Mental ƐlthFebruary 12, 2026🔄 Updated: Jul 14, 2026⏱ 11 min

Yu tu de stik fo ‘klik’ fo skul? Lɛ wi tɔk bɔt aw fɔ dil wit dɛn ‘klik’ ya!

Creator: Dr. Priya Sammani
Published: 2026-02-12T04:58:23.000Z

Dr. Priya Sammani, MBBS, PG Dip. FMMedical Verification

Wi ɔl lɛk fɔ de wit wi padi dɛn. We wi de go wit wi padi dɛn, tɔk, ple, ɔ jɔs spɛn tɛm togɛda, wi kin fil gladi pasmak, nɔto so? We wi de wit dis kayn grup, i kin tan lɛk se bɔku tin dɛn na layf kin izi, wi kin fil lɛk se wi gɛt sikyɔriti. Sɔm grup dɛn de we gɛt padi dɛn, ɛn dɛn kin rili opin dɛn at to ɔda pipul dɛn, ɛn dɛn kin rili ebul fɔ chenj chenj. Dɛn kin wɛlkɔm ɛnibɔdi we kam ɛn se, ‘Kam jɔyn wi.’ Bɔt di grup dɛn we dɛn kɔl ‘kliks’ we wi go tɔk bɔt tide, rili difrɛn. Dɛn kin rili stɔp dɛn, ɛn dɛn kin sho klia wan se nɔto ɔlman kin jɔyn dɛn. Dɛn gɛt abit lɛk ‘dis na wi grup, i nɔ fɔ ɔda pipul dɛn.’ Bot a get gud nyus fo yu, most of di taim, dis ‘klik’ de disappear by di end of skul. So, te da tɛm de, lɛ wi tɔk smɔl bɔt dɛn ‘klik’ ya ɛn aw fɔ dil wit dɛn?

Wetin na di difrɛns bitwin nɔmal grup fɔ padi ɛn wan we dɛn kɔl ‘klik’?

Okay, naw lɛ wi si aw dɛn tu kayn ya difrɛn frɔm dɛnsɛf. If yu ɔndastand dis, bɔku tin go klia to yu.

Nɔmal grup dɛn fɔ padi dɛn kin mek bay di tin dɛn we wi ɔl gɛt fɔ du wit dɛnsɛf, lɛk di spɔt dɛn we wi kin ple, di tin dɛn we wi lɛk fɔ du , di klas dɛn we wi de du, ɔ di say we wi de, ɛn sɔntɛnde wi kin gɛt tayt padi biznɛs wit wi famili. Imajin se yu de na di chɛs tim na skul, ɛn yu jɔs bi padi wit di ɔda man dɛn na da tim de, nɔto so? Na so i bi. Pipul dɛn we de na dis kayn grup kin fri fɔ kip kɔmpin ɛn tɔk to pipul dɛn we nɔ de na di grup. Nɔbɔdi nɔ go pul dɛn kɔmɔt ɔ pul dɛn kɔmɔt bikɔs dɛn du dat. Dɛn nɔ kin du ɔltin togɛda - ɛn dat nɔ bad. Sɔntɛm yu chɛs padi nɔ de ple kriket, bɔt dat nɔto prɔblɛm. Dɛn rɛspɛkt dɛnsɛf.

Bɔt pan ɔl we sɔm tɛm dɛn kin mek grup dɛn bay di kɔmɔn intres, bɔku tɛm dɛn men tin we dɛn kin pe atɛnshɔn pan na dɛn yon ‘status’ ɔ ‘popularity’. Imajin wan grup fɔ pipul dɛn na skul we tink se na dɛn na di ‘kul’ grup. Di we aw dɛn de drɛs, di we aw dɛn de tɔk, di ples dɛn we dɛn de go... dɛn de tray fɔ sho se na dɛn na di bɛst. Na wan grup we tan lɛk lida dɛn kin kɔntrol dɛn ‘klik’ ya. Na dɛn de disayd udat de ‘in’ ɛn udat ‘ɔt’. Di pipul dem fo dis ‘klik’ de du plenti tins togeda.If pɔsin mek padi wit pɔsin we nɔ de na di grup, dɛn kin rijek am ɛn ivin provok am. Yu kin yɛri tin dɛn lɛk, ‘O... yu kin tɔk to da pɔsin de bak? I nɔ fit wit wi grup.’ Sɔntɛnde, dɛn ‘klik’ ya kin rili kruk, ɛn dɛn kin gladi fɔ marginalize ɔda pipul dɛn.

Fɔ tɔk am simpul wan:

Grup dɛn we gɛt padi dɛn:
I bil pan tin dɛm lɛk tin dɛm we dɛn ɔl lɛk, spɔt , aktiviti dɛm, klas dɛm, neba dɛm, ɛn famili kɔnekshɔn.
Di grup mɛmba dɛn gɛt fridɔm fɔ tɔk to pipul dɛn we nɔ de na do. Nɔbɔdi nɔ nid fɔ fred fɔ lɛ dɛn lɛf am.
Una nɔ nid fɔ du ɔltin togɛda. Dat na nɔmal tin.
Bɔku tɛm, i kin opin fɔ nyu pipul dɛn fɔ jɔyn.
‘Klik dɛn’:
Pan ɔl we i kin bi bay kɔmɔn sɛns, bɔku pipul dɛn kin luk pan ‘status’ ɔ ‘popularity’.
Wan grup fɔ pipul dɛn, lɛk di lida dɛn, na dɛn de kɔntrol dɛn. Na dem de disayd udat go get ‘in’ and hu get ‘out’.
Di tim mɛmba dɛn kin du bɔku tin dɛn togɛda.
If yu de kip kɔmpin wit pɔsin we nɔ de na di grup , i go mɔs bi se dɛn nɔ go lɛk yu ɛn provok yu.
I rili at fɔ mek nyu pipul dɛn jɔyn, ɛn bɔku tɛm dɛn nɔ kin ivin alaw dɛn.

Wetin de ɛp yu fɔ dil wit dɛn ‘klik’ ya?

If yu de insay ɔ kɔmɔt na ‘klik’ lɛk dis, dɛn tin ya kin mek yu layf at smɔl. Bɔt nɔ wɔri, we dɛn de fɔ dil wit dis. Lɛ wi si wetin dɛn bi.

No yusɛf – wit yu reputeshɔn.

Imajin se yu de na wan grup. Fɔs, aks yusɛf, yu want fɔ de na dis grup bikɔs yu want mek pipul dɛn gri wit yu, bikɔs yu fil se yu wangren de, ɔ bikɔs yu rili gri wit wetin dɛn de tink ɛn wetin dɛn valyu? Sɔntɛnde, wi kin kech pan di rɔng grup we wi nɔ kin no, nɔto so? Yu grup fɔ padi dɛn dɔn bi di kayn grup we yu nɔ lɛk? Fɔ ɛgzampul, dɛn dɔn bi grup we de laf ɔda pipul dɛn ɛn put dɛn na kɔna pas fɔ ɛp ɔda pipul dɛn? Yu tink se pipul dɛn kin luk yu fayn ɔ bad we bay di padi dɛn we yu de kip kɔmpin wit? Yu tink se i tan lɛk, ‘Dat pikin we de na da grup de rili fayn,’ ɔ ‘O, da natin we de mek ɔda pipul dɛn vɛks’? Aw dis de mek yu fil? Yu kin proud fɔ di we aw yu ɛn yu padi dɛn de trit ɔda pipul dɛn? Aks yusɛf dɛn kwɛstyɔn ya. I tan lɛk se yu de luk yusɛf na miro. Di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl na fɔ liv wetin yu at tɛl yu fɔ du.

Kɔntinyu fɔ du tin dɛn we de mek yu gladi.

Nɔ mek ɛni grup inflɔws yu fɔ giv ɔp pan di tin dɛn we yu lɛk, ɔ west yu tɛm ɛn mɔni pan tin dɛn we nɔ impɔtant to yu. Imajin se yu lɛk fɔ drɔ, bɔt di pipul dɛn we de na yu ‘klik’ de laf am ɛn se, ‘Wetin dat fɔ?’ Nɔ stɔp fɔ drɔ bikɔs ɔf dat. Ɛnjɔy pan tin dɛn we de mek yu fil se yu valyu ɛn yu de pan yu. Bikɔs, we yu sabi du sɔntin, we yu du sɔntin we yu lɛk, yu kin rili gɛt kɔnfidɛns ɛn gladi fɔ yusɛf. Na dat dɛn kin kɔl ‘sɛlf-ɛstimɛnt’. So, yu kin sabi spɔt, siŋ, ple inschrumɛnt, drɔ, ɔ tek pat pan drama. Ɔ jɔyn difrɛn akademik klab dɛn na skul - sayns klab, litrɛri klab, dibat klab, ɛn ɔda tin dɛn Dɛn tin ya nɔ go jɔs mek yu fil fayn bɔt yusɛf, bɔt yu kin mit nyu padi dɛn bak we lɛk di sem tin dɛn lɛk yu. Ples dɛn de we yu kin volontia apat frɔm skul. Visit ples dɛn lɛk say dɛn we dɛn kin kip animal dɛn, ɔspitul dɛn, say dɛn we dɛn kin kia fɔ ol pipul dɛn, ɔ kɔmyuniti gadin dɛn. Wi kin fil fayn bak we wi de ɛp ɔda pipul dɛn.

Kip yu padi biznɛs opin ɛn difrɛn.

We yu de na di sem grup fɔ padi dɛn, dat kin mek yu nɔ gɛt bɛtɛ wɔl. Imajin se yu de wit di sem grup ɔltɛm. Dɔn yu nɔ go gɛt nyu aidia, yu nɔ go lan nyu tin, ɛn yu nɔ go no ɔmɔs difrɛn pipul dɛn de na di wɔl. So mek padi wit pipul dɛn we kɔmɔt na difrɛn say dɛn, we kɔmɔt na difrɛn say dɛn, ɛn we lɛk difrɛn tin dɛn. Sɔntɛm di kwayɛt pikin na yu klas na rili talɛnt atis. Yu big brɔda we de nia yu kin gɛt ɛkspiriɛns dɛn we yu nɔ go ivin imajin. Na we wi de intarakt wit difrɛn pipul dɛn na in wi kin lan bɔt layf ɛn pipul dɛn. Fɛn pipul dɛn we fit yu aidia, gol , ɛn di we aw yu de biev. We gud padi dɛn de sɔpɔt yu, dat kin mek yu gɛt bɔku trɛnk we yu at pwɛl ɔ we yu de wɔri, lɛk lamp we de shayn na dak.

Stand op fɔ yusɛf ɛn ɔda pipul dɛn.

Yu fɔ no aw ɔda pipul dɛn de fil. Nɔ giv-ɔp pan bad tin dɛn we yu kɔmpin dɛn de mɔna yu. Nɔ du sɔntin we yu nɔ tink se rayt, ilɛksɛf ɔda pipul dɛn de du am. Mɛmba se tru padi dɛn nɔ go ɛva fos yu ɔ mek yu aks fɔ sɔntin we yu nɔ nid fɔ du. Dɛn go rɛspɛkt wetin yu dɔn disayd fɔ du. If dɛn de buli yu ɔ pɔsin we yu sabi – ilɛksɛf na pɔsin ɔ na di intanɛt – fɔ tru, tɛl yu mama ɛn papa, skul advaysa, ɔ ticha.Dis nɔto natin fɔ shem, yu sef na di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl. Limit di tɛm we yu de spɛn wit pipul dɛn we de tɔk bad bɔt ɔda pipul dɛn ɛn trit ɔda pipul dɛn bad. If yu si pɔsin de biev dis kayn we, tinap fɔ am if yu ebul. Sɔntɛnde, yu wan wɔd kin mek big difrɛns.

Tek tɛm wit wetin yu de post na di Intanɛt.

Soshal midia don bi big pat fo wi laif dis taim. So, tek tɛm wit grup dɛn we de na di Intanɛt ɛn grup dɛn we de yuz soshal nɛtwɔk sayt dɛn. Tru dɛn tin ya, pipul dɛn kin invayt jɔs sɔm pan dɛn padi dɛn we dɛn lɛk fɔ kam pati, ɔ lɛf bad bad kɔmɛnt, post, ɛn marginalize ɔda pipul dɛn. Sɔm kin ivin mek lay lay prɔfayl fɔ mek ɔda pipul dɛn vɛks. So, i fayn fɔ mek yu nɔ no bɔt yu prɔfayl. Tink tu tɛm bɔt di post ɛn foto dɛn we yu de post. Tink bɔt if dɛn tin ya go ɛva bi prɔblɛm fɔ yu. Fɔ buli pipul dɛn na di Intanɛt na ɔda tin we de mek dɛn grup ya denja.

Wetin ɔda tin yu want fɔ no bɔt dɛn ‘Klik’ ya?

Wan ɔda tin de we yu nid fɔ no. Sɔntɛnde, di pipul dɛn we de na di grup dɛnsɛf kin want fɔ kɔmɔt de. Na bikɔs dɛn nɔ want fɔ stɔp na di lɔ dɛn we di grup gɛt, fɔ mek ɔda pipul dɛn nɔ de nia dɛn, ɛn fɔ mek pipul dɛn fil bad. Nɔto ɔlman de na grup we gɛt bad tin fɔ du, ɛn sɔntɛnde dɛn kin kech pan am we dɛn nɔ ivin no. Sɔntɛm dɛn de fred se if dɛn kɔmɔt de, dɛn go de dɛn wan.

So, bifo yu wɔri tumɔs bɔt us soshal grup yu de, tray fɔ bi gud padi to ɔlman. Dat min se wi fɔ rɛspɛkt ɔda pipul dɛn, bisin bɔt ɔda pipul dɛn, ɔnɛs, ɛn du gud to ɔda pipul dɛn. Bi di kayn padi we yu want fɔ gɛt. Di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl na fɔ bi yusɛf, fɔ liv yu layf bay wetin yu valyu. We yu de tɔk tru to yusɛf ɛn ɔnɛs, gud padi dɛn go de rawnd yu.

Fɔ dɔn, sɔm impɔtant tin dɛn we yu fɔ mɛmba

Okay, so som tins de we yu shud tek to hat from wetin wi don tok abaut. Dɛn tin ya tan lɛk sayn dɛn we de sho di rod fɔ yu we yu de travul.

Nɔ ɛva fɔgɛt udat yu bi ɛn wetin yu valyu. Nɔ chenj yusɛf fɔ fit insay ‘klik’. Yu at no wetin rayt ɛn wetin rɔŋ.
Fɛn tru tru padi dɛn. Surround yusɛf wit pipul dɛm wae de sɔpɔt yu, ɔndastand yu, ɛn ɛp yu fɔ briŋ di bɛst tin na yusɛf. Padi biznɛs na fayn fayn padi biznɛs bitwin tu pipul dɛn, i nɔ kin mek pɔsin strɛs.
Trit ɔda pipul dɛn fayn ɛn rɛspɛkt. Nɔ fred fɔ tinap fɔ pɔsin if yu si se dɛn de marginalize am. Ivin smɔl ɛp we yu de ɛp pɔsin kin rili ɛp pɔsin.
Tek tɛm na di intanɛt wɔl bak. Protɛkt yu prayvesi. Tink bɔt di pipul dɛn we de si ɔl wetin yu de post.
Mɛmba,Bɔku pan di ‘klik’ we yu gɛt na skul go dɔn afta sɔm tɛm. Laif big pas dat fa fawe. So nɔ mek dis bi di ɛnd fɔ di wɔl. Tink bɔt yu tumara bambay, yu gladi at.

Yu na pɔsin we rili valyu. Nɔ mek ɛni ‘klik’ stɔp yu valyu! Bi yusɛf, ɛn di wɔl go lɛk yu.

Klik, padi, skul padi, grup, marginalization, soshal rileshɔnship, yɔŋ pipul , mental wɛlbɔdi , buli

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Mental ƐlthFebruary 12, 2026
Yu tu de stik fo ‘klik’ fo skul? Lɛ wi tɔk bɔt aw fɔ dil wit dɛn ‘klik’ ya!
Dr. Priya SammaniMedical Verification
⏱ 11 min read
📋Table of Contents
1. Wetin na di difrɛns bitwin nɔmal grup fɔ padi ɛn wan we dɛn kɔl ‘klik’?
2. Wetin de ɛp yu fɔ dil wit dɛn ‘klik’ ya?
3. No yusɛf – wit yu reputeshɔn.
4. Kɔntinyu fɔ du tin dɛn we de mek yu gladi.
5. Kip yu padi biznɛs opin ɛn difrɛn.
6. Stand op fɔ yusɛf ɛn ɔda pipul dɛn.
7. Tek tɛm wit wetin yu de post na di Intanɛt.
8. Wetin ɔda tin yu want fɔ no bɔt dɛn ‘Klik’ ya?
9. Fɔ dɔn, sɔm impɔtant tin dɛn we yu fɔ mɛmba
Wi ɔl lɛk fɔ de wit wi padi dɛn. We wi de go wit wi padi dɛn, tɔk, ple, ɔ jɔs spɛn tɛm togɛda, wi kin fil gladi pasmak, nɔto so? We wi de wit dis kayn grup, i kin tan lɛk se bɔku tin dɛn na layf kin izi, wi kin fil lɛk se wi gɛt sikyɔriti. Sɔm grup dɛn de we gɛt padi dɛn, ɛn dɛn kin rili opin dɛn at to ɔda pipul dɛn, ɛn dɛn kin rili ebul fɔ chenj chenj. Dɛn kin wɛlkɔm ɛnibɔdi we kam ɛn se, ‘Kam jɔyn wi.’ Bɔt di grup dɛn we dɛn kɔl ‘kliks’ we wi go tɔk bɔt tide, rili difrɛn. Dɛn kin rili stɔp dɛn, ɛn dɛn kin sho klia wan se nɔto ɔlman kin jɔyn dɛn. Dɛn gɛt abit lɛk ‘dis na wi grup, i nɔ fɔ ɔda pipul dɛn.’ Bot a get gud nyus fo yu, most of di taim, dis ‘klik’ de disappear by di end of skul. So, te da tɛm de, lɛ wi tɔk smɔl bɔt dɛn ‘klik’ ya ɛn aw fɔ dil wit dɛn?
Wetin na di difrɛns bitwin nɔmal grup fɔ padi ɛn wan we dɛn kɔl ‘klik’?
Okay, naw lɛ wi si aw dɛn tu kayn ya difrɛn frɔm dɛnsɛf. If yu ɔndastand dis, bɔku tin go klia to yu.
Nɔmal grup dɛn fɔ padi dɛn kin mek bay di tin dɛn we wi ɔl gɛt fɔ du wit dɛnsɛf, lɛk di spɔt dɛn we wi kin ple, di tin dɛn we wi lɛk fɔ du , di klas dɛn we wi de du, ɔ di say we wi de, ɛn sɔntɛnde wi kin gɛt tayt padi biznɛs wit wi famili. Imajin se yu de na di chɛs tim na skul, ɛn yu jɔs bi padi wit di ɔda man dɛn na da tim de, nɔto so? Na so i bi. Pipul dɛn we de na dis kayn grup kin fri fɔ kip kɔmpin ɛn tɔk to pipul dɛn we nɔ de na di grup. Nɔbɔdi nɔ go pul dɛn kɔmɔt ɔ pul dɛn kɔmɔt bikɔs dɛn du dat. Dɛn nɔ kin du ɔltin togɛda - ɛn dat nɔ bad. Sɔntɛm yu chɛs padi nɔ de ple kriket, bɔt dat nɔto prɔblɛm. Dɛn rɛspɛkt dɛnsɛf.
Bɔt pan ɔl we sɔm tɛm dɛn kin mek grup dɛn bay di kɔmɔn intres, bɔku tɛm dɛn men tin we dɛn kin pe atɛnshɔn pan na dɛn yon ‘status’ ɔ ‘popularity’. Imajin wan grup fɔ pipul dɛn na skul we tink se na dɛn na di ‘kul’ grup. Di we aw dɛn de drɛs, di we aw dɛn de tɔk, di ples dɛn we dɛn de go... dɛn de tray fɔ sho se na dɛn na di bɛst. Na wan grup we tan lɛk lida dɛn kin kɔntrol dɛn ‘klik’ ya. Na dɛn de disayd udat de ‘in’ ɛn udat ‘ɔt’. Di pipul dem fo dis ‘klik’ de du plenti tins togeda.If pɔsin mek padi wit pɔsin we nɔ de na di grup, dɛn kin rijek am ɛn ivin provok am. Yu kin yɛri tin dɛn lɛk, ‘O... yu kin tɔk to da pɔsin de bak? I nɔ fit wit wi grup.’ Sɔntɛnde, dɛn ‘klik’ ya kin rili kruk, ɛn dɛn kin gladi fɔ marginalize ɔda pipul dɛn.
Fɔ tɔk am simpul wan:
Grup dɛn we gɛt padi dɛn:
I bil pan tin dɛm lɛk tin dɛm we dɛn ɔl lɛk, spɔt , aktiviti dɛm, klas dɛm, neba dɛm, ɛn famili kɔnekshɔn.
Di grup mɛmba dɛn gɛt fridɔm fɔ tɔk to pipul dɛn we nɔ de na do. Nɔbɔdi nɔ nid fɔ fred fɔ lɛ dɛn lɛf am.
Una nɔ nid fɔ du ɔltin togɛda. Dat na nɔmal tin.
Bɔku tɛm, i kin opin fɔ nyu pipul dɛn fɔ jɔyn.
‘Klik dɛn’:
Pan ɔl we i kin bi bay kɔmɔn sɛns, bɔku pipul dɛn kin luk pan ‘status’ ɔ ‘popularity’.
Wan grup fɔ pipul dɛn, lɛk di lida dɛn, na dɛn de kɔntrol dɛn. Na dem de disayd udat go get ‘in’ and hu get ‘out’.
Di tim mɛmba dɛn kin du bɔku tin dɛn togɛda.
If yu de kip kɔmpin wit pɔsin we nɔ de na di grup , i go mɔs bi se dɛn nɔ go lɛk yu ɛn provok yu.
I rili at fɔ mek nyu pipul dɛn jɔyn, ɛn bɔku tɛm dɛn nɔ kin ivin alaw dɛn.
Wetin de ɛp yu fɔ dil wit dɛn ‘klik’ ya?
If yu de insay ɔ kɔmɔt na ‘klik’ lɛk dis, dɛn tin ya kin mek yu layf at smɔl. Bɔt nɔ wɔri, we dɛn de fɔ dil wit dis. Lɛ wi si wetin dɛn bi.
No yusɛf – wit yu reputeshɔn.
Imajin se yu de na wan grup. Fɔs, aks yusɛf, yu want fɔ de na dis grup bikɔs yu want mek pipul dɛn gri wit yu, bikɔs yu fil se yu wangren de, ɔ bikɔs yu rili gri wit wetin dɛn de tink ɛn wetin dɛn valyu? Sɔntɛnde, wi kin kech pan di rɔng grup we wi nɔ kin no, nɔto so? Yu grup fɔ padi dɛn dɔn bi di kayn grup we yu nɔ lɛk? Fɔ ɛgzampul, dɛn dɔn bi grup we de laf ɔda pipul dɛn ɛn put dɛn na kɔna pas fɔ ɛp ɔda pipul dɛn? Yu tink se pipul dɛn kin luk yu fayn ɔ bad we bay di padi dɛn we yu de kip kɔmpin wit? Yu tink se i tan lɛk, ‘Dat pikin we de na da grup de rili fayn,’ ɔ ‘O, da natin we de mek ɔda pipul dɛn vɛks’? Aw dis de mek yu fil? Yu kin proud fɔ di we aw yu ɛn yu padi dɛn de trit ɔda pipul dɛn? Aks yusɛf dɛn kwɛstyɔn ya. I tan lɛk se yu de luk yusɛf na miro. Di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl na fɔ liv wetin yu at tɛl yu fɔ du.
Kɔntinyu fɔ du tin dɛn we de mek yu gladi.
Nɔ mek ɛni grup inflɔws yu fɔ giv ɔp pan di tin dɛn we yu lɛk, ɔ west yu tɛm ɛn mɔni pan tin dɛn we nɔ impɔtant to yu. Imajin se yu lɛk fɔ drɔ, bɔt di pipul dɛn we de na yu ‘klik’ de laf am ɛn se, ‘Wetin dat fɔ?’ Nɔ stɔp fɔ drɔ bikɔs ɔf dat. Ɛnjɔy pan tin dɛn we de mek yu fil se yu valyu ɛn yu de pan yu. Bikɔs, we yu sabi du sɔntin, we yu du sɔntin we yu lɛk, yu kin rili gɛt kɔnfidɛns ɛn gladi fɔ yusɛf. Na dat dɛn kin kɔl ‘sɛlf-ɛstimɛnt’. So, yu kin sabi spɔt, siŋ, ple inschrumɛnt, drɔ, ɔ tek pat pan drama. Ɔ jɔyn difrɛn akademik klab dɛn na skul - sayns klab, litrɛri klab, dibat klab, ɛn ɔda tin dɛn Dɛn tin ya nɔ go jɔs mek yu fil fayn bɔt yusɛf, bɔt yu kin mit nyu padi dɛn bak we lɛk di sem tin dɛn lɛk yu. Ples dɛn de we yu kin volontia apat frɔm skul. Visit ples dɛn lɛk say dɛn we dɛn kin kip animal dɛn, ɔspitul dɛn, say dɛn we dɛn kin kia fɔ ol pipul dɛn, ɔ kɔmyuniti gadin dɛn. Wi kin fil fayn bak we wi de ɛp ɔda pipul dɛn.
Kip yu padi biznɛs opin ɛn difrɛn.
We yu de na di sem grup fɔ padi dɛn, dat kin mek yu nɔ gɛt bɛtɛ wɔl. Imajin se yu de wit di sem grup ɔltɛm. Dɔn yu nɔ go gɛt nyu aidia, yu nɔ go lan nyu tin, ɛn yu nɔ go no ɔmɔs difrɛn pipul dɛn de na di wɔl. So mek padi wit pipul dɛn we kɔmɔt na difrɛn say dɛn, we kɔmɔt na difrɛn say dɛn, ɛn we lɛk difrɛn tin dɛn. Sɔntɛm di kwayɛt pikin na yu klas na rili talɛnt atis. Yu big brɔda we de nia yu kin gɛt ɛkspiriɛns dɛn we yu nɔ go ivin imajin. Na we wi de intarakt wit difrɛn pipul dɛn na in wi kin lan bɔt layf ɛn pipul dɛn. Fɛn pipul dɛn we fit yu aidia, gol , ɛn di we aw yu de biev. We gud padi dɛn de sɔpɔt yu, dat kin mek yu gɛt bɔku trɛnk we yu at pwɛl ɔ we yu de wɔri, lɛk lamp we de shayn na dak.
Stand op fɔ yusɛf ɛn ɔda pipul dɛn.
Yu fɔ no aw ɔda pipul dɛn de fil. Nɔ giv-ɔp pan bad tin dɛn we yu kɔmpin dɛn de mɔna yu. Nɔ du sɔntin we yu nɔ tink se rayt, ilɛksɛf ɔda pipul dɛn de du am. Mɛmba se tru padi dɛn nɔ go ɛva fos yu ɔ mek yu aks fɔ sɔntin we yu nɔ nid fɔ du. Dɛn go rɛspɛkt wetin yu dɔn disayd fɔ du. If dɛn de buli yu ɔ pɔsin we yu sabi – ilɛksɛf na pɔsin ɔ na di intanɛt – fɔ tru, tɛl yu mama ɛn papa, skul advaysa, ɔ ticha.Dis nɔto natin fɔ shem, yu sef na di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl. Limit di tɛm we yu de spɛn wit pipul dɛn we de tɔk bad bɔt ɔda pipul dɛn ɛn trit ɔda pipul dɛn bad. If yu si pɔsin de biev dis kayn we, tinap fɔ am if yu ebul. Sɔntɛnde, yu wan wɔd kin mek big difrɛns.
Tek tɛm wit wetin yu de post na di Intanɛt.
Soshal midia don bi big pat fo wi laif dis taim. So, tek tɛm wit grup dɛn we de na di Intanɛt ɛn grup dɛn we de yuz soshal nɛtwɔk sayt dɛn. Tru dɛn tin ya, pipul dɛn kin invayt jɔs sɔm pan dɛn padi dɛn we dɛn lɛk fɔ kam pati, ɔ lɛf bad bad kɔmɛnt, post, ɛn marginalize ɔda pipul dɛn. Sɔm kin ivin mek lay lay prɔfayl fɔ mek ɔda pipul dɛn vɛks. So, i fayn fɔ mek yu nɔ no bɔt yu prɔfayl. Tink tu tɛm bɔt di post ɛn foto dɛn we yu de post. Tink bɔt if dɛn tin ya go ɛva bi prɔblɛm fɔ yu. Fɔ buli pipul dɛn na di Intanɛt na ɔda tin we de mek dɛn grup ya denja.
Wetin ɔda tin yu want fɔ no bɔt dɛn ‘Klik’ ya?
Wan ɔda tin de we yu nid fɔ no. Sɔntɛnde, di pipul dɛn we de na di grup dɛnsɛf kin want fɔ kɔmɔt de. Na bikɔs dɛn nɔ want fɔ stɔp na di lɔ dɛn we di grup gɛt, fɔ mek ɔda pipul dɛn nɔ de nia dɛn, ɛn fɔ mek pipul dɛn fil bad. Nɔto ɔlman de na grup we gɛt bad tin fɔ du, ɛn sɔntɛnde dɛn kin kech pan am we dɛn nɔ ivin no. Sɔntɛm dɛn de fred se if dɛn kɔmɔt de, dɛn go de dɛn wan.
So, bifo yu wɔri tumɔs bɔt us soshal grup yu de, tray fɔ bi gud padi to ɔlman. Dat min se wi fɔ rɛspɛkt ɔda pipul dɛn, bisin bɔt ɔda pipul dɛn, ɔnɛs, ɛn du gud to ɔda pipul dɛn. Bi di kayn padi we yu want fɔ gɛt. Di tin we impɔtant pas ɔl na fɔ bi yusɛf, fɔ liv yu layf bay wetin yu valyu. We yu de tɔk tru to yusɛf ɛn ɔnɛs, gud padi dɛn go de rawnd yu.
Fɔ dɔn, sɔm impɔtant tin dɛn we yu fɔ mɛmba
Okay, so som tins de we yu shud tek to hat from wetin wi don tok abaut. Dɛn tin ya tan lɛk sayn dɛn we de sho di rod fɔ yu we yu de travul.
Nɔ ɛva fɔgɛt udat yu bi ɛn wetin yu valyu. Nɔ chenj yusɛf fɔ fit insay ‘klik’. Yu at no wetin rayt ɛn wetin rɔŋ.
Fɛn tru tru padi dɛn. Surround yusɛf wit pipul dɛm wae de sɔpɔt yu, ɔndastand yu, ɛn ɛp yu fɔ briŋ di bɛst tin na yusɛf. Padi biznɛs na fayn fayn padi biznɛs bitwin tu pipul dɛn, i nɔ kin mek pɔsin strɛs.
Trit ɔda pipul dɛn fayn ɛn rɛspɛkt. Nɔ fred fɔ tinap fɔ pɔsin if yu si se dɛn de marginalize am. Ivin smɔl ɛp we yu de ɛp pɔsin kin rili ɛp pɔsin.
Tek tɛm na di intanɛt wɔl bak. Protɛkt yu prayvesi. Tink bɔt di pipul dɛn we de si ɔl wetin yu de post.
Mɛmba,Bɔku pan di ‘klik’ we yu gɛt na skul go dɔn afta sɔm tɛm. Laif big pas dat fa fawe. So nɔ mek dis bi di ɛnd fɔ di wɔl. Tink bɔt yu tumara bambay, yu gladi at.
Yu na pɔsin we rili valyu. Nɔ mek ɛni ‘klik’ stɔp yu valyu! Bi yusɛf, ɛn di wɔl go lɛk yu.
Klik, padi, skul padi, grup, marginalization, soshal rileshɔnship, yɔŋ pipul , mental wɛlbɔdi , buli
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