Ðe nèɖoa ŋu ɖe ame bubuwo hã ŋu le nusianu mea? Mina míaƒo nu tso Dependent Personality Disorder (DPD) ŋu!

Ðe wòle be nàbia tso ame bubuwo si be woawɔ nyametsotso suetɔ kekeake gɔ̃ hã le wò ŋkekea me, abe awu si nàdo le ŋdi me alo nusi nàɖu enea? Ðe nèsena le ɖokuiwò me be yemate ŋu awɔ naneke o ale gbegbe be màte ŋu awɔ naneke woƒe nukpɔsusu kple kakaɖedzi manɔmee oa? Ne ele nenema la, ke ɖewohĩ susu ƒe nɔnɔme aɖe si woyɔna be ``Dependent Personality Disorder (DPD)'' le fu ɖem na wò. Mina míaƒo nu tso esia ŋu egbea, enyoa?

Nukae nye Amenyenye ƒe Dɔléle (DPD) sia?

Kpuie ko la, Dependent Personality Disorder (DPD) nye susumedɔléle. Eƒe dzesi enye be ame nɔa te ɖe ame bubuwo dzi fũ akpa be yeakpɔ yeƒe nuhiahiãwo gbɔ, vevietɔ le seselelãme gome (nu siwo le susu me) kple ŋutilã me (nu siwo le ŋutilã me). Bu eŋu abe ɖevi sue aɖe si le mɔ kpɔm na nusianu tso wo dzilawo gbɔ ene, gake esia ate ŋu akpɔ ŋusẽ ɖe ame tsitsiwo hã dzi. Ame bubuwo ate ŋu abu wò be ènye "ame si léa nu ɖe ​​nu ŋu" alo "hiãtɔ."

Ame siwo ŋu DPD le xɔe se be yewomate ŋu awɔ naneke le yewo ɖokui si alo akpɔ yewo ɖokui dzi o. Wohiã ame bubuwo ƒe nukpɔsusu kple ŋudzedzekpɔkpɔ hafi woate ŋu awɔ gbesiagbe nyametsotso suetɔ kekeake gɔ̃ hã , abe nusi woado alo nusi woaɖu ene. Zi geɖe la, womenya be tamesusu kple nuwɔna siawo nye kuxi o.

DPD nye " Cluster C" amenyenye ƒe kuxiwo me tɔ . Abe dɔléle bubu siwo le ƒuƒoƒo sia me ene la, dzimaɖitsitsi kple vɔvɔ̃ hã dzena. Amenyenye ƒe kuxiwo nye nuwɔna siwo nɔa anyi ɣeyiɣi didi siwo tsi tre ɖe nusi hadomegbenɔnɔ di be míawɔ (dekɔnu ƒe ɖoɖowo) ŋu. Zi geɖe la, wodzea egɔme do ŋgɔ na ame tsitsi, le ɖevime alo ƒewuiwo me. Amenyenye ƒe kuxi siawo ate ŋu ahe nuxaxa kple nuxaxa vɛ na amea kple amesiwo ƒo xlãe. Ame tsitsi siwo mede 1% o le United States ɖo DPD ƒe dzidzenuwo gbɔ.

Vovototo kae le DPD kple BPD dome?

Togbɔ be Dependent Personality Disorder (DPD) kple Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) siaa sesẽna le amewo dome ƒomedodo kple vɔvɔ̃ be woagblẽ ye ɖi me hã la, wonye amenyenye ƒe kuxi eve siwo to vovo.

BPD ƒe dzesi enye seselelãme ƒe tɔtrɔ kpata , ƒomedodowo ƒe malikenyenye, kple nuwɔwɔ kpata. Vɔvɔ̃ sesẽ aɖe le amesiwo ŋu BPD le me be woagblẽ yewo ɖi eye esesẽna na wo be woaɖu woƒe seselelãmewo dzi, vevietɔ dziku.

Gake zi geɖe la, seselelãme ƒe tɔtrɔ si gbɔ eme alo nuwɔna siwo wowɔna le wo ɖokui si alea menɔa DPD me o. Zi geɖe la, ame siwo ŋu DPD le la nɔa ɖoɖoezizi me eye wobɔbɔa wo ɖokui , elabena womedi be yewoahe masɔmasɔwo vɛ le yewoƒe ƒomedodowo me o.

Nukawoe nye DPD ƒe dzesiwo?

Ame si ŋu amenyenye ƒe kuxi si nɔa te ɖe ame dzi le ate ŋu aɖe nuwɔna ƒe nɔnɔme vovovowo afia abe:

• Ele be nàbia aɖaŋuɖoɖo kple kakaɖedzi tso ame bubuwo si ɣesiaɣi, ne èle gbesiagbe nyametsotso suesuesuewo, abe nusi nàdo alo nusi nàɖu ene, wɔm gɔ̃ hã .
• Esesẽna be wò ɖeka nàdze asitsadɔ gɔme elabena mèka ɖe wò ŋutɔ wò ŋutetewo dzi o.
• Vɔvɔ̃ vevie be yemate ŋu akpɔ ye ɖokui dzi o.
• Nu siwo medzea ame ŋu o alo esiwo sesẽna na wo wɔwɔ le esi wodi be yewoaxɔ kpekpeɖeŋu, lɔlɔ̃, kple ametakpɔkpɔ tso ame bubuwo gbɔ ta. Le kpɔɖeŋu me, ame bubu ƒe dɔ wɔwɔ togbɔ be esesẽna na wo hã, be wòana wòanɔ kplikplikpli.
• Nyametsotso veviwo wɔwɔ le eƒe agbenɔnɔ ƒe akpa vovovowo ƒe agbanɔamedzi tsɔtsɔ de asi na ame bubuwo.
• Ƒo asa na masɔmasɔ, ame ƒe nu madzeamedzi alo tsitretsiɖeŋu ɖeɖefia le vɔvɔ̃ be ƒomedodowo me gblẽ alo ame bubuwo agblẽ ye ɖi ta o .
• Eɖea dzi ɖi ŋutɔ eye nyemate ŋu awɔ naneke o be nàse le ɖokuiwò me be yetsi akogo.
• Vɔvɔ̃ be woagblẽ ye ɖi kple sese le ame ɖokui me be yemate ŋu awɔ naneke o eye yeƒe gbagbã gã aɖe ne ƒomedodo kplikplikpli aɖe wu enu.

Zi geɖe la, ame ʋɛ aɖewo siwo dzi yewonɔa te ɖo koe ƒoa nu na amesiwo ŋu DPD le hewɔa nu kpli wo, eye woate ŋu alɔ̃ ɖe ŋutilãme, gbɔdɔdɔ, alo seselelãme ƒe ŋlɔmiwɔwɔ dzi wu le vɔvɔ̃ si le wo si be yewole ƒomedodo aɖe me tom ta.

Nukatae DPD sia dzɔna? Nukawoe gbɔ wòtsona?

Amenyenye ƒe kuxiwo, siwo dome DPD hã le, le susumedɔléle siwo gɔme womese tututu o dome, si fia be wogakpɔtɔ le numekuku ƒe afɔɖeɖea me. Gake numekulawo xɔe se be nu geɖe ate ŋu ana DPD nadze ame dzi:

• Ŋutasẽnuwɔwɔ: Ame siwo le ƒomedodo siwo me wowɔa ŋlɔmi le ame ŋu enuenu me la le afɔku gã aɖe me be woaxɔ DPD.
• Ðevimenɔɣi ƒe nuveviwɔame: DPD ate ŋu atso ŋutilã alo seselelãme ƒe ŋlɔmiwɔwɔ (si me nyagbɔgblɔ hã le) alo ɖekematsɔleme le ɖevime gbɔ. Ate ŋu adze amesiwo ŋu dɔléle sesẽ aɖe si ate ŋu ade woƒe agbe afɔku me le woƒe ɖevime hã dzi. Bu eŋu kpɔ, ne ele be nàɖo ŋu ɖe ame bubuwo ŋu le nusianu me tso ɖevime ke la, ate ŋu ava zu numame na wò eye wòazu wò amenyenye ƒe akpa aɖe.
• Domenyiŋusẽfianu: Ne DPD alo dzimaɖitsitsidɔ bubu aɖe le wò ƒomea me la, anɔ eme be DPD nadze dziwò. Esia fia be domenyiŋusẽfianu ate ŋu anɔ anyi.
• Dekɔnu, mawusubɔsubɔ, alo ƒome ƒe kɔnyinyi aɖewo: Le dekɔnu, mawusubɔsubɔ, alo ƒome aɖewo me la, wofiaa amewo be woabɔbɔ wo ɖokui ɖe ŋusẽtɔwo te ɣesiaɣi eye woanɔ te ɖe wo dzi (e.g., dzilawo, hamemegãwo, subɔsubɔhakplɔlawo), si hã ate ŋu awɔ akpa aɖe le DPD me. Ne wofia wò be nàɖo to nusianu eye màgblɔ wò ŋutɔ wò susu o hã ate ŋu akpe ɖe esia ŋu.

Aleke wokpɔa DPD ƒe nɔnɔme sia dzea sii?

Amenyenye nye nusi yia edzi nɔa tɔtrɔm le ɖevime kple ƒewuiwo katã me, si fia be enye nusi ƒe nɔnɔme trɔna. Eyata zi geɖe la, lãmesẽdɔwɔlawo, si nye ɖɔktawo, ne woxɔ ƒe 18 vɔ ko hafi.Wokpɔa DPD le ame ŋu elabena ele be nuwɔna siawo nanɔ anyi eteƒe nadidi eye wometrɔ boo le ɣeyiɣi aɖe megbe o.

Amenyenye ƒe kuxiwo, siwo dome DPD hã le, didi ate ŋu asesẽ ŋutɔŋutɔ elabena ame geɖe siwo ŋu nɔnɔme siawo le mesusuna be naneke megblẽ le yewoƒe nuwɔna alo alesi yewobua tamee ŋu o. Le woawo gome la, ɖeko wònye nusi sɔ.

Ne wova di kpekpeɖeŋu la, ke nɔnɔmewo abe dzimaɖitsitsi alo blanuiléle si va abe DPD ƒe nugbegblẽ le ame ŋu ene, alo ƒomedodo me kuxiwo alo kuxi siwo le dɔwɔƒe tae.

Ne susumedɔléle ŋuti aɖaŋuɖola , abe susuŋutinunyala alo tagbɔdɔdala ene, susui be ate ŋu anye be DPD le ame aɖe ŋu la, zi geɖe la, wobiaa nya siwo keke ta, siwo le gbadzaa, be yewoadze agbagba be yewoakpɔ:

• Ŋutinya si va yi.
• Ƒomedodowo.
• Dɔwɔwɔ ŋutinya si wowɔ va yi ŋuti nyatakakawo.
• Nu ŋutɔŋutɔ dodokpɔ, si fia alesi míekpɔa xexe ŋutɔŋutɔ.

Ðewohĩ amesi wosusu be DPD le eŋu la mase eya ŋutɔ ƒe nuwɔna kple tamebubu gɔme o . Eyata zi geɖe la, susumedɔdalawo ƒoa nu kple amea ƒe ƒometɔwo kple xɔlɔ̃wo be yewoaƒo nyatakaka geɖe nu ƒu tso eƒe nuwɔna kple tsãgbenɔnɔ ŋu.

DSM-5 ƒe dzidzenu siwo wotsɔ dea dzesi DPD

Tagbɔdɔlélawo nɔa te ɖe dzidzenu siwo le Amerika Tagbɔdɔlélawo ƒe Habɔbɔ ƒe Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5) me dzi kpɔa Amenyenye ƒe Dɔléle si Dzi Wonɔ te ɖo.

Le DPD ƒe dzesiwo nu la, ele be woalé ŋku ɖe nuwɔna siwo gbɔna la dometɔ atɔ̃ ya teti ŋu le mɔ si nɔa anyi ɖaa nu:

• Gbesiagbe nyametsotsowo wɔwɔ sesẽe aɖaŋuɖoɖo kple kakaɖedzi si gbɔ eme tso ame bubuwo gbɔ manɔmee.
• Alesi wòhiã be woatsɔ agbemenu vevitɔwo kekeake ƒe agbanɔamedzi ade asi na ame bubuwo.
• Esesẽna be woaɖe yeƒe masɔmasɔwo afia le vɔvɔ̃ be ame bubuwo ƒe kpekpeɖeŋu alo ŋudzedzekpɔkpɔ maganɔ ye si o ta.
• Esesẽna be woadze dɔwo gɔme ɖeɖeko le kakaɖedzimanɔamesi ɖe ame ƒe ŋutetewo kple ʋɔnudɔdrɔ̃ ŋu ta.
• Didi be yeawɔ nusianu (nu siwo medzɔa dzi na wò o gɔ̃ hã) be nàxɔ kpekpeɖeŋu tso ame bubuwo gbɔ.
• Sese le eɖokui me be yemele dedie o alo be yemate ŋu awɔ naneke o ne ye ɖeka, le vɔvɔ̃ be yemate ŋu akpɔ ye ɖokui dzi o ta.
• Ne ƒomedodo kplikplikpli aɖe me gblẽ la, ehiã vevie be woaɖo ƒomedodo yeye anyi kaba kple amesi ana beléle kple kpekpeɖeŋu.
• Dzimaɖitsitsi madzemadzee eye gɔmeɖoanyi manɔmee, esusu be ame aɖeke manɔ ye si akpɔ ye dzi o, be ye ɖeka koe anɔ anyi.

Nukawoe nye atike siwo wozãna na esia?

Amenyenye ƒe kuxiwo dada sesẽ ŋutɔŋutɔ elabena nɔnɔme siawo ƒo ke ɖe to ɖe ame siwo ŋu nɔnɔme siawo le la ƒe susu kple nuwɔna siwo ƒo ke ɖe to ɖe wo me ƒe geɖe.

Ne wole atike wɔm na amesiwo ŋu DPD le la, woƒe lɔlɔ̃tɔwo ƒe kpekpeɖeŋu kple gomekpɔkpɔ le eme le vevie ŋutɔ. Zi geɖe la, atikewɔwɔa lɔ susumedɔdada kple ɣeaɖewoɣi atikewo zazã ɖe eme.

Tagbɔdɔdada na DPD

Tagbɔdɔdada, si wogayɔna be nuƒoƒo ƒe atikewɔwɔ, ye nye amenyenye ƒe kuxiwo dada nyuitɔ kekeake. Taɖodzinu vevitɔe nye be wòakpe ɖe ŋuwò nàde dzesi nusiwo ʋãa wò kple vɔvɔ̃ siwo le megbe na wò tamesusuwo kple nuwɔna. Tsɔ kpe ɖe eŋu la, àte ŋu asrɔ̃ ale si nàde ha kple ame bubuwo le mɔ nyuitɔ, si naa lãmesẽ wu nu.

Susuŋudɔwɔwɔ ƒe mɔnu eve koŋ siwo ate ŋu akpe ɖe amesiwo ŋu DPD le ŋue nye:

• Tagbɔdɔléle ƒe atikewɔwɔ: Atikewɔwɔ sia ƒomevi ku ɖe susu me ke siwo gbɔ seselelãme ƒe fuɖename tso ŋu. To ɖokuiŋububu me la , èléa ŋku ɖe ƒomedodo siwo me kuxiwo le kple nuwɔna siwo le wò agbe me ŋu vevie. Esia kpena ɖe ŋuwò nèsea ɖokuiwò gɔme nyuie wu. Ekpena ɖe ŋuwò hã be nàtrɔ alesi nèwɔa nu kple ame bubuwo kpakple nuto si me nèle.
• Sidzedze ƒe Nuwɔna Ŋuti Dɔdamɔnu (CBT): Esia nye atikewɔwɔ si woɖo ɖe ɖoɖo nu, si wotu ɖe taɖodzinu dzi. Atikewɔla alo susuŋutinunyala kpena ɖe ŋuwò nèléa ŋku ɖe wò tamesusuwo kple seselelãmewo ŋu nyuie. Àte ŋu ase ale si wò tamesusuwo kpɔa ŋusẽ ɖe wò nuwɔnawo dzii gɔme. To CBT dzi la, àte ŋu aɖe susu kple nuwɔna gbegblẽwo ɖa . Èsrɔ̃a alesi nàtu tamebubu kple numame siwo le lãmesẽ me wu ɖo hã. DPD ƒe atikewɔwɔ ate ŋu aƒo nu tso wò vɔvɔ̃ be yeanɔ ye ɖokui si kple kuxi siwo le wò nyagbɔgblɔ me ŋu koŋ .

Atike siwo wozãna na DPD

Fifia la, atike aɖeke meli koŋ si ate ŋu ada amenyenye ƒe kuxiwo o. Gake atike aɖewo li siwo ate ŋu ada nɔnɔmewo abe blanuiléle kple dzimaɖitsitsi ene siwo ate ŋu adzɔ le ɣeyiɣi ɖeka me le amesiwo ŋu DPD le gome. Nɔnɔme siawo dada ate ŋu akpe ɖe ame ŋu hã le DPD dada me.

Gake be nu nyuitɔ kekeake nado tso eme la, ele be nàtsɔ atikewo akpe ɖe susumedɔdada ŋu .

Nukae dzɔna ne womewɔ atike nɛ o? Nukae nye mɔkpɔkpɔa?

Mɔkpɔkpɔ na amenyenye ƒe dɔléle si dzi woanɔ te ɖo, si nye emetsonua, nɔ te ɖe ne wodae alo womedae o dzi.

Ne womewɔ atike na DPD o la, ate ŋu ahe nusiwo gbɔna vɛ:

• Tagbɔdɔléle bubuwo, abe blanuiléle kple atike muamewo zazã ƒe kuxiwo ene, ƒe dzɔdzɔ .
• Kuxi siwo le ƒomedodowo me kple ŋutete manɔamesi be woalé wo me ɖe asi.
• Afɔku si le ŋutilã, seselelãme, alo gbɔdɔdɔ ƒe agbegbegblẽnɔnɔ me ƒe dzidziɖedzi.

Ame siwo ŋu DPD le la ƒe susu le wo ɖokui wuwu ŋu eye wodzea wo ɖokui wuwu ƒe agbagbadzedzewo me fũ. > Ne wò alo ame aɖe si nènya le ameɖokuiwuwu ƒe susuwo me tom la, taflatse di atikewɔlawo ƒe aɖaŋuɖoɖo enumake, alo gblɔe na ame aɖe si dzi nèka ɖo. Ðo ŋku edzi be ame aɖe nɔa afima ɣesiaɣi si akpe ɖe ŋuwò.

Ðe woate ŋu axe mɔ ɖe DPD nua?

Womate ŋu axe mɔ ɖe amenyenye ƒe dɔléle si nɔa te ɖe ame dzi nu o. Ke hã, atikewɔwɔ ate ŋu aɖe kuxi siwo wòhena vɛ dzi akpɔtɔ. Kpekpeɖeŋu didi ne dɔlélea ƒe dzesiwo dze ko la, ate ŋu akpe ɖe ame ŋu be wòaɖe tɔtɔ si le ame ƒe agbenɔnɔ, eƒe ƒometɔwo, kple xɔlɔ̃wɔwɔwo me dzi akpɔtɔ.

Nu vevitɔ si dzi wòle be míaɖo ŋkui enye be DPD nye susumedɔléle. Abe alesi wòle le susumedɔléle ɖesiaɖe gome ene la, kpekpeɖeŋu didi ne dzesiawo nya dze ko ate ŋu akpe ɖe ŋuwò nàɖe tɔtɔ si le wò agbenɔnɔ me dzi akpɔtɔ. Susuŋutinunyalawo ate ŋu ana atikewɔwɔ ŋuti ɖoɖowo be woakpe ɖe ŋuwò nàkpɔ wò tamesusuwo kple nuwɔnawo dzi.

Zi geɖe la, amesiwo ŋu DPD le ƒe lɔlɔ̃tɔwo ate ŋu akpɔ nuteɖeamedzi, blanuiléle, kple ame ɖokui ɖeɖe ɖe aga . Ele vevie be nàlé be na wò ŋutɔ wò susu ƒe lãmesẽ eye nàdi kpekpeɖeŋu ne èle dzesi siawo kpɔm.

Mlɔeba la, nu vevitɔ kekeake si dzi wòle be nàɖo ŋkui...

Eyata, àte ŋu akpɔe be DPD menye nu bɔbɔe o, gake kpekpeɖeŋu li na esia . Ne nane si le abe esia ene le fu ɖem na wò la, ke menye wò ɖeka koe le fu ɖem na wò o.

• Dzesidede nu ŋue nye afɔɖeɖe gbãtɔ: Ne èse le ɖokuiwò me be dzesi siawo le ye ŋu la, ele vevie ŋutɔ be nàdi aɖaŋuɖoɖo tso dɔnyala bibiwo gbɔ.
• Atikewɔwɔ ate ŋu akpe ɖe ŋuwò: Tagbɔdɔdada, vevietɔ mɔnuwo abe CBT kple Psychodynamic therapy ene, ate ŋu akpe ɖe ŋuwò nàtrɔ wò numame ƒe nuwɔna kple tamesusuwo.
• Anyo wu be nàdi kpekpeɖeŋu kaba: Ne ènya kpɔe be kuxi aɖe li ko la, kpekpeɖeŋu didi ate ŋu ana nɔnɔmea nagagblẽ ɖe edzi o.
• Wò lɔlɔ̃tɔwo hã hiã kpekpeɖeŋu: Agbenɔnɔ kple amesi ŋu DPD le ate ŋu asesẽ. De dzi ƒo na wo be woabu woawo ŋutɔ ƒe susu ƒe lãmesẽ hã ŋu.

Ðo ŋku edzi be gome le asiwò be nàsẽ ŋu ale gbegbe be nàte ŋu awɔ nusianu le ɖokuiwò si. Menye gbɔdzɔgbɔdzɔ ƒe dzesie wònye be woabia kpekpeɖeŋu le mɔzɔzɔ ma me o.

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