Ingaba umntwana wakho omncinci sele eqalile ukuthetha? Akasabaleki kwaye edlala njengabanye abantwana? Okanye kukho utshintsho kwindlela yakhe yokuziphatha ongenakuyiqonda? Njengomama okanye utata, kuqhelekile ukuba uzive uxhalabile kakhulu ngezinto ezinje. Wonke umzali ufuna ukubona umntwana wakhe ekhula esempilweni, onwabile, kwaye njengabanye abantwana. Ngoko ke, namhlanje siza kuthetha ngogqirha onokubonelela ngoncedo lweengcali kwezi ngxaki, kwaye ofumene uqeqesho olukhethekileyo kwicandelo elifanayo.
Ngubani lo gqirha wezifo zabantwana ophuhlisayo-oziphetheyo?
Ngamafutshane, lo ngugqirha ogxile kwizifo zabantwana. Kodwa wenza okungaphezulu nje kokuba ngugqirha wezifo zabantwana oqhelekileyo, efunda nzulu iingxaki ezinxulumene nophuhliso lwabantwana, ukufunda, kunye nokuziphatha kwabo , aze afumane uqeqesho olukhethekileyo olongezelelweyo kuloo nto.
Khawucinge nje, xa umntwana wethu enomkhuhlane okanye umkhuhlane, siya kugqirha wabantwana. Kwakhona, ukuba ubona naluphi na ukulibaziseka kokukhula, ubunzima bokufunda, okanye iindlela zokuziphatha ezingaqhelekanga kumntwana wakho, le ngcali ikhona ukuze ifumane izisombululo, ifumane izizathu, kwaye iququzelele unyango. Bahlola uphuhliso lomntwana, izakhono zentlalo, kunye nokuziphatha kwakhe. Bakwakhangela izizathu zonyango nezengqondo ezinokuthi zichaphazele olu tshintsho kwaye bancede ekuphuhliseni isicwangciso sonyango esifanela umntwana.
Aba bantu bachithe iminyaka kwisikolo sezonyango, baba ngoogqirha, emva koko baqeqeshwa iminyaka emininzi ukuze babe ngoogqirha babantwana, baze emva koko baqeqeshwe ngakumbi kweli candelo lophuhliso nokuziphatha. Ngoko ke banolwazi oluninzi namava kwesi sifundo.
Kutheni sifuna ingcali enjalo?
Ayingabo bonke abantwana abafanayo. Izinga lokukhula komntu wonke lahlukile. Cinga ngayo, abanye abantwana abakhaseli ngexesha elifanelekileyo, kodwa baqala ukuhamba kwangethuba. Abanye bahamba kade, kodwa baqala ukuthetha kamnandi ngokukhawuleza. Umahluko omncinci njengalo uqhelekile.
Amaxesha amaninzi, abantwana abafika emva kwexesha ekufikeleleni kwimigangatho yophuhliso, nto leyo exhalabisa abazali, ekugqibeleni bakhula besempilweni kwaye bengenazo iingxaki. Nangona kunjalo, musa ukulibala naluphi na uthintelo lophuhliso olubonakalayo kuba nje kunjalo. Ukuba ucinga ukuba umntwana wakho akenzi izinto ezifanelekileyo kubudala bakhe, kubalulekile ukuthetha nogqirha wakho wezingane ngaloo nto.
Indlela yokuziphatha iyafana. Kuqhelekile ukuba umntwana oneminyaka emithathu alale phantsi, akhale, aze akhuphe umsindo. Yiyo loo nto injalo kuloo minyaka. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba umntwana oneminyaka emihlanu okanye emithandathu uqhubeka nokuziphatha ngendlela efanayo, isenokuba yinto ekufuneka iqwalaselwe.
Ingcali yophuhliso lomntwana kunye nokuziphatha ingakunceda ukwahlula phakathi kwezi nguqu ziqhelekileyo ekukhuleni nasekuziphatheni komntwana wakho kwaye ichonge ukuba zeziphi iingxaki ezinzulu ngakumbi. Banokukunceda ubone ukuba kukho ingxaki na, kwaye ukuba kuyimfuneko, uqale unyango ngokukhawuleza, ngaphandle kokukoyikisa ngokungeyomfuneko.
Zeziphi iintlobo zeemeko ezinceda ezi ngcali?
Kukho iimeko ezininzi apho kufuneka inkxaso yezi ngcali. Makhe sijonge ezinye zazo.
| Ingxaki / imeko | Ingcaciso elula |
|---|---|
| Iingxaki Zokufunda | Ubunzima ngomsebenzi wesikolo. Umzekelo, iingxaki zokufunda (i-dyslexia) , ubunzima kwizibalo, kunye nobunzima bokubhala. |
| Ukulibaziseka kophuhliso | Ukulibaziseka ekuthetheni, ekuhambeni, ekucingeni, nakwizakhono zentlalo ezifanelekileyo ngokweminyaka. |
| Ingqalelo kunye neengxaki zokuziphatha | Ingxaki yokungakwazi ukunikel’ ingqalelo (ADHD) , ukucaphuka, ixhala , ukudakumba , kunye nokuziphatha okuchaseneyo. |
| Iingxaki Zemikhwa | IiTics kunye neTourette Syndrome . |
| Iingxaki zophuhliso lwe-Neurodevelopmental | Iimeko ezifana ne -Autism Spectrum Disorder , i-Cerebral Palsy, i-Intellectual Disability, kunye ne-Hearing/Visual Impairments. |
| Iingxaki zoLawulo | Izinto ezinje ngokuchama ebhedini, iingxaki zokulala, ubunzima bokufunda indlu yangasese, kunye nokungakwazi ukuzibamba (encopresis) . |
| Iingxaki ngezinye izifo | Iingxaki zophuhliso kunye nokuziphatha ezinxulumene nezifo ezingapheliyo ezifana nesifo seswekile , i-asthma kunye nomhlaza . |
Ingaba le ngcali iphatha njani?
Lo ngumbuzo obaluleke kakhulu. Ukunyanga iingxaki zokukhula nezokuziphatha ezinje ngolu hlobo kunzima kakhulu. Akunakwenziwa ngugqirha omnye kuphela. Ngumzamo weqela . Ingcali yophuhliso nezokuziphatha yomntwana wakho iya kusebenza njengenkokeli, okanye umququzeleli , weli qela. Nguye oza kugqiba ukuba zeziphi ezinye iingcali ezifunekayo kumntwana wakho aze azithumele kubo.
Elo qela lingabandakanya abantu abafana naba:
- Iingcali zengqondo zabantwana
- Iingcali ze-Neurology zabantwana
- Iingcali zengqondo zabantwana
- Iingcali zonyango lwe-physiotherapy
- Iingcali zonyango emsebenzini
- Iingcali zePathology zeNtetho kunye noLwimi
Ingcali yakho yophuhliso lwabantwana iza kudibanisa ulwazi oluvela kuzo zonke ezi mithombo ize yenze isicwangciso sonyango esifanela umntwana wakho.
Ukongeza, baza kwenza iimvavanyo ezahlukeneyo ukuze bafumane unobangela ochanekileyo wengxaki yomntwana. Ezi zinokubandakanya ii-brain MRI scans, uvavanyo lwe-genetic, kunye nezinye iimvavanyo zegazi. Nje ukuba kuchongwe into ethile, kuya kuba luncedo olukhulu ekufumaneni umntwana iinkonzo azidingayo kunye nokuthintela iingxaki ezizayo.
Iyintoni indima yakho njengomzali?
Unoxanduva olukhulu kolu hambo. Unyango lwezi meko aluxhomekekanga kumayeza. Endaweni yoko, uqeqesho, imfundo, kunye nokuguqulwa kokuziphatha zizinto ezibalulekileyo. Ke ngoko, kuthatha ixesha ukubona iziphumo. Udinga umonde nokuzinikela .Oko ukuthethayo kuyimfuneko ngokwenene.
Khumbula, iziphumo zolu hambo ziza kancinci kancinci, ngamanyathelo amancinci. Musa ukulindela utshintsho olukhulu ngobusuku obunye.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukulandela imiyalelo kagqirha wakho ngqo, ukuba umntwana wakho athathe inxaxheba kwiiseshoni zonyango ngqo, kwaye enze umthambo onikwe wona ukuba uwenze ekhaya ngqo.
Ukuba ukhathazekile ngobunzima bokufunda okanye bokuziphatha komntwana wakho, into yokuqala omawuyenze kukuthetha nogqirha wezingane wosapho lwakho. Ukuba uziva enesidingo, uza kuthunyelwa kwingcali yophuhliso lomntwana kunye nokuziphatha. Ukuba abanyangwa, abantwana abanezi ziphene banokuba neengxaki zengqondo ezifana nokuxhalaba kunye nokungazithembi. Ke ngoko, ukufumana uncedo olufanelekileyo lwengcali ngexesha elifanelekileyo kunokumnceda kakhulu umntwana wakho.
Umyalezo Wokuya Ekhaya
- Ukuba uneengxaki malunga nokukhula okanye ukuziphatha komntwana wakho, musa ukuzityeshela. Thetha nogqirha wakho wezingane kuqala.
- Ugqirha wezifo zabantwana onamava ophuhliso lokuziphatha ngugqirha ofumene uqeqesho olukhethekileyo kwezi ngxaki.
- Unyango lwezi meko alusoloko lusekelwe kumayeza. Unyango lokuziphatha, iindlela ezahlukeneyo zonyango, uqeqesho, kunye nemfundo zezona zinto ziphambili.
- Le nkqubo yonyango ngumzamo weqela. Ugqirha wakho, iingcali zonyango, kunye nawe kufuneka sisebenzisane.
- Umonde nokuzinikela kwakho zezona zinto zinamandla amakhulu umntwana wakho aya kuba nawo kolu hambo. Awuwedwa, kukho iqela leengcali ezinobuchule ezinokukunceda.
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