Kodi inunso mumaopa ana aang'ono modabwitsa? Tiyeni tikambirane za kuopa ana!

Kodi munamvapo kuti anthu ena amamva mantha achilendo komanso kusasangalala akaona ana aang'ono, makanda, kapena kupita kumalo kumene ali? Mwina inunso mumamva choncho, kapena mumadziwa munthu wotero. Izi sizinthu zophweka, kwenikweni ndi vuto lodziwika bwino ndi madokotala. Lero tikambirana za mantha achilendo awa okhudza ana aang'ono, omwe amatchedwa pedophobia .

Kodi Pedophobia ndi chiyani?

Mwachidule, pedophobia ndi mantha osazolowereka komanso osamveka bwino a makanda ndi ana aang'ono. Mawu akuti "pedophobia" amachokera ku mawu awiri achi Greek. "paida" amatanthauza mwana, ndipo "phobos" amatanthauza mantha.

Munthu amene ali ndi vutoli amachita khama kwambiri kuti apewe malo omwe ana aang'ono amapezeka. Kwa anthu ena, kungoganiza zoyenda pafupi ndi mwana kumawachititsa mantha komanso nkhawa kwambiri. Izi si kungodana pang'ono chabe, koma ndi chinthu china chozama kwambiri kuposa pamenepo.

Kodi mantha ndi chiyani?

Tsopano mwina mukudabwa kuti "phobia" ndi chiyani. Phobia ndi matenda a nkhawa . Ndi pamene muli ndi mantha osazolowereka komanso osamveka bwino a chinthu chomwe sichingakuvulazeni kwenikweni. Pedophobia ndi matenda enaake a mantha. Izi zikutanthauza kuti, munthu amaopa chinthu china, pankhaniyi, makanda ndi ana aang'ono, kapena amamva nkhawa kwambiri akakhala pafupi nawo.

Kodi vutoli ndi lofala bwanji?

N'zovuta kunena kuti ndi anthu angati omwe ali ndi mantha enaake monga pedophobia. Anthu ambiri angasunge mantha awa okha, kapena sangadziwe kuti ali nawo. Komabe, kafukufuku wapeza kuti munthu mmodzi mwa akuluakulu 10 aku America ndi mmodzi mwa ana aang'ono 5 adzakumana ndi mantha enaake nthawi ina m'miyoyo yawo.

Kodi kusiyana pakati pa Pedophobia ndi Pediophobia ndi kotani?

Mawu awiriwa ndi ofanana polemba, kotero n'zosavuta kusokonezeka. Pediophobia ndi mantha a zidole, kutanthauza, zinthu zopanda moyo zomwe zimawoneka zenizeni. Komabe, Pedophobia ndi mantha a ana enieni.

Koma palinso chinthu ichi, anthu ena akhoza kukhala ndi mantha onse awiriwa. Izi zikutanthauza kuti, munthu amene amaopa ana (pedophobia) akhozanso kuopa mawonekedwe a zidole (pediophobia) ngati a mwana. Mofananamo, munthu amene ali ndi pedophobia akhozanso kukhala ndi vuto lotchedwa pedophobia.

Ndani amene ali ndi mwayi waukulu wopeza pedophobia?

Anthu ena amakhala ndi vuto la mantha ngati limeneli.

• Matenda Odzikuza ndi Okakamiza (OCD)Anthu omwe ali ndi: Anthu awa amakonda chilichonse kukhala choyera komanso choyera. Amaona ana ngati osokonezeka komanso osokonezeka. Angaope chisokonezo komanso chisokonezo chomwe chimabwera chifukwa chokhala pafupi ndi ana aang'ono. Tangoganizirani momwe munthu yemwe ali ndi ``(OCD)`` angamvere nkhawa ngati mwana wamng'ono angalowe m'nyumbamo n'kupanga chisokonezo potaya zoseweretsa paliponse ndikutaya chakudya pansi.
• Jenda: Akazi apezeka kuti ali ndi mwayi waukulu wokhala ndi mantha kuposa amuna.
• Mbiri ya banja: Ngati kholo lanu kapena munthu wina wapafupi nanu wakhala ndi vuto la mantha kapena nkhawa, mwina inunso mungakhale ndi mantha omwewo kapena mantha ena.
• Zinthu zokhudza majini: Kafukufuku wina akusonyeza kuti kusintha kwa majini (monga kusintha kwa majini) kungapangitse anthu ena kukhala ndi vuto la nkhawa kapena mantha.

Kodi pali mantha ena okhudzana ndi pedophobia?

Kawirikawiri munthu amakhala ndi mantha oposa amodzi. Mantha nthawi zambiri amakhala okhudzana. Mwachitsanzo, munthu amene amaopa majeremusi (`(Mysophobia)` kapena `(Germaphobia)`) angaone ana aang'ono ngati onyamula tizilombo toyambitsa matenda. Kenako angayambe kuopa ana. Mofananamo, munthu amene amaopa ana aang'ono angayambenso kuopa ana akuluakulu pang'ono (`(Ephebiphobia)`).

Kodi n’chifukwa chiyani anthu okonda ana oterewa amaopa ana? Kodi zifukwa zake n’zotani?

Mwina mumaopa ana chifukwa cha zomwe zinakuchitikirani ndi mwana wamng'ono. Zovuta izi zikanatha kuchitika muli mwana kapena muli wamkulu.

Mwina munakumanapo nazo mwachindunji, kapena mwina munaonapo chochitika:

• Kuona nkhanza za ana kapena zina zokhudzana nazo.
• Kuzunza mwana, kutukwana, zochitika zachiwawa , kapena kupsa mtima kwambiri.
• Kuona kapena kuphunzira za imfa ya khanda kapena mwana wamng'ono .
• Kutaya mimba, monga kutaya mimba kapena kubereka mwana wakufa . (Izi ndi nkhani zovuta kwambiri, kotero izi zingayambitse mantha awa.)

Tangoganizirani, pamene munkasewera muli mwana, mwana wina anakumenyani mwamphamvu, kapena anaswa chimodzi mwa zoseweretsa zanu. Kapena, munaona munthu wamkulu akudzudzula kapena kumenya mwana wamng'ono mwankhanza kwambiri. Zochitika zotere zimatha kulowa mumtima mwanu ndipo zingayambitse mantha kwa ana mtsogolo.

Kodi anthu omwe ali ndi vuto la pedophobia amaopa chiyani kwenikweni?

Kuopa ana sikukhudza aliyense mofanana. Mungakumane ndi izi:

• Mungathe kukhala ndi ana omwe mumawadziwa, mwachitsanzo, ana a achibale anu, koma simungathe kukhala ndi ana ena.
• Zingakhale zosatheka kukhala popanda zizindikiro za mantha ndi mwana aliyense.
• Mungakhale ndi nkhawa ngakhale mutaganizira zokhala pafupi ndi ana, kapena mukaona zithunzi za ana.
• Mungamve mantha komanso nkhawa ndi vuto lililonse lomwe lingakuyandikitseni kwa ana.

Kodi zizindikiro za Pedophobia ndi ziti?

Zizindikiro za mantha zimatha kukhala zochepa mpaka zazikulu. Ngakhale mutamvetsa kuti mantha a mwana wanu ndi osamveka bwino, simungathe kulamulira momwe mumachitira zinthu.

Zizindikiro za pedophobia zingaphatikizepo:

• Chizungulire
• Pakamwa pouma
• Kumva mantha kwambiri kapena mantha
• Kusanza, kusanza kapena kutsegula m'mimba
• Kutuluka thukuta kwambiri
• Kupuma mwachangu komanso kugunda kwa mtima
• Kugwedezeka kapena kunjenjemera
• Kupuma movutikira

Mukawona zizindikiro izi, mutha kuwona kuti izi si mantha pang'ono chabe, koma chinthu chomwe thupi lenilenilo limamva.

Kodi mungadziwe bwanji ngati muli ndi Pedophobia? (Kuzindikira)

Buku la American Psychiatric Association's Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM) limathandiza akatswiri azaumoyo wamaganizo, monga akatswiri a zamaganizo, kuzindikira mantha kutengera zizindikiro zawo komanso momwe amakhudzira moyo wanu.

Madokotala amagwiritsa ntchito njira izi kuti adziwe vuto linalake la mantha, monga pedophobia:

• Mantha aakulu mwa makanda ndi ana aang'ono omwe amatha miyezi isanu ndi umodzi kapena kuposerapo.
• Zizindikiro zimayamba mukangoyandikira ana, kapena mukaganiza kuti muli pafupi ndi ana.
• Mantha kapena nkhawa yaikulu yomwe imakupangitsani kupewa malo omwe mungakhale pafupi ndi makanda kapena ana.
• Zizindikiro zomwe zimakhudza moyo wanu .
• Kumva mantha aakulu, nkhawa, kapena mantha omwe sali ofanana ndi ngozi yeniyeniyo.

Chofunika kwambiri ndichakuti, ngati mukumva ngati izi, musabise, lankhulani ndi munthu amene mumamukhulupirira, ndipo funsani upangiri wa dokotala ngati pakufunika kutero.

Kodi mankhwala a vutoli ndi otani?

Nkhani yabwino ndi yakuti mlangizi wa zaumoyo wamaganizo angakuthandizeni kuthana ndi mantha amenewa okhala ndi ana aang'ono. Psychotherapy (kulankhula ndi ana) nthawi zambiri imakhala yothandiza kwa anthu omwe ali ndi vuto la kugonana kwa ana.

Njira zochiritsira zingakhale motere:

• Chithandizo chowonetsa (kapena kuchepetsa kukhudzidwa kwa maso)Izi zimaphatikizapo kulimbana pang'onopang'ono komanso mwadongosolo ndi mantha anu. Pang'onopang'ono mumakumana ndi ana mwa kuonetsedwa zithunzi kapena makanema a ana, kenako nkupita kumalo komwe mwana ali patali pang'ono, kenako n'kuyandikira. Cholinga chake ndikuchepetsa mantha anu mwa kuwonekera mobwerezabwereza. Kwa anthu ambiri omwe ali ndi mantha enaake, chithandizo chowonekera chimachepetsa kwambiri zizindikiro pakapita nthawi.
• Chithandizo cha Maganizo (CBT) : Chithandizochi chimakuthandizani kuwunika chifukwa chake mumaopa ana. CBT imakuthandizani kulankhula za zochitika zoopsa zomwe mwina zinayambitsa mantha awa. Mukapeza chomwe chikuyambitsa, mumaphunzira momwe mungasinthire malingaliro anu ndi momwe mumachitira pankhani ya ana.
• Mankhwala : Mukamalandira chithandizo chamankhwala, mankhwala oletsa nkhawa kapena mankhwala oletsa kuvutika maganizo angathandize. Mankhwalawa angathandize kuchepetsa zizindikiro, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti zikhale zosavuta kukhala pafupi ndi ana. Koma kumbukirani kuti mankhwala awa si okhawo omwe angathandize, ndipo nthawi zambiri amagwiritsidwa ntchito limodzi ndi chithandizo.

Kodi ndi mavuto ati omwe angayambitse pedophobia?

Mantha owopsa awa mwa ana angapangitse kuti zikhale zovuta kuchita zinthu bwino m'gulu. Mutha kuphonya zochitika zapagulu, kukhala ndi mavuto kuntchito, komanso kuvutika maganizo . Anthu ena amakhala ndi mantha . Izi zingamveke ngati matenda a mtima. Mtima wanu ungagunde mofulumira, ndipo mutha kupweteka pachifuwa (osati chifukwa cha matenda a mtima).

Mankhwala oletsa nkhawa angakuthandizeni kuthana ndi vuto lanu pamene mukupeza njira zochepetsera mantha anu.

Kodi muyenera kupita kwa dokotala liti?

Ngati mwakumana ndi chilichonse mwa izi, pitani kwa dokotala nthawi yomweyo:

• Kuukira kwa mantha (`(Kuukira kwa mantha)`)
• Nkhawa yosalekeza yomwe imasokoneza moyo watsiku ndi tsiku kapena tulo.
• Zizindikiro za kuvutika maganizo (kumva chisoni nthawi zonse, osafuna chilichonse).
• Mavuto okhudzana ndi kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo (ngati munthuyo sangathe kuthana ndi mantha amenewa ndipo akuyamba kumwa mowa kapena mankhwala ena osokoneza bongo).

Ndi mafunso ati omwe muyenera kufunsa dokotala wanu?

Mungathe kufunsa dokotala wanu mafunso monga:

• Kodi n’chiyani chinandipangitsa kukhala ndi mantha amenewa?
• Kodi chithandizo chabwino kwambiri kwa ine ndi chiti?
• Kodi ndiyenera kuyesa chithandizo chokhudzana ndi kukhudzidwa ndi dzuwa?
• Kodi ndifunika chithandizo kwa nthawi yayitali bwanji?

Pomaliza, zinthu zoti muzikumbukira (Uthenga Wopita Nawo Kunyumba)

Tonsefe tikudziwa kuti ana aang'ono ali paliponse: m'masitolo, m'madera oyandikana nawo, m'mabasi, m'misewu. N'zovuta kusawaona ana aang'ono awa. Kuopa makanda ndi ana aang'ono kungakulepheretseni kugula zinthu, kuyenda, kucheza, kupita ku zochitika, ndi kuchita zinthu zomwe anthu ambiri amasangalala nazo.

Kupewa ana kotheratu sikoyenera komanso sikwabwino.

Kumbukirani, simuli nokha. Mlangizi wa zaumoyo wamaganizo angakuthandizeni kuthana ndi vuto lanu la kugonana ndi ana pogwiritsa ntchito njira zamaganizo monga chithandizo chamankhwala chodziwikiratu komanso chithandizo chamaganizo (CBT). Ndi thandizo loyenera, mutha kuwongolera mantha awa ndikukhala moyo wabwinobwino komanso wachimwemwe. Musaope kupempha thandizo.

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