Njira 5 zomvetsetsa bwino momwe mukumvera!

Musanayambe kuwerenga nkhaniyi, imirirani kaye pang'ono. Pumirani pang'onopang'ono komanso mofatsa. Mutha kutseka maso anu ngati mukufuna. Kenako dzifunseni kuti: "Ndikumva bwanji panopa?" Onani mawu omwe akubwera m'maganizo. Mwina ndikumva kamodzi kokha, mwina angapo. Zimenezo ndi zachilendo kwambiri.

N’chifukwa chiyani malingaliro amenewa amatchedwa malingaliro? Kodi ndi ofunika bwanji kwa ife?

Mwachidule, malingaliro ndi mauthenga omwe amabwera kwa ife kuchokera m'maganizo ndi m'thupi lathu. Zili ngati bwenzi laling'ono mkati mwathu likulankhula nafe. Kudzera m'mawu awa, titha kumvetsetsa zambiri za ife eni. Komanso, malingaliro awa amatithandiza kupanga zisankho zoyenera m'moyo. Taganizirani motere. Muli pafupi kuwoloka msewu ndipo mwadzidzidzi mukuwona galimoto yayikulu ikubwera pa inu ndi liwiro lalikulu. Kenako mukumva mantha , eti? Kumva mantha kumeneko kukukuuzani kuti, "Samalani! Pakhoza kukhala ngozi!" Kotero mumasiya kuwoloka msewu kwakanthawi. Mukuona? Maganizo nawonso ndi ofunikira pa chitetezo chathu.

Kodi ubwino womvetsa malingaliro ndi wotani?

Tikadziwa bwino momwe tikumvera, ndiko kuti, tikatha kuzizindikira bwino, pali zabwino zambiri zomwe timalandira. Yang'anani izi.

• Mumadzidziwa bwino: mumadziwa bwino zomwe zimakusangalatsani, zomwe zimakukhumudwitsani, komanso nthawi yomwe mukwiya.
• Zimakuthandizani kuona zinthu moyenera komanso kuthana ndi mavuto akabuka: Mukamvetsetsa momwe mukumvera, zimakhala zosavuta kuzilamulira. Kenako, vuto likabuka, mutha kupeza yankho popanda kuchita mantha.
• Simudzadziimba mlandu kwambiri: M'malo modzifunsa kuti, "N'chifukwa chiyani ndikumva chonchi?", mudzatha kumvetsa kuti, "Aa, umu ndi momwe ndimamvera, ndi zachilendo."
• Maganizo ovuta akabuka, zimathandiza kuganiza moleza mtima osachitapo kanthu nthawi yomweyo: mukakwiya, simufuula nthawi yomweyo, mukakhala achisoni, simulira nthawi yomweyo, koma tengani kamphindi kuganizira zomwe muchita.
• Zimakhala zosavuta kusankha momwe mungakhalire pazochitika zinazake komanso mtundu wa chisankho chomwe musankhe.
• Ubale ndi ena umakula: Mukamvetsetsa momwe mukumvera ndikuyesera kumvetsetsa momwe ena akumvera, ubale wanu ndi anzanu komanso abale anu umalimba.

Kumbukirani: malingaliro onse, kaya ndi chisangalalo, chisoni, mkwiyo, kapena mantha, ndi achibadwa. Chofunika ndi momwe mumachitira nawo.

Njira 5 zomvetsetsa bwino momwe timamvera

Chabwino, tiyeni tiwone momwe tingasinthire bwino malingaliro athu ndikumvetsetsa bwino. Nazi njira zisanu zosavuta zomwe mungayesere.

1. Dziwani zomwe mukumva ndipo zipatseni dzina.

Iyi ndi sitepe yoyamba komanso yofunika kwambiri. Mungamve zinthu zosiyanasiyana tsiku lonse. Nthawi iliyonse, dzifunseni kuti, "Ndikumva bwanji panopa?"Dzifunseni nokha. Kenako perekani dzina la kumverera kumeneko.

• Taganizirani izi, mungadzitamande pamene chinthu chomwe mwachita chapambana kwambiri.
• Ngati mwapeza zigoli zochepa pa mayeso, mungamve chisoni komanso kuvutika maganizo .
• Kukhala pamodzi ndi kucheza ndi anzanu kungakupangitseni kukhala omasuka komanso osangalala .
• Mungamve mantha pang'ono komanso nkhawa musanayambe ntchito yaikulu.

Mukapatsa dzina zomwe mukumva mwanjira imeneyi, zimakhala zosavuta kuti mudzipatule ku malingaliro amenewo ndikulamulira.

2. Sankhani kumverera kumodzi ndipo samalani nako tsiku lonse.

Iyi ndi njira yosangalatsa kwambiri yochitira zinthu. Sankhani mtima umodzi womwe mumakonda. Mwachitsanzo, tiyeni tisankhe mtima wa "chimwemwe." Tsopano onani kangati mumasangalala tsiku lonse.

• Mwina mumasangalala chinthu chabwino chikakuchitikirani.
• Kapena mumasangalala mukakumana ndi mnzanu.
• Ngati wina akuthandiza kapena wanena mawu abwino, umasangalala.
• Mwina mukumva kusangalala popanda chifukwa chenicheni, chifukwa choti ndi Lachisanu!

Nthawi iliyonse mukamva malingaliro osankhidwawo, lembani m'maganizo mwanu. Kapena lembani papepala laling'ono. Onaninso ngati malingalirowo ndi ofatsa, apakati, kapena amphamvu . Kuchita izi kudzakuthandizani kumvetsetsa momwe mumamvera.

3. Phunzirani mawu atsopano okhudza malingaliro

Kodi mungatchule mawu angati okhudza malingaliro? Yesani kupeza mawu ena. Tangoganizani, kodi pali mawu angati okhudza "mkwiyo" wokha?

• Mungamve kukwiya pang'ono .
• Kapena mungakwiye pang'ono .
• Nthawi zina, malingaliro amphamvu kwambiri amatha kuchitika, monga mkwiyo, kukwiya, ndi mkwiyo .

Mukapeza mawu ambiri ofotokozera momwe mukumvera, zimakhala zosavuta kuti mudzimvetse bwino komanso kufotokozera ena momwe mukumvera. Kumbukirani mawu awa mukawapeza m'mabuku kapena ena akamalankhula.

4. Lembani tsiku lobadwa la momwe mukumvera.

Ichi ndi chinthu chomwe anthu ambiri amaona kuti n'chothandiza. Usiku uliwonse musanagone, tengani mphindi zochepa kulemba zomwe munamva tsiku lonse komanso zomwe zinayambitsa.

• "Chinachake chonga ichi chandichitikira lero, ndipo panthawiyo ndimamva ngati chonchi ..."
• "Ndili wokondwa kwambiri kuti ndachita zimenezo lero ..."
• "Mtima wanga unandipweteka pang'ono ndi zomwe zinachitika lero ..."

Mukalemba motere, mutha kupanga ubale wabwino ndi momwe mukumvera. Muthanso kuchita zinthu monga kujambula, kulemba ndakatulo, kapena kulemba nyimbo yofotokozera momwe mukumvera. Zimakupatsirani mpumulo waukulu.

5. Yang'anani momwe zinthu zilili mu zaluso, nyimbo, ndi mafilimu.

Mukamvetsera nyimbo, kuonera kanema, kapena kuyang'ana chithunzi, ganizirani mtundu wa malingaliro omwe ntchitoyo imasonyeza.

• Ndi zinthu ziti zomwe wojambulayo adagwiritsa ntchito posonyeza momwe akumvera kwa omvera? (monga, nyimbo, mitundu, ndi momwe wosewerayo akusewerera)
• Kodi mumamva bwanji mukaona ndi kumva chilengedwe chimenecho?

Mukachita izi, mumakhala ndi chifundo , luso lomvetsetsa momwe anthu ena akumvera. Izi ndizofunikira kwambiri pa ubale ndi anthu.

Kumbukirani zinthu izi mukamakumana ndi mavuto:

Ndikofunikira kutenga nthawi kuti muzindikire momwe mukumvera. Ingoyang'anirani zomwe mukumva. Musadziimbe mlandu pa zomwe mukumva. Landirani momwe mukumvera. Dzichitireni chifundo. Chofunika kwambiri kukumbukira ndichakuti malingaliro anu onse ndi achibadwa. Komabe, ndi momwe mumayankhira ndikuchitapo kanthu pa iwo chomwe chili chofunikira kwambiri. Mukazindikira momwe mukumvera, mutha kupanga zisankho zanzeru pa zomwe mungachite panthawiyo, mosasamala kanthu za zomwe mukumva.

Pezani thandizo mukakumana ndi mavuto.

Nthawi zina timakhala ndi malingaliro ovuta kuthana nawo ndi kuwalamulira. Nthawi ngati zimenezi, ndikofunikira kwambiri kupempha thandizo m'malo movutika nokha. Lankhulani ndi munthu wamkulu amene mumamudalira (amayi, abambo, aphunzitsi, bwenzi lapamtima) za zomwe mukumva. Nthawi zina, anthu ena amapempha thandizo la akatswiri, kutanthauza, katswiri wa zamaganizo/uphungu, kuti athane ndi malingaliro ovuta omwe akukhudza moyo wawo watsiku ndi tsiku. Sikoyenera kuchita manyazi, ndipo ndibwino kuganizira za thanzi lanu la maganizo.

Uthenga Woti Mutengere Kunyumba Kwanu

Kotero, ndikukhulupirira kuti mwaphunzirapo kanthu pa zomwe takambirana lero.

Mwachidule, malingaliro anu ali ngati bwenzi lanu lapamtima. Muwamvere, muwamvetse. Mukatero mudzatha kudzimvetsa bwino, ndipo zidzakhala zosavuta kukhala ndi moyo wosangalala.

Kumbukirani, ichi si chinthu chomwe mungachite usiku wonse. Chitani pang'onopang'ono. Mudzakhala bwino!

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