Tej zaum koj yuav txhawj heev thaum koj tus me nyuam quaj nrov nrov thiab tawm tsam hauv nruab nrab ntawm lub khw, lossis ntawm ib tog nrog ntau tus txheeb ze, lossis hauv tsev, puas yog? Lub sijhawm ntawd, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev uas yuav tsum qhia cov menyuam kom tswj lawv tus kheej thiab coj tus cwj pwm zoo, tsis txhob ua txhua yam lawv xav ua. Qhov no yog ib qho ntawm cov khoom muaj nqis tshaj plaws uas peb tuaj yeem muab rau peb cov menyuam ua niam txiv.
Vim li cas kev tswj tus kheej thiaj li tseem ceeb rau cov menyuam yaus?
Hais yooj yim xwb, thaum cov menyuam kawm tswj lawv tus kheej, lawv muaj peev xwm txiav txim siab zoo thiab coj tus cwj pwm zoo, txawm tias thaum lawv raug kev nyuaj siab los xij. Lub peev xwm no yuav pab lawv ua tiav hauv lub neej .
Xav txog nws li no. Yog tias koj hais tias tsuas yog muab ice cream tom qab noj hmo xwb, koj tus menyuam yuav quaj, thov, lossis txawm qw kom koj pom zoo. Txawm li cas los xij, tus menyuam uas tswj tau nws tus kheej nkag siab tias yog nws ua txuj ua li ntawd (qee zaum peb hu qhov no ua "Temper Tantrum") nws yuav tsis tau ice cream li cas los xij, yog li nws yog qhov zoo kom ua siab ntev.
Lub peev xwm tswj tus kheej yog qhov tseem ceeb heev rau kev kawm ntawm tus menyuam, kev sib raug zoo hauv zej zog, thiab kev noj qab haus huv ntawm lub hlwb.
Tam sim no cia peb saib seb yuav pab cov menyuam yaus tswj lawv tus kheej li cas, raws li cov pab pawg hnub nyoog.
Cov hau kev qhia menyuam kom tswj tus kheej
Txoj kev qhia tej no yuav hloov raws li tus menyuam lub hnub nyoog. Cia peb saib seb qhov ntawd ua haujlwm li cas.
Koj pab cov menyuam yaus li cas kom txog thaum lawv muaj 2 xyoos?
Cov menyuam mos thiab cov menyuam yaus yooj yim chim siab vim muaj qhov sib txawv loj ntawm qhov lawv xav ua thiab qhov lawv ua tau tiag tiag. Yog vim li ntawd lawv feem ntau ua yeeb yam, quaj, thiab tawm tsam. Thaum lub sijhawm zoo li no, nws yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws los tig lawv lub siab . Sim tiv thaiv cov kev chim siab no los ntawm kev muab khoom ua si rau lawv lossis koom nrog lawv ua lwm yam.
Rau cov menyuam yaus uas yuav luag muaj ob xyoos, thaum lawv tab tom tawm tsam thiab qw, koj tuaj yeem cia lawv nyob ib leeg rau lub sijhawm luv luv . Qhov no hu ua "Sijhawm So". Muab lawv tso rau hauv qhov chaw zoo li lub rooj zaum hauv chav ua noj lossis hauv qab ntaiv ib pliag. Qhov no qhia tus menyuam tias nws zoo dua nyob ib leeg thiab nyob twj ywm dua li coj tus cwj pwm tsis zoo.
Rau cov menyuam yaus hnub nyoog ntawm 3 thiab 5 xyoos
Koj kuj siv tau "Sijhawm So" nrog cov menyuam hnub nyoog no. Txawm li cas los xij, es tsis txhob muaj lub sijhawm tshwj xeeb, xaus "Sijhawm So" thaum tus menyuam nyob twj ywm . Qhov no pab tus menyuam txhim kho lub peev xwm los tswj lawv txoj kev xav. Nws tseem ceeb heev rau kev qhuas tus menyuam thaum lawv tswj lawv tus kheej hauv qhov xwm txheej ntxhov siab lossis nyuaj. Hais tej yam xws li, "Kuv zoo siab uas koj nyob twj ywm," lossis "Koj ua haujlwm zoo tsis npau taws, tus tub/ntxhais."
Rau cov menyuam yaus hnub nyoog ntawm 6 thiab 9 xyoos
Thaum cov menyuam pib mus kawm ntawv, lawvNws pab cov menyuam yaus nkag siab txog qhov tshwm sim ntawm lawv cov kev ua thiab lub peev xwm xaiv ntawm tus cwj pwm zoo thiab tus cwj pwm phem. Piv txwv li, pab koj tus menyuam xav txog lub cim "nres" ntawm txoj kev, ceeb toom lawv kom xav ua ntej lawv ua ib yam dab tsi. Tsis txhob teb sai sai thaum lawv chim siab, txhawb kom lawv tawm ntawm qhov xwm txheej ib pliag thiab nyob twj ywm . Thaum lawv ua li ntawd, nco ntsoov qhuas lawv. Lawv yuav siv txoj kev no ntau dua yav tom ntej.
Rau cov menyuam yaus hnub nyoog ntawm 10 thiab 12 xyoos
Cov menyuam yaus hnub nyoog no feem ntau paub txog lawv tus kheej txoj kev xav. Txhawb kom lawv xav txog vim li cas lawv thiaj tswj tsis tau lawv tus kheej thiab xav txog nws. Piav qhia rau lawv tias qee yam uas zoo li ua rau chim siab thaum xub thawj tej zaum yuav tsis phem heev. Txhawb kom lawv siv sijhawm xav ua ntej lawv teb rau qhov xwm txheej. Pab lawv nkag siab tias tsis yog qhov xwm txheej ua rau lawv npau taws, tab sis txoj kev uas lawv xav txog nws. Qhuas lawv thaum lawv siv cov kev no los tswj lawv tus kheej.
Rau cov menyuam yaus hnub nyoog ntawm 13 thiab 17 xyoo (hluas)
Thaum muaj hnub nyoog li no, cov menyuam yuav tsum muaj peev xwm tswj tau feem ntau ntawm lawv cov kev ua. Txawm li cas los xij, nco ntsoov cov menyuam yaus kom xav txog qhov tshwm sim mus ntev ntawm qee yam. Txhawb kom lawv nres thiab xav ua ntej teb thaum lawv chim siab, thiab tham txog tej yam es tsis txhob kaw qhov rooj lossis qw. Yog tias tsim nyog, siv kev rau txim xws li tshem tawm qee qhov cai tshwj xeeb ib ntus los txhawb cov lus tias kev tswj tus kheej yog ib qho kev txawj tseem ceeb. Tom qab ntawd, thaum lawv qhia tias lawv tswj tau, cia lawv rov qab tau cov cai tshwj xeeb ntawd.
Thaum koj cov menyuam tsis muaj kev tswj hwm, koj ua li cas?
Txawm tias nws yuav nyuaj npaum li cas los xij, tsis txhob qw thaum koj qhuab ntuas koj cov menyuam. Hloov chaw, hais lus kom ruaj khov thiab meej. Thaum ib tug menyuam tawv ncauj, qw, lossis kaw qhov rooj, nyob twj ywm thiab piav qhia tias qhov kev coj cwj pwm zoo li no tsis raug cai, tias muaj qhov tshwm sim, thiab cov qhov tshwm sim ntawd yog dab tsi.
Koj tej kev ua yuav tsum pab koj tus menyuam nkag siab tias lawv tsis tuaj yeem tau txais yam lawv xav tau los ntawm lawv qhov kev chim siab.
Piv txwv li, yog tias koj tus menyuam npau taws tom qab koj piav qhia vim li cas koj tsis pub khoom qab zib rau lawv, tsis txhob muab yam lawv thov rau lawv . Qhov no yuav qhia lawv tias lawv txoj kev tawv ncauj tsis raug lees txais thiab nws tsis ua haujlwm.
Thiab, nrog koj tus menyuam tus xib fwb tham txog qhov chaw kawm thiab tus cwj pwm tsim nyog. Nug seb kev daws teeb meem puas tau qhia lossis ua qauv hauv tsev kawm ntawv.
Ua ib tug qauv zoo rau koj tus kheej.
Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog ua qauv qhia txog kev tswj tus kheej zoo.Yog tias muaj ib yam dab tsi ua rau koj ntxhov siab rau ntawm koj cov menyuam, qhia rau lawv paub vim li cas koj thiaj chim, thiab tom qab ntawd tham nrog lawv txog tej kev daws teeb meem. Piv txwv li, yog tias koj poob koj cov yuam sij, es tsis txhob npau taws, qhia rau koj cov menyuam tias lawv ploj lawm thiab peb yuav nrhiav lawv ua ke. Yog tias koj nrhiav tsis tau lawv, ua qhov tom ntej uas koj ua tau (xws li nco qab qhov chaw koj tau koj cov yuam sij zaum kawg). Qhia rau lawv los ntawm koj tus cwj pwm tias kev tswj hwm kev xav zoo thiab kev daws teeb meem yog txoj hauv kev zoo tshaj plaws los daws cov teeb meem nyuaj.
Yog tias koj tseem muaj teeb meem txawm tias koj ua tej yam no los xij, nug koj tus kws kho mob seb koj puas tuaj yeem tau txais kev pab los ntawm cov kev pab tswv yim rau tsev neeg.
Tej yam tseem ceeb tshaj plaws uas yuav tsum nco ntsoov (Cov Lus Coj Mus Tsev)
Zoo, ntawm no yog qee yam uas koj yuav tsum nco ntsoov los ntawm qhov peb tau tham txog:
- Kev qhia cov menyuam yaus kom tswj tau lawv tus kheej yog ib qho kev nqis peev loj hauv lawv lub neej .
- Qhia tej no rau hauv ib txoj kev uas haum rau tus menyuam lub hnub nyoog . Tsis yog hauv txoj kev uas ib tug menyuam yaus me me nkag siab, tab sis hauv txoj kev uas ib tug menyuam yaus me me nkag siab.
- Tsis txhob hnov qab qhuas koj tus menyuam thaum nws tswj tau nws tus kheej. Qhov ntawd yog ib qho kev txhawb zog zoo heev.
- Thaum koj tus menyuam tsis tswj tau nws tus kheej, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas yuav tsum nyob twj ywm . Kev qw yuav tsis daws tau teeb meem.
- Ua ib tug qauv zoo rau koj tus kheej . Cov menyuam kawm tau ntau yam los ntawm yam peb ua dua li yam peb hais.
- Tsis txhob cia nws chim. Yog koj ua li ntawd, koj tus menyuam yuav kawm tias qhov ntawd yog ib txoj kev ua haujlwm.
- Tsis txhob yig nrhiav kev pab los ntawm cov kws tshaj lij yog tias tsim nyog.
Yog koj nco ntsoov tej no thiab pab koj tus menyuam tswj lawv tus kheej nrog kev ua siab ntev thiab kev hlub, koj yuav muaj peev xwm tsa lawv kom ua menyuam zoo siab thiab vam meej.
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