Ese umwana wawe ahora ababaye? Ibi bivuga ku ndwara y'agahinda k'abana

Ese uhangayikishijwe n'umwana wawe? Ese ahora asa n'ubabaye kandi ari wenyine? Ni ibisanzwe ko abana bato bumva bababaye kandi bari bonyine. Ariko iyo iki kibazo kikomeje, kikagira ingaruka ku mibanire yabo n'inshuti ndetse n'ibikorwa byabo bya buri munsi, gishobora kuba indwara yo mu mutwe yitwa Childhood Depression . Iyi ni indwara ikomeye isaba inama n'ubuvuzi. Reka tubiganireho birambuye uyu munsi.

Ni irihe tandukaniro riri hagati y'agahinda gasanzwe n'ihungabana?

Kumva ufite agahinda, uburakari, no kwigunga ni ibintu bisanzwe ku mwana uko akura. Ibi ntibivuze ko umwana agira ikibazo cyo kwiheba kubera ko yari afite agahinda.

Ariko kwiheba mu bwana ni ikindi kintu. Mu magambo make, ni agahinda gakomeye kandi gahoraho . Iyo ibi bibaye, umwana yumva ari wenyine, nta cyizere afite, nta cyo ashoboye, kandi ntacyo amaze. Iyo aka gahinda gakomeje, gashobora kugira ingaruka kuri buri gice cy'ubuzima bw'umwana. Gahunda ye ya buri munsi, akazi k'ishuri, n'imibanire ye n'inshuti ze byose bitangira gusenyuka. Ibi bishobora kugira ingaruka ku mwana gusa, ndetse no ku muryango wose.

Kuki abana bagira ihungabana?

Impamvu nyayo itera ihungabana ry’abana ntiramenyekana. Ariko hari ibintu byinshi bivugwa ko ari byo bibitera. Ibi bintu bikorana kugira ngo bitere iyi ndwara.

• Ibibazo by'ubuzima bw'umubiri
• Ibintu bibabaje mu buzima (urugero: urupfu rw'umwe mu bagize umuryango, gutandukana n'ababyeyi)
• Kugira amateka y'ihungabana mu muryango (imiterere y'uturemangingo)
• Ingaruka ku bidukikije (urugero: gutoteza ku ishuri, amakimbirane mu miryango)
• Ubukene bw'uturemangingo
• Ihungabana ry'ibinyabuzima

Ni ibihe bimenyetso by'indwara yo kwiheba mu bwana?

Ibi bimenyetso bishobora gutandukana bitewe n'umwana. Hari igihe bishobora kwirengagizwa nk'impinduka zisanzwe mu byiyumvo ziba uko umwana agenda akura. Kubwibyo, ni ngombwa cyane kumenya ibi bimenyetso.

Ese ibi bintu byose bibaho kuri buri mwana?

Oya. Si buri mwana wese uzagaragaza ibi bimenyetso byose. Mu by’ukuri, n’umwana umwe ashobora kugaragaza ibimenyetso bitandukanye mu bihe bitandukanye no mu bihe bitandukanye.

Abana bamwe, cyane cyane mu gace gafite imiterere (urugero, ku ishuri), bashobora kugaragara nk'abantu basanzwe, ariko bashobora kugaragaza impinduka zikomeye mu bikorwa byabo byo gusabana , gutakaza ubushake mu kazi k'ishuri, amanota mabi, cyangwa kutita ku kuntu basa. Abana, cyane cyane abarengeje imyaka 12, nabo bashobora kwishora mu biyobyabwenge cyangwa inzoga.

Ni ibihe bintu bishobora gutera indwara yo kwiheba?

Ubushakashatsi bwerekana ko iyi ndwara ikunze kugaragara cyane mu bahungu bari munsi y'imyaka 10, kandi ikunze kugaragara cyane mu bakobwa bageze ku myaka 16. Hari ibintu byinshi byongera ibyago byo kurwara indwara yo kwiheba ku mwana:

• Amateka y'umuryango: Niba ababyeyi barigeze kugira ikibazo cyo kwiheba, cyane cyane mu bwana, umwana aba afite ibyago byinshi byo kugira ikibazo cyo kwiheba.
• Imiterere y'umuryango: Abana bakurira mu muryango wuzuyemo amakimbirane, baba bari mu kaga gakomeye.
• Gukoresha ibiyobyabwenge: Abana banywa inzoga n'ibiyobyabwenge nabo bari mu kaga gakomeye.

Hari igihe ibimenyetso by'ihungabana bishobora guherekezwa n'indwara yitwa bipolar disorder . Ibi bikunze kugaragara cyane ku bana bato. Abana bafite bipolar disorder bashobora kandi kugira izindi ndwara, nko kudakora cyane mu mutwe (ADHD) , obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) , cyangwa conduct disorder (CD) .

Ni gute umuganga asuzuma ibi?

Niba umwana wawe afite ibimenyetso by'ihungabana twavuze mbere kandi bikamara nibura ibyumweru bibiri , ugomba kujyana umwana kwa muganga. Ibi bizamufasha kumenya niba hari indi mpamvu y'umubiri itera ibi bimenyetso no guha umwana ubuvuzi bukwiye.

Ni ingenzi cyane kubonana na muganga, cyane cyane umuhanga mu by’ubuzima bwo mu mutwe bw’umwana.

Muganga azaganira nawe n'umwana wawe ukwawe mu gihe cyo gusuzuma indwara. Amakuru aturuka ku barimu n'inshuti ashobora no kuba ingenzi, kuko ashobora gufasha kumenya niba imyitwarire y'umwana wawe ihinduka mu bice bitandukanye.

Ihungabana ry'imitekerereze mu bwana rivurwa rite?

Uburyo bwo kuvura indwara yo kwiheba mu bwana busa n'ubw'abantu bakuru. Hari uburyo bubiri bw'ingenzi:

1. Ubuvuzi bw'imitekerereze: Kuganira ku byiyumvo by'umwana, ibitekerezo bye, n'ibibazo bye no kumufasha kubikemura.

2. Imiti: Gutanga imiti igabanya ubukana bw'indwara zo kwiheba.

Ubusanzwe, muganga abanza kukwohereza ku bujyanama mu by’imitekerereze, kandi niba ibimenyetso bikomeye cyangwa niba ubujyanama gusa budafasha, imiti ishobora kongerwamo. Ubushakashatsi bwagaragaje ko gukoresha uburyo bwombi hamwe bitanga umusaruro mwiza cyane.

Icy'ingenzi: Hari umuburo w'uko imiti imwe n'imwe igabanya ubukana ishobora kongera gato ibyago byo gutekereza no kwiyahura ku bana n'urubyiruko. Bityo rero, vugana na muganga wawe kandi muganire ku mpungenge ushobora kuba ufite.

Ni ibihe bimenyetso by'umuburo by'ibyago byo kwiyahura bizanwa no kwiheba?

Nk'ababyeyi, tugomba kuba maso cyane ku bimenyetso by'umuburo bigaragaza ko umwana ufite ikibazo cy'ihungabana ashobora kwiyahura.

Niba ubonye kimwe muri ibi bimenyetso, ntukirengagize. Shaka muganga ako kanya. Niba bibaye ngombwa, jyana umwana wawe mu bitaro biri hafi yawe mu gihe cy'ubutabazi bwihutirwa (ETU).

Ese ibi bizagenda neza hatabayeho kuvurwa?

Ihungabana ry’ihungabana mu bwana ni indwara iza ikongera ikagenda. Hari igihe bishobora gusa nkaho rigenda ryongera gukira ubwaryo nta buvuzi. Ariko, iyo umwana amaze kugira ihungabana, aba ashobora kongera kurirwara. Iyo ritavuwe, ingaruka zaryo zishobora kuba mbi cyane, ndetse zikanashyira ubuzima mu kaga. Kubwibyo, kumenya no kuvura hakiri kare ni ngombwa.