Sometimes you just can't sleep at night, right? After going to bed, all sorts of things come to mind, and apart from tossing and turning, sleep is nowhere near at hand. This is a really annoying problem that many people have. You may think that you are the only one who suffers from this, but the truth is that it is not. Even world-famous singer Alanis Morissette has suffered a lot from this problem. So today, let's talk about this problem of not being able to sleep, which is medically known as insomnia , and what we can do to get a good night's sleep.
Why don't we sleep well?
There is no single reason for insomnia. There can be many factors that contribute to it. Sometimes, one or more of these factors come together to disrupt our sleep. Imagine how difficult it is to fall asleep suddenly after singing on stage in a place full of fans. The excitement and adrenaline in your body make it impossible to fall asleep. This is common for an artist like Alanis Morissette.
Also, the problem of insomnia can increase during pregnancy, especially in the last few months, due to the discomforts felt by the body. But in general, there are several main reasons that disrupt sleep in our lives.
| Reason | Simply put... |
|---|---|
| Stress and Anxiety | When you're thinking about things like office problems, household problems, children's exams, and financial problems, your brain doesn't get any rest. So you can't sleep. |
| Irregular sleep habits | Changing your sleep and wake times from day to day. Especially staying up late on weekends and sleeping until noon the next day can disrupt your body clock. |
| Diet | Things like eating a large meal close to bedtime, drinking caffeine-containing beverages like coffee at night, and drinking alcohol directly affect sleep. |
| Electronic Devices | The blue light emitted by phones, TVs, computers, and tablets stimulates our brains and signals us to stay awake. |
| Other medical conditions | Sleep can also be disrupted by things like persistent pain in the body (such as joint pain), difficulty breathing, and discomfort during pregnancy. |
How to create new habits for good sleep?
Okay, now we have a rough idea of what the problem is. You might be thinking, "Is this something that can never be fixed?" Don't think so. The good news is, we can control this situation to a great extent if we change our habits a little. It doesn't have to be big. Let's try to do some small things with enthusiasm.
Remember, it takes time to form a new habit, so don't expect results overnight, just follow these steps patiently.
1. Establish a bedtime routine
This is the most important thing. Try to go to bed and wake up at the same time every day as much as possible. It is very important to follow this as much as possible on weekends. Then your body clock will start working in a rhythm.
2. Make the bedroom a place reserved exclusively for sleep.
Your bedroom should be like a temple where you can relax.
- A calm environment: Keep the room as dark, quiet, and cool as possible.
- Use your bed only for sleep and sex: Stop working, watching TV, eating, etc. in bed. Then your brain will automatically recognize that 'the bed is a place to sleep.'
- Comfortable colors: Use soothing, calming colors in the room that are easy on the eyes.
3. Stay away from screens an hour before bed.
This may be the hardest thing to do these days, but it's very important. Stop using your phone, computer, or TV at least an hour before bed. Instead, read a book, listen to soothing music, or have a short conversation with your family.
4. Be careful about what you eat and drink before bed.
- Don't eat a full meal close to bedtime. Doing so will make your body work harder to digest food, which will disrupt your sleep.
- But it's also hard to sleep on an empty stomach. So , about an hour before bed, eat something light like a little protein and a piece of fruit . For example, a glass of milk, a yogurt, or a banana are good.
- Avoid drinking caffeinated beverages like coffee, tea, and cola after 6 pm.
5. Don't toss and turn in bed.
If you can't fall asleep after 20-30 minutes in bed, don't try to force yourself to fall asleep by tossing and turning. This will only add to the stress. At that point, get up, go to another room, and do something that will calm you down. For example, read a book or listen to a soothing song. Go back to bed only when you feel sleepy again.
When should we see a doctor?
Usually, making simple lifestyle changes like these can help many people manage their insomnia. However,
- If you have been unable to sleep for several weeks,
- If you feel overly tired, irritable, or have difficulty concentrating during the day due to lack of sleep,
- If this problem is seriously affecting your job, family life, and daily activities,
You should definitely see your doctor and talk about this. It is possible that your insomnia is due to an underlying medical condition. It is important to diagnose and treat it properly. Your doctor will be able to advise you and prescribe treatment if necessary.
Take-Home Message
- Insomnia is a common problem that many people have. Don't worry, you're not alone.
- Small changes in your lifestyle can make a big difference. Go to bed at a regular time, and stop looking at your phone before bed.
- Keep your bedroom a quiet, cool, and dark place dedicated to sleep.
- If you continue to have trouble sleeping despite doing these simple things, don't be ashamed or afraid of it , and definitely see your doctor for advice.


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