Yu gɛt abnɔmal fred bak fɔ smɔl pikin dɛn? Lɛ wi tɔk bɔt pedophobia!

Yu dɔn ɛva yɛri se sɔm pipul dɛn kin fil wan strenj fred ɛn nɔ kin fil fayn we dɛn si smɔl pikin dɛn, bebi dɛn, ɔ ivin go na say usay dɛn de? Sɔntɛm yusɛf de fil lɛk dat, ɔ sɔntɛm yu sabi pɔsin lɛk dat. Dis nɔto simpul tin, dis na rili wan sik we dɔktɔ dɔn no. Tide wi go tɔk bɔt dis ɔda kayn fred we smɔl pikin dɛn kin fred, we dɛn kɔl pedophobia .

Wetin na Pedophobia?

Fɔ tɔk am simpul wan, fɔ et pikin dɛn na tin we nɔmal, we nɔ gɛt sɛns fɔ fred bebi ɛn yɔŋ pikin dɛn. Di wɔd "pedophobia" kɔmɔt frɔm tu Grik wɔd dɛn. "paida" min pikin, ɛn "phobos" min fɔ fred.

Pɔsin we gɛt dis sik kin du bɔku tin fɔ avɔyd say dɛn we smɔl pikin dɛn kin de. Fɔ sɔm pipul dɛn, we dɛn jɔs tink bɔt fɔ waka nia pikin, dat kin mek dɛn fred ɛn wɔri bad bad wan . Dis nɔto jɔs smɔl tin we pɔsin et, bɔt na sɔntin we dip pas dat fa fawe.

Wetin na fɔ fred pɔsin?

Naw yu kin de wɔnda wetin na "phobia". Fɔbia na wan sik we de mek pɔsin wɔri . Na wae yu gɛt abnɔmal, irashɔnal frayd fɔ sɔmtin wae nɔr kin rili du yu bad. Pedophobia na wan patikyula frayd sik. Dat min se, pɔrsin kin frayd fɔ wan patikyula tin, insay dis kes, bebi ɛn smɔl pikin dɛm, ɔr kin fil bad bad wɔri we i de nia dɛm.

Aw dis sik kin kɔmɔn?

I at fɔ tɔk ɛksaktɔli ɔmɔs pipul dɛn gɛt spɛshal fred lɛk pedophobia. Bɔrku pipul kin kip dis frayd fɔ dɛnsɛf, ɔr nɔr kin ivin no se dɛn gɛt am. Bɔt risach dɔn sho se wan pan ɛvri 10 big pipul dɛn na Amɛrika ɛn wan pan ɛvri 5 yɔŋ pikin dɛn go gɛt wan patikyula fred sɔm tɛm na dɛn layf.

Wetin na di difrɛns bitwin Pedophobia ɛn Pediophobia?

Dɛn tu wɔd ya fiba pan spɛlin, so i izi fɔ mek yu kɔnfyus. Pediophobia na di fred fɔ dɔl, dat na, tin dɛn we nɔ gɛt layf we tan lɛk rial. Bɔt, Pedophobia na di fred we rial pikin dɛn de fred.

Bɔt dis tin de bak, sɔm pipul dɛn kin gɛt dɛn tu kayn phobia ya. Dat min se, pɔsin we de fred pikin dɛn (pedophobia) kin fred bak di we aw dɔl dɛn kin luk lɛk pikin (pediophobia). Semweso, pɔsin we gɛt pedophobia kin gɛt wan sik bak we dɛn kɔl pedophobia.

Udat kin gɛt mɔ chans fɔ lɛk pikin dɛn?

Sɔm pipul dɛn kin gɛt dis kayn frayd frayd sik.

• Obsesiv-Kɔmpulsiv Disɔda (OCD) .Pipul wit: Dɛn pipul ya lɛk fɔ mek ɔltin nit ɛn klin. Dɛn kin si pikin dɛn as pipul dɛn we nɔ gɛt wanwɔd ɛn we nɔ gɛt wanwɔd. Dɛn kin fred di chaotic ɛn chaotic nature wae kin kam wae dɛn de wit smɔl pikin dɛm. Imajin aw pɔsin we gɛt ``(OCD)`` go de wɔri if smɔl pikin kam insay di os ɛn mek mɛs bay we i trowe tɔys ɔlsay ɛn tɔn it na grɔn.
• Jɛnda: Dɛn dɔn si se uman dɛn kin gɛt fred pas man dɛn.
• Famili istri: If wan pan yu mama ɛn papa ɔ pɔsin we de nia yu dɔn gɛt wan sik we de mek yu fred ɔ wɔri, yu go gɛt di sem fred ɔ ɔda kayn fred.
• Di tin dɛn we kin mek dɛn gɛt jɛnɛtiks: Sɔm stɔdi dɛn dɔn sho se di chenj dɛn we kin apin na di jɛnɛtiks (lɛk we di jin dɛn kin chenj) kin mek sɔm pipul dɛn gɛt prɔblɛm wit wɔri ɔ fɔ fred.

Ɔda tin dɛn de we kin mek pɔsin fred we gɛt fɔ du wit fɔ et pikin dɛn?

Na kɔmɔn tin fɔ gɛt pas wan fɔbia. Bɔku tɛm, di tin dɛn we kin mek pɔsin fred kin gɛt sɔntin fɔ du wit dɛnsɛf. fכ egzampl, pכsin we de fred jεm (`(Mysophobia)` כ `(Germaphobia)`) kin si sכm pikin dεm lεk sכm sכm pipul dεm we de kכri jεm. Dɔn dɛn kin gɛt pedophobia. Semweso, pɔsin we de fred smɔl pikin dɛn kin gɛt fred bak fɔ pikin dɛn we dɔn big smɔl, we smɔl (`(Ephebiphobia)`).

Wetin mek dis pedophobia kin apin? Wetin na di tin dɛn we kin mek i apin?

Yu kin fred pikin dɛn bikɔs ɔf bad tin we apin to yu smɔl pikin. Dis bad tin bin fɔ dɔn apin we yu bin smɔl ɔ we yu dɔn big.

Sɔntɛm yu dɔn ɛkspiriɛns am dairekt wan, ɔ yu go dɔn si sɔntin we apin:

• Fɔ si aw dɛn de trit pikin dɛn bad ɔ sɔntin we gɛt fɔ du wit am.
• We dɛn de buli pikin, we i de provok am, we i de fɛt-fɛt , ɔ we i vɛks bad bad wan.
• Fɔ si ɔ lan bɔt di day we bebi ɔ smɔl pikin day .
• Wan ɛkspiriɛns we pɔsin kin gɛt we i nɔ gɛt bɛlɛ, lɛk we i nɔ gɛt bɛlɛ ɔ we i bɔn pikin we dɔn day . (Dis na tin wae kin rili fil bad, so dis kayn tin kin mek yu frayd dis kayn tin.)

Imajin, we yu bin de ple we yu bin smɔl, ɔda pikin nak yu bad bad wan, ɔ brok wan pan yu tɔys dɛn. Ɔ, yu si big pɔsin de kɔl ɔ bit smɔl pikin bad bad wan. Dɛn kayn tin ya kin rili de insay di maynd ɛn leta kin mek pɔsin fred fɔ pikin dɛn.

Wetin rili pipul dɛn we gɛt pedophobia kin fred?

Pedophobia nɔ de afɛkt ɔlman di sem we. Yu kin ɛkspiriɛns:

• Yu kin ebul fɔ de wit pikin dɛn we yu sabi, fɔ ɛgzampul, yu fambul dɛn pikin dɛn, bɔt yu nɔ go ebul fɔ de wit ɔda pikin dɛn.
• I nɔ kin izi fɔ liv wit ɛni pikin we nɔ gɛt panik simptom.
• Yu kin fil wɔri ivin we yu de tink bɔt fɔ de nia pikin dɛn, ɔ we yu si pikin dɛn pikchɔ.
• Yu kin fil fɔ fred ɛn wɔri bɔt ɛnitin we go mek yu kam nia pikin dɛn.

Wetin na di sayn dɛm fɔ Pedophobia?

Di sayn dɛm wae de sho se pɔrsin frayd kin kɔmɔt frɔm wae nɔr kin pasmak to wae kin pasmak. Ivin if yu ɔndastand se di fred we yu pikin de fred nɔ mek sɛns, yu nɔ go ebul fɔ kɔntrol di we aw yu de biev.

Di sayn dɛm fɔ pedophobia kin bi:

• Diziz we pɔsin kin gɛt
• Dray mɔt
• Fɔ fil bad pasmak fɔ fred ɔ fɔ fred
• Nɔs, vɔmit ɔ dayarɛa
• Bɔku bɔku swet
• Fɔ blo kwik kwik wan ɛn fɔ mek yu at rit
• Fɔ shek ɔ shek shek
• Shot we yu de blo

We yu si dɛn sayn ya, yu kin si se dis nɔto jɔs smɔl fred, bɔt na sɔntin we di bɔdi insɛf kin fil.

Aw fɔ no fɔ tru if yu gɛt Pedophobia? (Diagnosis) .

Di American Psychiatric Association’s Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM) de ɛp pipul dɛm wae sabi bɔt mɛntɛl hεlth, lɛk sayɛnsman dɛm, fɔ no aw pɔrsin de frayd bay aw dɛn de fil ɛn aw dɛn kin afɛkt yu kwaliti fɔ liv.

Dɔktɔ dɛn kin yuz dɛn krayteria ya fɔ no if pɔsin gɛt wan patikyula tin we de mek pɔsin fred, lɛk we i de fred pikin dɛn:

• Intɛns frayd na bebi ɛn yɔŋ pikin dɛm we kin las fɔ at le siks mɔnt.
• Di sayn dɛm kin bigin jɔs lɛk aw yu go nia pikin dɛm, ɔr we yu tink se yu de nia pikin dɛm.
• Bɔrku frayd ɔr wɔri wae de mek yu avɔyd tin dɛm wae yu kin de nia bebi ɔr pikin dɛm.
• Simptom dɛm wae de afɛkt yu kwaliti fɔ liv .
• Filin fɔ fred bad bad wan, wɔri, ɔr frayd wae nɔr fit di rial denja.

De tin wae impɔtant pas ɔl na, if yu de fil lɛk dis, nɔr ayd am, tɔk to pɔrsin wae yu trɔst, ɛn aks dɔktɔ fɔ advays if nid de.

Wetin na de tritmɛnt fɔ dis sik?

Di gud nyus na dat, pɔrsin wae de gi advays bɔt mɛntɛl hεlth kin ɛp yu fɔ lɛf dis frayd fɔ de wit smɔl pikin dɛm. Bɔku tɛm, saykotɛrapi (tɔk tɛrapi) kin fayn fɔ pipul dɛm wae gɛt pedophobia.

Di we aw dɛn kin trit am kin bi dɛn wan ya:

• Eksposhɔn tɛrapi (ɔ desensitization) .: Dis involv fɔ kɔfrɛnt yu fred smɔl smɔl ɛn di we aw yu de fred. Smɔl smɔl, dɛn kin sho yu pikin dɛn bay we dɛn de sho yu pikchɔ ɔ fim dɛn fɔ pikin dɛn, dɔn yu kin muf go na say we pikin de fa smɔl, dɔn yu kin kam nia yu. De gol na fɔ desensitize yu frayd tru ripit ɛkspos. Fɔ bɔrku pipul dɛm wae gɛt sɔm kayn frayd frayd sik, ɛksposhɔn tritmɛnt kin ridyus di sik dɛm bad bad wan as tɛm de go.
• Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) : Dis tritmɛnt de ɛp yu fɔ analayz wetin mek yu de fred pikin dɛn. CBT de ɛp yu fɔ tɔk bɔt traumatik tin dɛm wae kin dɔn mek dis frayd. Wae yu dɔn fɛn de kɔz, yu kin lan aw fɔ chenj yu tinkin ɛn riakshɔn wae i kam pan pikin dɛm.
• Mɛrɛsin : Wae yu de gɛt saykotɛrapi, mɛrɛsin wae de mɛk yu nɔr de wɔri ɔr mɛrɛsin wae de mek yu fil bad kin ɛp yu. Dɛn mɛrɛsin ya kin ɛp fɔ pul di sik, ɛn dis kin mek i izi fɔ de nia pikin dɛn. Bɔt mɛmba se, dɛn mɛrɛsin ya nɔto di wangren sɔlv, ɛn bɔku tɛm dɛn kin yuz dɛn wit di tritmɛnt.

Wetin na di prɔblɛm dɛn we kin apin we pɔsin nɔ lɛk pikin dɛn?

Dis kayn frayd we pikin dɛn kin fred pasmak kin mek i nɔ izi fɔ mek dɛn wok fayn fayn wan na di sosayti. Yu kin mis sɔshal ivent dɛn, yu kin gɛt prɔblɛm dɛn na yu wokples, ɛn yu kin ivin gɛt pwɛl at . Sɔm pipul dɛn kin gɛt panik atak . Dis kin fil lɛk se yu gɛt at atɔk. Yu at kin bit fast fast, ɛn yu kin gɛt pen na yu chɛst (nɔto bikɔs ɔf at atak).

Di mɛrɛsin wae de fɔ mɛn yu wɔri kin ɛp yu fɔ kɔntrol yu sik wae yu de fɛn we fɔ ridyus yu frayd.

Ustɛm yu fɔ go to dɔktɔ?

If yu gɛt ɛni wan pan dɛn tin ya, go to dɔktɔ wantɛm wantɛm:

• Panik atak dɛn
• Wae yu nɔr de wɔri ɔltɛm wae de ambɔg yu ɛvride layf ɔr slip.
• Sayn dɛm fɔ pwɛl hat (fɔ fil sɔri ɔltɛm, nɔr intres pan ɛnitin).
• Prɔblɛm fɔ yuz sɔbstans (if di pɔsin nɔ ebul fɔ bia wit dis fred ɛn tɔn to rɔm ɔ ɔda drɔgs).

Us kwɛstyɔn dɛn yu fɔ aks yu dɔktɔ?

Yu kin aks yu dɔktɔ kwɛstyɔn dɛn lɛk:

• Wetin mek a gɛt dis kayn fred?
• Wetin na di bɛst tritmɛnt fɔ mi?
• A fɔ tray fɔ yuz ɛksplɔshɔn tɛrapi?
• Aw lɔng a go nid tɛrapi?

Fɔ dɔn, tin dɛn fɔ mɛmba (Take-Home Message) .

Wi ɔl no se smɔl pikin dɛn de ɔlsay: na stɔ, na neba, na bɔs, na strit. I at fɔ lɛ yu nɔ si dɛn smɔl pikin ya. We yu de fred bebi ɛn pikin dɛn we de smɔl, dat kin mek i nɔ izi fɔ yu fɔ go bay tin dɛn, fɔ travul, fɔ spɛn tɛm wit ɔda pipul dɛn, fɔ go na di program dɛn, ɛn fɔ du di tin dɛn we bɔku pipul dɛn lɛk.

Fɔ avɔyd pikin dɛn kpatakpata nɔto tin we pɔsin kin du ɛn i nɔ kin mek pɔsin gɛt wɛlbɔdi.

Mɛmba se nɔto yu wangren de. Wan mɛntɛl hεlth kɔlnɔ kin ɛp yu fɔ pul yu pedophobia bay we yu de yuz saykotɛrapi tɛknik lɛk ɛksplɔshɔn tɛrapi ɛn kɔgnitiv bihayvya tɛrapi (CBT). If yu ɛp yu di rayt we, yu go ebul fɔ kɔntrol dis fred ɛn liv nɔmal layf ɛn gladi at. Nɔ fred fɔ aks fɔ ɛp.

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