Yu kin gɛt prɔblɛm bak fɔ bigin tɔk to yu padi dɛn? Smɔl ɛp fɔ wi wae gɛt ɔtizm (Autism Spectrum Disorder) fɔ de wit wi padi dɛm!

Sɔntɛnde, yu kin want fɔ ple ɛn tɔk to pɔsin. Bɔt yu kin kɔnfyus bɔt aw fɔ bigin am ɔ wetin fɔ tɔk. Fɔ sɔm pipul dɛn, dis na sɔntin we dɛn kin du rili izi. Bɔt if yu na pɔrsin wae gɛt Autism Spectrum Disorder, fɔ tɔk to ɔda pipul dɛm ɛn fɔ mek padi kin tranga smɔl. I kin tek tɛm fɔ praktis ɛn gi in layf to Jiova. Nɔto yu fɔlt atɔl, bikɔs wi ɔl difrɛn. Sɔm tin dɛn kin rili izi fɔ wi, ɛn ɔda tin dɛn kin nid fɔ ɛp wi smɔl. So tide, lɛ wi tɔk bɔt aw fɔ tɔk impɔtant fɔ wi fɔ bil dɛn padi biznɛs ya ɛn mek di padi biznɛs we wi gɛt strɔng, ɛn aw fɔ du am fayn fayn wan.

Aw yu go no pɔsin ɛn bigin fɔ tɔk to am?

Fɔs, mɛmba se fɔ mit nyu pɔsin ɔ fɔ bigin tɔk to pɔsin nɔto big tin. Yu kin jɔs se "hi" ɛn se yu nem. If yu de mit pɔsin we big smɔl, yu kin se sɔntin lɛk "hi, nice to meet you."

Di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl na dis tɛm na fɔ kip smɔl smayl na yu fes, luk di ɔda pɔsin na in yay, ɛn sho se yu want fɔ no wetin dɛn de tɔk. We yu du dɛn tin ya, ɔda pipul dɛn go ɔndastand am izi wan se yu rili lɛk wi ɛn yu rɛdi fɔ tɔk.

Na sɔm we dɛn we yu kin yuz fɔ bigin ɔda stori:

• If yu si pɔsin na di kɔlol na skul ɔ we yu de go insay klas, aks sɔntin lɛk, "Hi, aw yu de?"
• Na kafeteria ɔ laybri, smayl ɛn aks wit padi biznɛs se, "Hi, i fayn if a sidɔm ya?" ɔ jɔs se "hello."
• Ofa fɔ sheb sɔntin we yu gɛt, lɛk ɛkstra pensil, ɔ mek smɔl kɔmplimɛnt lɛk, "Yu bag fayn" ɔ "Yu sus dɛn rili fayn!"
• Invayt pɔsin fɔ kam bay we yu aks se, "Yu kin sidɔm ya?" na di kafeteria ɔ laybri, ɔ aks se, "Yu go lɛk fɔ kam ple bak?" we di grup de du sɔm tin dɛn.

Jɔs tink bɔt dat, if yu smayl smɔl ɛn tɔk fayn, dat kin mek yu rili difrɛn!

If yu nid ɛp fɔ yus fɔ tɔk dɛn tin ya, praktis fɔ tɔk dɛn wit yu mama ɛn papa ɔ ɔda big pɔsin we yu biliv. Dɔn, we yu rili nid fɔ tɔk to pɔsin, yu go ebul fɔ tɔk to am ɛn nɔ gɛt ɛni prɔblɛm.

Wans wan stori bigin, aw yu go kip am go bifo?

Ɔlman lɛk fɔ tɔk bɔt di tin dɛn we dɛn lɛk. So we yu de wit pɔsin, yu kin aks kwɛstyɔn dɛn lɛk: "Wetin yu de du fɔ ɛnjɔy yusɛf?" ɔ "Wetin na yu fav TV sho?" We yu aks kwɛstyɔn dɛn lɛk dis, di ɔda pɔsin no se yu intres pan dɛn.

Naw fɔ kɔntinyu fɔ tɔk, we di ɔda pɔsin ansa yu, fɔ ɛgzampul, "A lɛk fɔ go waka wit mi dɔg," yu fɔ tɔk sɔntin bɔt wetin dɛn tɔk. Yu kin se, "O, a gɛt dɔg bak," ɔ "Wetin na yu dɔg in nem?" Yu kin ivin nɔd yu ed ɛn ripit wetin di ɔda pɔsin se: "O, yu dɔg in nem na Spɔt?"

We yu du dis, di ɔda pɔsin no se yu dɔn tek tɛm lisin ɛn ɔndastand wetin dɛn dɔn tɔk. Fɔ tɔk fayn na we dɛn ɔl tu kin chenj fɔ tɔk.

Wetin mek dɛn tin ya difrɛn smɔl we yu gɛt ɔtizm (Autism Spectrum Disorder)?

Bikɔs yu gɛt ɔtizm spɛktrum disɔda, sɔmtɛm i kin tranga smɔl fɔ ɔndastand ɔda pipul dɛn fes, chenj dɛn we nɔr de si klia wan na dɛn vɔys, ɔr tin wae nɔr de tɔk bɔt. Dɔn bak, pan ɔl we yu go lɛk fɔ tɔk bɔt di sem tɔpik fɔ lɔng tɛm, ɔda pipul dɛn nɔ go lɛk fɔ tɔk bɔt di sem tɔpik. Na dat mek wi de tɔk bɔku bɔt di smɔl smɔl tin dɛn we wi fɔ tek tɛm wit na dis tɔk. I kin ɛp yu fɔ win sɔm pan dɛn prɔblɛm dɛn ya.

Aw yu go no ustɛm fɔ chenj di tɔpik ɔ stɔp fɔ tɔk?

We yu de tɔk to pɔsin, i impɔtant fɔ no ustɛm fɔ chenj di tɔpik ɔ stɔp fɔ tɔk. Bɔku tɛm wi kin no we pɔsin rɛdi fɔ chenj di tɔpik ɔ stɔp fɔ tɔk bay tin dɛn lɛk:

• We dɛn nɔ de luk yu smɔl (nɔ mek yu yay kɔntakt igen).
• We yu luk away frɔm yusɛf, ɔ rawnd di rum.
• We dɛn de luk dɛn fon ɔ du ɔda tin.
• We yu bigin fɔ tɔk bɔt sɔntin we rili difrɛn wantɛm wantɛm.
• We yu nɔ de ansa di kwɛstyɔn dɛn we yu de aks.

Sɔntɛnde di ɔda pɔsin go mek am izi fɔ yu ɛn tɔk sɔntin lɛk, "A fɔ go naw. Bay!" If yu want fɔ kɔmɔt, yu kin se bak se, "A fɔ go naw," "I bin fayn fɔ tɔk to yu," ɔ if yu de mit nyu pɔsin, "I bin fayn fɔ mit yu."

We yu de teks ɔ tɔk to yu padi na di Intanɛt, i kin at fɔ no smɔl we pɔsin de tray fɔ stɔp di tɔk. If na so i bi, if dɛn nɔ ansa yu las tu mɛsej dɛn, yu kin stɔp fɔ sɛn mɛsej ɔ tayp. I nɔ go awkward fɔ di ɔda pɔsin.

Yu fɔ mɛmba dɛn tin ya we yu de tɔk to ɔda pɔsin.

We yu de tɔk, i impɔtant fɔ no wetin fɔ du ɛn wetin nɔ fɔ du. Dɛn tin ya go ɛp ɔda pipul dɛn fɔ fil fayn fɔ tɔk to yu:

• Tɔk bɔt difrɛn tin dɛn: Tray nɔ fɔ tɔk bɔt di sem tin fɔ lɔng tɛm. If yu du dat, di ɔda pɔsin go bost. Yu kin tɔk bɔt difrɛn tin dɛn lɛk animal, spɔt, it, fim, ɛn vidio gem.
• Pik tin dɛn we una ɔl tu lɛk:Fɔ ɛgzampul, if yu want fɔ tɔk bɔt aw fɔ mek plen, bɔt di ɔda pɔsin nɔ intres pan dat, i go mek dɛn bɔri fɔ lisin to am. So tɔk bɔt tin dɛn we una ɔl tu gɛt fɔ du wit dɛnsɛf.
• Mek di ɔda pɔsin tɔk: I rili impɔtant fɔ gi di ɔda pɔsin chans fɔ tɔk wetin i tink ɛn tɔk, pas fɔ jɔs tɔk.
• Nɔ go nia am tumɔs: Kip yu an fa frɔm di pɔsin we yu de tɔk to so dat dɛn nɔ go fil bad. Dis min se yu nid fɔ tink bak bɔt pɔsin in yon ples.
• Bi padi: Sho se yu de lisin to wetin di ɔda pɔsin de tɔk. Yu kin du dis bay we yu smayl, nɔd, luk dɛn, ɔ aks mɔ kwɛstyɔn dɛn we gɛt fɔ du wit wetin dɛn tɔk .

If yu gɛt ɔtizm spɛktrum disɔda, dɛn sɔshal lɔ ya kin tan lɛk se dɛn kɔmplikt smɔl. Bɔt if yu pe atɛnshɔn to di smɔl smɔl tin dɛn ɛn yus to dɛn, yu go ebul fɔ du dɛn izi wan. I tan lɛk se yu de lan nyu langwej, i de izi ɛn izi fɔ yus to am.

So, na sɔm tin dɛn we wi fɔ mɛmba frɔm wetin wi dɔn tɔk bɔt:

Okay, so wi don tok plenti tide, no bi so? Fɔ tɔk to yu padi dɛm fayn fayn wan kin tan lɛk smɔl prɔblɛm fɔ yu, wae gɛt ɔtizm spɛktrum disɔda, bɔt yu go no naw se i nɔr pɔsibul.

I go ɛp yu bɔku if yu mɛmba dɛn tin ya:

1. Start padi: Nɔ fred fɔ stat tɔk wit smɔl smayl ɛn simpul "hi." Luk di ɔda pɔsin ɛn pe atɛnshɔn to wetin dɛn de tɔk.

2. Aks kwɛstyɔn ɛn lisin: We yu aks kwɛstyɔn bɔt wetin di ɔda pɔsin lɛk, dat de sho se yu bisin bɔt am. Lisin gud wan to wetin dɛn de tɔk ɛn tɔk sɔntin we gɛt fɔ du wit am.

3. Ɔndastand ɔda pipul dɛn cues: If yu fil se sɔmbɔdi de tray fɔ stɔp di tɔk ɔ chenj di tɔpik, lɛ dɛn. Nɔ tray fɔ fos di tɔk.

4. Praktis na di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl: I nɔ bad if yu nɔ ebul fɔ du dɛn tin ya wantɛm wantɛm. Praktis wit pɔsin we yu abop pan. Praktis ɛn yu go bɛtɛ.

5. Bi yusɛf: Pan ɔl we dɛn advays ya go ɛp yu, bi yusɛf ɔltɛm ɛn bi tru tru pɔsin. Yu gud kwaliti dɛn ɛn di tin dɛn we yu lɛk na dɛn de mek yu spɛshal.

Di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl na dat, nɔ stɔp fɔ tray! Ɔlman lɛk fɔ de wit in padi dɛn ɛn tɔk to dɛnsɛf. Yu gɛt ɔl di rayt fɔ ɛnjɔy da gladi at de bak. If yu lan smɔl ɛn tray smɔl, yusɛf go bi big padi ɛn mek bɔku gud padi dɛn!

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