I ni engzat nge a rei tawh tih ngaihtuah pawhin a chang chuan harsatna i nei lo em ni? Zingah i tho a, hna i thawk a, i lo haw a, i mu a, i muhil a. Nilengin robot ang maiin a liam ta. I rilru chu hmun dangah a awm laiin i taksa chuan thil dang a ti a ni. A tam zawkah chuan ‘autopilot’ mode-ah kan khawsa thin. Hetianga kan awm hian nunah thil tam tak kan hloh thin. Mindfulness hi tih dan mawi tak, awlsam tak a ni a, chu dinhmun atanga chhuakin kan hun takah kan nun theih nan min pui thin .
‘Mindfulness’ tih hi eng nge ni mai?
A awlsam zawngin, mindfulness chu tunlai huna thil thlengte ngun taka ngaihvenna a ni. Chu chu i rilrua thil thleng (i ngaihtuahna, i rilru put hmang) leh i taksaa thil thleng (entir nan, electric bill pek i hriatreng huna i pum chhunga hriatna) ngaihven hi a ni.
I chhehvela thil thlengte ngaihtuah chhuah a ngai bawk. Entirnan, nitin hnathawhna hmuna i kalna kawngah pangpar thar a par tih hriat.
Hetah hian a pawimawh ber chu i thil hriat, i hmuh leh i hriat chu a nihna ang taka pawm a, "tha" emaw, "tha lo" emaw tia vuah lovin, rorel ngai lovin pawm hi a ni. I rilru put hmang chu a tha lo va, a chhe lo bawk. Hriatna mai mai an ni.
Hetianga kan en chuan mindfulness hi thil hmuhchhuah a ni. I nun chu hla tak atanga thlir ang mai a ni a, emotional takin reacting lovin.
Hemi lehlam lehlamah chuan a hmaa kan sawi tawh ‘autopilot’ hi a ni. Chu chu engmah hriatna leh ngaihtuahna nei lovin hnathawh tihna a ni. Zirtawpni zing khan park-a kal tumin i car i chhuahsan a, a hma ang bawkin office-ah i tlan ta ang tih han ngaihtuah teh. Chu chu 'autopilot' tih chu a ni.
‘Mindfulness’ leh ‘Autopilot’ inthlauhna.
Heng concept pahnih hi hrethiam zawk tur chuan he table hi han en ila.
| Thiltih | ‘Autopilot’ (mechanical hmanga tih dan) . | ‘Mindfulness’ tih hi a ni. |
|---|---|---|
| Tea tlem han in rawh. | TV en lai emaw, an phone hman lai emaw pawh ni se, an hriat lohvin an in a, an in thin. | Thil dang ti lovin ka in a, teacup lumna te, tea hnah rimtui te, tea thlum te chu nuam ka ti hle. |
| Chaw ei | An riltam loh lai pawhin an chawhmeh tih dan avanga an plate a ruak thlengin an ei thin. An ei tur thlum pawh an hre lo. | Kan riltam tak tak em tih kan enfiah hnuah chaw kan ei tan thin. Kawngkhar khat tin thlum, rim leh a rimtui chu kan ngaina a, kan pum a khat chuan kan tawp thin. |
| Mi thusawi ngaithla | Miin a sawi lai hian a sawi leh tur a ngaihtuah a, a nih loh leh thil dang a ngaihtuah a ni. | Miin a thusawi chu ngaihven kim vek a, a thusawi leh a rilru put hmang hriatthiam tum. |
Engtin nge he thil hi ka ti dik em tih ka hriat theih ang?
Hei hi engtik lai pawhin, khawi hmunah pawh i practice thei. Car chhungah, line-ah, hnathawhna hmunah. A hmasa berin "single-tasking" tih hi practice rawh. Chu chu thil pakhat khata tih a, chu chu i ngaihven zawng zawng pek tihna a ni. Thil awlsam tak, ha sil emaw, apple ei emaw ang chi hmangin i ṭan thei a ni .
Minute tlemte chauh i neih chuan hei hi han ti ve teh:
1. A hmasa berin rei vak lo ding la, i taksa kha ngaihven rawh. Eng nge i hmuh leh i hriat? I rim, i thlum leh i khawih pawh chhinchhiah bawk ang che. Hengte hi a tha/tha lo tiin label suh. An ni mai rawh se.
2. Tunah chuan i ngaihtuahna chu tithianghlim lehzual rawh. I taksaah eng nge i hriat? Thil fiah lo tak tak, tingling emaw, numbness emaw pawh hi chhinchhiah rawh . I taksa peng tinte chu rei lo te chhung chu i ngaihtuahna zawng zawng pe rawh. I lu atanga i ke ruh thlengin.
3. A dawtah chuan i thawk kha ngaihven lehzual ang che. I taksaah khawiah nge thawk i hriat tam ber? I rilruah? I pum chhungah? I hnar chhungah? Chutah chuan i ngaihtuahna chu vawng reng rawh.
4. "Tunah hian engtin nge ka awm?" I ngaihtuahna leh i rilru put hmangte chu hriat chian rawh. An bulah rei vak lo awm rawh. Chutiang rilru put hmang chu lo thleng turin phal la, rorelna tel lovin.
5. A rilru a hah lutuk.I rilru a vakvai lai (a thleng ngei ang) chuan hlauthawng suh. A pangngai tak a ni. Chumi chungchangah chuan mahni inhnek a ngai lo. Zawi zawiin i ngaihtuahna chu i thawk lamah hruai kir leh rawh.
‘Mindfulness’ tih hian eng hlawkna nge a neih?
Mindfulness hian autopilot-a i awm laiin a hriat theih nan a pui thin. Chuvangin, a hnua inchhir ai chuan, chutih lai tak chuan i thil tih chu thlak danglam theihna hun remchang i nei a ni.
Zan tin TV hmaah popcorn packet khat i ei ang tih han ngaihtuah teh. Hei hi i tih dan a ni. Mindful i nih chuan he tih dan hi i ‘catch’ thei a ni. Chutih lai chuan thutlukna danglam tak i siam thei a ni. Popcorn ai chuan carrot ei mai rawh, a nih loh leh TV en chu bansanin rei vak lo kal mai rawh.
Chutiang chuan mindfulness hian i thil tum leh beisei nen inzawmna nei reng turin a pui che a, chuvangin i ngaihtuah loh thil (e.g. i stress laiin chocolate bar lian tak ei) i tih loh theih nan.
Rilru hriselna atana hlawkna
Mindfulness hi rilru hriselna atana hmanraw hlu tak a ni.
- Stress a tihziaawm: Tuna i awm lai hian a tul lovah hmalam hun i ngaihtuah lo va, hun kal tawh i inchhir lo.
- Lungkhamna a thunun: Hetiang tih hian lungkhamna ngaihtuahna lo kal leh chhuah tir turin a pui che a, chu chu buaipui lovin.
- Mood a siam \ha: Nunnaah thil tenawm tak tak pawh i ngaihlu tan chuan hlim taka awm a awlsam phah \hin.
Mahse hei hi hre reng ang che: Mindfulness hi hmanraw chak tak ni mahse, rilru lam natna khirh tak (e.g., major depression) tan chuan damdawi hmanga enkawlna aiah a ni lo. Chutiang harsatna i neih chuan doctor pan a, thurawn lak a pawimawh hle.
Weight control leh exercise atan mindfulness
Hetiang tih dan hi i taksa rihna control nan i hmang thei bawk. "Mindful Eating" kan ti a ni.
- Chaw i ei hmain i riltam tak tak em tih inzawt hmasa phawt ang che.
- I ei dawnin i plate kha han en teh. A rawng leh a rim chu nuam ti takin hmang rawh.
- Zawi zawiin ei la, i ei apiang, a thlum leh a thlum zawng zawng chu ei rawh.
- Chaw ei lai hian i pum a khat em tih hi ngaihven la. I chawhmeh i hriat veleh ei kha bansan la, i plate-ah ei tur a la awm reng a nih pawhin.
Exercise i tih pawhin chutiang bawk chu a ni. Exercise i tih hian i taksain engtin nge a awm tih ngaihven rawh. I taksa ruhte rilru put hmang, i thawk dan, i thawk hah dan te hre reng ang che. Tichuan exercise lak hi a nuam zawk ang. Chuvangin exercise la chhunzawm zel turin i infuih ang.
I nitin nunah hian awm tam zawk i duh em? Tichuan, i rilru chu chutah chuan dah la. Chu chu a hmasa ber a ni.
Take-Home Thuchah a ni
- ‘Mindfulness’ tih awmzia chu tunlai hun hi hriat chian, rorelna tel lo tihna a ni.
- Hetiang tih dan hian ‘autopilot’ mode atanga chhuakin thutlukna fimkhur tak siam turin a pui thin.
- Thil tenawm tak tak hmangin tan la la, ni khatah tea no khat rilru pu chunga in ang chi hi.
- Hetiang tih dan hi stress management, weight control, leh exercise atan a tangkai hle.
- I rilru i vawng tlat thei lo a nih chuan i inhnek suh. Chu chu thil pangngai a ni. Zawi zawiin refocus rawh.
- Depression nasa tak emaw, lungkhamna emaw i neih chuan doctor thurawn lak a pawimawh hle.











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