Cabanga nje, nawe unesifiso esikhulu sokuyothenga nomntanakho, ephathini endlini yesihlobo, noma okungenani epaki. Kodwa... lapho umntwana wakho eya lapho, wesaba ukuthi uzocasuka ngokuzumayo, amemeze, alale phansi akhale, futhi abanye bazobuka wena ngendlela exakile, akunjalo? Lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho akusikho okwakho kuphela, kodwa futhi kuyinto evamile kwabaningi bethu njengabazali bezingane ezine-autism. Ngenxa yalokhu, abazali abaningi baze bayeke ukuphuma nengane yabo. Kodwa ingabe kufanele kube njalo ngempela? Ake sixoxe ngalokhu kancane.
Kuyini nje i-autism?
Okokuqala, ake siqonde lokhu. I-Autism ayisona isifo. Yisimo sokuthuthukiswa kwemizwa esihlobene nokukhula kobuchopho. Uma sikhuluma iqiniso, sibizwa ngokuthi i-Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) . Igama elithi "spectrum" lisho ukuthi lesi simo singahluka kakhulu kumuntu nomuntu. Izimpawu zomntwana oyedwa zingahluka ngokuphelele komunye.
Lezi zingane ngokuvamile zinezinselele eziningana eziyinhloko:
- Ubunzima bokwakha ubudlelwano bomphakathi : Abanye abakuthandi ukukhuluma nabanye, ukudlala, nokuxhumana emehlweni.
- Izinkinga zokuxhumana: Abanye abantwana bakhuluma kancane noma abakhulumi nhlobo. Abanye bangase basebenzise amagama kodwa bangayiqondi ngokugcwele incazelo yawo.
- Ukuziphatha okuphindaphindayo: Ukwenza into efanayo ngokuphindaphindiwe. Isibonelo, ukushukumisa izandla zakho ngendlela efanayo, ukudlala ngethoyizi elifanayo ngendlela efanayo.
Kodwa ngaphezu kwakho konke, inselele enkulu kubazali abaningi yizinkinga ezihlobene nokuzwela kwalezi zingane. Ake sibheke lokho ngokuningiliziwe manje.
Ziyini ngempela lezi zinkinga zezinzwa?
Kalula nje, ubuchopho bethu buthatha ulwazi (okubonwayo, imisindo, amaphunga) ezinzwa zethu ezinhlanu (amehlo, izindlebe, impumulo, ulimi, isikhumba), lusicubungule, futhi siluphendule. Silubiza ngokuthi inqubo ethi Sensory Processing . Le nqubo ihlukile kancane ezinganeni ezine-autism. Ngenxa yalokho, zingase zibone izinto ngendlela enamandla kakhulu noma zingaziboni nhlobo umuntu ovamile angaziboni.
Lokhu kungenzeka ngezindlela ezimbili eziyinhloko.
| Uhlobo lokuzwela | Kalula nje... | Izibonelo esingazibona eSri Lanka |
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| Ukuzwela ngokweqile | Izinzwa zizwa izinto kakhulu kunokujwayelekile , ngakho azikwazi ukuzisingatha. |
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| Ukuzwela ngokweqile | Bazizwa bengaphansi kakhulu kokujwayelekile , ngakho bafuna leyo mizwa. |
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Manje cishe usuyaqonda ukuthi kungani ingane yakho ivele ikhathazeke enxanxatheleni yezitolo? Akukhona ngoba iyingane embi. Lapho izibani, imisindo, izixuku, kanye namaphunga konke kushaya ubuchopho bayo ngesikhathi esisodwa, ayikwazi ukubhekana nakho. Ngaleso sikhathi, iyakhala futhi inciphise ingcindezi eyizwayo.
Isimo emhlabeni kanye nalokho esingakwenza eSri Lanka
Manje sekunolwazi olukhulu ngalokhu emazweni afana neMelika neYurophu. Ezinye izindawo ezifana namabhayisikobho, izinkundla zemidlalo, kanye neminyuziyamu zibekela eceleni izinsuku noma izikhathi ezikhethekile njenge-"Sensory-Friendly." Ngalezo zikhathi, bacima izibani, banciphise umsindo, futhi banciphise inani labantu. Baqeqesha nabasebenzi lapho ukuthi bangabhekana kanjani nalezi zingane.
Kodwa kunzima kithi eSri Lanka ukulindela izikhungo ezikhethekile kangaka yonke indawo, akunjalo?Kodwa lokho akusho ukuthi asinakwenza lutho. Ake sizame ukudala indawo efanela ingane yethu. Nazi ezinye izinto ongazenza:
Ukuhlela kuyisinyathelo sokuqala.
Hlela kahle ngaphambi kokuya noma kuphi.
- Khetha isikhathi esinabantu abambalwa: Ngisho noma uya esitolo esikhulu, khetha isikhathi esinabantu abambalwa, njengasekuseni kakhulu phakathi nesonto. Gwema ukuya kusihlwa ngezimpelasonto.
- Letha izinto ingane yakho ezidingayo: Uma ingane yakho izwa umsindo, letha ama-headphone aqeda umsindo . Uma izwa umsindo ngaphandle, letha izibuko zelanga nesigqoko. Mvumele abambe ithoyizi alithandayo noma into azizwa ephephile kuyo, njengengubo.
- Yazisa ingane yakho kusenesikhathi: Tshela ingane yakho kusenesikhathi ukuthi uyaphi. Uma kungenzeka, mbonise izithombe zendawo efonini yakho. Mane uchaze ukuthi, "Siya lapha futhi sizobuya maduze nalezi zinto."
Qala kancane.
Ungayi ohambweni olukhulu ngesikhathi esisodwa. Qala ngohambo oluncane, njengokuya esitolo esiseduze nekhaya lakho. Uma lokho kusebenza, chitha isikhathi esithe xaxa ngaphandle ngesikhathi esizayo. Nika ingane yakho isikhathi sokujwayela indawo kancane kancane.
Ungesabi ukucela usizo.
Uma uhlela ukuya endaweni yokudlela, ungashayela ucingo kusengaphambili ukhulume nomphathi lapho bese uchaza isimo. Buza, "Ingane yethu inomsindo kancane, ngicela ubhukhe itafula endaweni ethule?" Esikhathini esiningi, bazokujabulela ukukusiza.
Uma ingane ibhekene nobunzima, hamba.
Uma, naphezu kwakho konke lokhu, ukuthola kunzima ngengane yakho ukuhlala lapho, akukho okubi ngokuhamba. Ungakhathazeki ngokuthi abanye bacabangani. Inhlalakahle yengqondo yengane yakho iyona nto ebaluleke kakhulu.
Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukukhuluma nodokotela wakho, udokotela wezingane, noma uchwepheshe wezokwelapha ngesimo sengane yakho. Bazokwazi ukukutshela kahle ukuthi yiziphi izinkinga ezithile zezinzwa zengane yakho nokuthi ungazisingatha kanjani.
Umlayezo Wokuya Nawe Ekhaya
- I-Autism akuyona iphutha lakho noma lengane yakho. Yisimo okudingeka siqondwe.
- Ingane yakho ayizenzisi ngaphandle ngoba inonya, kodwa ngoba ayikwazi ukumelana nesimo sezulu.
- Ngokuhlela ngokucophelela kanye namaqhinga ambalwa, nawe ungahamba ngempumelelo nomntanakho.
- Awuwedwa kulolu hambo. Funa iseluleko sezokwelapha kanye nokusekelwa kwezokwelapha uma kudingeka.
- Njengomzali, impilo yakho yengqondo nayo ibaluleke kakhulu. Zinakekele kahle nawe.
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