I kēia mau lā, ua lilo ia i mea maʻamau no nā ʻohana he nui ke hana nā mākua ʻelua. No laila, he paʻakikī nui ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi mea nāna e mālama i ka pēpē hou a i ʻole kahi palekana e noho ai. ʻOi aku ma mua o ke kūʻai ʻana i nā mea pāʻani a me nā lole no ka pēpē, ʻo ka loaʻa ʻana o ka lawelawe mālama keiki maikaʻi loa no kona pono a me kona palekana ka mea nui loa. No laila e kamaʻilio kākou e pili ana i kēia i kēia lā.
E hoʻomaka i mua e ʻike i kahi wahi maikaʻi.
ʻAʻole he hana maʻalahi ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi kikowaena mālama keiki maikaʻi. Loaʻa i kekahi mau wahi maikaʻi nā papa inoa kali lōʻihi e hoʻopaʻa inoa i nā keiki. No laila, he mea nui loa e hoʻomaka e ʻimi i kahi maikaʻi i ka wā e hāpai ana ʻoe i kāu pēpē, ʻoi aku hoʻi i nā mahina ʻekolu hope o ka hāpai ʻana. ʻO ka mea maikaʻi loa e hana ai, ʻo ia ke nīnau i kāu mau hoaaloha, ʻohana, a me nā hoalauna e pili ana i kēia. E haʻi lākou iā ʻoe e pili ana i nā wahi maikaʻi a lākou i ʻike ai. E hoʻomanaʻo,
ʻo ka palekana a me ke olakino o ka pēpē ka mea mua. Loaʻa paha iā ʻoe kekahi mau koho e koho ai:
- Nā Kikowaena Mālama Lā Kūhelu: ʻO kēia nā wahi i hoʻopaʻa inoa ʻia me ke aupuni a holo e like me nā lula a me nā hoʻoponopono.
- Mālama Keiki ʻOhana: Koho kekahi poʻe e mālama i nā keiki he nui i loko o ko lākou home ponoʻī. He koho maikaʻi nō hoʻi kēia.
- Kahu hānai: Hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa i kekahi e hele mai i kou home a mālama i ke pēpē.
- Nā ʻohana a me nā hoaaloha: Ma ko mākou ʻāina, mālama pinepine nā kūpuna i nā keiki liʻiliʻi. ʻO kēia kekahi o nā hoʻomaikaʻi nui loa e hiki i kahi keiki ke loaʻa.
ʻO wai ka mea hiki ke hāʻawi i ka mālama maikaʻi loa?
He nui nā loea ulu keiki e ʻōlelo ana he mea maikaʻi
i nā mākua ke mālama i kā lākou keiki ponoʻī , inā hiki, i nā pule a me nā mahina mua o ke ola o kahi keiki.
Pono nā pēpē ʻōpio i kahi pilina maikaʻi, ke aloha, a me ka launa pū mau me ko lākou poʻe mālama. ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi o ka loaʻa ʻana o kēlā mai ko lākou mau mākua mai.
He mea nui loa nā pule 6 mua o ke ola o kahi pēpē. He mea hou ka pēpē i ke ao nei a ke maʻa nei i ke kaiapuni home. Eia kekahi, i ka wā e noho ana kahi pēpē liʻiliʻi i kahi piha kanaka, kiʻekiʻe ka loaʻa ʻana o nā maʻi lele e like me
ke anu . ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi o ka pale ʻana i ka pēpē mai kēlā pilikia i ka manawa hikiwawe loa. Hoʻoponopono kekahi mau mākua i kā lākou papa hana i hiki i nā mākua ʻelua ke mālama i ka pēpē. No ka laʻana, hana iki nā mākua ʻelua a hoʻolilo i ke koena o ko lākou manawa me ka pēpē. ʻOiai ʻaʻole hiki kēia i nā mea āpau, pono e noʻonoʻo ʻia.
I ke koho ʻana i kahi wahi kūpono, e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i kēia mau mea:
ʻOiai ke ʻano o kahi āu e koho ai, pono ʻoe e noiʻi pono i kēia mau mea ma mua o ka hoʻoholo ʻana i kēlā wahi. Mai kipa wale aku i hoʻokahi manawa a hoʻoholo.
E kipa aku iā ia ma ka liʻiliʻi ʻelua a ʻekolu paha manawa. | ʻOiaʻiʻo koʻikoʻi | Nā mea āu e nānā ai |
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| Nā mea mālama | Ke mālama nei anei ka poʻe e hana ana ma laila i nā keiki me ke aloha a me ka lokomaikaʻi? Ke kamaʻilio nei anei lākou me nā keiki, hīmeni i nā mele, a pāʻani pū me lākou? Ke hāʻawi like nei anei lākou i ka nānā ʻana i kēlā me kēia keiki? |
| Kaiapuni a me ka hoʻoulu ʻana | Ua lawa anei kahi a me nā mea pāʻani no nā keiki e pāʻani ai? Aia kekahi mau kelepona paʻalima nani e kau ana ma luna o ka hale moe? Aia kekahi wahi hoʻouluulu me nā leo a me nā kala e kōkua ai i ka ulu ʻana o ka lolo o ke keiki? |
| Ka maʻemaʻe a me ke olakino | Ua maʻemaʻe anei ka wahi? E nānā inā mālama ʻia ka maʻemaʻe ma nā wahi e like me ka lumi kuke a me nā wahi hoʻololi diaper. |
| Luna Hoʻokele a me nā limahana | E hālāwai a kamaʻilio me ke poʻo a me nā limahana ʻē aʻe. E ʻike inā hiki iā ʻoe ke hilinaʻi iā lākou a ʻae pū me lākou. |
| Nā manaʻo o nā mākua ʻē aʻe | E kamaʻilio me nā mākua ʻē aʻe i hoʻouna mua i kā lākou keiki i laila a ʻike inā ʻoluʻolu lākou i kahi. |
Inā hele mai kekahi i ka hale... (Inā he kahu hānai)
Inā ʻoe e koho ana i kahi kahu hānai e hele mai i kou home a mālama i kāu pēpē,
pono ʻoe e noiʻi pono iā ia. E noi i nā kuhikuhi mai nā wahi āna i hana ai ma mua. He hilinaʻi a kuleana paha ʻo ia? Pehea lā ʻo ia e hana ai me kāu pēpē no ka manawa mua? E makaʻala i kēia mau mea a pau.
He aha ka lakio e pono ai ma waena o nā keiki a me nā mea mālama?
I mea e loaʻa ai i kahi keiki ka nānā e pono ai lākou, pono e kaupalena ʻia ka nui o nā keiki e hiki i kahi limahana hoʻokahi ke mālama. Eia nā lakio i ʻōlelo ʻia e nā hui honua e like me ka American Academy of Pediatrics.
| Pūʻulu Makahiki | Ka uku i ʻōlelo ʻia (no kēlā me kēia mea mālama) |
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| Nā pēpē ma lalo o 24 mau mahina | 1 no 3 mau keiki |
| 25 - 30 mau mahina | 1 no 4 mau keiki |
| 31 - 35 mau mahina | 1 i loko o 5 mau keiki |
| 3 mau makahiki | 1 i loko o 7 mau keiki |
| 4 - 5 mau makahiki | 1 i loko o 8 mau keiki |
Ma waho aʻe o kēia mau helu, e nīnau e pili ana i
ka hoʻololi ʻana o nā limahana . ʻAʻole maikaʻi kahi e loli pinepine ai nā limahana no ke keiki. No ka mea, i ka wā e maʻa ai ke keiki i hoʻokahi kanaka, e neʻe aku lākou. He mea nui loa i ke keiki ke ʻike i kahi helehelena paʻa a kamaʻāina.
Kālā, maikaʻi a me ka ulu ʻana o ka lolo
Hiki ke ʻokoʻa ke kumukūʻai o nā kikowaena mālama keiki mai kēlā me kēia ʻāina. Akā e hoʻāʻo e koho
i ka lawelawe maikaʻi loa no kāu kālā. ʻO ka hoʻolimalima ʻana i kekahi e hele mai i kou home a mālama iā ʻoe he koho pipiʻi pinepine ia. Akā inā hiki iā ʻoe ke uku, he koho maikaʻi ia no nā makahiki ʻelua a ʻekolu mua o ke ola o kāu keiki. Akā i ka wā e hiki ai i kāu keiki ma kahi o 3-4 mau makahiki, lilo
ka launa pū ʻana me ka lehulehu i mea nui no ko lākou ulu ʻana. He mea nui loa ia manawa e aʻo a pāʻani pū i loko o kahi hui.
Ua kākau inoa ʻia ke kikowaena āu e koho ai me nā keʻena aupuni pili?E nānā pū. ʻOiai ke hoʻāʻo mau ʻia nei kēlā mau wahi, aia kekahi kūlana. ʻO ka mea hope loa, e hoʻomanaʻo, ʻo ka makahiki mua o ke ola o kahi pēpē
kahi manawa e ulu wikiwiki ana kona kino a me ka lolo. I loko o kēia manawa, ʻo ka heluhelu ʻana i nā moʻolelo i kāu keiki, ke kamaʻilio ʻana me ia, a me ke mele ʻana i nā mele he mea nui loa ia no kona ulu ʻana o ka noʻonoʻo. Inā ulu kahi keiki i kahi mālie kahi ʻaʻohe mea e kamaʻilio, e nele ʻo ia i kahi manawa koʻikoʻi i kona ulu ʻana.
Leka Lawe-Home
- Inā makemake kāu pēpē i kahi kikowaena mālama keiki, e hoʻomaka e nānā iā ia a puni ka manawa āu e manaʻo ai.
- Inā hiki, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka mālama ʻana i nā mākua no nā mahina mua o ke ola o ke keiki.
- Ma mua o ke koho ʻana i kahi, e kipa aku i laila i nā manawa he nui a e nānā i kona wahi, ka maʻemaʻe, a me ke ʻano o ka hana a nā limahana me nā keiki.
- E hoʻomanaʻo i ka lakio keiki-i-ka-limahana a me ke kūpaʻa o ka poʻe limahana.
- E koho i kahi kaiapuni hoʻoulu (kamaʻilio, mele, pāʻani) e kōkua i ka ulu ʻana o ka lolo o kāu keiki.
- Inā he mau hopohopo a kānalua paha kāu, e kamaʻilio me kāu kauka ʻohana (kauka) e pili ana i ia mea.
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