Ingabe ingane yakho ibhekene nokuthomba okulibazisekile? (Ukuthomba Okulibazisekile) Ake sixoxe ngalokhu!

Ngezinye izikhathi ungase ucabange, 'O, ingane yami isengumntwana omncane, ngeke yini ikhule njengabanye abantwana?' Noma uma nawe usemusha, 'Bonke abangane bami sebeshintshile, yini inkinga ngami?' Lona kungaba umbuzo okhathazayo kubazali abaningi, kanye nezingane ezincane. Namuhla, ake sixoxe ngokuthi kuyini ukuthomba, kungani sekwephuzile, nokuthi yini okufanele yenziwe ngesikhathi esinjengalesi. Ungakhathazeki, sizochaza konke kalula.

Kusho ukuthini ukufinyelela ebudaleni?

Kalula nje, ukuthomba yisikhathi lapho umzimba wakho ushintsha khona usuka kowomntwana uye kowomuntu omdala. Phakathi nalesi sikhathi, umzimba wakho udlula ezinguqukweni eziningi. Uqala ukuqaphela lezi zinguquko. Ngokuvamile, amantombazane aqala lezi zinguquko phakathi kweminyaka engu-8 no-14. Abafana baqala phakathi kweminyaka engu-9 no-15. Manje, bheka ukuthi lolu hlu lweminyaka lubanzi kangakanani. Lokho kusho ukuthi ezinye izingane ziqala ukuthomba kusenesikhathi, ezinye kamuva. Lokhu kuvamile kakhulu. Ngakho-ke ungakhathazeki uma umzimba wakho uqala ukushintsha eminyakeni embalwa ngaphambili noma kamuva kunabangane bakho, akunjalo? Kodwa-ke, ngezinye izikhathi kunezimo lapho umzimba wakho ungaqali ukushintsha nhlobo ngisho nangemva kwale minyaka evamile. Yilokho esikubiza ngokuthi `(Ukuthomba Okulibazisekile)` noma "ukuthomba okulibazisekile". Kodwa asikho isidingo sokukhathazeka, ngoba isikhathi esiningi, odokotela bangasiza izingane ezincane kulokhu kuthomba okulibazisekile futhi bazikhulise ukuze zilingane nezinye.

Yiziphi izimpawu ezivamile zokuthomba?

Kulungile, manje ake sibone ukuthi yiziphi izinguquko ezenzeka emzimbeni lapho sifika esikhathini sokuthomba.

Izinguquko zamantombazane:

Uma uyintombazane, ungase ubone lezi zinto:

• Amabele akho aqala ukukhula .
• Izinwele zesitho sangasese ziqala ukuvela ezindaweni zangasese.
• Kungazelelwe uba mude, okusho ukuthi "ukhula ngokushesha".
• Usesikhathini , okusho ukuthi isikhathi sakho siyaqala.
• Isimo somzimba siyashintsha, indawo yesinqe iyanda.

Umehluko wabafana:

Uma kungumfana, ungase uqaphele lezi zinguquko:

• Izinwele zasesithweni sangasese nezobuso ziqala ukuvela ezindaweni zangasese.
• Futhi ngokuzumayo ukhula ube mude (ukukhula okusheshayo).
• Amasende akho kanye nepenisi yakho kuqala ukukhula.
• Ukuma komzimba kuyashintsha - amahlombe aba banzi, umzimba uba mkhulu, futhi ukubukeka kuba yindoda.

Zonke lezi zinguquko zenzeka ngenxa yama-hormone ocansi emizimbeni yethu. I-hormone ebizwa ngokuthi ``Testosterone`` kubafana kanye ne-``Estrogen`` emantombazaneni iqala ukukhiqizwa ngobuningi obukhulu ngalesi sikhathi kunangaphambili. Yingakho zonke lezi zinguquko zenzeka.

Kwenzekani ngesikhathi sokuthomba okubambezelekile?

Manje ake sibone ukuthi yiziphi izimpawu zokuthomba okubambezelekile. Lezi yizimpawu ezivamile nje, kodwa ungesabi uma unesinye noma ezimbili zalezi. Into engcono kakhulu ongayenza ukufuna iseluleko sezokwelapha.

Izimpawu zokulibala kubafana:

• Uma ipenisi namasende kungakaqali ukukhula lapho umuntu eneminyaka engu-14.
• Uma kuthatha iminyaka engaphezu kwemi-5 ukuthi ukuthuthukiswa kwezitho zangasese kuphelele.
• Uma umfushane kunabanye abangani bakho, kungenxa yokuthi bakhula ngokushesha phakathi nalesi sikhathi.

Izimpawu zokulibala kwamantombazane:

• Uma amabele akho engakaqali ukukhula eneminyaka engu-14.
• Uma ungakaqali ukuya esikhathini ungakapheli iminyaka emi-5 kusukela ekukhuleni kwamabele, noma uneminyaka eyi-16.

Khumbula, lezi yizimpawu ezivamile nje. Uma wena noma ingane yakho ninokukhathazeka ngalokhu, kungcono ukukhuluma nodokotela.

Kungani ukuthomba sekwephuze kangaka? Yiziphi izizathu?

Njengoba nje izimbali ziqhakaza ngezikhathi ezahlukene, nabantu bayaqhakaza. Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi kungaba nezizathu ezikhethekile zalokhu kubambezeleka.

Ingabe umlando womndeni ubalulekile? (Umlando Womndeni)

Ngokuvamile lokhu kuyinto ezuzwe njengefa. Ngokuqondile, kuyindlela yokukhula eyenzeka emndenini. Umama wakho, ubaba, umalume, umalumekazi, umfowenu, udadewenu, umfowenu omncane, udadewenu omncane, noma ezinye izihlobo kungenzeka ukuthi sezifinyelele ekuthombeni sekwephuzile kancane. Lokhu kubizwa ngokuthi "ukulibaziseka komthethosisekelo", noma nje "ukuqhakaza sekwephuzile". Lokhu ngokuvamile akudingi ukwelashwa. Izingane ezincane ezinjengalezi zifinyelela ekuthombeni ngesikhathi, noma ngabe sekwephuzile kancane kunezinye, kodwa ngendlela evamile.

Ingabe ezinye izifo zingayithinta? (Izinkinga Zezokwelapha)

Yebo, ezinye izifo zingabambezela ukuthomba.

• Ezinye izimo zezokwelapha ezingamahlalakhona, njengesifo sikashukela , i-cystic fibrosis , isifo sezinso , noma i-asthma, zingabambezela ukuthomba. Lezi zimo zingathinta ukukhula kwazo. Kodwa-ke , uma lezi zimo ziphathwa kahle futhi zilawulwa, zingasiza ekunciphiseni ingozi yokuthomba okulibazisekile.
• Ngokufanayo, umuntu ongondlekile kahle – okungukuthi, umuntu ongatholi ukudla okwanele nezakhamzimba – angase afinyelele ebusheni kamuva kunontanga yakhe abadla ukudla okunempilo nokulinganiselayo. Isibonelo, intsha enezinkinga zokudla, njenge-anorexia nervosa, ngezinye izikhathi iba mncane kakhulu kangangokuthi imizimba yayo ayikhuli kahle.
• Uma amantombazane ezivocavoca kakhulu futhi edlala imidlalo, imizimba yawo ingaba mncane kakhulu, okungabangela ukuthomba ukubambezeleka. Umzimba wentombazane udinga inani elithile lamafutha ukuze ufinyelele ukuthomba futhi uqale ukuya esikhathini.
• Enye into ukuthi izinkinga ngendlala ye-pituitary ebuchosheni bethu kanye nendlala ye-thyroid entanyeni yethu nazo zingabambezela ukuthomba. Lezi zindlala zikhiqiza ama-hormone abalulekile ekukhuleni nasekuthuthukisweni komzimba.

Izinkinga ze-Chromosome

Ngezinye izikhathi, abantu abangafiki ngesikhathi sokuthomba bangaba nezinkinga ngama-chromosome abo. Ama-chromosome afana nezingcezu ze-DNA eziqukethe uhlelo lokuthi imizimba yethu izokhula kanjani. Izinkinga ngala ma-chromosome zingathinta intuthuko evamile.

• Isibonelo, isimo esibizwa ngokuthi `(Turner Syndrome)` . Lokhu kubangelwa ukungajwayelekile noma ukulahlekelwa yinye yama-chromosome amabili entombazane. Lokhu kuthinta ukukhula kwentombazane, ukuthuthukiswa kwama-ovari, kanye nokukhiqizwa kwama-hormone ocansi. Abesifazane abangelashwanga abane-`(Turner Syndrome)` bafushane kunokujwayelekile, bangase bangafinyeleli ekuthombeni ngokuvamile, futhi bangase babe nezinye izinkinga zempilo.
• Esimweni esibizwa ngokuthi i-Klinefelter Syndrome , esithinta abafana, bazalwa bene-chromosome engu-X eyengeziwe (XXY esikhundleni se-XY). Lesi simo singabangela ukukhula kocansi okulibazisekile. Abafana abanalesi simo bavame ukuba bade kuneminyaka yabo, bangase babe nokukhubazeka kokufunda, futhi bangase babe nezinye izinkinga zempilo.

Kungaba nezizathu eziningi zalokhu, yingakho kubalulekile ukubona udokotela ukuze uthole imbangela eqondile.

Kuhlonzwa kanjani ukuthi ukuthomba sekuphuzile?

Izindaba ezinhle ukuthi uma kunenkinga, odokotela bavame ukusiza izingane ezincane ezithombile futhi babuyisele intuthuko yazo endleleni efanele. Uma wena noma ingane yakho ninokukhathazeka ngalokhu, qiniseka ukuthi nihlela i-aphoyintimenti nodokotela wakho. Udokotela uzokwenza lokhu:

• Okokuqala, uzohlolwa (ukuhlolwa ngokomzimba).
• Buza ukuthi kukhona yini emndenini wakho oke waba nalolu hlobo lokukhula (umlando wezokwelapha).
• Bayabuza ukuthi unayo yini imithi okufanele uyithathe.
• Babheka ishadi lakho lokukhula bese behlola ukuthi kukhona yini iphethini ekhombisa inkinga.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, udokotela angenza nezivivinyo ezifana nalezi:

• Ukuhlolwa kwegazi kungacelwa ukuthi kuhlolwe izinkinga ze-thyroid, i-pituitary, i-chromosome, noma ezinye.
• I-"Bone Age X-ray" inga-oda ukuze kubonwe ukuthi amathambo akho akhula kahle yini.

Kuphathwa kanjani lokhu?

Esikhathini esiningi, odokotela abakwazi ukuthola noma yiziphi izinkinga zomzimba eziyisisekelo. Intsha eningi ekhula kancane kancane kunokuthomba okujwayelekile. Ihlangana nabanye ngesikhathi esifanele. Kodwa-ke, uma odokotela bethola inkinga, bangakudlulisela kudokotela we-endocrinologist wezingane - udokotela ogxile ekwelapheni izingane kanye nentsha enezinkinga zokukhula - noma komunye uchwepheshe ukuze ahlolwe noma aphathwe. Kwabanye "abaqhakaza sekwephuzile," odokotela bangase futhi bakunikeze ukwelashwa kwama-hormone:

• Kwabafana, ukwelashwa kwesikhashana nge-hormone ethi "Testosterone" (ngokuvamile enikezwa njengomjovo wanyanga zonke izinyanga ezingu-4-6) kunganikezwa ukuze kuqalwe izinguquko zokuthomba.
• Kwamantombazane, imithamo ephansi ye-hormone ethi "(Estrogen)" inganikezwa cishe izinyanga ezi-4-6 ukuqala ukukhula kwamabele.

Ngemva kokuthi lokhu kwelashwa sekuqediwe, ama-hormone omzimba wakho avame ukuqala ukusebenza futhi uzoqeda inqubo yokuthomba. Uma kungenjalo, udokotela wakho uzokhuluma nawe ngokuthatha ama-hormone ocansi isikhathi eside.

Uphila kanjani nalesi simo? Unquma kanjani?

Kungaba nzima ukwamukela ukuthi awuwedwa lapho bonke abangane bakho sebekhulile futhi behlukile. Ungase uzizwe sengathi awusoze wafana nabanye abantu. Ngisho noma udokotela noma abazali bakho bethi kuwe, "Konke kulungile," akulula ukulinda ukuthi kwenzeke okuthile okukuthintayo.

Uma uzizwa udangele, unesizungu, noma ukhungathekile, noma uma kuthinta umsebenzi wakho wesikole noma ezinye izinkinga, khuluma nomama wakho, ubaba, udokotela, noma omunye umuntu omdala omethembayo. Bangakusiza ukuthola umeluleki noma uchwepheshe wezokwelapha ongakhuluma naye. Bangaqonda imizwa yakho futhi bakufundise izindlela zokubhekana nayo.

Ukuphuza isikhathi sokuthomba kungaba yinto enzima ukubhekana nayo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukuvuma kangakanani. Kodwa ngokuvamile kuyinkinga engelapheka. Uma unenkinga mayelana nokukhula kwakho, akukaze kube sekwephuzile ukufuna usizo.

Okokugcina, izinto okufanele uzikhumbule

Ngakho-ke, nazi izinto ezibalulekile kuwe kulokho esikhulume ngakho:

• Kungaba nezizathu eziningana zokuthi ukuthomba kubambezeleke.
• Ngokuvamile lokhu kuyinto evamile emndenini ("okhula ngokushesha").
• Ezimweni eziningi, usizo lwezokwelapha luyatholakala.
• Uma wena noma ingane yakho ninokungabaza ngalokhu, ningangabazi ukubona udokotela.
• Ukuze unciphise ukucindezeleka okuzwayo phakathi nalesi sikhathi, kubaluleke kakhulu ukukhuluma nomuntu omethembayo.

Awuwedwa, usizo luhlala lukhona!

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