Pregnancy's Emotional Roller Coaster: Ennaku, essanyu, okutya... bino byonna bya bulijjo!

Ffenna tulowooza nti olubuto kiseera kirungi nnyo era kya ssanyu. Oboolyawo olina ekifaananyi mu birowoozo byo ekya maama eyakaayakana era nga musanyufu ng’olubuto lwe lukula, nga talina kweraliikirira kwonna, kutya oba kubuusabuusa kwonna. Mpozzi mu butuufu omanyi omuntu ng’oyo. Naye amazima gayinza okuba ag’enjawulo ennyo.

Mu butuufu, olubuto luba lwa ‘roller coaster’. Ne bw’oba ​​mulindiridde omwana ono n’omwami wo, oyinza okufuna enneewulira ezitali zimu mu kiseera kino. Ekiseera ekimu oyinza okuwulira essanyu lingi, ate mu kiseera ekirala oyinza okuwulira ennaku, okutya oba okunyiiga. Ebibuuzo lukumi biyinza okujja mu birowoozo byo ebikwata ku bulamu bw’omwana, enkyukakyuka mu mubiri gwo, kiki ekigenda okutuuka ku mukwano gwammwe, era oba nja kuba maama omulungi.

Lwaki kino kintuukako? Guno musango gwange?

Oyinza okuba ng'olowooza nti, "Mbadde nnindirira omwana ono okutuuka, kale lwaki mpulira bwentyo?" Kya bulijjo ddala. Okusinziira ku bakugu, kiva ku kuba nti ogenda okwolekagana n’enkyukakyuka esinga obunene mu bulamu bwo.

Naye eky’ennaku kiri nti, tetwogera na muntu yenna ku nneewulira zino. Abantu bangi balowooza nti kikyamu okuwulira ebintu bino, nti nze nzekka mpulira bwentyo, nti waliwo ekikyamu ku nze.

"Bw'otunuulira magazini ezitunda ebintu by'abaana, bamaama b'embuto abalungi, abasanyufu bangi nnyo. Bayooyoota bulungi ekisenge ky'omwana waabwe. Ekyo tukitunuulira ne tulowooza nti, 'Lwaki siyinza kubeera nzekka musanyufu bwe ntyo?'"

Naddala eri abakyala abalinze ebbanga ddene okuzaala omwana , oba abamaze okuvaamu embuto, enneewulira zino ziyinza okujja n’okwesalira omusango mungi. Balowooza nti, "Sirina na ddembe kulowooza kino." Kale tebabuulira muntu yenna ku nsonga eyo.

Naye ssa omukka omungi okkakkane. Enneewulira zino tezitegeeza nti toyagala mwana wo oba nti tojja kuba maama mulungi. Mu butuufu, abakugu abamu bagamba nti abaagalana abatatya n’akatono era abatakakasa be basinga okweraliikirira. Kiraga nti ddala tebategeera nkyukakyuka nnene ejja.

Obusimu bwokka bwe buvunaanyizibwa ku kino?

Abasajja abamu kibazibuwalira okutegeera bakyala baabwe mu kiseera kino. Omusajja omu yagamba nti: "Kyewuunyisa engeri enneewulira ze gye zikyuka amangu. Nmukubira essimu nga sinnatuuka waka ne mmubuuza nti, 'Olunaku lwo lwabadde lutya? Okooye? Omwana yakaaba?' era alina omukwano nnyo. Naye nga wayise eddakiika kkumi, bwe ntuuka awaka, aba mu muudu ya njawulo ddala Oluusi ntunula butunuzi mu mutwe okulaba ebintu bwe bitambula."

Kale bino byonna obusimu bwe buvunaanibwa? Si ddala. Abasawo bagamba nti abakyala abamu bakosebwa enkyukakyuka mu busimu bw’omubiri, ate abalala tebakosebwa. Era waliwo ebintu ebirala bingi ebiyinza okuvaako embeera y’omuntu okukyuka, so si busimu bwokka.

N’obuzibu mu mubiri ng’okulwala ku makya, okulumwa amabeere, n’okuziyira bisobola okukuleetera okuwulira ennaku n’okweraliikirira. Omubiri gwo bwe guba tegusanyuse, ebirowoozo byo tebijja kuwulira ssanyu.

Kale bw’oba ​​olina obuzibu okulwanyisa enneewulira zino wekka, ekisinga obulungi kwe kuzigabana n’omuntu.

Okola otya ku nneewulira zino?

Tositula migugu egijja mu birowoozo byo wekka mu kiseera kino. Wano waliwo engeri eziyinza okukuyamba.

Omukwano, obusungu ne buli kimu ekiri wakati

Oluusi, wadde ng’oyinza okuwulira ng’oyagala nnyo omwana wo, era oyinza okuwulira ennaku n’obusungu olw’okufiirwa eddembe lyo. Kya bulijjo okuwulira nga togenda kuddamu kumala biseera byo wekka, mu ngeri gy’oyagala.

Enneewulira eno ewulirwa nnyo naddala abakyala abakola era abalina emirimu egy’obuwanguzi, kubanga bamanyi nnyo okwefiiriza kwe balina okukola olw’omwana . Awamu n'enneewulira zino wajjawo okwesalira omusango, "Lwaki sisobola kuba musanyufu ddala?"

Dduyiro omulungi ku kino kwe kukola enkalala:

• "Ebintu bye nsinga okwagala mu bulamu bwange".
• "Ebintu bye nsinga okutya okufiirwa".
• "Ebintu ebipya bye nfuna".
• "Ebintu sirina buzibu kufiirwa".

Bw’otunuulira enkalala zino, osobola okufuna engeri gy’oyinza okugenda mu maaso n’okukola ebintu by’oyagala, n’okusanyuka n’ebintu ebipya by’olina. Ekisinga obukulu kwe kwesonyiwa. Lowooza nti, "Okay, mpulira nga nnyiize katono, naye sigenda kwekuba ku nsonga eyo. Kiki kye nneetaaga okuyigira ku kino?"

Buli kimu kya njawulo omulundi ogw’okubiri?

Ne ku muntu eyafuna olubuto olusooka olw’essanyu ennyo, omulundi ogw’okubiri guyinza okuba ogw’enjawulo ddala.

Maama yali musanyufu nnyo bwe yali asuubira omwana we asooka. Naye bwe yali asuubira omwana we owookubiri, yawulira nga yeeraliikirira nnyo. Yayongera okusesema, nga tasobola kukola dduyiro nga bwe yali edda, era ng’atya nti tajja kusobola kukwatagana na mwana we owookubiri nga bwe yakola n’omwana we eyasooka.

"Omwana eyasooka bwe yali ajja, waaliwo ekituli ekinene mu bulamu bwaffe eri omwana oyo. Naye omulundi ogwokubiri, ekituli ekyo kyali kijjudde omwana waffe eyasooka. Wadde nga twagala omwana omulala, okufaayo kwaffe kwonna, amaanyi n'omukwano gwaffe byali bigenze eri omwana eyasooka. Kale kyawulira nga kizibu okufunira owookubiri ekifo."

Maama ono yakitegeera nti wansi w’okweraliikirira kwe mwalimu ennaku endala. Ennaku nti luno luyinza okuba olubuto lwe olusembayo n’ennaku nti enkolagana ye n’omwana we eyasooka yandikyuse.

Kati maama w'abaana babiri, agamba nti, "Oluusi nkyawulira nga owookubiri simufaako kimala. Naye mmwagala nnyo. Nkitegedde kati nti alina okungabana, naye tafuna kitono okuva gyendi. It's just a little more complicated to be his mother 100% now."