Ðe nèsena le ɖokuiwò me zi geɖe be ɖeɖi te ye ŋu eye ŋusẽ vɔ le ye ŋu ne èle hadomenuwɔnawo me alo ne èle nu ƒom na ame bubuwoa? Ɣeaɖewoɣi la, àte ŋu asusu be, "Alesi tututu mele alea" alo "Meto vovo vie tso ame bubuwo gbɔ." Àte ŋu abu fɔ ɖokuiwò gɔ̃ hã ɖe vovototo siawo kple alesi wòsesẽna be nàdze ŋgɔ hadomegbenɔnɔ ta. Gake le nusiawo megbe la, atikewɔwɔ me susu aɖe ate ŋu anɔ anyi si ŋu mèbu o, si nye autism spectrum disorder , si wokpɔna le tsitsime.
Nukatae nyemete ŋu de dzesi esia o vaseɖe esime mezu ame tsitsi?
Ame geɖe ate ŋu abia wo ɖokui be, "Autism nye nusi wokpɔna dzea sii le ɖevime, alo? Aleke woate ŋu ato eŋu vaseɖe ame tsitsi me?" Le nyateƒe me la, autism menye nɔnɔme si me dzesi ɖeka koe le o. Eɖi spektrum wu. Wokpɔa dɔlélea le ame aɖewo ŋu le woƒe ɖevime ke elabena dzesiawo nu sẽ ale gbegbe be wokpɔnɛ dzea sii le woƒe ɖevime. Gake le ame bubuwo gome la, dzesi siawo menya kpɔna dzea sii bɔbɔe o. Wowɔa dɔ nyuie le gbesiagbedɔwo, nusɔsrɔ̃, kple dɔwɔwɔ me. Eyata woate ŋu abu vodadatɔe be dzesi siawo nye woƒe amenyenye ƒe akpa aɖe alo be wonye nɔnɔme bubu aɖe, le kpɔɖeŋu me, susu ƒe dɔmawɔmawɔ nyuie ƒe dɔléle (ADHD) alo dzimaɖitsitsi.
Kpɔe ɖa le susu me be vidada aɖe si nya be autism le ye ŋutɔ ye viwo ŋu, gake mesusui kpɔ be ɖewohĩ dɔlélea le ye ŋu o. Ƒe geɖe la, esusu be ye vi vɔ̃na na hadomenuwɔnawo, alo be numamewo abe ɖa ɖuɖu kple ɖa ƒoƒo ene nye yeƒe ‘nu manyatalenuwo’ ko. Gake le nyateƒe me la, esiawo ate ŋu anye autism ƒe dzesiwo.
Ne èkpɔ dɔlélea la, mefia be wole ŋkɔ dem wò o. Ele abe safui si ana nàse ɖokuiwò gɔme ene.
Nukae nye ‘Autistic Burnout’?
Ðeɖiteameŋu kple ɖeɖiteameŋu sesẽ sia nye nya vevi aɖe si ame geɖe siwo ŋu wokpɔ be autism le la doa goe le woƒe tsitsime. Woyɔa esia be ‘autistic burnout’ .
Kpuie ko la, nusi dzɔnae nye esi: Abe amesi ŋu autism le ene la, wò hadome dzesiwo kple nuwɔna to vovo vie. Gake tso ɖevime ke la, èdzea agbagba be yeanɔ abe ame bubu ɖesiaɖe ene. Èdzea agbagba vevie be "yeatsyɔ nu" wò amenyenye vavãtɔ, be yeawɔ ɖeka kplii, ako nu ahaɖo dze kple amesiame, eye yeawɔ ɖeka kple woƒe fefenyawo.
Bu eŋu abe ame aɖe si medze ŋuwò o wɔwɔ ŋkeke bliboa ene. Ne èle agbe alea, hele wò amenyenye vavãtɔ ɣlam ƒe geɖe la, wò susu kple ŋutilã sea nuteɖeamedzi si womate ŋu ado dzi atsɔ o. Emae nye nusi míeyɔna be ' autism burnout'.
Esia tae wòle be nàwɔe be:
- Ðewohĩ ɖeɖi te ŋuwò ŋutɔ eye ŋusẽ manɔ ŋuwò o .
- Blanuiléle ƒe dzesiwo ate ŋu adze.
- Dzimaɖitsitsi ate ŋu adzi ɖe edzi.
- Ɣeaɖewoɣi la, àse le ɖokuiwò me be agbea te ɖe ye dzi.
Ame geɖe dia atikewɔlawo ƒe aɖaŋuɖoɖo le ‘dzodzoetsitsi’ sia ta. Wodia kpekpeɖeŋu le nudzɔdzɔ aɖe megbe, abe ne wole wo ɖokui biam be, "Nukatae ŋusẽ mele ŋunye abe ame bubuwo ene o?" alo ne dɔtɔ aɖe ka mo na wo le esi woto hadomenuwɔna aɖe ŋu le dɔwɔƒe ta.
Nukawoe nye dzesi siwo ate ŋu ato ame tsitsiwo ƒe autism ŋu?
Ðewohĩ àsusui gɔ̃ hã be nɔnɔme siawo nye wò amenyenye ƒe akpa aɖe. Kpɔe ɖa be nya siawo nye nya siwo nènya nyuie hã.
| Feature/Kuxi si le eŋu | Numeɖeɖe bɔbɔe aɖe |
|---|---|
| Hadomegbenɔnɔ ƒe sesẽ | Esesẽna be míase ame bubuwo ƒe seselelãmewo, woƒe mo ƒe dzedzeme, kple fefenyawo gɔme. Esesẽna be nàdze dzeɖoɖo gɔme ahayi edzi. Nuƒoƒo suewo tea ɖeɖi ame ŋu ŋutɔ. |
| Sidzenuwo Ŋuti Nyawo | Toɣliɖeɖe sesẽwo, akaɖi siwo klẽna, ʋeʋẽ sesẽwo, kple awu ƒomevi aɖewo ate ŋu anye nusi dzi womate ŋu ado dzi le o. Fiase gã alo teƒe si amewo sɔ gbɔ ɖo ate ŋu ate ɖe dziwò ŋutɔ. |
| Nuwɔna Gbugbɔgagblɔ (Stimming) . | Nu siwo nèwɔna be wò dzi nadze eme. Le kpɔɖeŋu me, wò ɖawo ɖuɖu, wò ɖa ƒoƒo, toɣliɖeɖe kple asibidɛwo, ʋuʋu yi ŋgɔ kple megbe. |
| Dzodzro ɖe nu tɔxɛ aɖewo ŋu | Eƒoa nu tsitotsito ŋutɔ eye wòtsɔa dzo ɖe nyati aɖe ŋu (e.g. ketekewo, ŋutinya, kɔmpiutawo). Ema ɖeɖeko ŋue wòlɔ̃a nuƒoƒo tsoe. |
| Gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe didi be yeatrɔ | Nye gbesiagbedɔwo kple nusiwo menya nyuie la dzɔa dzi nam ŋutɔ. Ne tɔtrɔ aɖe va kpata la, nyemevona le ɖokuinye me kura o eye metsia dzimaɖi. |
Nukatae nyɔnuwo ƒe dzesiwo toa wo ŋu?
Menye le míaƒe hadomegbenɔnɔ me ɖeɖeko o, ke le xexeame katã la, womekpɔa autism le nyɔnuwo kple nyɔnuviwo ŋu nyuie o. Susu vevitɔ si tae nye be nyɔnuwo bi ɖe woƒe dzesiwo tsyɔtsyɔ/ɣla wo ɖokui me nyuie wu ŋutsuwo. Woléa ŋku ɖe alesi amewo wɔa nui le hadome eye wodzea agbagba be yewoawɔ nu nenema ke. Eyata le gota gome la, wodzena abe ɖe wosɔ ene. Gake le ememe la, wole fu kpem. Le esia ta la, ate ŋu ahiã be nyɔnu nawɔ avu sesĩe wu hafi woate ŋu akpɔ dɔlélea nyuie.
Dɔlélea didi kple nukae woawɔ emegbe?
Ne èsusu be dzesi siawo le ye ŋu la, nu nyuitɔ si nàwɔe nye be nàƒo nu tso eŋu na ɖɔkta si dzi nèka ɖo . Ate ŋu aɖo wò ɖe tagbɔdɔléle ŋuti aɖaŋuɖola, abe tagbɔdɔdala alo susuŋutinunyala ene gbɔ.
Ðɔktawo zãa Amerika Tagbɔdɔléle Habɔbɔ ƒe DSM-V (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, 5th Edition) ƒe mɔfiamewo tsɔ dea dzesi autism spectrum disorder (ASD). Esia bia be nàdzro wò dzesiwo, nuwɔna ƒe ɖoɖowo, kple wò ɖevime nuteƒekpɔkpɔwo me tsitotsito.
Mègavɔ̃ le dɔléle si wokpɔ le ŋuwò vɔ megbe o. Menye wò agbe ƒe nuwuwue wònye o; gɔmedzedze yeyee wònye.
1. Se ɖokuiwò gɔme: Àkpɔ ŋuɖoɖo na biabia si nye, "Nukatae mele alea ɣeyiɣi didi nenema gbegbe ɖo?" Màgado dziku kple dziɖeleameƒo ɖe ɖokuiwò ŋu o, eye àse veve ɖe ɖokuiwò nu ahase nu gɔme na ɖokuiwò.
2. Kpekpeɖeŋu ŋutɔŋutɔ: Nu bɔbɔe aɖewo li nàte ŋu awɔ atsɔ akpe ɖe wò sidzenuwo ŋu. Le kpɔɖeŋu me, toɖoɖomɔ̃ siwo tea toɣliɖeɖe nu zazã ne èle yiyim ɖe teƒe siwo amewo sɔ gbɔ ɖo. Ɣe ƒe ŋkumewu dodo be nàkpɔ ɖokuiwò ta tso kekeli si klẽna me.
3. De dzesi nusiwo ŋu ŋusẽ le: Ame siwo ŋu autism le ate ŋu azã woƒe ŋkuléle ɖe nu tɔxɛ aɖewo ŋu vevie ahatsɔ ɖe le wo me abe ŋusẽ ene.
4. Nutoa me tɔwo didi: Fifia la, to internet dzi la, àte ŋu akpɔ ame bubu siwo si nuteƒekpɔkpɔ mawo tɔgbe le. Nuƒoƒo na wo ana màgatsi akogo o.
Nu vevitɔe nye be nàxɔ ɖokuiwò ɖe amesi nènye nu, eye màkpe ŋu be yeato vovo o. Ekema àte ŋu anɔ agbe le dzidzɔ me.
Gbedasi si Wotsɔ Yi Aƒeme
- Woate ŋu akpɔ Autism Spectrum Disorder le ame tsitsi me, ne woto eŋu le ɖevime gɔ̃ hã.
- Ðeɖiteameŋu ɣesiaɣi, hadomenuwɔnawo ƒe fuléle, kple seselelãmenyawo (toɣliɖeɖe, kekeli) ate ŋu anye ame tsitsiwo ƒe autism ƒe dzesiwo.
- Esiawo menye gbɔdzɔgbɔdzɔ siwo le wò amenyenye me o. Wonye nɔnɔme si tso tɔtrɔ siwo va le lãmekawo me gbɔ.
- Ne èkpɔ dɔlélea nyuie la, ate ŋu akpe ɖe ŋuwò nàse ɖokuiwò gɔme nyuie wu, ana agbea nanɔ bɔbɔe na wò, eye wòana wò susu nadze akɔ anyi.
- Ne ɖikeke aɖe le mewò le esia ŋu la, mègavɔ̃ be yeaƒo nu kple wò ɖɔkta o . Ana mɔfiame nyuitɔ wò.
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