Masturbation: Nā Moʻolelo Kaʻao, nā Pōmaikaʻi, a me nā Mea āu e Pono ai e ʻIke

He kumuhana paʻakikī paha kēia e kamaʻilio me kekahi, a he mea hilahila iki paha ia. ʻOiai ʻaʻole mākou e kamaʻilio ākea e pili ana i ia mea i loko o ko mākou kaiāulu, he nui ka poʻe i loaʻa nā manaʻo maikaʻi ʻole e pili ana i ka masturbation. Akā he ʻāpana maʻamau a olakino hoʻi ia o kou olakino moekolohe. No laila i kēia lā, e hoʻopau kākou i kekahi o nā kuhi hewa a kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻepekema ma ke ʻano maʻalahi a aloha.

He aha maoli ka masturbation?

I ka ʻōlelo maʻalahi, ʻo ka masturbation ka hana o ka hoʻoulu ʻana i kou mau ʻōpū ponoʻī a i ʻole nā ​​​​wahi koʻikoʻi ʻē aʻe o kou kino e hoʻokō ai i ka ʻoluʻolu a i ʻole ka leʻaleʻa moekolohe. He mea maʻamau loa ia e hana ai ka poʻe he nui, me ka nānā ʻole i ka makahiki a i ʻole ke kāne.

He kuleana koʻikoʻi ko ka masturbation i ka ulu ʻana o ka moekolohe olakino. He ala kūlohelohe ia e aʻo ai e pili ana i kou kino, e ʻike i ka leʻaleʻa, a hoʻokō i ka hoʻokuʻu ʻana i ka moekolohe, ʻo ia hoʻi, he orgasm .

Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohana i kou mau lima, nā manamana lima, a i ʻole nā ​​mea pāʻani moe a i ʻole nā ​​mea palekana ʻē aʻe no kēia. Hoʻokomo pū kēia i ka hoʻopā ʻana, ka hamo ʻana, a me ka lomilomi ʻana i nā ʻōpū. Makemake kekahi poʻe e hoʻokomo i ko lākou mau manamana lima a i ʻole kahi mea hana i loko o ko lākou ʻōpū a i ʻole anus. Hoʻohana kekahi i kahi mea e like me ka uluna e hoʻoulu ai i kā lākou penis a i ʻole ka ʻōpū.

Ma waho aʻe o nā ʻōpū wahine, aia kekahi mau wahi erogenous ʻē aʻe ma ke kino. Eia kekahi laʻana, hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike i ka leʻaleʻa moekolohe ma ka hoʻopā ʻana i nā nipples a i ʻole nā ​​testicles. I kekahi manawa hiki i ka hoʻohana ʻana i kahi lubricant ke hōʻemi i ka friction a maʻalahi i kēia.

Manaʻo ka poʻe he nui he poʻe hoʻokahi wale nō ka poʻe e masturbate. Akā, he kuhihewa kēlā. E like me ka poʻe hoʻokahi, ʻo ka poʻe e moe kolohe ana me kahi hoa e masturbate pū kekahi. He mea maʻamau loa ia.

He mau pono maoli anei ka masturbation?

ʻAe, ʻoiaʻiʻo nō! He mea maikaʻi loa ka masturbation no kou olakino kino a me kou noʻonoʻo. Ua ʻike ʻia nā pono he nui o ka masturbation i ka noiʻi.

I ka ʻōlelo maʻalahi, ke loaʻa iā ʻoe kahi orgasm, hoʻokuʻu kou kino i nā hormones i kapa ʻia ʻo dopamine a me oxytocin . Ua kapa ʻia ʻo Dopamine ʻo ia ka "hormone hauʻoli." Ua kapa ʻia ʻo Oxytocin ʻo ia ka "lāʻau aloha." Hoʻonui kēia mau hormones ʻelua i nā manaʻo maikaʻi e like me ka hauʻoli a me ka hoʻomaha ʻana i kou kino. Kōkua pū lākou i ka hoʻemi ʻana i nā pae o ka "hormone stress" i kapa ʻia ʻo cortisol i loko o ko mākou kino.

E ʻike pono kākou i kēia mau pono ma ka papa ma lalo nei.

ʻO kekahi mea nui ʻē aʻe, ʻaʻohe pilikia o ka hāpai ʻana mai ka masturbation. Eia kekahi, ʻaneʻane ʻaʻohe pilikia o nā maʻi i laha ma ke moekolohe (STIs) inā ʻoe e hana me nā lima maʻemaʻe a hoʻohana paha i kahi mea hana i hoʻomaʻemaʻe ʻia.

Aia kekahi mau pono kūikawā no nā kāne ʻelua?

ʻAe, ma waho aʻe o nā pono maʻamau, ua ʻike pū ʻia nā noiʻi i nā pono kikoʻī i loaʻa i nā kāne a me nā wahine ma ke kaʻawale.

Nā pono no nā kāne

Ua hōʻike ʻia kekahi mau noiʻi e hiki i nā kāne e ejaculate pinepine ke loaʻa kahi emi iki o ka pilikia o ka maʻi kanesa prostate. ʻO ke kumumanaʻo ma hope o kēia , ʻo ka ejaculation pinepine e pale i ka hōʻiliʻili ʻana o nā mea e hoʻoulu ai i ka maʻi kanesa i loko o ka prostate gland.

Nā pono no nā wahine

He nui aku nā pono i hōʻoia ʻia e nā wāhine.

• ʻOi aku ka nui o nā wahine e masturbate i ka loaʻa ʻana o ka orgasm i ka wā e moe ai me kā lākou hoa.
• He ala maikaʻi kēia e hōʻoluʻolu ai i nā ʻeha menstrual.
• Kōkua pū ka masturbation i ka hōʻemi ʻana i ka maloʻo o ka vagina a me ka ʻeha i ka wā o ka moekolohe ʻana i nā wahine ʻelemakule.
• Hiki i kekahi mau wahine ke ʻike i ka makemake moekolohe i ka wā hāpai. He ala palekana kēia e hoʻokuʻu ai i ka haunaele moekolohe i ia mau hihia. Hiki iā ia ke kōkua i ka hōʻoluʻolu ʻana i nā hōʻailona e like me ke ʻeha kua i ka wā hāpai.

Wahi a kekahi noiʻi, ua hōʻike nā wahine male i nā pono o ka masturbation:

• Ke lilo nei i talisman i nā manawa he nui
• Loaʻa ka manaʻo kiʻekiʻe iā ʻoe iho
• Hoʻonui ʻia ka libido
• ʻOi aku ka māʻona me kāu male ʻana a me ke ola moekolohe

Nā moʻolelo wahaheʻe a me nā ʻoiaʻiʻo a nā mea a pau e kamaʻilio nei

ʻO kēia kumuhana kekahi o nā moʻolelo wahaheʻe i laha loa i loko o ko kākou kaiāulu. Ke kaʻapuni nei kēia mau manaʻo kuhihewa i waena o nā hoaaloha, a i kekahi manawa i waena o nā pākeke. E nānā kākou i kēlā mau moʻolelo wahaheʻe a me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻepekema ma hope o lākou.

No laila, ʻaʻohe hopena maikaʻi ʻole mai ka masturbation?

ʻOiai ʻaʻohe hopena koʻikoʻi i ʻōlelo ʻia ma luna, hiki i kekahi poʻe ke loaʻa i kekahi mau pilikia liʻiliʻi.

1. Ka hewa

Hiki paha iā ʻoe ke manaʻo hewa a hilahila paha e pili ana i ka masturbation ma muli o kou mau manaʻo hoʻomana, moʻomeheu, a pilikino paha. Ma ke ʻano ʻepekema, ʻaʻole hewa a pono ʻole paha ka masturbation. Akā inā manaʻo ʻoe ua kaumaha ʻia e kēia manaʻo, ʻo ke kamaʻilio ʻana me kahi kākāʻōlelo olakino moekolohe a i ʻole ke kākāʻōlelo olakino noʻonoʻo e kōkua iā ʻoe e ʻoluʻolu.

2. Hana Moe kolohe Hoʻokaumaha

He mea kākaʻikahi loa, hiki i kekahi poʻe ke hoʻomohala i kahi ʻano maʻamau hiki ʻole ke kāohi ʻia o ka masturbation. I kekahi manawa ua kapa ʻia kēia he addiction sex a i ʻole hypersexuality .

• Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e hana a hana kula paha,
• Inā ʻoe e hoʻōki i nā hoʻolālā me nā hoaaloha,
• Inā makemake ʻoe e hana i kēia, e poina ana i kāu mau kuleana,
• Inā pili kēia i kāu mau pilina pilikino,

Ke hoʻolilo nei paha ʻoe i ka manawa nui loa ma kēia. Inā pēlā, ʻo ke kamaʻilio ʻana me ke kākāʻōlelo a i ʻole ka mea hoʻōla (talk therapy) he hopena maikaʻi ia. Hiki iā ia ke kōkua i ka hana ʻana i kahi hana ʻē aʻe ke makemake ʻoe e masturbate. No ka laʻana, hiki iā ʻoe ke heluhelu i kahi puke, hele wāwae, a hoʻoikaika kino paha.

3. Ka pōʻino kino liʻiliʻi

E hoʻomanaʻo, inā ʻoe e masturbate ikaika a ʻino paha, hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻeha a ʻeha paha. Eia kekahi, inā ʻoe e hana pinepine i nā manawa he nui i loko o kahi manawa pōkole, hiki i kāu penis ke pehu iki. Akā, ʻaʻohe mea e hopohopo ai kēia, a e ho'ōla wale kēia mau maʻi i hoʻokahi a ʻelua paha lā.

4. Hoʻemi ʻia ka ʻike moekolohe

I kekahi manawa, ʻo ka masturbating ma ke ʻano like i nā manawa a pau, ʻoiai inā ikaika loa ia, hiki ke alakaʻi i ka emi iki ʻana o ka ʻike moekolohe. ʻO ke ʻano kēia e emi ana ka pane ʻana o kou kino i ka hoʻoulu maʻamau. Inā pēlā, makemake paha ʻoe e hoʻāʻo e hoʻololi i ke ʻano o kou hoʻoulu ʻana iā ʻoe iho.