Uphuhliso loNxibelelwano lomntwana wakho oneminyaka eli-1 ukuya kwemi-2: Singathetha ngale nto?

Ngaba unomntwana omncinci okanye oneminyaka emibini ubudala ekhaya? Eli xesha lixesha elimangalisayo apho intetho nolwimi lwabo lukhula ngokukhawuleza. Njengesityalo esincinci sikhula ngokukhawuleza xa sinkcenkceshelwa kwaye sivundisiwe, isigama sabo kunye nendlela abanxibelelana ngayo nabanye iyaphucuka imihla ngemihla, ngendlela emangalisayo. Ngoko ke, namhlanje, masithethe ngendlela izakhono zolwimi zaba bantwana - oko kukuthi, ukufunda amagama amatsha, ukuthetha oko bakufunayo, nokuqonda oko abanye bakuthethayo - ezenzeka ngayo, kunye nendlela wena, njengomama okanye utata, onokubanceda ngayo kolu hambo lubalulekileyo.

Bathetha njani abantwana abancinci nathi? Indlela amagama aqhakaza ngayo kwihlabathi labo elincinci

Kule minyaka, ingakumbi xa uneminyaka emibini ubudala, izakhono zolwimi zabantwana abancinci ziyakhula ngokukhawuleza. Baya bekwazi ngakumbi ukuqonda into esiyithethayo, kwaye baqala nokuveza iimfuno zabo ngamazwi kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ngezimbo zomzimba. Khawuthelekelele uvuyo oluvayo xa uxelela umntwana wakho ukuba "athathe ibhola" aze aqonde aze akwenze oko! Bayakuthanda nokusinika imiyalelo emincinci kule minyaka.

Uhambo lwabo oluncinci lokufunda amagama

• Ngokwesiqhelo xa sele beneminyaka eli-15 ubudala , abantwana bazama ukubiza igama elinye okanye amabini ngaphezulu ukongeza kumagama athi "mama" kunye "tata."
• Xa beneminyaka eli-18 , nto leyo ethetha unyaka onesiqingatha, banokuthetha amagama amathathu okanye amane.
• Xa befikelela kwiminyaka emibini ubudala, uninzi lwabantwana abancinci luyazi amagama amaninzi kwaye sele luqalile ukubiza izivakalisi ezimfutshane ("Ndifuna ubisi," "Ndiphe ibhola").

Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuba nangaphambi kokuba baqale ukuthetha , iintsana ziyayiqonda into eninzi esiyithethayo. Umzekelo, xa usithi into elula, efana nokuthi "Zisa loo nto yokudlala kumama," kufuneka bakwazi ukuyiqonda baze bayenze. Kwakhona, xa usithi igama lesilwanyana osiqhelileyo okanye into oyibona rhoqo (umz., "Iphi inja?"), kufuneka bakwazi ukuyijonga okanye ukuyikhomba.

Imiqondiso lolunye ulwimi kubo.

Njengamazwi, izimbo zomzimba ziyinxalenye enkulu yonxibelelwano lwabo kule minyaka. Ukuqala ngezinto ezilula ezifana nokuqabula, ukolula isandla ukuze ufumane into ethile, okanye ukunqwala intloko yakho ukuze uthi "ewe," bayayiphuhlisa kancinci le mimbo zomzimba. Ezi zibalulekile kubo ukuba baxelise oko abanye bakwenzayo, baveze iimvakalelo zabo, kwaye badlale.

Musa ukukhathazeka ngamazwi angacacanga!

Nangona isigama somntwana wakho sikhula ngokukhawuleza, sisenokungakwazi ukuqonda kakuhle onke amagama awathethayo. Yinto eqhelekileyo leyo. Cinga nje, izihlunu ezincinci emlonyeni wakhe azikaqheli ukubiza la magama matsha ngokufanelekileyo. Kufana nokuba xa sifunda ulwimi olutsha okokuqala, siyadideka.Nokuba sineminyaka emibini ubudala, sidla ngokuyiqonda isiqingatha sento ethethwa ngumntwana omncinci. Kodwa ungakhathazeki. Into ebalulekileyo kukuqonda oko akutshoyo uze uphinde amagama kuye ngokuchanekileyo. Umzekelo, umntwana wakho omncinci usenokuthi 'boye' endaweni yokuthi 'bole'. Emva koko, ngaphandle kokucaphuka, ungatsho igama elifanelekileyo ngoncumo, "Owu... nyana, uyayifuna ibhola ? Nantsi ibhola entle."

Yintoni esinokuyenza njengabazali ukuze siphuhlise olu buchule bokuthetha?

Uncedo lwethu kule nkqubela phambili yolwimi lwabantwana abancinci lubaluleke kakhulu. Makhe sibone ukuba zeziphi izinto ezilula esinokuzenza.

1. Masibize yonke into ngegama layo elifanelekileyo, size sinciphise "intetho yobuntwana"

Umntwana wakho umamela lonke igama olithethayo, kwaye uyalikhumbula ngokukhawuleza. Ngoko ke, endaweni yokusebenzisa "amagama obuntwana ," sebenzisa amagama afanelekileyo abantu, iindawo, nezinto kangangoko unako. Thetha kancinci, ngokucacileyo, nangokulula xa uthetha. Musa ukumxinanisa ngamazwi amaninzi kakhulu.

2. Phendula kwizimbo zomzimba zomntwana wakho uze uzidibanise namagama.

Njengoko besikhe sathetha ngaphambili, izimbo zomzimba zibaluleke kakhulu ekuphuhlisweni kolwimi. Xa umntwana wakho esenza izimbo zomzimba, mphendule. Mbandakanye kwincoko. Yenza unxibelelwano phakathi kwezimbo zomzimba zakhe namagama ahamba nazo.

Khawucinge nje ngomntwana wakho esolula isandla sakhe efrijini aze enze isandi esithi 'goooo'. Kuthetha ukuthini oko? Kufana nokuthi, 'Ndifuna into yokusela.' Emva koko ungabuza, "Ngaba umntwana wakho ufuna amanzi? Okanye ubisi?" Emva koko ungathi, "Owu, ufuna ubisi? Kulungile, masithathe ubisi." Ngale ndlela ungadibanisa izimbo zomzimba zakhe namagama.

3. Iingoma, izicengcelezo, imidlalo – ezi zizikolo zabo.

Cula iingoma, ucengceleze iingoma, kwaye udlale imidlalo nomntwana wakho omncinci. Bayayithanda imidlalo yezandla efana nokuthi "Ndineminwe emihlanu esandleni sam...". Kwakhona,

• Amalungu omzimba (Iphi indlebe? Iphi impumlo?)
• Yintoni ekwimifanekiso?
• Izinto zokudlala kunye nezinto ezilele apha
• Abantu ekhaya (Uphi umama? Uphi utata?)

Bakhuthaze ukuba babuze, bakhangele, baze babonise izinto ezinje. Buza imibuzo efana nokuthi "Ndibonise ibhola," "Iphi indlebe yakho?"

4. Iincwadi zemifanekiso ezinemibala- indlela yokungena kwihlabathi lamagama

Thenga iincwadi ezinemifanekiso emikhulu, enemibala kwaye uzifunde kunye nomntwana wakho omncinci. Bancede batyhile amaphepha encwadi ngokwabo, kuyonwabisa kakhulu kubo. Khomba imifanekiso ekwincwadi uze ubuze, "Yintoni le? Ngubani lo?" Fumana ingqalelo yabo ngokuthi, "Khangela le ndlovu inkulu!"

Sifanele siye kugqirha nini? Iindawo ekufuneka sizilumkele kancinci

Uninzi lwabantwana luyadlula kwezi zigaba zibalulekileyo zophuhliso lolwimi ngeli xesha. Nangona kunjalo, ngamanye amaxesha kunokubakho ukulibaziseka okuncinci. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba unamathandabuzo okanye imibuzo malunga noku kulandelayo, kungcono ukuthetha nogqirha.

• Nokuba sele eneenyanga ezili-15: Ukuba akazami ukuthetha igama elinye okanye amabini ngaphandle kwegama elithi "mama" nelithi "tata." Ukuba akayijongi into ayibona rhoqo (umz., ibhotile yobisi, ithoyi) xa ubiza igama layo.
• Xa uneenyanga ezili-18 (unyaka onesiqingatha): Ukuba awukathethi amagama angaphezu kwamathathu. Ukuba awuqondi kwaye awulandeli imiyalelo elula (umz., "hlala esitulweni") ngaphandle kwemiqondiso.
• Nokuba uneminyaka emi-2 ubudala: Ukuba awukwazi ukuqonda into ethile encwadini, khomba ubuncinane amalungu amabini omzimba (umz. amehlo, umlomo) xa ubuzwa, okanye uthethe amagama amabini kunye ("Ndifuna ubisi", "Baby, hamba").

Abanye abazali baxhalabile kukuba umntwana unokuba ne -autism xa eqala ukuthetha kade kancinci. Oogqirha badla ngokujonga oku rhoqo xa behlolwa, ingakumbi xa behlolwa iinyanga ezili-18 kunye neminyaka emi-2, apho benza khona uvavanyo lokuhlola i-autism . Ngoko ke, ukuba unamathandabuzo, ungoyiki ukuthetha nogqirha wakho okanye umongikazi. Baza kukunceda.

Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya

Ngeli xesha limnandi apho izakhono zokuthetha nolwimi zomntwana wakho oneminyaka eli-1 ukuya kwemi-2 ubudala ziphuhliswa, ezona zinto zibalulekileyo onokuzenza zezi:

• Yiba nomonde: Ayingabo bonke abantwana abafanayo. Abanye bathetha kwangethuba, abanye bathetha kamva kancinci. Yinto eqhelekileyo leyo.
• Thetha nomntwana wakho rhoqo: Mxelele nje ngento oyenzayo nento oyibonayo. Buza imibuzo.
• Mamela ngononophelo oko bakuthethayo: Zama ukuqonda oko bazama ukukuthetha.
• Fundani iincwadi kunye, nicule iingoma, nidlale imidlalo: ezi zizinto ezenza amazwi abo abe mahle.
• Bafundise amagama afanelekileyo ngothando: Ukuba bathetha igama ngendlela engafanelekanga, bafundise igama elichanekileyo ngothando.
• Ukuba unamathandabuzo, buza ugqirha: Thetha nogqirha ngayo nayiphi na into, nokuba yeyona incinci, ngaphandle kokuyibamba.

Uthando lwakho, inkuthazo, kunye nomonde wakho zezona zinto zibalulekileyo kuhambo oluhle lolwimi lomntwana wakho!

Uphuhliso lolwimi lwabantwana , abantwana abaneminyaka eli-1-2 ubudala, ubuchule bokuthetha, unxibelelwano, iingcebiso zobuzali, ukufunda amagama, ukuhlolwa kwe-Autism