Ese wigeze usohoka mu kaga gato umwana wawe akabura mu buryo butunguranye? Nubwo ibi bishobora kuba ku mubyeyi uwo ari we wese, birashoboka cyane ko bibaho ku mwana ufite ubumuga bwo mu mutwe bwa autism . Mu buryo bw'ubuvuzi, iyi ndwara tuyita 'Autism Elopement'. Muri make, ni igihe umwana ahunze umuntu umureba, ndetse no mu gihe arimo kumureba. Akaga gakomeye muri ibi ni uko bamwe muri aba bana bakunda amazi cyane. Niyo mpamvu bashukwa kujya ku kiyaga, ku ruzi, ku mugezi, cyangwa kuri pisine iri hafi aho. Kubera iyo mpamvu, impamvu nyamukuru y'urupfu rw'abana nk'abo babura ni ukurohama.
Kuki iki kibazo giteje akaga gakomeye? (Kubura ubushobozi bwo kwifata mu mutwe)
Aba bana bashobora kubura igihe icyo ari cyo cyose cy'umwaka. Ariko ibyago birushaho kwiyongera mu mpeshyi, igihe izuba riba rikaze cyane. Ibi biterwa nuko tumara igihe kinini hanze kandi tugenda. Tekereza, iyo umuryango wose uri kurya BBQ, ukina hanze, cyangwa uri mu biruhuko muri hoteli iri hafi y'umucanga, umwana ashobora kubura mu buryo butunguranye.
Abantu benshi, wenda ndetse n'abo mu miryango ifite umwana ufite autisme, ntibazi iki kibazo. Ikigo cy'Igihugu gishinzwe abana babuze n'abakoreshwa ihohoterwa muri Leta Zunze Ubumwe za Amerika cyakoze ubushakashatsi kuri ibi. Bavuga ko 84% by'impfu zitunguranye mu bana bafite autisme ziterwa no kurohama .
Ubushakashatsi bwakozwe mu 2012 bwasohotse mu kinyamakuru Pediatrics bwagaragaje ko ababyeyi benshi bafite abana bafite autisme ( hafi 50%) bavuze ko umwana wabo yagerageje kubura nyuma y'imyaka 4. Nanone, 24% by'abana baburiwe irengero bari mu kaga ko kurohama . Abandi 65% bari mu kaga ko gukora impanuka y'imodoka . Aba bana bashobora kuba bashishikajwe n'amazi ndetse n'imodoka, gari ya moshi, moteri zica umuriro n'ibyapa byo ku muhanda.
Kuki aba bana bashaka ahantu hatuje, cyane cyane amazi?
Biragoye kuvuga impamvu nyayo ibi bibaho, ariko abahanga bavuga ko hari ibimenyetso bimwe na bimwe.
"Ikintu kimwe tubona ni uko aba bana bagerageza kuva ahantu habagirira stress, ni ukuvuga ahantu harangwa urusaku, huzuye abantu benshi, cyangwa huzuye abantu benshi. Bajya ahantu hatuje. Amazi akenshi aba ahantu hatuje kandi hatuje. Niyo mpamvu bakururwa n'ibyo."
Si amazi gusa, bashobora kugerageza kujya ahantu hose hatuje, nko mu ishyamba cyangwa mu modoka yasizwe.
Ubunararibonye bubabaje
Umubyeyi witwa Beth Dilg, wari utuye muri Maryland,Savannah, umukobwa w’imyaka 7 ufite ubumuga bwo mu mutwe , yarohamye. Umunsi umwe hakonje, Beth yagiye mu bwiherero iminota mike mu gihe umuhungu we w’imyaka 11 yasabwaga kwita ku bana babiri bato. Ariko Savannah yavuye mu nzu ari kumwe na murumuna we w’imyaka 2.
Ubwo Beth yasohokaga, abana babiri bari bagiye. Yashakishije mu busitani bwose Savannah, washoboraga kuvuga nabi, ariko ntiyagaruka. Yirutse ajya mu kidendezi cyari hafi aho maze abona abana babiri mu mazi. Nubwo umuhungu we w'imyaka 2 yarokowe n'ingofero ye y'igare, Savannah yari yataye ubwenge ubwo yamukuraga mu mazi.
Ibi bishobora kubaho ku muryango uwo ari wo wose. Uko ingamba zo kurinda ababyeyi zagenda kose, umwana ashobora kuzimira ako kanya.
"Aba bana bafite ubumuga bwo mu mutwe ni abanyabwenge cyane. Bashobora kuba badashobora kuvuga, ariko bafite ubwenge bwihariye. Bityo rero ugomba kuba uri imbere yabo intambwe imwe ." - Beth Dilg
Wakora iki iyo umwana azimiye?
Kubona umwana wabuze nk'uyu biragoye. Ntibavuga, bityo ntibazasubiza niba hari umuntu umuhamagaye. Rero, niba umwana wawe yabuze, ntukajye kumushakisha wenyine.
Hamagara nimero y'ubutabazi ya polisi 119 ako kanya.
Wibuke ko buri segonda rigira agaciro iyo umwana yabuze. Polisi n'abashinzwe ubutabazi bwa mbere batojwe by'umwihariko gushakisha abana baburiwe irengero. Babanza kugenzura amazi, ibidendezi n'imigezi biri hafi aho.
Ibintu dushobora gukora kugira ngo hirindwe impanuka
Hari ibintu byinshi ushobora gukora kugira ngo urinde umwana wawe akaga nk'aka. Gukurikiza izi nama bishobora kugira ingaruka nziza.
| Amayeri yo kwirinda | Icyo gukora ni cyoroshye. |
|---|---|
| Umutekano wo mu rugo | Shyiramo inzogera zitanga ijwi iyo inzugi n'amadirishya bifunguye. Bifunge hejuru ku buryo abana batabigeraho. Shyira ikimenyetso cy'ishusho, nk'ikimenyetso cya 'Guhagarara', ku muryango. |
| Ikarita y'indangamuntu bwite | Ambara ikarita ndangamuntu iriho izina ry'umwana wawe, imiterere ye ya autisme, na nimero ya terefone y'umubyeyi. Niba udashobora kuyambara, ushobora kuyishyira ku mugozi w'inkweto. Ariko ibuka ko umwana wawe ashobora kutajya ambara inkweto. |
| Kumenya Itera Imbaraga | Menya impamvu umwana wawe agerageza guhunga mu rugo. Ese ni urusaku? Ese ni uguhangayika? Niba ubonye impamvu nk'iyo, ushobora gutuza umwana wawe cyangwa kumuha ecouteur igihe yumvise urusaku ruteye ubwoba. |
| Ubumenyi mu bijyanye no kwirinda (koga) | Imyitozo yo koga ni ingenzi. Urusaku n'ibyishimo by'isomo risanzwe ryo koga bishobora kugora umwana. Kubwibyo, shaka amasomo yo koga ku giti cye atangwa n'umuntu usobanukiwe abana bafite ubumuga bwo mu mutwe. Mu isomo rya nyuma, itoze koga wambaye neza kandi wambaye inkweto. Kuko abana benshi binjira mu mazi batambaye imyenda. |
| Gukurikirana itsinda | Iyo hari abantu bakuru benshi, nko mu birori by'umuryango, buri wese atekereza ko hari uzamwitaho. Ariko mu by'ukuri, ibinyuranye n'ibyo bibaho. Rero, shyira inshingano zo kwita ku mwana ku muntu umwe icyarimwe. Nyuma y'igihe runaka, shyira inshingano ku wundi muntu. Muri ubwo buryo, umuntu azahora yita ku mwana. |
Tegura mbere y'igihe ikibazo cyihutirwa.
Niba umwana wawe yabuze mu buryo butunguranye, tegura ibi bintu mbere y'igihe kugira ngo bigufashe kubibona vuba.
- Komeza umenye amafoto agezweho: Shyira amafoto make y'umwana wawe kuri telefoni yawe agaragaza isura ye yose n'umutwe we wose. Niba umwana wawe yabuze, ushobora guhita wohereza aya mafoto kuri polisi.
- Kora urupapuro rw'amakuru yihutirwa: Ibi bigomba kuba birimo izina ry'umwana, imyaka ye, imimerere ye, niba ashobora kuvuga cyangwa atavuga, ibintu bishobora kumukurura (nk'amazi, imodoka), n'amakuru arambuye ku bigega, ibidendezi, cyangwa imigezi iri hafi y'inzu. Ibi bizagufasha gutanga aya makuru kuri polisi vuba.
Niba ufite ibindi bibazo kuri ibi, vugana na muganga w'umuryango wawe. Ashobora kuguha ubundi buyobozi.
Ubutumwa bwo kujyana mu rugo
- Kunanirwa kwa autisme ni ibyago bikomeye kandi bifatika.
- Kubera ko aba bana bakunda cyane amazi, ibyago byo kurohama ni byinshi cyane.
- Kwirinda ni bwo buryo bwiza bwo kwirinda impanuka. Rinda urugo rwawe, shyira umwana wawe indangamuntu, kandi witoze koga.
- Niba umwana wawe yabuze, hamagara polisi ako kanya kuri 119 udatebaganye. Ntukajye kumushakisha wenyine.
- Mu gihe cy'ibikorwa by'umuryango no mu ngendo zo hanze, shyira inshingano zo kwita ku mwana ku muntu umwe wihariye.
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