Ngezinye izikhathi siba nezinkinga esingenakuzitshela muntu ngazo, kodwa ziyasikhathaza, akunjalo? Ubunzima bokwanelisa impilo yethu yocansi, okungukuthi, ukuthola kunzima ukufeza i-orgasm, kungenye yezinkinga ezinjalo. Empeleni lena inkinga abantu abaningi abanayo, kodwa yinto abazizwa benamahloni ukuyikhuluma. Ngakho-ke namuhla, ake sixoxe ngalesi simo esibizwa ngokuthi 'i-Anorgasmia' ngokuningiliziwe, njengokungathi sikhuluma nomngane.

Kuyini i-Anorgasmia?

Kalula nje, i-anorgasmia ukungakwazi ukufeza i-orgasm ngesikhathi socansi, noma ngabe kuzwakala kujabulisa futhi kukuhle. Noma, noma ngabe ufinyelela i-orgasm, ayinamandla noma ayivamile njengoba ubungathanda. Lolu uhlobo lokungasebenzi kahle kocansi . Lesi simo singathinta noma ubani, kungakhathaliseki ubulili. Abanye abantu bakubiza nangokuthi 'ukungasebenzi kahle kwe-orgasmic' . Lokhu kungabangela ukucindezeleka okukhulu nokukhathazeka, futhi ngezinye izikhathi kungathinta ubudlelwano bakho.

I-orgasm umuzwa wenjabulo enkulu, uvuthondaba locansi, olwenzeka ngemva kokukhuthazwa ngokocansi. Kungazwakala sengathi isisindo esikhulu sisusiwe emzimbeni wakho, futhi ungase uzwe ngisho nokunyakaza okungalawuleki. Ubude kanye nokuqina kwalokhu kukhuthazwa kuyahlukahluka kuye ngomuntu nomuntu. Abanye abantu badinga ukukhuthazwa ngokocansi okwengeziwe ukuze bafinyelele ekukhuthazeni ngokocansi, kanti abanye bangadinga ukukhuthazwa okuncane.

Umuntu one-anogasmia angase abe nesifiso nenjabulo yokwenza ucansi. Kodwa-ke, ukungakwazi ukufinyelela i-orgasm kungabangela ubuhlungu obukhulu nokucindezeleka. Udokotela wakho angakusiza ukuthola imbangela futhi ancome ukwelashwa okufanele.

Indlela i-Anorgasmia Ethinta Ngayo Abesifazane

I-Anorgasmia kwabesifazane, ngezinye izikhathi ebizwa ngokuthi 'isifo sokuvuthwa kwabesifazane' , ingahlukaniswa ngezinhlobo ezine eziyinhloko:

• I-anorgasmia eyinhloko noma impilo yonke: Lokhu kusho ukuthi awukaze ufike esikhathini sokuvuthwa komzimba.
• I-anorgasmia yesibili noma etholakale: Ubukwazi ukuvuthwa ngokugcwele, kodwa manje awukwazi. Lokhu kuvame kakhulu uma unqamuka kokuya esikhathini.
• I-Situational anorgasmia: Ungavukwa yimizwa kuphela uma kunezimo ezithile, njengokushaya indlwabu.
• I-anorgasmia evamile: Awusoze wafinyelela i-orgasm, noma ngabe uzizwa uvukile futhi uvukile ngokocansi.

Nakuba ingozi yokungazali ikhula ngokuguga, ingathinta noma ubani wanoma yimuphi ubudala. Kubikwa ukuthi cishe u-15% wabesifazane abakaze bakhiphe isisu .

Indlela i-Anorgasmia Ethinta Ngayo Amadoda

Uma bekhuluma nge-anorgasmia yabesilisa, odokotela bavame ukuyibiza njengengxenye yokungasebenzi kahle kocansi okwaziwa ngokuthi 'i-delayed ejaculation' noma 'i-inhibited ejaculation' . Lokhu kungabangela izinkinga ngokusebenza kocansi kanye nenjabulo, futhi ngokuvamile kungaholela ekukhathazekeni nasekugwemeni ucansi. Kunezinhlobo ezimbili eziyinhloko ze-anorgasmia yabesilisa:

• I-anorgasmia eyinhloko: Awukaze ube ne-orgasm noma ukhiphe isidoda isikhathi eside ngangokunokwenzeka.
• I-anorgasmia yesibili: Ungakwazi uku-orgasm noma ukukhipha isidoda kuphela ngaphansi kwezimo ezithile.

Ukukhipha isidoda kuyinqubo eyinkimbinkimbi ehilela ama-hormone , izinzwa , izitho zomzimba, kanye nesimo sakho sengqondo. Noma yikuphi ukuphazamiseka kule nqubo kungathinta ikhono lakho lokufinyelela isidoda esiphelele. Futhi, ezinye izimo zezokwelapha zingathinta ikhono lakho lokufinyelela isidoda esiphelele.

Ubani othinteka kakhulu yilesi simo?

I-Anorgasmia ingathinta noma ubani, kodwa ivame kakhulu kwabesifazane, ikakhulukazi ngemva kokunqamuka kokuya esikhathini .

Ziyini izimpawu ze-Anorgasmia?

Uphawu oluyinhloko lwe-anorgasmia ukungakwazi ukufinyelela esicongweni socansi, okungukuthi, i-orgasm. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kungabhekwa njengesikhathi eside ukufinyelela i-orgasm (i-orgasm ebambezelekile), noma ukuntuleka kokwaneliseka kusukela esicongweni socansi.

Ziyini izimbangela ze-anorgasmia?

Kunezizathu eziningi ezenza kube nzima ukukhulelwa. Lezi zizathu zingaba ngokomzimba , ngokwengqondo , ngokomzwelo, noma ngokwezokwelapha (okungukuthi, ngenxa yesifo noma isimo). Ngokuvamile, akuyona enye yezizathu ezenza kube nzima ukukhulelwa. Ngezinye izikhathi kunzima ukuthola imbangela eqondile.

Izizathu zezokwelapha nezomzimba

• Ubudala: Ikakhulukazi kwabesifazane abadlula esikhathini sokunqamuka kokuya esikhathini.
• Izimo ezithile zezokwelapha: Isibonelo , izifo ezifana ne-Multiple Sclerosis (MS) .
• Imithi: Ikakhulukazi imithi esesigabeni se- 'Selective Serotonin Reuptake Inhibitors' (SSRIs) .
• Ukuhlinzwa okwenziwa ezithweni zangasese noma ezizungezile ezihlobene nesimiso sokuzala.
• Izinkinga ezibangelwa umdlavuza noma ukwelashwa ngemisebe.
• Ukungasebenzi kahle kwephansi le-pelvic noma ukulimala kwe-pelvic.
• Ukuba umlutha kakhulu wokushaya indlwabu (okusho ukuthi, ukuthola kunzima ukuthola injabulo kwezinye izindlela ngenxa yenjabulo enkulu ekunikezayo).
• Izimo zama-hormone.
• Izinkinga zokuzalwa: Lezi yizimo zesitho sangasese sowesifazane noma sepenis eziba khona lapho kuzalwa.

Izizathu zengqondo nezingokomzwelo

• Ukucindezeleka, ukucindezeleka, noma ukukhathazeka.
• Ukuhlaselwa ngokocansi noma ukuhlaselwa ngaphambilini.
• Amathonya amasiko noma enkolo.
• Amahloni noma ukungakwazi ukuveza imizwa yakho ngocansi.
• Ukungazethembi.
• Izinkinga ngobuhlobo bakho, ukwethembana, noma ukusondelana nomlingani wakho.

Ingabe i-testosterone ephansi iyimbangela ye-anorgasmia?

Yebo, amazinga aphansi e-testosterone kwabesilisa angathinta ikhono labo lokufinyelela ekufikeni kobulili obuphelele. Lokhu kuvame ukuhlotshaniswa nezinkinga ezifana nokungasebenzi kahle kwe-erectile kanye nokuphuma kwe-ejaculation okuphuzile. Futhi, amanye ama-hormone, njenge- prolactin, angathinta ukusebenza kocansi kwabesilisa abane-penis.

Ingabe imithi ye-SSRI ibangela i-anorgasmia?

Yebo, imithi eminingi ye -SSRI (Selective Serotonin Reuptake Inhibitors) evame ukusetshenziswa ukwelapha izimo ezifana nokucindezeleka noma ukukhathazeka ingathinta ukusebenza kocansi. Uma uthatha omunye wale mithi, khuluma nodokotela wakho ngezimpawu zakho bese uxoxa ngemithi ehlukile. Amanye ama-SSRI awavamile ukubangela i-anorgasmia, futhi kunezinye izinhlobo zemithi yokucindezeleka engasiza.

Eminye imithi engathinta i-amulet

Ngaphezu kwama-SSRI, kuneminye imithi engathinta ikhono lakho lokukhulelwa. Ezinye izibonelo zifaka:

• Ama-antidepressant e-Tricyclic (ama-TCA)
• Izithibi ze-Monoamine oxidase (MAOIs)
• Imithi yokulwa nesifo sengqondo
• Imithi yokulwa nokuhlanya

Eminye imithi esetshenziswa ukwelapha umfutho wegazi ophakeme ingabangela nokungasebenzi kahle kwenduku yokuchama . Futhi, eminye imithi yokubulala amagciwane kanye nemithi yokukhulula ukuminyana kwenduku ingabangela ukungasebenzi kahle kwenduku yokuchama.Ezinye izinhlobo zingabangela ukungasebenzi kahle kwepenisi noma izinkinga zokukhipha isidoda.

Itholakala kanjani i-Anorgasmia?

Udokotela wakho angaxilonga i-anorgasmia ngokusekelwe engxoxweni mayelana nezimpawu zakho kanye nempilo yakho yocansi. Le ngxoxo ingakunikeza ulwazi olubalulekile mayelana nezimbangela eziyisisekelo zokungasebenzi kahle kocansi. Bangase futhi bacele ukuhlolwa kwe-ultrasound noma ukuhlolwa kwegazi ukuze bahlole izimo zamahomoni noma zezokwelapha eziyisisekelo. Uma kukhona ukukhathazeka mayelana nokuzwela kwepenisi, udokotela wakho angaphakamisa nokuthi kuhlolwe.

Uma imbangela eyisisekelo isitholakele, kunezindlela ezahlukene zokwelapha i-anorgasmia. Udokotela wakho angakudlulisela kuchwepheshe wezinkinga ze-orgasmic, njengodokotela wezifo zabesifazane noma udokotela we-urologist . Bangakusiza ukuthi wakhe uhlelo lokwelashwa olufanele wena.

Iphathwa kanjani i-Anorgasmia?

Ukwelashwa kuncike embangela eyinhloko. Akukho ukwelashwa okulingana konke , futhi ukwelashwa kungahilela inhlanganisela yezindlela ezahlukene. Ezinye zezindlela zokwelapha i-anogasmia zifaka:

• Ukushintsha izinhlobo zemithi oyithathayo.
• Ukwelapha noma yiziphi izinkinga zempilo eziyisisekelo.
• Ukufunda amasu okushaya indlwabu.
• Ukufuna ukwelulekwa noma ukwelashwa kwengqondo ukuze kuxazululwe izinkinga zobudlelwano, izimo zempilo yengqondo, noma ukuhlukumezeka ngokocansi kwesikhathi esidlule.
• Ukufuna ukwelashwa ngocansi ngezinkinga eziyisisekelo eziphazamisa isifiso socansi noma ukuvuthwa kobulili.
• Ukusebenzisa ukwelashwa ngama-hormone ukwandisa ukugeleza kwegazi nokwandisa ukuzwela.
• Ukwethula izinto ezintsha ezishukumisayo ebudlelwaneni: Isibonelo, izindlela ezintsha, amathoyizi ocansi kanye nemishini, noma imithombo yezokuxhumana evusa inkanuko.

Kuthatha isikhathi esingakanani ukululama ekuguleni okungalawuleki?

Kuncike futhi esibangeleni. Isibonelo, uma welashwa ngocansi noma welulekwa ngabashadile, kungathatha izinyanga eziningana ukubuyela esimweni lapho ungaphinde ulale khona. Uma ucabanga ukuthi imithi iyimbangela, udinga ukunikeza imithi isikhathi sokuphela (mhlawumbe amasonto). Kodwa izindaba ezinhle ukuthi abantu abaningi bangaphindela ocansini ngokwelashwa okufanele.

Ingabe i-Anorgasmia ingavinjelwa?

I-anogasmia ayinakuvinjelwa ngokuphelele. Kodwa-ke, ukubhekana nezici ezibangela lesi simo (ukungasebenzi kahle kwe-orgasmic) kungakusiza ukuthi ubhekane nenkinga. Nazi ezinye izincomo ezijwayelekile ezingasiza:

• Uma unesifo esithile, landela uhlelo lokwelashwa lukadokotela wakho ngqo.
• Khuluma ngokukhululekile nangokwethembeka nomlingani wakho ngempilo yakho yocansi.
• Uma unezinkinga ezingokomzwelo noma zengqondo, funa ukwelashwa kwazo.
• Vivinya umzimba njalo futhi udle ukudla okunempilo.

Kuvamile ukuthi abantu abanalesi simo bazizwe benamahloni, besaba, futhi bedumele. Uma uzizwa ngendlela efanayo, khuluma nodokotela wakho. Angakusiza uqonde ukuthi lokhu akuyona inkinga engavamile noma into okufanele ube namahloni ngayo. Angakusiza futhi ukuthola ochwepheshe noma ezinye izinsiza ezinokuqeqeshwa okukhethekile kanye nolwazi ekwelapheni ukungasebenzi kahle kocansi nezinkinga ezihlobene nakho.

Kwenzekani uma ngine-anorgasmia?

I-anogasmia ingaba yisimo esicasulayo nesicindezelayo. Ingathinta ukusondelana kwakho nomlingani wakho kanye nokuzethemba kwakho. Kodwa khumbula, akunakwenzeka ukuthi uzokwazi ukuxazulula inkinga ngaphandle kosizo noma isiqondiso esifanele sezokwelapha. Udokotela wakho angakusiza nge-anogasmia ukuze ube nokuphila kocansi okwanelisayo.

Kufanele ngimbone nini udokotela?

Uma unenkinga mayelana nekhono lakho lokuthola ukuqina kocansi, khuluma nodokotela wakho ngakho. Angakusiza ukuthi uthole ukuthi kungani unenkinga yokuthola ukuqina kocansi futhi uthole ikhambi lenkinga yakho. Vula futhi uthembeke kudokotela wakho mayelana nomlando wakho wezocansi nowezokwelapha, kanye nobuhlobo bakho nomlingani wakho. Ungesabi noma ube namahloni okufuna ukwelashwa. Kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yokufinyelela emsukeni wenkinga futhi ube nokuphila kocansi okujabulisayo.

Ukungakwazi ukuvuthwa kungaba yinto ekhungathekisayo nekhungathekisayo. Awuwedwa – abantu abaningi bafuna ukwelashwa kokungasebenzi kahle kwe-orgasm. Akuyona into okufanele ube namahloni ngayo. Udokotela wakho angakusiza ukuthi uthole ukuthi kungani ubhekene nalolu bunzima futhi akhulume nawe ngezixazululo ezingaba khona. Kungase kudingeke ukhulume nomeluleki noma uchwepheshe wezocansi, noma kungase kudingeke ushintshe imithi yakho. Ngokwelashwa okufanele, ungajabulela zonke izinzuzo zomzimba nezingokomzwelo zocansi ngaphandle kokukhathazeka nge-orgasm.

Okokugcina, izinto ezimbalwa okufanele uzikhumbule

Kulungile, manje sesikuqonda kangcono lokho ebesikhuluma ngakho, i-Anorgasmia. Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuqonda ukuthi lokhu akuyona nje inkinga kuwe. Isinyathelo sokuqala ukubeka eceleni amahloni akho bese ukhuluma nodokotela ngakho. Khumbula:

• I-Anorgasmia yisimo esingelapheka. Uma imbangela itholakala futhi yelashwa kahle, abantu abaningi bangalulama.
• Lokhu kungabangelwa yizici zomzimba nezengqondo, ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuphendula imibuzo udokotela wakho akubuza yona ngokwethembeka.
• Ukukhuluma ngokukhululekile ngalokhu nomlingani wakho kubaluleke kakhulu ebudlelwaneni benu. Inkinga izoncishiswa uma nobabili nisebenzisana ukuthola izixazululo.
• Ungalokothi uhlupheke wedwa. Cela usizo, ngoba bakhona abantu abangakusiza.

Impilo yakho yocansi iyingxenye ebalulekile yenhlalakahle yakho iyonke, ngakho-ke yinakekele futhi ungalokothi unqikaze ukuthola usizo uma uludinga!

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