Ngezinye izikhathi othile usitshela ukuthi, "Phuma nje uyozivocavoca, konke kuzolunga." Lokho kungaba iseluleko esihle. Kodwa uqala kanjani ukuzivocavoca uma ungenawo amandla okuvuka embhedeni ekuseni futhi ungafuni ngisho nokugeza umzimba wakho? Lowo ngumbuzo omkhulu.
Uma ucindezelekile kakhulu, okungukuthi, ukucindezeleka, kunzima ukuthola amandla okwenza noma yini. Ikakhulukazi izinto ezifana nokuzivocavoca umzimba, ukuhlangana kabusha nabangani nomndeni, nokudla kahle. Ngezinye izikhathi ngisho nokuthatha imithi udokotela wakho akunike yona kungazwakala njengomsebenzi onzima.
Kodwa ukuphula lo mjikelezo omubi wokucindezeleka kuyindlela kuphela yokulawula impilo yakho futhi. Ngakho-ke, ake sixoxe ngalokho ongakwenza ukulawula lesi simo.
Ingabe lokhu ukucindezeleka ngempela? (Ingabe Ukucindezeleka?)
Ukuqaphela ukuthi unesifo sokucindezeleka kuyisinyathelo sokuqala sokuba ngcono. Wonke umuntu uzizwa edabukile futhi ekhathazekile ngezikhathi ezithile. Kujwayelekile. Kodwa-ke, lesi simo sokucindezeleka sihlala izinsuku noma amasonto. Futhi singathinta kakhulu ikhono lakho lokwenza imisebenzi yakho yansuku zonke nokubhekana nezinkinga zempilo.
Cabanga nje, ukuthi wawukuthanda kangakanani ukudlala ikhilikithi nabangani bakho, ukubukela i-movie, noma ukuya ohambweni olufushane. Kodwa manje awusafuni ukwenza noma yiziphi zalezo zinto. Usukhathele yizo zonke izinto. Yilowo muzwa owutholayo uma ukhathele.
Bheka ukuze ubone ukuthi unazo yini izici ezikuthebula elingezansi.
| Isibonakaliso | Incazelo elula |
|---|---|
| Ukuzihlukanisa emphakathini | Ukuzama ukuba wedwa, kude nomndeni nabangane. |
| Ukuzizwa uphoxekile | Imizwa efana nokuthi "akukho okungahambi kahle", "impilo yami isiphelile". |
| Ukudinwa yimpilo | Imicabango evamile ngokulahlekelwa impilo noma ukufa komuntu. |
| Ukukhathala komzimba | Ukuzizwa ungenamandla okwenza noma yini, ukhathele njalo. |
| Angizizwa ngijabule | Angisayitholi injabulo ezintweni ezazikulethela injabulo (isib. ukulalela ingoma, ukubuka i-movie). |
| Izinguquko zokulala | Ukulala ngaso sonke isikhathi noma ukungalali nhlobo. |
| Izinguquko ekudleni | Ukulahlekelwa yisifiso sokudla noma ukudla ngokweqile. |
| Intukuthelo evame ukwenzeka | Ukuthukuthela ngokushesha ngezinto ezincane, uzizwe ukhathazekile. |
Into ebalulekile ukuthi, uma unalezi zimpawu, akulona iphutha lakho noma ubuthakathaka. Lesi yisimo esingelapheka.
Kunini lapho kudingeka khona imithi yokucindezeleka?
Uma uzizwa ucindezelekile kangangokuthi awukwazi ngisho nokuvuka embhedeni, ukugeza umzimba wakho, noma ukwenza noma yimiphi imisebenzi yasekhaya, futhi ngisho nokuphuma endlini kuzwakala sengathi ukhuphuka intaba enkulu, khona-ke ukusebenzisa imithi kuyinto engcono kakhulu ongayenza .
Imithi yokucindezeleka ingakusiza ukunciphisa amazinga akho okucindezeleka, ikusize ugxile emisebenzini yakho yansuku zonke, futhi ikusize uhlanganyele ezintweni ezifana nokwelashwa. Ngamanye amazwi, ingakusiza ukuthi uphume kulowo mjikelezo omubi.
Le mithi iyasiza futhi ekuvimbeleni imicabango emibi ukuthi ingangeni ekhanda lakho ("Lokhu ngeke kube ngcono", "Ngizohlala nginje"). Kunzima kakhulu ukuphuma kulesi simo uma nje leyo micabango ikhona. Uma izinto ezifana 'nezingcindezi zengqondo' empilweni yakho zibangela lokhu, kuyasiza kakhulu ukuthola iseluleko kanye nemithi.
Khumbula lezi zinto uma usebenzisa imithi:
- Ukubekezela kubalulekile:Eminye imithi yokucindezeleka iqala ngomthamo ophansi. Bheka ukuthi uhlangabezana nanoma yimiphi imiphumela emibi. Ngemva kwesonto noma amabili, uma kudingeka, umthamo ungandiswa kancane kancane. Le mithi ayisebenzi ubusuku bonke. Eminye ithatha isikhathi ukusebenza. Ngokuvamile kuthatha cishe amasonto ayisithupha ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukuzwa noma yimiphi imiphumela. Ngakho-ke yiba nesineke futhi uhlale uxhumana nodokotela wakho.
- Kunezinketho: Odokotela namuhla banezinhlobo eziningi zemithi yokucindezeleka abangakhetha kuzo. Uma eyodwa ingasebenzi, bangashintsha umthamo, bashintshele komunye umuthi, noma bangeze omunye umuthi.
- Ukukhetha umuthi: Ukukhetha umuthi kusekelwe ezimpawini zakho eziyinhloko kanye nemiphumela emibi engaba khona. Isibonelo, eminye imithi yokucindezeleka ingabangela ukozela. Ngakho-ke, umuntu onenkinga yokulala ebusuku angazuza emuthini onjalo.
Okubaluleke kakhulu: Uma uphuza imithi yokucindezeleka, khuluma nodokotela wakho njalo, ikakhulukazi lapho uqala imithi emisha noma wenza noma yiziphi izinguquko. Ngaleyo ndlela, angakwazi ukulawula ngokushesha noma yimiphi imiphumela emibi evelayo.
Indlela yokubhekana nalesi simo ngokushintsha indlela yokuphila
Kanye nemithi kanye nokwelulekwa, izinguquko ezincane endleleni yakho yokuphila zingakusiza futhi ukunqoba lesi simo. Ukuzivocavoca nsuku zonke, ukudla ukudla okunempilo, kanye nokuxhumana nabangani nomndeni kubalulekile.
Yiqiniso, lezi zinto kulula ukuzisho kunokwenza uma ucindezelekile, kodwa aziyona into engenakwenzeka.
"Yenza sengathi awucindezelekile, futhi ezinsukwini ezimbalwa uzoqala ukuzizwa kahle kakhulu."
Lokhu akusho ukwenza sengathi akukho nkinga. Kunalokho, kusho ukuthatha isinyathelo ulindele ukululama.
Singaqala ngesimiso esincane?
Okumele ukwenze nje ukwenza isimiso esincane.
- Isikhathi sokuvuka ekuseni
- Isikhathi sokugeza
- Izikhathi zokudla
- Isikhathi esincane sokuzivocavoca (cishe imizuzu eyi-15)
- Isikhathi sokulala ebusuku.
Zama ukusebenza ngokwale shejuli. Kungase kube nzima ekuqaleni, kodwa ngemva kwesikhathi kuzoba umkhuba. Khona-ke uzozwa ukuthi izinto zizoba lula kancane kancane, futhi uzoqala ukuzizwa ujabule njengakuqala.
Imikhuba enempilo efana nale ingasiza ekuvimbeleni lesi simo ukuthi singaphinde senzeke esikhathini esizayo. Abantu abavame ukuba nokucindezeleka bangabuyela kule ndawo emnyama ngenxa yezinkinga ezihambisana nokuphila.
Asikwazi ukushintsha izakhi zofuzo zethu, kodwa singashintsha indawo esikuyo ukuze sivimbele lokhu ukuthi kungenzeki futhi. Indlela engcono kakhulu yokwenza lokho ukwakha ukuqina kwakho. Lokho kusho ukuthi, ungazihlukanisi. Hlala uxhumene nabangani nomndeni. Lokho kuxhumana nabantu kuyisivikelo esizokuvikela ezinkingeni zesikhathi esizayo.
Umlayezo Wokuya Nawe Ekhaya
- Ukucindezeleka akusona ubuthakathaka, kuyisifo esingelapheka.
- Ukubona nokwamukela izimpawu zakho kuyisinyathelo sokuqala sokululama.
- Ungabi namahloni noma wesabe, bona udokotela omethembayo noma udokotela bese ucela iseluleko.
- Imithi yokwelapha ukucindezeleka kanye nokwelashwa kuyindlela ephumelela kakhulu yokwelapha lokhu.
- Nika umuthi isikhathi sokusebenza. Yiba nesineke futhi ulandele imiyalelo kadokotela wakho.
- Izinguquko ezincane zendlela yokuphila (ukusebenza ngesimiso, ukuzivocavoca kancane) zingenza umehluko omkhulu.
- Ungalokothi uhlupheke wedwa. Hlala uxhumene nabathandekayo bakho. Bangamandla akho amakhulu.
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