Esi viwò suea le tsitsim la, dzidzɔ aɖeke megali wu be nàkpɔ wo woanɔ nu vevi yeyewo wɔm o, alo? Ne wole zɔzɔm to woƒe dzigbezã gbãtɔ ŋu eye wole woƒe dzigbezã evelia gogom la, àde dzesii be woƒe nuƒoƒo kple woƒe susuwo gbɔgblɔ ƒe ŋutete le seƒoƒo ƒom le ablaɖeɖe si mexɔ se o me. Ðeko wòle abe ɖe ame aɖe de kadodomɔ̃ sue aɖe eme ene kloe! Le ɣeyiɣi sia me la, menye ɖeko wosea nya si nègblɔna gɔme o; wodzea woawo ŋutɔ ƒe nuhiahiãwo gbɔgblɔ gɔme to nyawo, asiwɔwɔ ɖe nya dzi, kple ŋutilã ƒe gbegbɔgblɔ zazã me. Wolɔ̃a mɔfiame bɔbɔewo gɔmesese kple wo dzi wɔwɔ. Ɣeaɖewoɣi la, woate ŋu axɔ dɔa gɔ̃ hã, anɔ se dem be, “Na ema nam!” alo “Wɔ esia!” Esia nye fefewɔƒe dzeani aɖe ale gbegbe, eye mina míaƒo nu tso eŋu geɖe wu.
Aleke mía vi suewo ɖoa dzee? Aleke nunyala sue siawo ɖea woƒe susu fianae?
Le ƒe sia me la, viwòa ƒe gbegbɔgblɔ ƒe ŋutete—eƒe nuƒoƒo ƒe ŋutete kple eƒe nugɔmesese siaa—le tsitsim le agbɔsɔsɔ si wɔ nuku ŋutɔŋutɔ me.
Nuƒoƒo ƒe Dzeɖoɖo
Anɔ abe ɣleti 15 ene la, anɔ eme be viwò suea adze nya ʋɛ aɖewo gbɔgblɔ gɔme wu “Mama” alo “Dada” ko. Kaka wòaxɔ ɣleti 18 la, zi geɖe la, nyagbe ma kekena ɖe enu va zua nya etɔ̃ alo esi wu nenema. Kaka woaxɔ ƒe eve la, wosrɔ̃ nya gbogbo aɖewo eye woadze wo ƒoƒo ƒu ɖe nyagbe kpui siwo le bɔbɔe me gɔme. Nyagbɔgblɔwo abe “Notsi geɖe wu,” “Ðu nuɖuɖu,” alo “Na bɔl” ene va bɔ. Esia nye titri gã aɖe le woƒe gbegbɔgblɔ ŋuti mɔzɔzɔa me.
Gɔmesese Hafi Nàƒo Nu
Ele vevie be nàɖo ŋku edzi be hafi woagblɔ woƒe nya gbãtɔwo gɔ̃ hã la, wosea nya siwo nègblɔna la ƒe akpa gãtɔ gɔme. Ele be viwò si le zɔzɔm la nate ŋu awɔ ɖe mɔfiame bɔbɔewo dzi. Le kpɔɖeŋu me, ne èbia be, “Tsɔ bɔl la na Dada” la, ele be woate ŋu alé ŋku ɖe eŋu ahadze agbagba be yewoawɔ ɖe edzi. Ele be woate ŋu alé ŋku ɖe nu alo nuɖuɖu siwo bɔ hã ŋu alo afia asi wo ne èyɔ wo ŋkɔ.
Dzeɖoɖo To Asiwɔwɔ Ðe Ame Ŋu Dzi
Le afɔɖeɖe sia me la, asiwɔwɔ ɖe nya dzi kple dzesi siwo menye nyagbɔgblɔ o nye kadodomɔnu vevitɔ. Nuwɔnawo abe agbugbɔ nu na ame, asiɖeɖe le nu siwo dim wole ŋu, alo ta ʋuʋu be “ɛ̃” ene va bɔ ɖe edzi. Le ƒe sia katã me la, asiwɔwɔ ɖe nya dzi siawo va dea ŋgɔ wu. Wozãa wo tsɔ srɔ̃a wò nuwɔnawo, ɖea woƒe seselelãmewo fiana, eye woƒoa wo ɖokui ɖe fefe me.
Nuƒoƒo Gbãtɔ ƒe Nyayɔyɔ Vovovowo
Togbɔ be viwò si le azɔli zɔm ƒe nyagbewo le dzidzim ɖe edzi kabakaba hã la, ɖewohĩ wo yɔyɔ—woƒe nuƒoƒo nyuie ƒe ŋutete—mawɔ ɖeka kple wo nɔewo o. Ne woxɔ ƒe eve gɔ̃ hã la, esɔ bliboe be nya siwo wogblɔna ƒe afã lɔƒo koe ame bubuwo nase egɔme nyuie. Ne èle dze ɖom kple viwòa la, ne woyɔ nya aɖe vodadatɔe la, gbugbɔ gblɔe na wo blewuu nyuie evɔ màƒo fi de wò o. Le kpɔɖeŋu me, ne wogblɔ be “malk” na “notsi” la, àte ŋu agblɔ be, “Oo, wò notsie nèdi? Wò notsie nye esi.”
Aleke mia dzilawo miate ŋu ana dzeɖoɖo ƒe ŋutete siawo nanyo ɖe edzi?
Àte ŋu awɔ nu geɖe ŋutɔ atsɔ ade dzi ƒo na viwò suea ƒe gbegbɔgblɔ ƒe ŋutete si le tsitsim la ahalée ɖe te. Esiawo nye afɔɖeɖe bɔbɔe siwo ŋudɔ nàte ŋu alɔ̃ bɔbɔe ɖe wò gbesiagbedɔwo me.
Dzo le vidzĩa ƒe nuƒoƒo dzi; zã nya siwo sɔ
Viwòa le abe ƒumebɔbɔ sue aɖe ene, eye wònyrɔa nya kple gbeɖiɖi ɖesiaɖe si wòse. Le esi teƒe be nàzã "vidzĩ ƒe nuƒoƒo" alo nya siwo wowɔ la, zã ŋkɔ siwo sɔ na amewo, teƒewo, kple nuwo. Ƒo nu blewuu, eme nakɔ, eye nàzã nyagbe bɔbɔewo. Le kpɔɖeŋu me, le esi teƒe be nàgblɔ be "avũ" la, gblɔ be "avũ." Le esi teƒe be nàgblɔ be "wa-wa" na tsi la, gblɔ be "tsi."
Wɔ nu ɖe asiwɔwɔ ɖe nya dzi ŋu
Abe alesi míedzro emee ene la, asiwɔwɔ ɖe nya dzi nye dzeɖoɖo gbãtɔ ƒe akpa vevi aɖe. Ne èlɔ̃ ɖe viwòa ƒe asiwɔwɔ ɖe nya dzi dzi hewɔ nu ɖe eŋu la, edea dzi ƒo na wo be woawɔ nu ɖe wo nɔewo ŋu geɖe wu. Àte ŋu akpe asi ɖe vovototo si le woƒe nuwɔnawo kple gbegbɔgblɔ dome la ɖeɖeɖa ŋu .
Le kpɔɖeŋu me, ne viwòa fia asi fridzi la, bia be, "Nukae nàdi? Nane si nàno?" Lala woaɖo eŋu, emegbe nàgabia ake be, "Nukae nèhiã? Notsi? Ah, enyo, na míaxɔ notsi aɖe!" Ne èwɔ esia la, ètrɔa woƒe asiwɔwɔ ɖe nya dzi wòzua nya siwo ŋu gɔmesese le.
Dzi ha eye nàfe kple hadzidzi siwo me nyawo sɔ kple wo nɔewo
Ðeviwo lɔ̃a hadzidzi kple haƒoƒo ƒe ɣeyiɣi ƒe didime. Midzi ha, migblɔ vidzidzi ƒe hadzidziwo, eye miawɔ fefe siwo me nyawo sɔ kple wo nɔewo ɖekae. Woakpɔ dzidzɔ ɖe asiwɔwɔ ɖe nya dzi ƒe fefewo abe "Itsy Bitsy Spider" alo nyagbe bubu siwo wotu ɖe nuwɔna dzi siwo me nèzãa wò asiwo tsɔ ɖea nyawo fiana le.
Tsɔ kpe ɖe eŋu la, kpe ɖe wo ŋu woasrɔ̃ alesi woade dzesi nusiwo ƒo xlã wo:
- Ŋutilã ƒe akpa aɖewo ("Afikae wò towo le?", "Àte ŋu aka asi wò ŋɔti ŋua?")
- Nɔnɔmetatawo ("Amekae nye esia? Nukae nye esia?")
- Fefenuwo ("Fia wò bɔl lam")
- Ame nyanyɛwo ("Afikae Tɔgbui le?", "Fia Dadam")
Xlẽ agbalẽ siwo me nɔnɔmetata siwo le amadede vovovowo me le
Le ƒe sia me la, .agbalẽ siwo me nɔnɔmetata gã siwo le amadede vovovowo me le la kpɔkpɔ xɔ asi ŋutɔ. De dzi ƒo na viwò suea be wòatrɔ axaawo eye nàbia tso esi be wòafia asi nuwo le nɔnɔmetataawo me ("Kpɔ seƒoƒo dzeani sia ɖa," "Avu aɖe li!"). Menye ɖeko esia kekea woƒe nyagbɔgblɔwo ɖe enu ko o, ke etua woƒe gɔmesese ɖe xexe si ƒo xlã wo ŋu hã ɖo.
Ɣekaɣie wòle be nàdi atikewɔlawo ƒe aɖaŋuɖoɖo?
Ðevi akpa gãtɔ ɖoa gbegbɔgblɔ ƒe nu vevi siawo gbɔ le ɣeyiɣi aɖewo koŋ me. Ke hã, ɖo ŋku edzi be ɖevi ɖesiaɖe le etɔxɛ eye wòtsina le eƒe ablaɖeɖe nu. Ke hã, dzesi aɖewo li siwo ŋu wòle be nàlé ŋku ɖo.
Ne ède dzesi nu siwo gbɔna la, anyo be nàkpɔ ɖeviwo ƒe dɔdala alo atikewɔƒe si le mia gbɔ:
- Kaka ɣleti 15 naɖo: Womedzea agbagba be yewoagblɔ nya ɖeka alo eve ya teti tsɔ kpe ɖe "Mama" alo "Dada" ŋu o.
- Kaka ɣleti 15 naɖo: Womeléa ŋku ɖe nu nyanyɛwo ŋu alo ɖenɛ fiana be yewonya wo ne woyɔ wo ŋkɔ o.
- Kaka wòaxɔ ɣleti 18: Wogblɔa nya siwo mede etɔ̃ o (ŋkɔwo mele eme o).
- Kaka ɣleti 18 naɖo: Womate ŋu ase mɔfiame bɔbɔewo gɔme ahawɔ wo dzi wò kpekpeɖeŋu manɔmee o (le kpɔɖeŋu me, "Tsɔ afɔkpaa nam").
- Kaka ƒe 2 naɖo la: Womate ŋu afia asi nɔnɔmetata siwo le agbalẽ me alo ade dzesi ŋutilã ƒe akpa eve ya teti ne wobia wo o.
- Kaka ƒe 2 naɖo la: Womeƒoa nya eve ya teti nu ƒu ɖe nyagbe bɔbɔewo me o (le kpɔɖeŋu me, "Notsi geɖe wu," "Ðu bli").
Nuŋlɔɖi aɖe si ku ɖe Autism ŋu
Ɣeaɖewoɣi la, dzilawo tsia dzi ne ɖevi ƒe nuƒoƒo tsi megbe be ate ŋu anye Autism Spectrum Disorder ƒe dzesi. Eɖea vi ne wona nyanya mí. Ðɔktawo daa tsitsi kpɔna edziedzi eye wodoa nɔnɔme siawo kpɔna le dodokpɔ ɖesiaɖe me . Wowɔa dodokpɔ siwo wotsɔ doa nɔnɔme siawo kpɔna koŋ le ɣleti 18 kple ƒe 2 xɔxɔ me.
Eyata ne nya aɖe le asiwò alo ɖikeke suetɔ kekeake le viwòa ƒe dzeɖoɖo alo eƒe tsitsi ŋu la, taflatse mègahe ɖe megbe le nuƒoƒo na wò ƒomea ƒe ɖɔkta alo ɖeviwo ƒe dɔdala gaglãa o. Wò dzimaɖitsitsiwo gbɔgblɔ na wò ana wò susu nadze akɔ anyi eye nàkpɔ egbɔ be viwòa kpɔ kpekpeɖeŋu nyuitɔ kaba ale si wòanya wɔ.
Kpuie ko la: Nuɖuɖu vevitɔ kekeake si woatsɔ ayi
Viwò ƒe gbegbɔgblɔ ƒe tsitsi kpɔkpɔ le ƒe gbãtɔ siawo me nye akunyawɔwɔ vavã. Ðo ŋku edzi be ɖevi ɖesiaɖe tsina le eƒe ablaɖeɖe tɔxɛ nu. Ƒo asa na didi be yeatsɔ wo asɔ kple ɖevi bubuwo, si ɖeko wòhea dzimaɖitsitsi si mehiã o vɛ. Gake nɔ nyanya nam tso ŋgɔyiyi ƒe nu vevi siwo wowɔna ɖaa ŋu.
Vevietɔ wu la, de asixɔxɔ ɣeyiɣi si nèzãna ɖe viwò suea ŋu la ŋu.
- Ðo dze kpli wo ɣesiaɣi.
- Se woƒe agbagbadzedze be yewoaɖo dze kple woƒe asiwɔwɔ ɖe nya dzi eye nàwɔ nu ɖe wo ŋu.
- Fe kpli wo eye nàdzi ha.
- Mixlẽ agbalẽwo ɖekae.
Wò lɔlɔ̃, wò susu, kple ɣeyiɣi ɖesiaɖe si nàzã atsɔ anɔ nu kom hele dze ɖom kpli wo lae nye nunana gãtɔ kekeake le woƒe xexe suea me. Menye ɖeko wòana woƒe gbegbɔgblɔ ƒe ŋutete nanyo ɖe edzi ko o, ke ana woƒe agbemeŋkekewo katã nanyo ɖe edzi! Ŋusẽ le asiwò be nàfia mɔ wò dzeɖola sue la ayi etsɔme nyui kple dzeani aɖe gbɔ kple Nirogi Lanka.
👩🏽 ⚕️ Nyabiase Siwo Wobiana Enuenu (FAQs)
💬 Nya nenie wòle be ɖevi nate ŋu agblɔ zi geɖe le ƒe 1 va ɖo ƒe 2 dome?
Ne viwò xɔ ƒe ɖeka la, zi geɖe la, egblɔa nya siwo ade 2-3 abe ‘Mama’ alo ‘Dada’ ene. Kaka woaxɔ ɣleti 18 la, ele be woanɔ nya siwo ade 20 gblɔm, eye kaka woaxɔ ƒe 2 la, ele be woadze nyawo ƒoƒo ƒu ɖe nya eve ƒe nyagbe bɔbɔewo me (le kpɔɖeŋu me, "ɖu nuɖuɖu" alo "yi mama").
💬 Ðe wòle be matsi dzi ne vinye mele nu ƒom haɖe o, le ƒe ɖeka xɔxɔ vɔ megbe gɔ̃ hã?
Ðevi ɖesiaɖe ƒe tsitsi zɔna ɖe eya ŋutɔ ƒe ɣeyiɣiɖoɖo tɔxɛ dzi, eyata zi geɖe la, mehiã be woatsi dzodzodzoe enumake o. Gake ne viwòa megale nya aɖeke gblɔm hafi wòxɔ ɣleti 18 o eye wòɖoa ŋu ɖe asifiaƒe alo asiwɔwɔ ɖe nya dzi ɖeɖeko dzi be yeaɖo dze kplii la, taflatse wɔ ɖoɖo be yeayi aɖakpɔ ɖeviwo ƒe dɔdala aɖe be wòadoe kpɔ.
💬 Aleke dzilawo ate ŋu akpe asi ɖe wo vi ƒe dzeɖoɖo ƒe ŋutete ŋu wòanyo ɖe edzi?
Nuwɔwɔ ɖekae nye nu vevitɔ! Ƒo nu kple viwòa ɣesiaɣi le ŋkekea me katã, zã nɔnɔmetatagbalẽwo nàtsɔ afia lãwo kple nuwo ƒe ŋkɔ wo, eye nàtsɔ kadodo kple ŋutinyawo gbɔgblɔ ŋkume kple ŋkume aɖo nɔƒe gbãtɔ wu ɣeyiɣi si woatsɔ awɔ sinimae be wòade kadodo deto kple gbegbɔgblɔ ƒe tsitsi dzi.
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