Yu nid bak fɔ gɛt dip filin kɔnekshɔn fɔ mek yu want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs wit pɔsin? (Demisexuality) Mek wi tok abaut am!

Sɔntɛnde, yusɛf kin fil dis kayn we? We yu padi dɛn kin tɔk tin dɛn lɛk, “Oh, she’s pretty, I have a crush on her” we yu fɔs mit nyu pɔsin, yu nɔ kin gɛt da filin de? Ɔ yu kin jɔs fil lɛk se yu want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs wit pɔsin afta yu dɔn no am gud gud wan, yu dɔn gɛt tayt padi biznɛs, ɔ yu dɔn gɛt dip padi biznɛs? Na di kayn situeshɔn we wi go tɔk bɔt tide. Dɛn kɔl dis `Demisexuality`.

Wetin na `Demisexuality`?

Fɔ tɔk am simpul wan, `Demisexuality` na sɛkshɔnal ɔriɛnteshɔn . Pipul dεm we de sho se dεn na `Demisexual` kin atrak dεm pan mami εn dadi biznεs כnli afta dεn dכn divεl כp dip imoshכnal bond wit da pכsin de. We yu kɔmpia am wit di jenɛral pipul dɛn, bɔku `Demisexual` pipul dɛn kin gɛt sɛkshɔnal atrakshɔn rili smɔl. Sɔm kin rili lɛk fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs, ɔ ivin nɔ kin want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs atɔl.

Tink bɔt am, bɔku pipul dɛn kin fil se dɛn want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs wit pɔsin, ilɛksɛf dɛn gɛt sɔntin fɔ du wit am ɔ nɔ gɛt ɛnitin fɔ du wit am. Dɛn kin want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs wit pɔsin we dɛn nɔ no ɔ mit fɔ di fɔs tɛm. Bɔt wan `Demisexual` nɔ de fil dis fɔs sɛkshɔnal atrakshɔn.

Bɔt i impɔtant fɔ mɛmba se no garanti nɔ de fɔ se wan saykilɔjik kɔnekshɔn go mek pɔsin want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs. Bɔt da kɔnekshɔn de impɔtant fɔ ivin tink bɔt mami ɛn dadi biznɛs. Ivin if dis kayn tin we kin mek pɔsin want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs, bɔku tɛm di we aw pɔsin kin want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs nɔ kin rili bɔku.

Di tɛm we i kin tek fɔ mek dis filin kɔnekshɔn bigin kin difrɛn frɔm wan pɔsin to ɔda pɔsin. fכ sכm `Demisexuals`, dis kכnεkshכn kin divεlכp kwik kwik wan. Fɔ ɔda pipul dɛn, i kin apin afta we dɛn dɔn de mared fɔ lɔng lɔng tɛm. Dis imɔshɔnal kɔnekshɔn nɔ nid fɔ bi `romantik filin`. I kin bi bak padi biznɛs we gɛt tayt padi biznɛs wit ɔda pipul dɛn.

Aw a go no udat a bi? Test de fɔ `demisexuality`?

Nɔ, no tɛst nɔ de we go mek yu no di rayt tin we yu de du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs . Bɔt yu kin aks yusɛf dɛn kwɛstyɔn ya:

• Udat yu kin lɛk fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs wit? Aw dɛn kin mek yu fil?
• Yu kin fil lɛk se yu want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs? If na so i bi, ɔmɔs tɛm? Aw di filin strɔng?
• Aw impɔtant fɔ lɛ pɔsin want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs we yu disayd fɔ de wit pɔsin?
• Yu kin si se yu want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs wit nyu pipul dɛn we yu mit, yu nɔ no?

No rayt ɔ rɔŋ ansa nɔ de fɔ dɛn kwɛstyɔn dɛn ya.Bɔt we yu tink bɔt dɛn kwɛstyɔn ya kin bi di biginin fɔ yu fɔ ɔndastand udat yu de du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs wit ɔda pɔsin .

Wetin i min fɔ bi ``aseksual`` ɔ pan di `` aseksual spɛktrum`` ?

Pipul dεm we de sho se dεn na ``asexual'' dεn kin gεt bכku כ nכ kin gεt sεkswal atrakshכn. Dɛn kin lɛf fɔ bisin bak bɔt mami ɛn dadi biznɛs.

sכmtεm dεn kin lump dεmiseksual dεm כnda di כmbrela tεm "asexual" biכs dεn nכ kin fil seksual atrakshכn כltεm. Bɔt dɛn kin fil lɛk se dɛn want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs ɛn dɛn kin want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs afta dɛn dɔn mek padi biznɛs wit pɔsin.

Di ɔpɔzit fɔ asexual na allosexual. Pipul dεm wae de no se dεn na allosexual kin jεnarali kin gεt sεks atrakshɔn, ilɛksɛf dɛn want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs.

Wetin na di difrɛns bitwin `Demisexual` ɛn `Graysexual`?

`Demisexuality` ɛn `Graysexuality` na sɔntin we fiba smɔl, bɔt smɔl difrɛns de. Pipul dεm we de sho se dεn na `Grayseksual` nכ kin gεt sεks atrakshɔn, כ dεn nכ kin want fכ du mami εn dadi biznεs. Bɔt nɔ lɛk `Demisexual` pipul dɛm, `Graysexual` pipul dɛm nɔ nid fɔ gɛt imɔshɔnal kɔnekshɔn fɔ fil sɛkshɔnal atrakshɔn. Na dat na di men difrɛns.

Wetin na dis `Demiromantic`?

`Demiromanticism` na di sem wit `Demisexuality`, bɔt smɔl difrɛns de. Fɔ mek pɔsin we `Demiromantic` fil lɛk pɔsin we i lɛk, i fɔ gɛt saykolojik kɔnekshɔn wit da pɔsin de fɔs. Wi nɔ de tɔk bɔt mami ɛn dadi biznɛs, wi de tɔk bɔt lɔv filin ya. Ɛnibɔdi we gɛt ɛni sɛkshɔnal ɔriɛnteshɔn kin bi `Demiromantic`.

Wetin na di difrɛns bitwin `Demisexual` ɛn `Pansexual`?

Pipul dɛn we de sho se dɛn na ``Pansexual'' kin lɛk ɛnibɔdi pan mami ɛn dadi biznɛs, ilɛksɛf dɛn na man ɔ uman ɔ dɛn na mami ɛn dadi biznɛs . Pɔsin kin bi ``Pansexual'' ɛn ``Demisexual'' di sem tɛm. Dis min se dɛn kin atrak pɔsin we gɛt ɛni sɛkshɔnal aydentiti, bɔt fɔ mek da atrakshɔn de apin, di imɔshɔnal kɔnekshɔn we wi bin dɔn tɔk bɔt fɔ apin fɔs.

Sɔmbɔdi kin bi `Demisexual` ivin if i `Straight` (heterosexual)?

Yɛs, i rili pɔsibul. Wi no se sɔm lɛbl dɛn de we de sho se pɔsin want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs, lɛk `Hɛteroseksuɛl` (we pɔsin kin lɛk fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs wit ɔda pɔsin), `Gay` (we kin lɛk fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs wit ɔda pɔsin), `Lɛsbian` (we kin lɛk fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs wit ɔda pɔsin), `Biseksual` (we kin lɛk ɔl tu di man ɛn uman dɛn) ɛn `Panseksual` (we kin lɛk ɔl di man ɛn uman dɛn we gɛt fɔ du wit mami ɛn dadi biznɛs).

Di lɛbl `Demisexuality` difrɛn. I de tɔk bɔt di kayn atrakshɔn we ɔda pipul dɛn kin fil ɛn aw i kin kam.Bɔt. Bɔku pipul dɛn kin no dɛnsɛf pan ɔl tu di we dɛn. Fɔ ɛgzampul, yu kin bi `Heterosexual` bɔt yu kin bi `Demisexual` bak, ɔ yu kin bi `Pansexual` bɔt yu kin bi `Demisexual` bak. Fɔ tɔk am simpul wan, `Demisexuality` nɔto bɔt udat yu atrak to, bɔt aw da atrakshɔn de kin apin.

Wetin mek dis `Demisexuality` nid fɔ gɛt sɛpret lɛbl ɔ nem?

Sɔntɛm yusɛf go de wɔnda dis. Infakt, fɔ bɔku pipul dɛn we de sho se dɛn na `Demisexual`, we dɛn gɛt dis lɛbl, i de mek dɛn fil se dɛn de na di kɔmyuniti ɛn dɛn de, dɛn de fil se dɛn nɔ de dɛn wan ɛn ɔda pipul dɛn de we tan lɛk dɛn .

Jɔs tink, sɔntɛm dɛn dɔn de ɔnda bɔku strɛs ɛn kɔnfyushɔn frɔm we dɛn smɔl, dɛn de wɔnda, "Sɔmtin de we nɔ rayt wit mi?", "A difrɛn frɔm ɔda pipul dɛn?", bikɔs dɛn nɔ gɛt di sem sɛkshɔnal atrakshɔn ɔ intres pan sɛkshɔnal tin dɛn lɛk dɛn padi dɛn we de rawnd dɛn.

Di nem `Demisexuality` impɔtant fɔ dɛn rizin ya:

• I de ɛp di wan dɛn we de du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs wit ɔda pɔsin fɔ fɛn kɔmyuniti usay dɛn go ebul fɔ no dɛnsɛf.
• We dɛn fɛn dɛn aydentiti de ɛp di wan dɛn we de du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs wit ɔda pɔsin fɔ fil sef ɛn no se nɔto dɛn wan de .
• כlso, dis nem de εp fכ כndastand se sεks atrakshכn εn filin dεm na nכmal tin εn i kin εkspiriεns difrεnt fכ εvri pכsin, pan wan `spεktrum`, εn כl dεn filin dεm na `valid` .
• Dis lɛbl de gi dɛn wan wɔd fɔ no klia wan sɔntin we dɛn de ɛkspiriɛns we dɛn nɔ bin ebul fɔ tɔk bɔt bifo tɛm.

Fɔ dɔn, tin dɛn fɔ mɛmba (Take-Home Message) .

So, a op se yu ɔndastand sɔntin frɔm wetin wi dɔn tɔk bɔt. `Demisexual` de tכk bכt pipul dεm we de כnli fil seksual atrakshכn afta dεn dכn fכm dip imoshכnal bond wit pכsin.

Dɛn kin put dimisɛksualiti ɔnda di kategori fɔ aseksualiti, bikɔs dimiseksualiti dɛnsɛf gɛt smɔl pas avɛrej sɛksual want. Bɔt di wan dɛn we de du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs wit ɔda pɔsin na spɛshal grup fɔ dɛnsɛf, bikɔs dɛn kin want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs ɛn want fɔ du mami ɛn dadi biznɛs afta dɛn dɔn mek da filin de wit pɔsin.

Sɔntɛnde, fɔ tɔk bɔt dɛn tin ya kin fil smɔl na wi sosayti, bɔt i rili impɔtant fɔ ɔndastand yusɛf ɛn rɛspɛkt aw yu de fil.

If yu gɛt dɛn kayn filin ya ɛn nid ɛp fɔ tɔk bɔt dɛn mɔ, ɔ ɔndastand dɛn, nɔ shem. Go to dɔktɔ ɔ pɔsin we sabi gi advays. Dɛn kin ɛp yu fɔ no bɔt dɛn filin ya, gi yu di tin dɛn we yu nid fɔ no udat yu bi, ɛn gayd yu. Nɔto yu wan de!