Ingabe ingane yakho encane ikhala njalo? Ake sixoxe 'ngokukhala okunsomi'!

Njengomama noma ubaba, ngezinye izikhathi ungase uzibuze, "Kungani ingane yami ikhala kangaka? Ingabe kukhona engikwenzayo okungalungile?" Kuvamile ukuthi izingane zikhale. Kodwa kunezingane ezikhala amahora amaningi ngaphandle kwesizathu, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uzishukumisa kangakanani. Wake waba nesipiliyoni esinjalo? Kuyakhathaza ngempela, akunjalo? Sikhuluma ngesimo esinjalo namuhla.

Kuyini lokhu 'Ukukhala Okunsomi'?

Kalula nje, 'Ukukhala Okunsomi' kuyisigaba sokukhula komntwana wakho. Phakathi nalesi sikhathi, umntwana wakho angakhala ngaphandle kwesizathu esibonakalayo futhi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uzama kangakanani, angakhala njalo. Ngezinye izikhathi angaze akhale kakhulu. Lokhu kuyinto ekhungathekisayo nekhathazayo kubazali. Ngiyaqonda ukukhungatheka nokungabi namandla okusiza okuhambisana nokungakwazi ukududuza umntwana wakho.

Kodwa khumbula, zonke izingane zidlula kulesi sigaba . Ezinye izingane zingase zikhale kakhulu, ezinye zingakhali kakhulu. Kodwa-ke, lokhu kuyingxenye evamile nenempilo yokukhula kwazo zonke izingane ezincane. Into ebalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi kungani kwenzeka, ukuthi yini ongayenza ngakho, futhi ikakhulukazi ukuthi lesi sigaba 'sokukhala okunsomi' sizophela ekugcineni.

Iqala nini 'ukukhala okunsomi'? Sekuyisikhathi esingakanani iqhubeka?

Ngokuvamile, lokhu 'kukhala okunsomi' kuqala lapho umntwana esenamasonto amabili ubudala. Lokho kusho ukuthi, lesi simo singaqala ezinsukwini ezimbalwa ngemva kokuzalwa komntwana. Khona-ke, lapho umntwana esenezinyanga ezintathu kuya kwezinhlanu ubudala, ukuqina kwalokhu kukhala cishe kuzoncipha futhi kuphele. Ngakho-ke duduzeka ngokuthi lokhu akuyona into ezoba lapho phakade. Kungokwesikhashana.

Kusho ukuthini ukuthi 'Ukukhala Okunsomi'? Zisho ukuthini lezo zinhlamvu ezinsomi?

Manje ungase uzibuze ukuthi igama elithi 'Ukukhala Okunsomi' lisho ukuthi ingane izophenduka ibe nsomi. Kulungile, akunjalo. Igama elithi 'OKUNSOMI' lakhiwa ngokuhlanganisa izinhlamvu zokuqala zamagama amaningana esiNgisi. Lena yindlela odokotela nabasebenzi bezempilo abachaza ngayo ezinye zezimpawu ezingabonakala kulesi sigaba sokukhula komntwana. Ake sibone ukuthi ziyini?

• P - Isiqongo Sokukhala: Lokhu kubhekisela esikhathini lapho ukukhala komntwana kukhula kancane kancane futhi kufinyelela esicongweni sako. Lokhu kukhala kuvame ukuqeda cishe izinyanga ezimbili ubudala. Ngemva kwalokho, kuncipha kancane kancane. Kufana nokukhuphuka intaba, ufike esicongweni bese wehla futhi.
• U - Okungalindelekile: Lokhu kukhala kwenzeka ngesikhathi esingalindelekile. Ingane ingaqala ukukhala ngokuzumayo ngaphandle kwesizathu esibonakalayo. Ngezinye izikhathi, ingane ingaqala ukukhala ngokuzumayo ngemva kokuhleka kahle. Ingase futhi iphele ngokuzumayo.
• R - Iyamelana Nokududuza (Kunzima ukuyeka noma ngabe uzama ukuyeka):Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uzama kangakanani ukuthulisa ingane yakho – kungakhathaliseki ukuthi iyancelisa, iyashintsha amanabukeni, iyayibamba, iyayishaya kancane – ngezinye izikhathi kunzima ukuyivimba ukuthi ingakhali. Iqhubeka ikhala. Ungase ucabange, "O, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ngenzani, akusebenzi." Kunzima ukukukholwa. Kodwa akulona iphutha lakho.
• P - Ubuso Obufana Nobuhlungu: Cishe akubekezeleleki ukubuka umntwana ekhala. Ubuso bomntwana bubomvu futhi bugobile, njengokungathi usezinhlungwini ezinkulu noma osizini. Kodwa kungenzeka ukuthi empeleni akabuzwa ubuhlungu. Lolu uhlobo lokukhala olunjalo.
• L - Okuhlala Isikhathi Eside (amahora ngesikhathi): Lokhu kukhala kungahlala amahora amaningi ngesikhathi. Ezinye izingane zikhala amahora ama-5 noma ngaphezulu ngosuku. Kuyakhathaza ngempela ukulalela lokhu, akunjalo?
• E - Kusihlwa (Okuvame kakhulu kusihlwa/ebusuku): Lokhu kukhala okukhulu kuvame ukwenzeka kusihlwa noma ebusuku. Kubi kakhulu ebusuku kunasemini. Yingakho abanye abantu bekubiza ngokuthi 'ihora lokuthakatha'.

Ingabe 'ukukhala okunsomi' kanye 'ne-colic' kuyafana?

Abanye abantu babiza lesi simo ngokuthi 'i-colic'. Abanye, njengoba ngishilo ngaphambili, basibiza ngokuthi 'umzuzu womlingo.' Empeleni, wonke la magama asho into efanayo.

Odokotela bezingane abaningi bathanda ukubiza lesi sigaba sokukhula ngokuthi "Isikhathi Sokukhala Okunsomi®." Ngoba izinhlamvu ezithi 'OKUNSOMI' zichaza ukuthi yini ongayilindela enganeni yakho phakathi nalesi sikhathi. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, igama elithi 'Isikhathi' ekuqaleni lisikhumbuza ukuthi lokhu kukhala - noma kungase kuzwakale sengathi ngeke kuphele - kunesiqalo nesiphetho . Ingane yakho izodlula kulesi sigaba nakanjani.

Abanye ochwepheshe abathandi ngisho nokusebenzisa igama elithi 'colic' ngoba lizwakala njengesifo. Akukho lutho olungalungile ngengane enesifo 'colic'. Uma ingane yakho ikhula kahle futhi iphilile, kodwa ikhala ngokungalawuleki njalo kusihlwa, kungenzeka ukuthi idlula esigabeni 'sokukhala okunsomi'.

Ubani owaqamba igama elithi "Isikhathi Sokukhala Okunsomi"?

Igama elithi "Isikhathi Sokukhala Okubomvu" laqanjwa okokuqala nguDkt. Ronald G. Barr, uchwepheshe ekukhuleni kwezinsana kanye nokukhala kwezinsana. Yena, ngokubambisana neNational Center on Shaken Baby Syndrome (NCSBS) e-United States, wethule uhlelo lwezemfundo lwe-"Purple Crying". Umgomo walo oyinhloko ukuvimbela i-shaken baby syndrome, ukulimala kwekhanda okuhlukumezayo, kanye nezinye izinhlobo zokuhlukunyezwa kwezingane.

Yini ongayenza ukuze uthobe ingane yakho ngesikhathi 'sokukhala okunsomi'?

Manje cishe uzibuza ukuthi yini ongayenza ukuze ingane yakho ibambe. Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukwazi ukuthi ukubambelela akusebenzi ngaso sonke isikhathi.Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi wenzani, kuzoba nezikhathi lapho ingane yakho izoqhubeka nokukhala. Lokho kujwayelekile. Akukwenzi umama noma ubaba omubi.

Kodwa, ungazama lezi zinto:

• Hlola izidingo eziyisisekelo zomntwana: Ingabe umntwana ulambile? Ingabe inabukeni limanzi? Ingabe lishisa kakhulu noma libanda? Ingabe liyalala? Hlola lezi zinto kuqala.
• Bamba ingane yakho eduze kwakho ukuze ixhumane nesikhumba: Ukufudumala kwesikhumba sakho nomsindo wokushaya kwenhliziyo yakho kungayiduduza ingane yakho.
• Hamba uyohambahamba: Hamba nomntwana wakho uyohambahamba endlini noma egcekeni. Ezinye izingane ziyathanda ukunyakaza.
• Hlabelela ingane yakho ingoma noma ukhulumele phansi: Izwi lakho lingasiza ukuzola ingane yakho.
• Geza ingane yakho ngamanzi afudumele: Ezinye izingane ziyawathanda amanzi afudumele, njengoba ebathulisa.
• Sebenzisa umsindo omhlophe: Ezinye izingane zithola imisindo elula, njengomsindo wefeni noma umsindo wemvula, iduduza.

Kuthiwani uma ingane ingayeki ukukhala kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ngizama kangakanani?

Uma usukwenzile konke lokhu futhi ingane yakho iqhubeka nokukhala, into engcono kakhulu ongayenza ukuqhela ingane yakho imizuzu embalwa. Beka ingane yakho endaweni ephephile (njengebhedi) bese uphefumula ngokujulile. Yehlisa umoya.

Kuvamile ukuzizwa ukhungathekile, ungenalusizo, futhi uthukuthele lapho ingane yakho ikhala ingayeki. Kodwa futhi udinga ukucabanga ngempilo yakho yengqondo. Uma uzizwa sengathi uthukuthela kakhulu noma ucasukile kangangokuthi awukwazi ukulawula, qaphela kakhulu ngaleso sikhathi. Akukho okubi ngokuthatha ikhefu isikhashana, kungokwemvelo. Uma uzizwa kanjalo, beka ingane yakho ngokuphephile embhedeni noma embhedeni wayo, bese uphuma isikhashana. Iya kwelinye igumbi. Phefumula kakhulu. Phuza amanzi uma udinga. Zinike isikhathi esincane sokuthula. Lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu. Uma kungenzeka, cela umngane noma ilungu lomndeni olethembayo usizo nokusekelwa. Bacele ukuthi banakekele ingane yakho isikhashana.

Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uthukuthele noma ucasukile kangakanani, ungalokothi, uthuthumele ingane. Ukwenza kanjalo kungabangela ukuphuma kwegazi, ukushayeka, nokuvuvukala ngaphakathi kobuchopho bomntwana. Lokhu kubizwa ngokuthi 'i-Shaken Baby Syndrome'. Lesi yisimo esiyingozi kakhulu. Singabangela ukulimala kobuchopho, ukukhubazeka okungapheli, ngisho nokufa. Esikhathini esiningi, 'i-Shaken Baby Syndrome' ibangelwa abazali noma abanakekeli bethuthumela ingane yabo ngokungazi ngoba bekhungathekile lapho ingane yabo iqhubeka nokukhala.

Ukuqonda 'Isikhathi Sokukhala Okubomvu' kungasiza abanakekeli ukuba babhekane nalesi sigaba sokukhula. Kuphinde kubakhumbuze ukuthi kungokwesikhashana. Imfundo 'Yokukhala Okubomvu' igcizelela ukunciphisa ingozi yokuhlukunyezwa kwezingane, njenge-'Shaken Baby Syndrome'.

Kufanele ngimbone nini udokotela wezingane wengane yami?

Yazi kahle impilo yengane yakho,Qiniseka ukuthi uya ekuvakasheni kwezempilo kwezingane okuvamile njengoba kuyalelwe udokotela wakho wezingane. Iya kulezi zivivinyo ngesikhathi kusukela ngosuku ingane yakho ezalwa ngalo. Udokotela wakho uzokutshela ukuthi kufanele uze kangaki ukuze uthole lezi zivivinyo.

Manje sesiyazi ukuthi kuyinto evamile ukuthi izingane zikhale ngokungalawuleki phakathi kwamasonto amabili nezinyanga ezinhlanu. Kodwa-ke, uma ingane yakho inezinye zalezi zimpawu ezengeziwe , kufanele ubonane nodokotela wezingane ngokushesha:

• Uma unomkhuhlane ongu-100.4 Fahrenheit (38 Celsius) noma ngaphezulu.
• Uma ingane yakho ikhala kakhulu (njengokungathi isezinhlungwini) uma uyibamba, uyiphakamisa, noma uyishukumisa.
• Uma uhlanza (ikakhulukazi ukuhlanza njalo).
• Uma wenqaba ukudla noma ukuphuza isikhathi esingaphezu kwamahora ayisishiyagalombili (uma ungaphuzi ubisi).
• Uma kukhona ukuvuvukala noma kuphi emzimbeni.
• Uma ukubukeka noma ukuziphatha komntwana kuhlukile kunokujwayelekile (njengokulala okungajwayelekile, ukungabi nandaba).
• Uma ungakhuli kahle noma unganciphisi isisindo.
• Uma kukhona ushintsho esitulweni somntwana (isib. umbala, ukuqina koketshezi, ukubukeka njengegazi).

Uma ingane yakho iphilile futhi ikhula njengoba kulindelekile, cishe akukho okufanele ukhathazeke ngakho uma ikhala njalo. Kodwa-ke, uma unenkinga noma ukukhathazeka, khuluma nodokotela wakho njalo. Ungacabangi nje ukuthi, "Angazi ukuthi lokhu kumane kuyiphutha." Kungcono ukubuza udokotela wakho.

Ukuba ngumzali akulula. Kungenye yezinto ezinzima nezinhle kakhulu emhlabeni. Uma ingane yakho ikhala ingayeki, ungase uzibuze, ‘Ingabe kukhona engikwenzayo okungalungile?’ Kodwa khumbula, lesi ‘Sikhathi Sokukhala Okunsomi’ sivamile – futhi ekugcineni sizophela . Uma unemibuzo noma ukukhathazeka mayelana nokuziphatha kwengane yakho, khuluma nodokotela wezingane. Bangakunikeza izinsiza kanye nezeluleko zokukusiza ukuthi udlule kulesi sigaba sokukhula. Awuwedwa!

Yiziphi izinto ezibaluleke kakhulu esifuna ukuzithatha ekhaya kule ndaba?

Kulungile, ake siphinde sixoxe ngezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu okudingeka uzikhumbule kulokho esikhulume ngakho:

• 'Ukukhala Okunsomi' kuyisigaba esivamile nesinempilo sokukhula komntwana. Akusona isifo.
• Lokhu kungokwesikhashana futhi cishe kuzophela lapho umntwana esenezinyanga ezingu-3-5 ubudala.
• Uhlamvu 'OLUPHORO' luchaza uhlobo lwalokhu kukhala (isikhathi esiphezulu, kufika ngezikhathi ezingalindelekile, kunzima ukulawula, ukukhala sengathi usezinhlungwini, ukukhala okuqhubekayo, ukwanda kusihlwa/ebusuku).
• Kuhle ukuzama ukuthulisa ingane yakho, kodwa khumbula ukuthi ngeke kuhlale kusebenza .
• Uma uzizwa ukhathele kakhulu noma ukhungathekile, kulungile ukushiya ingane yakho endaweni ephephile bese uhamba isikhashana ukuze iphumule .
• Ungalokothi, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uthukuthele kangakanani, uthuthumele umntwana.Kungabangela umonakalo omkhulu enganeni (i-Shaken Baby Syndrome).
• Uma ingane yakho iqhubeka nokukhala futhi inezinye izimpawu, njengomkhuhlane, ukuhlanza, noma ukwenqaba ukudla, bheka udokotela wezingane ngokushesha.
• Uma unokungabaza noma ukwesaba, funa iseluleko sezokwelapha . Sizokwenza nengqondo yakho ikhululeke.

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