Inā ʻoe e hakakā nei me ka maʻi ʻaʻai
umauma , hiki iā ʻoe ke manaʻo luhi loa a luhi i kekahi manawa. Ke hiki ʻole iā ʻoe ke hauʻoli me kou ʻohana e like me ka wā ma mua ma muli o
nā hopena ʻaoʻao o ka lāʻau lapaʻau, hiki iā ʻoe ke kaumaha a noʻonoʻo, "E hōʻino anei au i ko lākou hauʻoli ma muli oʻu?" Akā, mai noʻonoʻo pēlā. ʻO ka mea nui i kou ʻohana, ʻoiai kāu mau keiki, ʻaʻole ʻoe e hele pū me lākou i nā huakaʻi nui a hana paha i nā mea nui. ʻO kou noho ʻana ma laila no lākou. I kēia lā, e kamaʻilio kākou e pili ana i kekahi mau ala maʻalahi a nani hoʻi e hoʻolilo ai i ka manawa me kou ʻohana ma ke ʻano hauʻoli a aloha, ʻoiai i kēia mau manawa paʻakikī.
ʻO ka mea nui, ʻo ia ka mālama ʻana i nā mea maʻalahi.
ʻO kēia ka mea huna koʻikoʻi loa. ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e hoʻolālā i nā mea nui. ʻO nā kauka e mālama ana i nā maʻi kanesa, a me ka poʻe i kū i kēia maʻi, ʻōlelo like lākou:
"Makemake kāu mau keiki e hoʻolilo manawa me ʻoe." Ke
mālama ʻia nei ʻoe e ka maʻi kanesa e like me ka `(
chemotherapy )`, hiki i ka hoʻolālā ʻana i nā huakaʻi nui a me nā pāʻina ke lilo i mea kaumaha loa iā ʻoe. Akā, he nui nā ala e hauʻoli ai ma ka home, ma ka ʻoluʻolu o kou home ponoʻī, me nā mea liʻiliʻi. E noʻonoʻo, makemake kāu keiki e pāʻani me ʻoe, ʻaʻole a hiki i kou lawe ʻana iā ia i kahi maikaʻi loa o ka honua. ʻO kou alo aloha ka mea makamae loa iā lākou.
E nānā kākou i kēia mau hana maʻalahi a aloha hoʻi.
Eia kekahi mau hana hiki iā ʻoe ke hana me kou ʻohana i maʻalahi ke hana akā e hāʻawi iā ʻoe i nā ʻike waiwai nui.
| Hana | Nā pōmaikaʻi a pehea e hana ai |
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| Kaha kiʻi a me ka hana noʻeau | I ka lā āu e luhi ʻole ai, e kaha kiʻi a e kala pū me kāu mau keiki. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i kēia mai ka home ma ka lawe ʻana mai i kekahi mau canvases liʻiliʻi a me kekahi mau pena mai ka hale kūʻai mai. Lawe mai kēia i ka nui o ka maluhia i ka noʻonoʻo. Hiki iā ʻoe ke noho ma kahi noho a hui pū me kāu mau keiki. ʻO nā hoʻomanaʻo āu e hana ai me kēia mau mea i hana ʻia e mau loa aku. |
| E koho i nā manawa ʻaʻole nui ka poʻe. | I ka wā e mālama ʻia ai ke kanesa, ʻoiai hoʻi ka chemotherapy a i ʻole ka radiation therapy, hiki ke hoʻonāwaliwali ʻia ka pale ʻana o kou kino. ʻO ke ʻano kēia, ʻoi aku kou maʻalahi i ka maʻi. No laila, he mea nui e pale i nā wahi piha kanaka. Inā pono ʻoe e hele no kahi huakaʻi pōkole, e koho i kahi manawa i emi iki ka nui o ka poʻe, e like me ka lā pule, i ke kakahiaka a i ʻole ke awakea. No ka laʻana, he manawa maikaʻi kēia e hele ai i ke kahakai a i ʻole ka paka. |
| E kuke pū kākou. | Hiki i ka chemotherapy ke hoʻololi i ka ʻono o ka meaʻai i kekahi manawa a hoʻolilo iā ʻoe i kou makemake e ʻai. No laila hiki ke lilo i mea maikaʻi ke hoʻomākaukau i nā meaʻai hou a olakino me kāu mau keiki. E hāʻawi i nā hana liʻiliʻi e like me ka holoi ʻana i nā mea kanu a me ka hana ʻana i ka salakeke. E hāʻawi kēia iā lākou i ke kuleana a hoʻoikaika i kāu pilina. Inā paʻakikī ka kuke ʻana, hiki iā ʻoe ke lawe ʻia nā mea pono i kou home ma o kahi lawelawe kau inoa pahu ʻai. |
| E hoʻolilo kākou i kekahi manawa me ke kūlohelohe. | He mea hōʻoluʻolu loa nā kumulāʻau a me ke kūlohelohe. Inā hiki iā ʻoe, e noho ma kahi noho ma ka māla a heluhelu i kahi puke, a i ʻole e nānā i kāu mau keiki e pāʻani ana. A i ʻole, e hele i kahi paka a i ʻole ka loko kokoke a hoʻolilo i kekahi manawa ma laila. ʻO ka hele ʻana i ke kahakai i ke ahiahi a me ka nānā ʻana i ka napoʻo ʻana o ka lā he mea hoʻomaha loa nō hoʻi ia. ʻAʻole pono kēia i ka ikaika nui. |
| E nānā kākou i ke kiʻiʻoniʻoni mai ka pā hale mai. | He manaʻo leʻaleʻa loa kēia. I ka pō, e kau i kahi moena ma kou pā hale a nānā i kahi kiʻiʻoniʻoni ma kāu kamepiula lawe lima a i ʻole kahi mea hoʻolele kiʻi liʻiliʻi. ʻAʻohe lehulehu, nā laina tikiki, a i ʻole nā kaʻa e like me nā hale kiʻiʻoniʻoni. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomākaukau i kāu meaʻai a me ka mea inu punahele ma ka home a hauʻoli i kēia ʻike me ka ʻoluʻolu. |
E noʻonoʻo hoʻi i kou palekana.
ʻOiai kāu e hana ai, ʻo ka mālama ʻana i kou olakino ka mea nui loa iā ʻoe.
- Inā ua haʻi aku kāu kauka iā ʻoe ua haʻahaʻa kou ʻōnaehana pale, mai hele i nā wahi i piha i nā kānaka no kekahi kumu.
- Inā ʻoe e hele i waho, e komo i ka peʻe maka a holoi pinepine i kou mau lima .
- Inā luhi ʻoe, e hoʻomaha. Mai hoʻokau i kou kino.
- Inā kānalua ʻoe inā kūpono kahi hana āu e noʻonoʻo nei i kou kūlana olakino, e nīnau mau i kāu kauka.
ʻO ka mea nui loa: ʻaʻole ia he hemolele, ʻo kou alo me lākou.
ʻO ka mea hope loa, ʻo ka mea nui e hoʻomanaʻo ai, ʻo ia kēia. ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e hana i nā mea āpau me ka hemolele. ʻAʻole paha ʻoe e hiki ke ala aʻe mai kahi moe i kekahi mau lā. He mea maʻamau kēlā. He mea maikaʻi ke hiki ke hoʻopaʻa i kahi keiki kokoke iā ʻoe, kamaʻilio me lākou, a hoʻolohe i kā lākou mea e ʻōlelo ai.
Pono nā keiki iā ʻoe e noho ma laila no lākou ma mua o ko lākou pono ʻana iā ʻoe e hana i nā mea nui. Pono lākou iā ʻoe e ʻike i ko lākou aloha. ʻOi aku ka ikaika ma mua o ko lākou manaʻo. Inā ʻike lākou ua aloha ʻoe iā lākou, e maikaʻi lākou.
He paʻakikī kēia kaua me ke kanesa, akā, ʻaʻole ʻoe hoʻokahi. ʻO kou ʻohana kou ikaika nui loa. ʻO nā mea aloha liʻiliʻi e like me kēia e kōkua iā ʻoe e kūkulu hou aku i kēlā ikaika.
Leka Lawe-Home
- E hoʻolālā i nā hana me kou ʻohana i ka wā o ka mālama ʻana i ka maʻi kanesa i mea maʻalahi a me ka ʻole o ke kaumaha . ʻO ka mea nui, ʻo ia ka noho pū ʻana.
- Inā nāwaliwali kou ʻōnaehana pale kino (immunosuppressed), e pale aku i nā wahi i piha i ka poʻe. E kau mua i kou palekana.
- ʻO ka hoʻokomo ʻana i nā keiki i nā hana o ka hale i kēlā me kēia lā, e like me ka kuke ʻana, hoʻoikaika i nā pilina ʻohana a hāʻawi iā lākou i ke ʻano o ke kuleana.
- Mai manaʻo i ka hemolele mai iā ʻoe iho. I kekahi manawa ʻo ka mea maikaʻi loa hiki iā ʻoe ke hana, ʻo ia ka hoʻomaha. ʻO kou alo ka makana makamae loa i kou ʻohana.
- Ma mua o ka hoʻolālā ʻana i kekahi hana, e kamaʻilio me kāu kauka e hōʻoia i kūpono ia no kou kūlana olakino o kēia manawa.
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