Ngubani ugqirha wezingane? Masithethe ngayo yonke into!

Mhlawumbi sele udibene nogqirha wabantwana izihlandlo ezininzi, nokuba uyakhumbula okanye awuyikhumbuli. Ngamafutshane, ugqirha wabantwana ngugqirha ofumene uqeqesho olukhethekileyo ekunyamekeleni iintsana, abantwana abancinci, nabantwana abancinci kunye nokunyanga izifo zabo. Ukongeza ekukuncedeni xa ugula, lo gqirha wabantwana uya kukunceda uhlale usempilweni kwaye usempilweni.

Yintoni kanye kanye eyenziwa ngugqirha wabantwana?

Khawucinge nje, ugqirha wabantwana ngumntu ojonga impilo yomntwana ukusuka ku-A ukuya ku-Z. Banendima engaphezulu kokunyanga isifo. 1. Ukhathalelo Lokuthintela: Le yeyona nto ibalulekileyo. Kungcono ukuthintela isifo kunokubandezeleka emva kokuba senzeke, akunjalo?

• Ukugonywa: Uxanduva oluphambili logqirha wabantwana kukubonelela abantwana ngamayeza okugonywa afunekayo besebancinci ukuze babakhusele kwizifo ezahlukeneyo ezosulelayo. La mayeza okugonywa anokukhusela abantwana kwizifo ezininzi eziyingozi ezifana ne-masisi, i-mumps, i-rubella, kunye ne-polio. Xa amayeza okugonywa enikwa ngokuchanekileyo, kungekuphela nje umntwana kodwa noluntu lonke luyakhuseleka.
• Ukuhlolwa rhoqo kwempilo (Ukuhlolwa kwempilo yomntwana / Ukuhlolwa kwempilo yomntwana): Ukususela ngomhla wokuzalwa komntwana wakho, nokuba akaguli, kufuneka uqhubeke ubona ugqirha wabantwana. Oku sikubiza ngokuba yi-"Ukuhlolwa kwempilo yomntwana" okanye "Ukuhlolwa kwempilo yomntwana". Ngeli xesha, ugqirha uza kujonga ukukhula nokukhula komntwana wakho.

2. Ukujonga ukukhula nophuhliso lomntwana: Umntwana ngumntu otshintsha imihla ngemihla, iveki neveki. Ngumsebenzi kagqirha wabantwana ukubona ukuba olu tshintsho lwenzeka ngokufanelekileyo na.

• Uphuhliso lomzimba: Ukuphakama komntwana, ubunzima bakhe, kunye nobubanzi bentloko yakhe (iintsana) kulinganiswa ukuze kubonwe ukuba umntwana ukhula ngokufanelekileyo na kuloo minyaka.
• Iziganeko Zophuhliso: Oku kubaluleke kakhulu. "Iziganeko zophuhliso" zizinto umntwana afanele ukuba uzenza xa eneminyaka ethile. Cinga ngokuba umntwana wakho uyancuma, unentamo eqinileyo, uyaqengqeleka, uhlala phantsi, uguqa ngamadolo, uhamba, uthetha amazwi, kwaye ujonga abanye. Oogqirha banika ingqalelo ekubeni ezi zinto zenzeka ngexesha na. Kuba ukuba kukho ukulibaziseka, kunokulungiswa ngokukhawuleza.

3. Ukunyanga izifo neemeko: Enyanisweni, sihlala sifuna ugqirha wabantwana xa umntwana wethu egula.

• Izifo Ezincinci: Inyanga izifo eziqhelekileyo ebantwaneni ezifana nomkhuhlane, ukukhwehlela, umkhuhlane, usulelo lwendlebe, kunye ne-gastroenteritis.
• Iimeko zonyango ezintsonkothileyo: Ngamanye amaxesha oogqirha babantwana banyanga okanye bathumele abantwana kwiingcali xa kukho iimeko ezinzulu nezihlala ixesha elide (umz., isifuba, isifo seswekile).
• Ukunika amayeza:Amayeza anikwa ngokukhuselekileyo ngokweminyaka yomntwana, ubunzima bakhe, kunye nemeko yakhe yempilo.

4. Isikhokelo neengcebiso kubazali: Ukukhulisa umntwana asingomsebenzi ulula. Kuvela imibuzo emininzi namathandabuzo. Ugqirha wezingane unamandla amakhulu kubazali ngeli xesha.

• Isondlo: Inika iingcebiso ngezinto ezininzi, ezinje ngokutya omawukondle umntwana wakho, ukubaluleka kokuncancisa, kunye nendlela yokuqala ukutya okuncedisayo.
• Ukulala: Sixoxa ngemiba enxulumene nokulala komntwana wakho kunye noko kufuneka kwenziwe ukuqinisekisa ukuba ulala kakuhle.
• Ukhuseleko: Ufundisa indlela yokuqinisekisa ukhuseleko lomntwana ekhaya, ngelixa edlala, kwaye xa ehamba ngemoto.
• Imiba Yokuziphatha: Ukuba abazali banenkxalabo malunga nezinye zeendlela zokuziphatha zomntwana wabo (umz., ukuba neenkani, umsindo), banokuthetha ngazo baze bancede ekufumaneni izisombululo.
• Impilo Yengqondo: Impilo yengqondo yabantwana ibaluleke njengempilo yabo yomzimba. Iingcali zabantwana nazo ziyayiqwalasela loo nto.

5. Uvavanyo lokuhlola izifo ezahlukeneyo: Ezinye izifo kulula ukuzinyanga ukuba zinokuchongwa ngaphambi kokuba kuvele iimpawu. Yiyo loo nto oogqirha babantwana bejonga nezinto ezifana nokubona nokuva komntwana.

Ngubani omele aye kugqirha wabantwana?

Ngamafutshane, umntwana unokufumana iinkonzo zikagqirha wabantwana ukususela ngomhla azalwa ngawo de afikelele kwiminyaka yokufikisa (ngokuqhelekileyo eneminyaka eli-18 ubudala, ngamanye amaxesha malunga nama-21) .

• Iintsana ezisandul’ ukuzalwa: Ugqirha wabantwana ngumntu wokuqala ukuhlola umntwana esibhedlele emva kokuzalwa. Ngamanye amaxesha, iintsana ezizelwe ngaphambi kwexesha okanye iintsana ezineengxaki zinokufuna uncedo logqirha wezingane okhethekileyo (obizwa ngokuba yi-neonatologist).
• Abantwana abancinci nabakwisikolo samabanga aphantsi: Abantwana abakule minyaka basebenza kakhulu. Badla ngokugula, bawe, baze bonzakale. Kwakhona, ukukhula kwabo, intetho, kunye nezakhono zabo zentlalo ziyaphuhla ngeli xesha. Iingcali zabantwana ziqwalasela konke oku.
• Abantwana abakwiminyaka yokufunda: Abantwana abakwiminyaka yokufunda nabo bafuna ukuvavanywa rhoqo kwempilo. Ungathetha nogqirha wakho ngezinto ezifana neengxaki zokufunda kunye nemiba yokuziphatha.
• Ulutsha/Ulutsha: Eli lixesha elibaluleke kakhulu. Umzimba utshintsha kakhulu (ukufikisa). Kukwakho notshintsho oluninzi lwengqondo. Uxinzelelo loontanga, uviwo, njl.njl. lunokubangela uxinzelelo lwengqondo. Isikhokelo sikagqirha wabantwana sibaluleke kakhulu kuyo yonke le nto.

"Oko kuthetha ukuba ukususela kusana oluncinci, ukuya kumntwana omncinci, ukuya kumntwana okwiminyaka yokufunda isikolo, nangaphaya koko, ugqirha wezingane uza kujonga impilo yomntwana wakho ukusuka ku-A ukuya ku-Z."

Ngaba kubalulekile ukuba nolwalamano oluhle nogqirha wabantwana?

Ngokuqinisekileyo ewe!Oku kubaluleke kakhulu. Khawucinge nje, ukuba umntwana wakho uthetha aze ancume ngaphandle koloyiko xa ebona ugqirha, kwaye ukuba ungambuza ugqirha nawuphi na umbuzo onawo, nokuba mncinane kangakanani, ngaphandle koloyiko okanye amathandabuzo, loo nto ingaba luncedo kangakanani?

• Ukuthembana nokuthuthuzela: Umntwana kufuneka amthembe ugqirha, kwaye azive ekhululekile xa ekunye nogqirha. Kulapho ke kuphela apho umntwana aza kukwazi ukuthetha inyaniso ngeengxaki zakhe. Njengomzali, nawe kufuneka umthembe ugqirha.
• Unxibelelwano oluvulekileyo: Ufanele ukwazi ukubuza ugqirha wakho nayiphi na imibuzo onayo, nokuba mincinci kangakanani na. Musa ukuba neentloni zokubuza, nokuba yinto efana nokuthi, "Hee, gqirha, umntwana wam akatyi kakuhle," okanye "Akalali kakuhle ebusuku."
• Ukuqhubeka konyango: Kungcono ukubona ugqirha wezingane ofanayo kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Ngale ndlela, ugqirha uya kwazi imbali yezonyango zomntwana wakho. Ugqirha uya kuba nokuqonda okuhle ngophuhliso lomntwana wakho, izifo zakhe zangaphambili, kunye namayeza akhe.

Kwenzeka ntoni xa usiya kugqirha wabantwana?

Oku kuxhomekeke ekubeni uya kuhlolwa rhoqo okanye ukuba umntwana wakho uyagula.

Uvavanyo lwempilo oluqhelekileyo lulandelayo:

• Okokuqala, ubude nobunzima bomntwana buyalinganiswa. Ukuba lusana oluncinci, nomjikelezo wentloko uyalinganiswa. Kwezi zinto, unokufumana umbono wokukhula komntwana.
• Emva koko ugqirha uza kumhlola umntwana ngokupheleleyo . Baza kumamela intliziyo nemiphunga nge-stethoscope, baze bahlole iindlebe, umphimbo, nesisu.
• Uza kubuzwa malunga nokukhula komntwana wakho, ukutya kwakhe, ukulala kwakhe, kunye nokuziphatha kwakhe .
• Ukuba kukho imigonyo ekufuneka inikwe ngelo xesha, iya kunikwa.
• Okubaluleke kakhulu, eli lixesha elifanelekileyo lokubuza ugqirha wakho nayiphi na imibuzo onayo, nokuba mincinci kangakanani na. Kukwangumbono olungileyo ukuthatha incwadi yokubhala uze ubhale phantsi imibuzo yakho.

Xa Ugula:

• Ugqirha uza kuqala akubuze ngeempawu zakho . Ingaba unomkhuhlane, ixesha elide kangakanani, ukukhohlela, impumlo egobhozayo, ukugabha, iintlungu zesisu, njl.njl.
• Emva koko umntwana uyahlolwa , ingakumbi ukuba kukho nasiphi na isifo.
• Ngamanye amaxesha uvavanyo olongezelelweyo lokuxilonga lunokwenziwa (umz., i-throat swab, uvavanyo lomchamo).
• Emva koko ugqirha wenza uxilongo aze anike isicwangciso sonyango , kuquka amayeza, indlela yokuwanika, kunye nendlela yokunyamekela umntwana ekhaya.

Ufanele ubize nini ugqirha wabantwana ngokukhawuleza?

Kukho amaxesha apho kufuneka ufowunele ugqirha wabantwana ngoko nangoko, ngaphandle kokulinda ekhaya.

• Umkhuhlane ophezulu: Ingakumbi ukuba umntwana ongaphantsi kweenyanga ezi-3 ubudala unomkhuhlane.
• Ubunzima bokuphefumla:Ukuba umntwana uphefumla kakhulu, ukuba isifuba sitsalwa ngaphakathi xa ephefumla, okanye ukuba imilebe ijika ibe luhlaza okwesibhakabhaka.
• Ukuhlanza kakhulu okanye urhudo: Ukuba umntwana wakho uhlanza rhoqo, urhudo olukhulu, ingakumbi ukuba ubonisa iimpawu zokuphelelwa ngamanzi emzimbeni (umlomo owomileyo, amehlo atshonileyo, ukuncipha kokuphuma komchamo).
• Ukuqhambuka okungaqhelekanga: Ukuqhambuka okukhulu ngequbuliso emzimbeni, ingakumbi xa kukho umkhuhlane.
• Ukonzakala okukhulu: Ukuba uwe kakhulu, unqunyulwe, okanye utshile (kodwa xa kwenzeka ingozi, into yokuqala omawuyenze kukuya kwigumbi likaxakeka lesibhedlele esikufutshane).
• Ukuba umntwana wakho ubonakala enengxaki enkulu , okanye ukuba uziva usoyika kakhulu okanye ukrokrela , okanye ukuba ucinga ukuba, "Oku kubonakala kunzulu kancinci," ungathandabuzi ukufowuna ubuze. Mamela imbilini yakho.

Ngaba kukho naziphi na iinkalo ezikhethekileyo zonyango lwabantwana?

Ewe, zikho. Njengokuba kukho iingcali zentliziyo kunye neengcali zemithambo-luvo phakathi koogqirha abanyanga abantu abadala, kukwakho neengcali zabantwana abanoqeqesho olukhethekileyo kwiinkalo ezahlukeneyo. Nazi imizekelo embalwa:

• Ingcali yeentsana ezisandul’ ukuzalwa: Ugqirha ogxile kwiintsana ezisandul’ ukuzalwa , ingakumbi ezo zizelwe ngaphambi kwexesha okanye ezineengxaki zempilo ezinzima.
• Ingcali yentliziyo yabantwana: Ugqirha ogxile kwizifo zentliziyo ebantwaneni.
• Ingcali yezifo zengqondo yabantwana: Ugqirha onyanga izifo ezinxulumene nengqondo kunye nenkqubo yemithambo-luvo yabantwana.

Kodwa khumbula oku, uninzi lwexesha, umntwana wakho unokufumana lonke unyango olusisiseko aludingayo kugqirha wezingane. Baza kukuthumela kwingcali kuphela xa bebona ukuba kuyimfuneko.

Okokugqibela, khumbula oku (Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya)

Ngoko ke, ngokwezinto esizithethileyo, ndiyathemba ukuba unombono olungileyo wokuba ngubani ugqirha wezingane kunye nento ayenzayo.

Ngamafutshane, ugqirha wakho wezingane ngumhlobo wakho osenyongweni kwaye umxhasi omkhulu kuhambo lwempilo yomntwana wakho.

• Khumbula, kufuneka ubone ugqirha wabantwana kungekuphela nje xa umntwana wakho egula. Kufuneka ubonane nogqirha wakho rhoqo (ukuze ahlolwe rhoqo) ukuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho ukhula kwaye ukhula kakuhle.
• Ungaze woyike okanye ube neentloni zokubuza imibuzo yakho. Ugqirha ukhona ukukunceda.
• Themba ugqirha wakho wezingane. Yakha ubudlelwane obuhle. Kubaluleke kakhulu kuwe nakumntwana wakho.

Inkxaso evela kugqirha wezingane ibaluleke kakhulu ekuncedeni umntwana wakho aphile ubomi obusempilweni nobonwabisayo!

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