Ke manaʻo nei ʻoe i kekahi manawa makemake ʻoe e noho mehameha a kaʻawale mai nā mea āpau? Loaʻa iā ʻoe nā manawa āu e makemake ʻole ai e kamaʻilio me kekahi, ʻaʻole makemake e hālāwai me kekahi, a huhū wale ʻoe? Hiki i kēia mau mea ke lilo i hōʻailona ua komo ke kaumaha i kou ola. Hoʻopilikia ia ʻaʻole wale iā ʻoe, akā, i ka poʻe a puni ʻoe e aloha iā ʻoe. Ua like ia me ka wā e hoʻolei ai ʻoe i kahi pōhaku i loko o ka wai, ua pālahalaha nā ʻale a puni.
Pehea ka hopena o ke kaumaha i kāu mau pilina?
Hoʻomaka ka nalowale ʻana o nā mea āu i hauʻoli ai, nā huakaʻi āu i hele ai me nā hoaaloha, a me nā manawa hauʻoli āu i noho ai me ka ʻohana. Manaʻo paha ʻoe ʻaʻohe mea e hoʻomaopopo iā ʻoe. Eia kekahi, ʻo ka huhū ma luna o nā mea liʻiliʻi a me ka hopohopo mau he ʻāpana ia o kēia ʻano.
I kēia manawa, mai noʻonoʻo mai kou manaʻo iho, akā, mai ka manaʻo o ka poʻe āu e aloha ai. Ke nānā nei kāu hoa, nā mākua, nā keiki, a me nā hoaaloha maikaʻi loa i kēia loli. Manaʻo paha lākou ua kaumaha ʻoe no ka mea ʻaʻole ʻoe i hauʻoli me lākou. Manaʻo paha lākou ua kaumaha ʻoe no kekahi mea a lākou i hana hewa ai. Hiki nō hoʻi iā lākou ke ʻeha i ka wā e hoʻāʻo ai lākou e kōkua iā ʻoe a hōʻole ʻoe.
ʻO ka mea nui, hiki i kēia mau pilikia pilina ke hoʻonui i kou kaumaha . Ua like ia me kahi pōʻai ʻino. Piʻi ka ʻino o nā pilina, no laila e ʻoi aku ka ʻino o ke kaumaha. I ka wā e ʻoi aku ka ʻino o ke kaumaha, e ʻoi aku ka ʻino o nā pilina.
Akā, aia ka nūhou maikaʻi. ʻO ke kākoʻo āu e loaʻa ai mai kou ʻohana a me kou mau hoaaloha ma kēia huakaʻi, ʻo ia kou ikaika nui loa . Ma ka hoʻohana pono ʻana i kēlā ikaika, hiki iā ʻoe ke puka i waho o kēia kūlana.
Nā mea hiki iā ʻoe ke hana e mālama i nā pilina
He huakaʻi paʻakikī kēia, akā me nā ʻanuʻu liʻiliʻi, hiki iā ʻoe ke kūkulu hou i kēia mau pilina.
1. E ho'āʻo e hoʻopau i ka mehameha
Ke pā mai ke kaumaha, makemake mākou a pau e hele i ko mākou lumi, pani i ka puka, a noho mehameha. Akā, ʻo ia ka mea hope loa āu e makemake ai e hana. He mea waiwai nui ke kākoʻo o kāu poʻe aloha i kēia manawa.
- E hoʻomaka me ka liʻiliʻi: Mai hana i nā mea nui i ka manawa hoʻokahi. E lawe i ke kelepona a kāhea aku i kāu hoaaloha maikaʻi loa. A i ʻole e hoʻouna i kahi leka.
- He lā pōkole: Inā hiki, e nīnau, "E hele kāua i waho no kekahi manawa a inu kī?" A i ʻole e hele pū no kahi hele wāwae pōkole.
- E kamaʻilio e pili ana i kou manaʻo: ʻO ke kamaʻilio ʻana e pili ana i kou manaʻo he ala maikaʻi loa ia e kōkua ai iā ʻoe iho. Akā, ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e kamaʻilio, ʻo ka nānā wale ʻana i ke TV a i ʻole ka noho mālie ʻana me kekahi he mea maikaʻi nō hoʻi.
2. E kamaʻilio ākea me kāu poʻe aloha.
Mai manaʻo ʻoe e kuhi lākou i ka mea ma kou manaʻo.
- E haʻi iā lākou i kou manaʻo a me kou manaʻo.
- Hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻōlelo, "Makemake wale wau e hoʻolohe ʻoe i kēia i kēia manawa, ʻaʻole pono wau e hāʻawi iā ʻoe i nā hoʻonā." A laila e ʻike lākou pehea e kōkua ai iā ʻoe.
- E hoʻomaopopo iā lākou ke aloha mau nei ʻoe iā lākou, akā he paʻakikī ke hōʻike aku i kēia manawa.
- Eia kekahi, e nīnau iā lākou pehea ko lākou manaʻo. He kamaʻilio ʻelua ala kēia.
- Inā paʻakikī loa ke kamaʻilio ʻana, hiki ke kōkua nui ka ʻimi ʻana i ka ʻohana a i ʻole ka hoʻōla pilina.
3. Mai makaʻu e noi i ke kōkua.
ʻO ka manaʻo "He kaumaha wau no nā kānaka a pau" e hiki mai ana paha i kou manaʻo. ʻAʻole ʻoe, ʻo ke kaumaha i loko o kou poʻo ke kamaʻilio nei. Makemake nui kou ʻohana a me kou mau hoaaloha e kōkua iā ʻoe. Akā, ʻaʻole lākou i ʻike i ka mea e hana ai.
- E noi i ke kōkua kūpono: ʻAʻole manaʻo mau ke kōkua i ke kākoʻo naʻau. Hiki ke lilo i kōkua liʻiliʻi e like me "Hiki iā ʻoe ke hele i ka hale kūʻai a lawe mai iaʻu i kekahi mau meaʻai?" a i ʻole "Hiki iā ʻoe ke mālama i nā keiki no kekahi manawa?"
| Nā mea e makaʻala nui ai | Ka mea hiki iā ʻoe ke hana |
|---|---|
| ʻO kāu mau keiki | E makaʻu a huhū paha kāu mau keiki ma muli o kou loli ʻana. E wehewehe i ke kūlana ma ka ʻōlelo maʻalahi e hiki ai iā lākou ke hoʻomaopopo. E ʻōlelo i kekahi mea e like me, 'Ua maʻi iki ʻo Māmā/Pāpā, ʻo ia ke kumu ʻaʻole ʻo ia e hele mai e pāʻani e like me ka maʻamau. Akā ke lawe nei ʻo ia i ka lāʻau lapaʻau mai ke kauka mai , a e ola koke ana ʻo ia.' |
| Nā pilikia moekolohe | He mea maʻamau loa ka ʻike ʻana i ka emi ʻana o ka makemake moe kolohe a i ʻole ka hana ma muli o ke kaumaha a me kekahi mau lāʻau lapaʻau. ʻAʻohe mea e hilahila ai kēia. E kamaʻilio ākea me kāu hoa e pili ana i kēia. ʻO ka nānā ʻole ʻana i ka pilikia hiki ke hoʻonui i ka ʻino. E hōʻoia e kamaʻilio me kāu kauka e pili ana i kēia. Hiki paha iā ia ke hāʻawi iā ʻoe i kahi lāʻau lapaʻau ʻokoʻa a hāʻawi iā ʻoe i nā ala e hōʻemi ai i kēia hopena ʻaoʻao. |
| Keʻena | ʻAʻole ʻoe i koi ʻia e ke kānāwai e haʻi i kou haku e pili ana i kēia. Akā inā huhū ka poʻe ma ka hana e pili ana i kāu ʻano, ʻo ka haʻi ʻana i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo e hoʻohauʻoli iā lākou. Hiki iā ʻoe ke loaʻa ke kākoʻo mai ke keʻena mai. He mea hoʻoikaika nui kēlā nou. |
4. E hui pū me kahi hui kākoʻo
I kekahi manawa, ʻo ke kamaʻilio ʻana me nā poʻe e ʻeha nei i kēia maʻi, ʻoi aku ma mua o kou ʻohana, hiki ke hāʻawi iā ʻoe i kahi manaʻo o ka ikaika. Hāʻawi ia iā ʻoe i ka manaʻo "ʻAʻole wau wale nō ke alo nei i kēia."
- Hiki iā ʻoe ke nīnau i kāu kauka a kākā'ōlelo paha e pili ana i nā hui kākoʻo ma kou wahi. Aia paha kekahi mau hui pūnaewele.
Me kēia mau mea a pau, he mea nui e loaʻa ka lāʻau lapaʻau kūpono. E hahai i nā kuhikuhi a kāu kauka i hāʻawi ai. E lawe i kāu lāʻau lapaʻau e like me ke kauoha. A laila e maʻalahi kēia huakaʻi iā ʻoe.
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- ʻAʻole he nāwaliwali ke kaumaha, he maʻi ia e hiki ke hoʻōla ʻia.
- He mea nui loa ka lanakila ʻana ma luna o ka mehameha a kamaʻilio ākea me nā mea aloha e mālama ai i kāu mau pilina.
- Mai manaʻo ʻoe he mea kaumaha ka noi ʻana i ke kōkua. Ua mākaukau kou ʻohana a me kou mau hoaaloha e kōkua iā ʻoe.
- E kamaʻilio me kāu hoa a me ke kauka e pili ana i nā mea koʻikoʻi, e like me nā pilikia moekolohe.
- ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e hele hoʻokahi ma kēia huakaʻi. Me ka mālama olakino kūpono, e kōkua ke kākoʻo o kāu poʻe aloha iā ʻoe e hoʻōla koke.
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