He aha ʻo Cisgender? E kamaʻilio kākou e pili ana i ia mea me ka maʻalahi a me ke akahai!

I kēia mau lā, lohe mākou a pau i nā huaʻōlelo hou e kamaʻilio ʻia nei ma nā pāpili kaiapili a me ke TV, ʻeā? I kekahi manawa hoʻohana mākou i kēia mau huaʻōlelo ʻoiai ʻaʻole mākou i ʻike pono i ko lākou manaʻo. Pēlā nō, ʻo kahi huaʻōlelo i kani i loko o ko mākou mau pepeiao i kēia mau lā, ʻo ia ʻo "Cisgender." Ua lohe paha ʻoe i kēia huaʻōlelo ma mua. No laila, he aha maoli ʻo Cisgender? He kumuhana paʻakikī kēia? ʻAʻole loa. E kamaʻilio kākou e pili ana i kēia me ka maʻalahi a me ke aloha i kēia lā a hoʻomālamalama i nā nīnau a pau i loko o ko kākou mau poʻo.

He aha ka manaʻo maʻalahi o Cisgender?

Maʻalahi loa. ʻO ke ʻano o Cisgender, ua ʻae kou manaʻo me ke kāne maoli i hāʻawi ʻia iā ʻoe i ka wā hānau.

E wehewehe iki aku kākou. E noʻonoʻo i kou wā i hānau ʻia ai, ua kākau nā kauka i ka huaʻōlelo "wahine" ma kāu palapala hānau. I kou wā e ʻelemakule ai, manaʻo pū ʻoe he kaikamahine ʻoe, a he wahine paha. I kēlā hihia, he wahine cisgender ʻoe.

Pēlā nō, inā ua hānau ʻia ʻoe he "kāne" ma kāu palapala hānau, a i kou ulu ʻana, noʻonoʻo mau ʻoe a manaʻo e like me ke keikikāne a he kāne paha, a laila he kāne cisgender ʻoe.

ʻO ka hapa nui o ka poʻe ma ka honua e hāʻule ana i loko o ka māhele cisgender. ʻO ka ʻāpana Latina o kēia huaʻōlelo, "cis", ʻo ia hoʻi "ma kēia ʻaoʻao". ʻO ka huaʻōlelo ʻē aʻe ʻo "trans". ʻO ia hoʻi "ma kēlā ʻaoʻao". I nā huaʻōlelo ʻē aʻe, kapa mākou i ka poʻe e ʻike me kahi ʻike kāne ʻokoʻa mai ke kāne i hāʻawi ʻia iā lākou i ka hānau ʻana he 'Transgender'.

He ʻelua mea ʻokoʻa anei ka moekolohe a me ke kāne?

ʻAe! He mea huikau kēia no nā kānaka he nui. Manaʻo ka poʻe he nui he like ka "moekolohe" a me ke "kāne a me ke kāne." Akā, he ʻelua manaʻo like ʻole kēia. E hoʻomaopopo pono kākou i kēia ʻokoʻa.

ʻO ke ʻano o ka ʻike kāne a me ka wahine ke ʻano o kou ʻike ʻana iā ʻoe iho mai loko mai, pehea ʻoe e kamaʻilio ai iā ʻoe iho (ʻo ia, ʻo ia, ʻo lākou). ʻAʻole kūlike ke kāne a me ka ʻike kāne o kēlā me kēia kanaka.

No laila ʻo wai ka Nonbinary?

ʻO ka "Nonbinary" kahi huaʻōlelo maʻamau i hoʻohana ʻia no ka poʻe nona ka ʻike kāne a wahine ʻaʻole kūpono i nā pahu kuʻuna o ke kāne a wahine paha. Hiki ke noho ma waena, he hui pū ʻana o nā mea ʻelua, a i ʻole he ʻike ma waho loa o kekahi.

ʻO kekahi mau laʻana:

• Genderqueer: Hiki ke loli pinepine ko lākou ʻano moekolohe.
• Genderfluid: He ʻano pilikino e loli pinepine ana ma waena o nā ʻano kāne a me nā wahine.
• Agender: Nā kānaka i ʻike ʻole i kekahi ʻano kāne (kāne, wahine, a i ʻole kekahi).
• Bigender: ʻO ka poʻe i ʻike iā lākou iho he kāne a he wahine i ka manawa like a i ʻole i nā manawa like ʻole.

Ka ʻIke Wahine a me ke Kuhi Moekolohe

ʻO kēia kekahi mea e huikau ai nā kānaka he nui.

• ʻIke Wahine/Wahine: ʻO ʻoe kēia. ʻO ia hoʻi inā ʻoe e ʻike he kāne, he wahine, a i ʻole kekahi ʻano ʻē aʻe.
• ʻAno Moekolohe: ʻO ia ka mea āu e aloha ai . ʻO ia ka mea āu e makemake ai i ka moekolohe a me ka naʻau.

Eia kekahi laʻana, hiki i kahi kanaka transgender (kahi kanaka nona ka ʻokoʻa o kona ʻano wahine mai ko lākou wahine i hāʻawi ʻia i ka wā hānau) ke huki ʻia i ka wahine ʻē aʻe (pololei), homosexual (gay/lesbian), a bisexual paha. He kūʻokoʻa loa kēia mau manaʻo ʻelua.

E aʻo pū kākou e pili ana i ke kūlana i kapa ʻia ʻo Intersex.

Manaʻo kekahi poʻe he ʻelua wale nō kāne ma ke ʻano biologically, ʻo ke kāne a me ka wahine. Akā, ʻoi aku ia e like me ka spectrum. ʻO ka "Intersex" kahi kūlana i hānau ʻia ai ke kanaka me nā ʻano moekolohe (chromosomes, hormones, a i ʻole genitals) ʻaʻole i kūlike me ke kino kāne a wahine maʻamau. ʻAʻole kēia he ʻike kāne, akā he ʻokoʻa biological . Inā makemake ʻoe e ʻike hou aku e pili ana i kēia, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ke nīnau ʻana i kāu kauka (kauka).

He aha ke "Kuleana Cisgender"?

He kumuhana koʻikoʻi kēia. Ke ʻōlelo wau "kuleana kūikawā," manaʻo paha kekahi poʻe ʻo ia hoʻi ke ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka poʻe cisgender ma mua o kekahi. ʻAʻole loa.

ʻO ke Kuleana Cisgender ka pono kūikawā a me ke kuleana āu e hauʻoli maoli ai no ka mea ua kūpono kou ʻano wahine i loko o ke ʻano "maʻamau" i ʻae ʻia e ka hapa nui o ke kaiāulu. ʻAʻole pono ka poʻe Cisgender e hopohopo e pili ana i nā pilikia, nā nīnau, a me ka hoʻokae ʻana e kū nei i ka poʻe ʻaʻole cisgender i kēlā me kēia lā.

E nānā kākou i kekahi mau laʻana:

• ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e hopohopo no ka nānā ʻē ʻana mai o kekahi iā ʻoe, ka nīnau ʻana i nā nīnau, a i ʻole ka hoʻoluhi ʻana iā ʻoe ke hele ʻoe e hoʻohana i ka lua hoʻomaha lehulehu.
• Ke hālāwai ʻoe me kahi mea hou, ʻaʻohe mea e nīnau mai i kou "inoa maoli".
• ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e hopohopo inā e hoʻohana kekahi i ka panina kūpono (he/she) ke kamaʻilio e pili ana iā ʻoe.
• ʻAʻole nīnau kekahi poʻe i nā nīnau pilikino pono ʻole e pili ana i kou kino a i ʻole nā ​​​​ʻoki kino āu i hana ai.
• Ke ʻike ʻoe i ke kiʻi o ʻoe iho i kou wā kamaliʻi, ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e wehewehe i kekahi, "No ke aha ʻoe i like ʻole ai me kēia manawa?"

ʻOiai he mea maʻamau kēia mau mea no ke kanaka cisgender, no ke kanaka transgender a nonbinary paha, he mau pilikia kēia i kēlā me kēia lā e hoʻonui ai iā lākou i ka pilikia o ka hoʻomohala ʻana i ke kaumaha, ke kaumaha, a me nā pilikia olakino ʻē aʻe.

Pehea lā kākou e mahalo ai a kākoʻo ai i nā kānaka a pau?

Ma ke ʻano he poʻe cisgender, hiki iā kākou ke hoʻomaopopo i kēia mau ʻokoʻa a kōkua i ka hoʻokumu ʻana i kahi kaiāulu hoʻokomo a mahalo. ʻAʻole pono ia he mea nui. E hoʻomaka kākou me nā mea liʻiliʻi.

• Mai kuhi: Mai kuhi he cisgender nā mea a pau āu e hālāwai ai.
• E mahalo: E mahalo i ke ʻano o ka hoʻolauna ʻana o kekahi iā lākou iho. E kāhea iā lākou ma ko lākou inoa makemake a me ka panina. Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe maopopo, ʻaʻohe hewa o ka nīnau ʻana me ke akahai, "Pehea ʻoe e makemake ai e kamaʻilio ʻia aku?"
• Mai nīnau i nā nīnau pono ʻole:Mai nīnau e pili ana i ke kino o kekahi, nā ʻoki kino, a i ʻole ka ʻike pilikino olakino. He mea pilikino loa ia.
• E makaʻala: Ma ka heluhelu iki ʻana e pili ana i kēia mau kumuhana a me ka ʻike ʻana, hiki iā ʻoe ke pale iā ʻoe iho mai ka heluhelu ʻana me ka ʻike ʻole i kahi mea e hiki ai ke hōʻeha i ka manaʻo o kekahi.

ʻO ka mea nui loa, ʻo ia ka mahalo i ke ʻano o kekahi a me ka hana me ka lokomaikaʻi a me ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana.