Yu smɔl pikin de kray nɔ-stɔp? Mek wi tok abaut ‘Purple Crying’!

As mama ɔ papa, sɔntɛnde yu kin wɔnda se, "Wetin mek mi pikin de kray so? A de du sɔntin we nɔ rayt?" Na nɔmal tin fɔ mek bebi dɛn kray. Bɔt sɔm bebi dɛn de we kin kray fɔ lɔng lɔng tɛm fɔ natin, ilɛksɛf yu rɔk dɛn. Yu dɔn ɛva gɛt dis kayn ɛkspiriɛns? I rili taya, nɔto so? Wi de tok abaut dat kain situeshɔn tide.

Wetin na dis ‘Purple Crying’?

Fɔ tɔk am simpul wan, ‘Purple Crying’ na stej we yu pikin de divɛlɔp. Insay dis tɛm, yu pikin kin kray fɔ no rizin ɛn ilɛk aw yu tray tranga wan, i kin kray nɔ stɔp. Sɔntɛnde, dɛn kin ivin ala lawd wan. Dis kin rili mek mama ɛn papa dɛn at pwɛl ɛn dɛn kin taya. A ɔndastand di frustrashɔn ɛn di nɔ ebul fɔ ɛp yu we yu nɔ ebul fɔ mek yu pikin fil fayn.

Bɔt mɛmba se ɔl di pikin dɛn kin go tru dis pat . Sɔm bebi dɛn kin kray smɔl mɔ, sɔm kin kray smɔl. Bɔt dis na nɔmal, wɛlbɔdi pat pan ɛvri smɔl pikin in divɛlɔpmɛnt. Di impɔtant tin na fɔ ɔndastand wetin mek i kin apin, wetin yu kin du bɔt am, ɛn mɔ se dis ‘Purple Crying’ phase go dɔn.

Ustɛm ‘Purple Crying’ kin bigin? Aw lɔng i dɔn de go bifo?

כltεm, dis ‘Purple Crying’ de stat we di pikin ol lεk tu wiks. Dat min se di sik kin bigin as ali as fכ dez afta dεn bכn di pikin. Dɔn, bay di tɛm we di pikin ol tri to fayv mɔnt, i go mɔs bi se di kayn kray we i de kray go dɔŋ ɛn i nɔ go de igen. So tek sɔm kɔrej we yu si se dis nɔto sɔntin we go de sote go. Na fɔ shɔt tɛm nɔmɔ i de du am.

Wetin ‘Purple Crying’ min? Wetin dɛn PURPLE lɛta dɛn de min?

Naw yu go de wɔnda if di wɔd ‘Purple Crying’ min se di pikin go tɔn pepul. Wɛl, nɔto so i bi. Dɛn kin mek di wɔd ‘PURPLE’ bay we dɛn jɔyn di fɔs lɛta dɛn fɔ sɔm Inglish wɔd dɛn. Dis na aw dכkta dεm εn hεlth wokman dεm de εksplen sכm pan di sayn dεm we dεn kin si na dis stej we di pikin de divεlכp. Lɛ wi si wetin dɛn bi?

• P - Pik fכ Kray: Dis de tכk bכt di tεm we di pikin in kray de inkrεs sכmtεm εn i de rich in mak. Dis kray kin rich di mak arawnd tu mɔnt. Afta dat, i kin go dɔŋ smɔl smɔl. I tan lɛk se yu de klaym mawnten, rich ɔp ɛn kam dɔŋ bak.
• U - Nɔ ɛkspɛkt: Dis kray de apin na tɛm we yu nɔ ɛkspɛkt. Di pikin kin bigin fɔ kray wantɛm wantɛm fɔ no rizin. Sɔntɛnde, di pikin kin bigin fɔ kray wantɛm wantɛm afta i dɔn laf gud gud wan. I kin stɔp bak wantɛm wantɛm.
• R - Resists Soothing (I at fɔ stɔp ivin if yu tray fɔ stɔp):I nɔ mata aw yu tray fɔ mek yu pikin kol – ilɛksɛf na fɔ it, chenj di nɛpi, fɔ ol am, fɔ pat am jisnɔ – sɔm tɛm i kin at fɔ stɔp am fɔ kray. Dɛn jɔs de kɔntinyu fɔ kray. Yu kin tink se, "O, ilɛk wetin a du, i nɔ de wok." I at fɔ biliv. Bɔt nɔto yu fɔlt.
• P - Fes we tan lɛk pen: I kin lɛf smɔl fɔ lɛ yu nɔ ebul fɔ bia fɔ wach pikin we de kray. Di pikin in fes rɛd ɛn kɔntort, lɛk se i de fil pen ɔ i de fil bad bad wan. Bɔt sɔntɛm i nɔ go rili fil pen. Dis na di kayn we aw dis kayn kray we pɔsin kin kray.
• L - Lכng Last (awa dεm wan tεm): Dis kray kin las fכ awa dεm wan tεm. Sɔm pikin dɛn kin kray fɔ 5 awa ɔ mɔ insay di de. I rili taya fɔ lisin to dis, nɔto so?
• E - Ivin (Most common in di ivintɛm/nayt): Dis tranga kray kin apin bɔku tɛm na ivintɛm ɔ na nɛt. I kin wɔs na nɛt pas na de. Na dat mek sɔm pipul dɛn kin kɔl am ‘witching hour’.

Yu tink se ‘Purple Crying’ ɛn ‘colic’ na di sem tin?

Sɔm pipul dɛn kin kɔl dis kɔndishɔn ‘kɔlik’. Ɔda wan dɛn, lɛk aw a bin dɔn tɔk bifo tɛm, kin kɔl am ‘di majik tɛm.’ Fɔ tru, ɔl dɛn wɔd ya min di sem tin.

Bɔku dɔktɔ dɛn we de mɛn pikin dɛn kin lɛk fɔ kɔl dis divɛlɔpmɛnt stej "Di Pɛriɔd fɔ PURPLE Crying®." Bikɔs di lɛta dɛn ‘PURPLE’ de tɔk bɔt wetin fɔ ɛkspɛkt frɔm yu pikin insay dis tɛm. Na di sem tɛm, di wɔd ‘Pɛriɔd’ we de na di biginin de mɛmba wi se dis kray – pan ɔl we i kin fil lɛk se i nɔ go ɛva dɔn – gɛt biginin ɛn ɛnd . Yu pikin go mɔs pas dis stej.

Sɔm masta sabi pipul dɛn nɔ kin ivin lɛk fɔ yuz di wɔd ‘kɔlik’ bikɔs i kin tan lɛk sik. Natin nɔ rili bad we pikin gɛt ‘kɔlik’. If yu pikin de gro fayn ɛn ɔda we i gɛt wɛlbɔdi, bɔt i de kray we yu nɔ ebul fɔ kɔntrol am ɛvri ivintɛm, i kin bi se i de go tru di ‘Purple Crying’ faz.

Udat mek di wɔd "Di Pɛriɔd fɔ PURPLE Kray"?

di tεm we dεn kכl "The Period of PURPLE Crying" na dכkta Ronald G. Barr, we sabi divεlכpmεnt fכ pikin dεm εn di pikin dεm we de kray fכs. I, we i wok wit di Nashɔnal Sɛnta fɔ Shaken Bebi Sindrom (NCSBS) na Amɛrika, bin introduks di "Purple Crying" ɛdyukeshɔn program. Di men tin we i want fɔ du na fɔ mek di bren nɔ pwɛl we pikin dɛn de shek (Shaken Baby Syndrome), we dɛn de trit dɛn ed bad bad wan, ɛn ɔda kayn we dɛn we dɛn de trit pikin dɛn bad.

Wetin yu kin du fɔ mek yu pikin kol we yu de ‘Purple Crying’?

Naw yu go mɔs de wɔnda wetin yu go du fɔ mek yu pikin latch pan. Di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl na fɔ no se fɔ latch nɔ kin wok ɔltɛm.I nɔ mata wetin yu du, tɛm go de we yu pikin go kɔntinyu fɔ kray. Dat na nɔmal tin. I nɔ de mek yu bi bad mama ɔ papa.

Bɔt, yu kin tray dɛn tin ya:

• Chek di pikin in besik nid: Di pikin angri? Yu tink se di nɛpi wet? Yu tink se i tu hot ɔ i kol? Yu tink se i de slip? Chek dɛn tin ya fɔs.
• Hol yu pikin klos to yu fɔ mek yu gɛt kɔntakt wit yu skin to di skin: Di wam we yu skin wam ɛn di sawnd we yu at bit kin mek yu pikin fil fayn.
• Go waka: Tek yu pikin go waka rawnd di os ɔ na di yad. Sɔm bebi dɛn lɛk fɔ muv.
• Siŋ siŋ to yu pikin ɔ tɔk saful saful: Yu vɔys kin ɛp fɔ mek yu pikin kol.
• Wam yu pikin wit wam wata: Sɔm pikin dɛn lɛk wam wata, bikɔs i de mek dɛn kol.
• Yuz wayt nɔys: Sɔm bebi dɛn kin si se simpul sawnd dɛn lɛk fan ɔ ren sawnd kin mek dɛn fil fayn.

Wetin a go du if di pikin nɔ stɔp fɔ kray ilɛksɛf a tray tranga wan?

If yu dɔn du ɔl dis ɛn yu pikin kɔntinyu fɔ kray, di bɛst tin we yu go du na fɔ step away frɔm yu pikin fɔ sɔm minit. Put yu pikin na say we sef (lɛk bed) ɛn tek dip briz. Yu fɔ kol yu at.

I nɔmal fɔ fil bad, nɔ ebul fɔ du ɛnitin, ɛn vɛks we yu pikin kray nɔ stɔp. Bɔt yu nid fɔ tink bak bɔt yu maynd wɛlbɔdi. If yu fil se yu de vɛks tumɔs ɔ yu vɛks fɔ kɔntrol, tek tɛm bad bad wan da tɛm de. Natin nɔ bad fɔ tek briŋ fɔ sɔm tɛm, na nɔmal tin. We yu fil da we de, put yu pikin sef wan na di bed ɔ na in bed, ɛn go na do fɔ sɔm tɛm. Go na ɔda rum. Tek dip briz. Drink sɔm wata if yu nid fɔ drink am. Tek smɔl tɛm fɔ mek yu at kol. Dis rili impɔtant. If i pɔsibul, aks yu padi ɔ fambul we yu biliv fɔ ɛp ɛn sɔpɔt. Aks dɛn fɔ wach yu pikin fɔ sɔm tɛm.

I nɔ mata aw yu vɛks ɔ yu at pwɛl, nɔ ɛva, ɛva shek bebi. If yu du dat, i kin mek di pikin in bren blɔd, brus, ɛn swel. Dɛn kɔl dis ‘Shaken Baby Syndrome’. Dis na tin we rili denja. I kin mek pɔsin in bren pwɛl, i kin mek i nɔ ebul fɔ du am sote go, ɛn i kin ivin mek i day. Bɔku tɛm, ‘Shaken Baby Syndrome’ kin kam we mama ɛn papa ɔ di wan dɛn we de kia fɔ dɛn pikin kin shek dɛn pikin we dɛn nɔ no bikɔs dɛn kin fil bad we dɛn pikin kɔntinyu fɔ kray.

If yu ɔndastand di ‘Period of PURPLE Crying’ kin ɛp di wan dɛn we de kia fɔ dɛn fɔ bia wit dis divɛlɔpmɛnt pat. I de mɛmba dɛn bak se na fɔ shɔt tɛm nɔmɔ. ‘Purple Crying’ ɛdyukeshɔn de ɛmpɛsh fɔ ridyus di risk fɔ du bad to pikin, lɛk ‘Shaken Baby Syndrome’.

Ustɛm a fɔ go to mi pikin in dɔktɔ we de mɛn pikin dɛn?

No gud gud wan bɔt yu pikin in wɛlbɔdi, .Mek shɔ se yu atɛnd di rutin pikin dɛn wɛlbɔdi visit lɛk aw yu pikin dɛn dɔktɔ tɛl yu. Go to dɛn chɛk-ap ya di rayt tɛm frɔm di de we dɛn bɔn yu pikin. Yu dɔktɔ go tɛl yu aw ɔltɛm yu fɔ kam fɔ dɛn tin ya.

Wi no naw se i nɔmal fɔ mek pikin dɛn kray we dɛn nɔ ebul fɔ kɔntrol dɛnsɛf bitwin tu wik ɛn fayv mɔnt. Bɔt if yu pikin gɛt ɛni wan pan dɛn ɔda sayn dɛn ya , yu fɔ go to yu dɔktɔ we de mɛn pikin dɛn wantɛm wantɛm:

• If yu gɛt fiva we na 100.4 Fahrenheit (38 Celsius) ɔ pas dat.
• If yu pikin kray bɔku (lɛk se i de fil pen) we yu ol am, pik am, ɔ muv am.
• If yu de vɔmit (especially we yu de vɔmit ɔltɛm).
• If yu nɔ gri fɔ it ɔ drink fɔ pas et awa (if yu nɔ de drink milk).
• If swɛlin de ɛnisay na di bɔdi.
• If di pikin in lukin-grɔn ɔ di we aw i de biev difrɛn frɔm aw i kin bi (lɛk we i nɔ kin slip fayn, we i nɔ kin intres).
• If yu nɔ de gɛt bɔku bɔku bɔdi ɔ yu nɔ de lɔs yu wet.
• if chenj de na di pikin in stכl (e.g. kכla, likwid kכnsistεns, lεk bכdi).

If yu pikin gɛt wɛlbɔdi ɛn i de divɛlɔp lɛk aw yu bin de tink, sɔntɛm natin nɔ de fɔ wɔri bɔt if i de kray ɔltɛm. Bɔt if yu gɛt ɛnitin fɔ wɔri bɔt ɔ wɔri, tɔk to yu dɔktɔ ɔltɛm. Nɔ jɔs tek am se, "A nɔ no if dis na jɔs fluke." I bɛtɛ fɔ aks yu dɔktɔ.

Fɔ bi mama ɔ papa nɔ kin izi. Na wan pan di tin dɛn we at pas ɔl ɛn we fayn pas ɔl na di wɔl. We yu pikin kray nɔ-stɔp, yu kin wɔnda, ‘A de du sɔntin we nɔ rayt?’ Bɔt mɛmba se, dis ‘Pɛriɔd fɔ Kray PƆPUL’ na nɔmal tin – ɛn i go dɔn . If yu gɛt ɛni wɔri ɔ kwɛstyɔn bɔt aw yu pikin de biev, tɔk to yu dɔktɔ we de mɛn pikin dɛn. Dɛn kin gi yu tin dɛm ɛn advays fɔ ɛp yu fɔ go na dis divɛlɔpmɛnt pat. Nɔto yu wan de!

Wetin na di impɔtant tin dɛn we wi fɔ kɛr go na os frɔm dis stori?

Okay, so lɛ wi rikap di impɔtant tin dɛn we yu nid fɔ mɛmba frɔm wetin wi dɔn tɔk bɔt:

• 'Purple Crying' na nכmal, hεlty stej fכ di pikin divεlכpmεnt. I nɔto sik.
• dis na fכ sכm tεm εn i go probabli kכmכt bay di tεm we di pikin ol 3-5 mכnt.
• di lεta ‘PURPLE’ de dεskrεb di nεchכr fכ dis kray (maksimam durashכn, kam na tεm we yu nכ kin prεdikt, i at fכ kכntrכl, kray lεk se i de fil pen, kכntinyu fכ kray, i de inkrεs na ivintɛm/nayt).
• I fayn fɔ tray fɔ mek yu pikin fil fayn, bɔt mɛmba se i nɔ go wok ɔltɛm .
• If yu fil taya ɔ yu at pwɛl, i nɔ bad fɔ lɛf yu pikin na say we sef ɛn step away fɔ sɔm tɛm fɔ rɛst .
• Nɔ ɛva shek bebi, ilɛksɛf yu vɛks.I kin mek di pikin gɛt siriɔs prɔblɛm (Shaken Baby Syndrome).
• If yu pikin kɔntinyu fɔ kray ɛn gɛt ɔda sayn dɛn lɛk fiva, vɔmit, ɔ nɔ gri fɔ it, go to yu dɔktɔ we de mɛn pikin dɛn wantɛm wantɛm.
• If yu gɛt ɛni dawt ɔ fred, go to dɔktɔ . I go mek yu maynd fil fayn bak.

` Bebi kray, Pepul kray, Kɔlik, Bebi shek, Shaken Bebi Sindrom, Advays fɔ mama ɛn papa, Bebi wɛlbɔdi