayamba kuwagwiritsa ntchito kutsanzira zomwe timachita, kusonyeza malingaliro awo, komanso kusewera.

Zolakwitsa zazing'ono potchula mawu

Ngakhale kuti mawu a mwana wanu amawonjezeka mofulumira, katchulidwe kake, ndiko kuti, luso lake lolankhula mawu momveka bwino, silikukula mofanana. Ngakhale ali ndi zaka ziwiri, timatha kumvetsetsa theka la zomwe ana ambiri amanena. Zimenezo ndi zachilendo. Komabe, mukamalankhula naye, ngakhale atalakwitsa, muyenera kumuphunzitsa njira yoyenera yolankhulira mawuwo. Popanda kumukalipira, koma mwachikondi. "O... kodi anati 'dootha' (mkaka)? Inde, uwu ndi 'mkaka'."

Kodi tingatani monga makolo kuti tiwongolere zokambiranazi?

Pali zinthu zambiri zomwe mungachite kuti mupititse patsogolo ndikulimbikitsa luso la chilankhulo cha mwana wanu. Izi ndi zinthu zosavuta kwambiri zomwe zingaphatikizidwe mu moyo wanu watsiku ndi tsiku.

Mwana, palibe mawu, ingonena.

Mwana wanu akumvetsera mawu aliwonse omwe mukunena, chilichonse. Monga siponji kakang'ono konyamula madzi, akuyamwa mawu awa m'mutu mwawo. Choncho, m'malo mogwiritsa ntchito mawu aang'ono monga "boo boo" ndi " pee pee, " gwiritsani ntchito mayina oyenera a anthu, malo, ndi zinthu nthawi iliyonse yomwe zingatheke. Mukalankhula, lankhulani pang'onopang'ono, momveka bwino, komanso m'mawu osavuta. Mwachitsanzo, itanani galu "galu" m'malo mwa "mbale." Itanani madzi "madzi" m'malo mwa "munda."

Yankhani malangizo ndi machenjerero

Monga tanenera kale, zizindikiro ndi gawo lofunika kwambiri pakukula kwa chilankhulo. Tikayankha zizindikiro za ana athu, nthawi zambiri amalowa nawo mu zokambirana. Mutha kulumikiza zizindikiro zawo ndi chilankhulo .

Tangoganizani mwana wanu akutenga furiji. Mukufunsa kuti, "Mwana wanga akufuna chiyani? Chakumwa?" ndikumuyembekezera kuti ayankhe. Kenako mufunseninso kuti, "Mukufuna chiyani? Mkaka? Uh... chabwino, tiyeni titenge mkaka, sichoncho?" Mwanjira imeneyi, mutha kumasulira chizindikiro chawo kukhala mawu.

Tiyeni tiyimbe nyimbo ndikusewera masewera a mawu motsatira kugunda kwa mtima.

Ana aang'ono amakonda kumvetsera nyimbo ndikumva zinthu zikunenedwa mozungulira. Imbani nyimbo ndi mwana wanu wakhanda, bwerezani ndakatulo zazifupi mozungulira, ndikusewera masewera ozungulira. Adzakonda masewera ozungulira. Nenani nyimbo monga "Little Butterfly in the Hand" kapena "Tikiri Ting Ting" ndipo muwawonetse ndi manja.

Komanso, athandizeni kumvetsa zinthu.

• Ziwalo za thupi ("Khutu lako lili kuti?", "Yesani kukhudza mphuno yako")
• Zithunzi ("Kodi uyu ndi ndani? Uyu ndi chiyani?")
• Zoseweretsa ("Ndiwonetseni mpira wanu")
• Anthu amene amanena kuti akudziwa ("Ali kuti Agogo?", "Ndiwonetseni Amayi")

Werengani mabuku okhala ndi zithunzi zokongola komanso zokongola.

Ndikofunikira kwambiri kuwonetsa ana a msinkhu uno mabuku okhala ndi zithunzi zazikulu komanso zokongola, ndikuwayang'ana nawo. Thandizani ndikuwalimbikitsa kuti atsegule masamba a bukuli. Apempheni kuti aloze zinthu zomwe zili m'zithunzi ("Onani duwa lokongola ili lokongola", "Pali galu uko"). Izi sizimangowonjezera mawu awo, komanso chidziwitso chawo cha dziko lapansi.

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Kodi muyenera kufunsa upangiri wa dokotala liti?

Ana ambiri amasonyeza luso la chilankhulo mkati mwa nthawiyi. Komabe, tiyenera kukumbukira kuti si ana onse omwe ali ofanana. Ana ena angatenge nthawi yayitali. Komabe, tiyenera kusamala kwambiri pazinthu zina.

Ngati mwana wanu sakusonyeza chilichonse mwa izi pa msinkhu woyenera, ndi bwino kulankhula ndi dokotala:

• Ngati, pa miyezi 15, mwana wanu sakuyesera kunena liwu limodzi kapena awiri kupatula "amayi" ndi "dada."
• Ngakhale kuti patha miyezi 15,Ngati simukuyang'ana chinthu chomwe mumachiwona nthawi zambiri komanso chomwe mumachidziwa (monga chidole, botolo la mkaka) kapena simukuchizindikira mukachitchula dzina lake.
• Ngati sanena mawu opitilira atatu (kupatula "amayi" ndi "abambo") akafika miyezi 18 .
• Ngakhale mutakwanitsa miyezi 18, simungathe kumvetsa ndi kutsatira lamulo losavuta (monga, "Ndipatseni nsapato") popanda kuthandizidwa ndi manja kapena mapazi anu.
• Ngakhale ali ndi zaka ziwiri, mukamupempha kuti achite zinazake m'buku, sadzawonetsa ngakhale ziwalo ziwiri za thupi lake (monga khutu, diso, mphuno).
• Ngakhale patatha zaka ziwiri, sangathebe kunena chiganizo chosavuta, ngakhale ndi mawu awiri, monga "Ndikufuna mkaka" ndi "Tiyeni tidye mpunga."

Pang'ono ponena za autism

Makolo ena amaopa kuti mwana akachedwa kulankhula, ndi vuto longa "Autism Spectrum Disorder". Ndi bwino kudziwa izi. Nthawi zambiri, madokotala amasamala za kukula kwa mwana ndi zizindikiro zake nthawi iliyonse akamamuyeza kuchipatala. Makamaka akafika miyezi 18 ndi zaka ziwiri, amachita "Screening Tests" yapadera pankhaniyi.

Choncho, ngati muli ndi mafunso kapena nkhawa zokhudza kalankhulidwe ka mwana wanu kapena china chilichonse chokhudza kukula kwake, chonde musazengereze kulankhula ndi dokotala wa banja lanu. Izi zikuthandizani kupeza thandizo mwachangu ngati pakufunika kutero.

Pomaliza, uthenga wofunika kwambiri woti mupite nawo kunyumba

N'zodabwitsa momwe kalankhulidwe ka mwana wanu kamakulirakulira ali wamng'ono. Kumbukirani, mwana aliyense amakula pa liwiro lake. Choncho, musamadziyerekezere ndi ana ena ndikudandaula. Koma ndikofunikira kudziwa zomwe mungayembekezere pa msinkhu uwu.

Chofunika kwambiri ndi nthawi yomwe mumakhala ndi mwana wanu wamng'ono.

• Lankhulani nazo.
• Mvetserani zomwe akunena ndi malangizo ake, ndipo muyankhe.
• Sewerani nayo, imbani nyimbo.
• Werengani mabuku pamodzi.

Chikondi chanu, chidwi chanu, sekondi iliyonse yomwe mumakhala mukuseka komanso kulankhula ndi mwana wanu ndi chinthu chachikulu chomwe amapeza m'dziko laling'onoli. Sizidzangopangitsa kuti zokambirana zake zokha, komanso moyo wake wonse zikhale zokongola! Mutha kuwonetsa mwana wolankhula uyu njira yopita ku tsogolo lokongola.