Sɛ wo ba kenkan nhoma bi den a, so ogyina asɛm biara so, ɔbɔ n’ano, anaasɛ ɔkyere? Sɛ wokenkan wie a, sɛ wobisa sɛ, "Ɔba, dɛn na na ɛwɔ saa asɛm yi mu?", so abofra no nkae? Anaasɛ sɛ woma no kenkan a, ɔde nhoma no to nkyɛn ka sɛ, "Mintumi... meyɛ ɔkwasea dodo"? Ebia wo nso wunim saa nneɛma yi yiye. Ebia ade titiriw nti a ɛte saa ne sɛ abofra no ‘akenkan yiye’ sua. Enti momma yɛnka eyi ho asɛm nkɔ akyiri nnɛ.
Dɛn nti na Akenkan a Wɔbɛka no Yiye ho hia saa?
Sɛ yɛbɛka no tiawa a, akenkan a ɛkɔ yɔɔ yɛ tumi a obi tumi kenkan ade pɛpɛɛpɛ, ahoɔhare a ɛfata, na ɔde nkate . Eyi fa akenkan a wɔkenkan den ne komm nyinaa ho.
Fa no sɛ akenkan yɛ bridge. Wɔ bridge no fã biako no, wɔde nkyerɛwde ne nsɛmfua a wohu. Ɔfã foforo ne sɛ wobɛte nea wokenkan no ase na w’ani agye ho. Bridge a ɛka saa afã abien yi bom ne akenkan a ɛkɔ yɔɔ.
Sɛ abofra fi ase kenkan ade nea edi kan a, saa kasa a ɛkɔ yɔɔ yi a wɔde di dwuma no boa ma wonya kasa ho nimdeɛ ne ɛnne nnyigyei ho nimdeɛ. Wosua sɛnea wobehu nsɛmfua a wɔtaa ka no ntɛmntɛm.
Nanso, sɛ wɔanhyehyɛ saa abɔntenban yi yiye a, dɛn na ɛba? Abofra no kɔhyɛ abɔntenban no mfinimfini. Ebia ɛbɛyɛ den sɛ obetumi akenkan nsɛmfua no mmiako mmiako. Nanso, sɛ ɔkenkan saa a, n’ahoɔden nyinaa gyina nsɛmfua no a obehu so, na ɛnyɛ ɔkasamu no, asɛm no ntease a ɔbɛte ase. Afei, akenkan bɛyɛ adwuma a ɛyɛ ɔbrɛ na ɛyɛ mfonoe kɛse ma no. Bere bi akyi no, abofra no bɛyɛ obi a ɔmpɛ akenkan na oguan nhoma. Ɛnyɛ ne nhomasua nko na eyi betumi anya nkɛntɛnso kɛse, na mmom ne daakye nso.
Sɛ yɛbɛkyerɛkyerɛ tebea yi mu a, biribi wɔ hɔ a wɔfrɛ no "Mateo nkɛntɛnso." Ɛka sɛ "wɔn a wɔwɔ pii no nya pii, na wɔn a wonni pii no di hia." Eyi fa akenkan nso ho. Abofra a ɔkenkan ade yiye na ɔka no yiye "ma ne nimdeɛ ne ne nsɛmfua yɛ kɛse denam nhoma pii a ɔkenkan so. Nanso abofra a ɔkenkan ade a ɛyɛ den, twe ne ho fi akenkan ho na ɔtɔ n’atipɛnfo akyi koraa.
Enti, sɛ abofra akenkan yiye a, ɛyɛ sika kɛse a wɔde bɛto wɔn daakye mu.
Nneɛma atitiriw 3 a ɛma wotumi kenkan akenkan yiye
Nneɛma atitiriw abiɛsa na ɛwɔ akenkan a ɛkɔ yɔɔ mu. Momma yɛnhwɛ eyinom wɔ pon bi so.
| Adeɛ | Sɛ yɛbɛka no tiawa a... |
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| 1. Nsɛm a wɔka no pɛpɛɛpɛ | Eyi ne fapem no. Ɛsɛ sɛ abofra no kenkan nsɛmfua a ɛwɔ nhoma no mu no yiye, a ɔrenni mfomso biara. Sɛ wɔankenkan nsɛmfua no wɔ ɔkwan a ɛnteɛ so a, nea asɛm no kyerɛ betumi asesa koraa. Enti, sɛnea ɛbɛyɛ a wobɛte nea worekenkan no ase no, ɛsɛ sɛ wudi kan kenkan no yiye. |
| 2. Ahoɔhare (Rate) . | Eyi ne ahoɔhare a abofra de kenkan ade. Nanso adwene a ɛnteɛ kɛse bi wɔ ha. Ɛne sɛ, "dodow a ɛyɛ ntɛm no, dodow no ara na eye." Ɛno yɛ mfomso. Ebia abofra a ɔkenkan ade ntɛmntɛm dodo no nte nea wɔrekenkan no ase. Ebia obehuruw wɔ nsɛm so. Sɛ wobɛkenkan ade yiye a, ɛkyerɛ sɛ wobɛkenkan ade wɔ ɔkwan a ɛfata so, na ɛnyɛ sɛ wobɛkenkan te sɛ mmirikatufo. |
| 3. Nsɛm a wɔka kyerɛ | Eyi ho hia paa bere a worekenkan ade den no. Eyi fa wo nne a wobɛsesa ma ɛne asɛm no mu nkate ahyia ho. Sɛ nkyekyem bi yɛ awerɛhow a, ka no te sɛ nea ɛyɛ awerɛhow, sɛ nkyekyem bi yɛ anigye a, ka no te sɛ nea ɛyɛ anigye, sɛ nkyekyem bi bisa asɛm bi a, ka no te sɛ nea ɛrebisa asɛm bi. Nea ɛka eyi ho nso ne baabi a ɛsɛ sɛ wogyina kakra ne baabi a wobɛkɔ so akenkan no ho gyinae. Nkate a wɔda no adi yiye yɛ sɛnkyerɛnne pa a ɛkyerɛ sɛ abofra no te nea wɔrekenkan no ase. |
Dwumadi ahorow a ebetumi ama wo ba no akenkan yiye wɔ fie
Sɛnea akyerɛkyerɛfo tumi boa wɔ sukuu mu no, saa ara na awofo betumi ayɛ nneɛma pii wɔ fie de aboa wɔn ba ma wanya saa tumi yi. Hwɛ eyinom:
- Nhoma a ɛnyɛ den a wɔbɛkenkan no mpɛn pii: Ma abofra no paw nhoma a n’ani gye ho na obetumi akenkan a ɛnyɛ den. Anyɛ yiye koraa no, ma abofra no nkenkan nhoma no den mprɛnsa. Sɛ abofra no kenkan ade koro no ara mpɛn pii a, ahoɔhare, pɛpɛɛpɛyɛ, ne ahotoso a obenya no bɛyɛ kɛse.
- Kenkan kyerɛ wo ba: Kenkan kyerɛ wo ba da biara, kasa brɛoo na fa nsɛm a wɔka kyerɛ. Sɛ woreka asɛm bi a ɛyɛ serew a, fa nne a ɛyɛ serew di dwuma. Eyi yɛ nhwɛso pa ma wo ba.
- Kenkan kasamu biara: Wokenkan kasamu biako anaa nkyekyem tiawa bi. Afei ma wo ba no nkenkan saa ara. Obesuasua sɛnea wobɔ din na wogyina kakra.
- Anuanom mmarima ne mmaa, monkenkan kyerɛ mo nuanom nkumaa sɛ:Sɛ wo ba no ne mpanyimfo wɔ abusua no mu a, ka kyerɛ wo nua kumaa bi ma ɔnkenkan abasɛm nhoma a ɛnyɛ den nkyerɛ wɔn. Eyi bɛboa ma wɔanya wɔn asɛyɛde ne wɔn akenkan ho nimdeɛ nyinaa.
- Kenkan anwensɛm, mmofra nnwom: Fa anwensɛm tiawa anaa mmofra nnwom na di kan kenkan kyerɛ wo ba. Afei ma ɔnkenkan. Kenkan no mpɛn pii kosi sɛ obetumi akenkan no yiye.
- Hu nsɛmfua a wɔtaa de di dwuma yiye: Sua akenkan nsɛmfua a ɛnyɛ den a wɔtaa de di dwuma wɔ Sinhala kasa mu (e.g., ɛna, agya , fie, adidi, kɔ) bere a wuhu ara pɛ. Sɛ wutumi hu nsɛmfua yi ‘wɔ wo komam’ a, wo akenkan ahoɔhare bɛkɔ soro fi awosu mu.
- Momma yɛnkenkan aseresɛm: Fa aseresɛm anaa aseresɛm bi fi atesɛm krataa mu na di kan kenkan, na sesa wo nne ma ɛne nnipa a wɔka ho asɛm no hyia. Afei ka kyerɛ wo ba no sɛ ɔnkenkan no saa ara.
Dwumadi titiriw ne mmoa a wobenya
Ebia mmofra binom behia mmoa foforo kakra na ama wɔanya saa ahokokwaw yi. Akwan ne nhyehyɛe titiriw bi wɔ hɔ a wobetumi de adi dwuma wɔ nsɛm a ɛtete saa mu. Nhwɛsoɔ ne ``Kenkan Abɔdeɛ mu nhyehyɛeɛ``.
Wɔ nhyehyɛe ahorow a ɛtete saa mu no, wodi kan sɔ abofra no akenkan dodow hwɛ na wɔde botae bi si hɔ ma no. Afei, abofra no kenkan nkyekyem bi a wapaw a ɔmfa ne ho nhyɛ mu. Afei, wɔde nkyekyem koro no ara di dwuma mpɛn pii. Obi wɔ hɔ a ɔbɛkyerɛ abofra no sɛnea ɔbɛbɔ nsɛmfua a ɛnteɛ no yiye. Awiei koraa no, sɛ abofra no kenkan nkyekyem no bio a, wɔsusu nsɛmfua dodow a ɛteɛ wɔ simma biara mu (WCPM - Nsɛmfua a ɛteɛ wɔ Simma biara mu) na wɔhwɛ nkɔso a aba .
Nea ɛho hia sen biara ne sɛ sɛ wowɔ adwenem naayɛ anaa dadwen bi wɔ wo ba akenkan ho haw no ho a, nfɛre anaasɛ nsuro sɛ wo ne wo ba no adesuakuw kyerɛkyerɛfo bɛkasa . Afei nso, sɛ ɛho hia a, wubetumi ne obi a ne ho akokwaw wɔ eyi mu ahyia. Wubetumi nso ahwehwɛ afotu afi wo duruyɛfo hɔ wɔ eyi ho.
Kae sɛ ɛnyɛ mmofra nyinaa na wosua ade ntɛmntɛm. Nea ɛho hia paa ne sɛ wobɛkyerɛkyerɛ wo ba no sɛ akenkan nyɛ asotwe, na mmom ɛyɛ biribi a obetumi anya mu anigye.
Nkrasɛm a Wɔde Kɔ Fie
- Akenkan a ɛkɔ yɔɔ no nyɛ akenkan a wobɛkenkan ntɛmntɛm kɛkɛ. Ɛfa akenkan a wobɛkenkan pɛpɛɛpɛ, ahoɔhare a ɛfata, ne nkate mu ho .
- Nsɛm a wɔka no yiye ne ɔkwan a ɛho hia sen biara a ɛda nkyerɛwde a wohu ne akenkan mu ntease ntam.
- Sɛ akenkan abɛyɛ ɔbrɛ ne mfonoe ama wo ba a, ebia nea enti a ɛte saa ne sɛ ɔnkasa brɛoo.
- Dwumadi ahorow a ɛnyɛ den na ɛyɛ anigye a ɛsɛ sɛ woyɛ wɔ fie sɛ awofoEbetumi ama abofra akenkan ho nimdeɛ atu mpɔn kɛse.
- Mma akenkan nyɛ asotwe anaa nhyɛso. Ma ɛnyɛ biribi a w’ani gye ho .
- Sɛ wususuw sɛ wo ba no wɔ akenkan mu haw a, wo ne ɔkyerɛkyerɛfo no nkasa, na sɛ ɛho hia a, wo ne wo duruyɛfo no nkasa .
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