Kei te whakaaro koe i ētahi wā, "Me pēhea mēnā ka hinga ahau i tēnei mahi?" He mea noa te mataku i a koe e tata ana ki te whakamātautau, ki te uiuinga mō tētahi mahi hou, ki te tīmata rānei i tētahi mea hou. Engari me pēhea mēnā ka nui rawa tēnei wehi, ā, ka pā ki tō oranga katoa? Koinei te wā e tika ana kia whakaarohia e tātou te āhua e kōrerohia ana e tātou, e kiia nei ko te 'Atychiphobia', te 'mataku nui rawa atu rānei ki te hinga'.
He aha rawa tēnei wehi o te 'hē', te Atychiphobia rānei?
Ki te whakarapopoto, ko te 'Atychiphobia' he wehi nui, he wehi rerekē hoki mō te korenga e angitu. I ahu mai i te kupu Kariki "atyches," ko tōna tikanga he "pōuri". Ko te tangata e mau ana i tēnei wehi, e hiahia ana ki te karo i tētahi āhuatanga e whakaaro ana rātou ka hinga pea rātou. Whakaarohia he whakamātautau kura, he uiui mahi, he tīmata pakihi hou, he whanaungatanga aroha rānei. Kei ētahi tāngata anō hoki tēnei wehi kei whakapōrearea i ētahi atu.
Ko te mea rerekē, ko tēnei wehi te take e hinga ai rātou. Whakaarohia pēnei, ki te tino mataku koe kei hinga koe i tētahi whakamātautau, ā, kāore koe e tuhi. Kātahi ka hinga koe, tika? He rite ki te maka i a koe ki roto i tētahi poka.
Ka taea e tēnei wehi kei 'hē' te whakararu i a koe i te hinengaro me te kare ā-roto.
- Te whakama
- Te pouri
- Manukanuka
- Ngā Whakaekenga Mataku
- Te whakaiti i te whakaaro ki a ia anō
Ka pā kino pea tēnei katoa ki tō whakatutukitanga mātauranga, ki tō whakatutukitanga mahi, ki ō whanaungatanga ki ngā hoa, tae atu ki ō whanaungatanga ki te whānau.
He mea nui: He rerekē te 'Atychiphobia' i te 'Atelophobia'. Ko te 'Atelophobia' te wehi kei kore e taea e koe te mahi i tetahi mea me te 100% tika.
He rite tonu te Atychiphobia me te perfectionism?
Ae, ahakoa he rite tonu ngā āhuatanga e rua, he rerekē ēnei āhuatanga e rua. Ko te tikanga o te 'Perfectionism' he ngana ki te mahi i ngā mea katoa kia tino tika, kia kore he hapa. Ko te arotahi ko te angitu. Engari ko te tangata e pāngia ana e te 'Atychiphobia' he wehi kei hinga, he manukanuka, me te āwangawanga mō ngā mea ka puta mēnā ka hinga ia. I ētahi wā, ki te neke atu tēnei 'Perfectionism' i te rohe, ka huri hei āhuatanga e kiia nei ko te 'Atelophobia'.
Kia titiro tātou ki te aha te 'phobia'.
He mate manukanuka te `Phobia`. He mataku nui rawa, kāore e taea te whakahaere, ki tētahi mea, āhuatanga, huihuinga rānei. Ahakoa he āhua koretake, he koretake rānei tēnei wehi ki ētahi atu, ki te tangata whai `Phobia` he kare ā-roto tūturu, he kare ā-roto mōrearea, mōrearea rānei.
He pēhea te noa o te ingoa o tēnei āhuatanga ko te Atychiphobia?
He uaua ki te kī tika e hia ngā tāngata he mataku motuhake pērā i te 'Atychiphobia'. Nā te mea he tokomaha ngā tāngata e pupuri ana i tēnei mataku ki a rātou anō, kāore rānei e mōhio kei a rātou. Engari e mōhio ana tātou, i te toharite, kotahi i roto i te tekau ngā pakeke me te kotahi i roto i te rima ngā tamariki nohinohi i Amerika ka pāngia e tētahi mataku motuhake i tētahi wā o ō rātou oranga. Kāore he rerekētanga o te āhuatanga i Sri Lanka.
He aha tātou i mataku ai kei 'rahua'? He aha ngā take?
He maha ngā take pea o te 'Atychiphobia'. Kia tirohia tātou he aha ēnei.
- Hītori whānau: Mena kua pāngia tētahi o tō whānau e ngā raruraru hauora hinengaro pēnei i te 'Phobia', te 'Manukanuka', te 'Pouri', me ētahi atu, ka nui ake te tūponotanga ka pāngia koe e ēnei āhuatanga. I ētahi wā ka puta mai ēnei ira.
- Whēkenga ako: Tērā pea i tipu ake koe i roto i tētahi taiao e kīia tonutia ana ki a koe ngā mea pēnei i te "he mea kino te kore e angitu" me te "ki te kore koe e whiwhi i te 90%, he kore angitu koe." Ina pāngia koe e te pēhanga pēnei mai i ō mātua, kaiako, hapori rānei, ka rite te 'kore angitu' ki tētahi hapa nui. Whakaarohia, i a koe e tamariki ana, ahakoa i tuhi pikitia koe, i waiata rānei i tētahi waiata, ka mea tō whānau, "Hmm... i taea e koe te mahi i tēnei mea kia pai ake, tika?" Mena kua rongo tonu koe i ngā mea pēnei i te "ka taea e te tamaiti a tētahi atu te mahi kia pai ake," tera pea ka whakaaro koe ahakoa he aha tāu e mahi ai, kāore i te rawaka. He mea noa te wehi kei 'kore angitu'?
- Ētahi atu mataku: I ētahi wā ka haere tahi tētahi 'Phobia' me tētahi atu 'Phobia'. Hei tauira, ka pāngia pea tētahi tamaiti e te 'Scolionophobia' (wehi ki te haere ki te kura) e te 'Atychiphobia'. Mēnā rānei, ka pāngia pea tētahi tangata e te 'Mysophobia' (wehi ki ngā huakita me te paru) e te 'rahunga' ina whakaaro rātou kāore e taea e rātou te noho ma i ngā wā katoa.
- Ngā wheako mamae: Mena kua whiua kinotia koe mō tētahi hinganga i mua, i tukinotia rānei koe e tētahi, tera pea ka mataku koe kei puta anō tētahi mea pēnei. I ētahi wā, ki te whakaaro koe nā tētahi hinganga i mua i puta ai he kino nui, he whakangaromanga nui rānei ki tētahi, tera pea he take anō tēnei mō tēnei wehi.
He Atychiphobia anō hoki tōku? He aha ngā tohu?
Ko te tangata e wehi ana kei hinga, ka whakaatu pea i ngā tohu penei:
Ngā āhuatanga whanonga me te hinengaro:
- Te wehi ki te mahi i ngā mahi māmā noa iho i te mahi, i ngā mahi o te whare, i te kura rānei.
- Te riri wawe me te pukuriri .
- Te manukanuka tonu mō ngā whakaaro o ētahi atu mōu, me te mea rānei ka whakahengia koe e rātou.
- Te pōuri me te ngakau pouri tonu.
- Te whai whakaaro pouri ki te ao (te āhua kino o ngā mea katoa).
- Ko te whakaroa te tikanga o te whakaroa i tētahi mahi, i tētahi mahi rānei ina āhua uaua rawa.
- Te kore e taea te pupuri i ngā whanaungatanga tika ki ētahi atu.
- Te kore e whakaae ina tohu mai tetahi i tētahi hapa, ina ngana rānei ki te āwhina.
Ngā tohu o te 'Panic Attack' (te mataku nui ohorere):
Ka taea e te 'Atychiphobia' te whakaputa i te 'Panic Attack'. Kātahi ka kitea pea e koe ngā tohu penei:
- Kei te mātao haere te tinana (‘Chills’).
- Te whanoke me te māhunga.
- Te werawera nui rawa ('Hyperhidrosis').
- Te pikinga ohorere o te tere o te manawa ('Heart palpitations').
- Whakapairuaki (te āhua e ruaki ana).
- Te uaua ki te manawa, te ahua o te hemokai (Dyspnea).
- E wiri ana, e wiri ana.
- Te puku pōuri, te koretake o te kai (Dyspepsia).
Me pēhea koe e tino mōhio ai kei a koe te Atychiphobia? (Tauātanga)
Kāore he whakamātautau toto, he matawai rānei e taea ai te tautuhi tika i tēnei wehi o te kore angitu. Ka taea e tō tākuta te tautuhi i tēnei āhuatanga mā te kōrero ki a koe me te matapaki i ngā mea e whai ake nei:
- He aha ō tohumate?
- Kia pēhea te roa o te kitea o ēnei tohu?
- He pēhea te pānga o ēnei ki tō oranga o ia rā?
Ka kohia e te tākuta ngā kōrero taipitopito mō tō wehi kei hinga koe. Tērā pea ka pātai atu ia ki a koe i ngā pātai pēnei i:
- "E whakaaro ana koe kāore e taea e koe te mahi tika i tēnei mahi, nō reira e kore ai koe e tīmata? Ka whakaroa rānei koe?"
- "Kua pōuri kē koe, kua riri, kua māharahara, kua kore rānei he tumanako nā te wehi o te 'hē'?"
- "Kua aukatia koe e tēnei wehi kia kore ai koe e okioki, e moe pai, e pārekareka rānei ki ngā mea i pai ai koe i mua?"
- "He aha te pānga o tēnei wehi ki tōu oranga kāinga, ki tōu mahi kura, ki tōu mahi rānei?"
- "Kia pēhea te roa o tō mataku kei 'hē' koe?"
Ka ngana anō te tākuta ki te kimi mēnā he raruraru hauora hinengaro anō ōu. Hei tauira:
- 'Te Mate Ārai i te Mate Whaiaro'
- `Te pouri`
- 'Te Mate Kai'
- Te Mate Manukanuka o te Mate (Hypochondria - te wehi tonu kei pāngia koe e te mate)
- `Te Mate Whakararuraru-Ārai (OCD)` (ngā whakaaro me ngā mahi kāore e hiahiatia)
- Mate Pāwera
- `Te Mate Whaiaro Paranoid` (Te whakapae koretake ki ētahi atu)
- Te Mate Auau i Muri i te Whara (PTSD)
- Te waranga ki te tarukino, ki te waipiro rānei
He aha te mea ka taea te mahi hei rongoā i tēnei wehi o te 'hē'?
He maha ngā huarahi hei whakahaere me te wikitoria i tēnei wehi o te 'hē'.
- Te Whakaora Hinengaro Whanoke (CBT): He momo whakaora hinengaro tēnei e āwhina ana i a koe ki te whakarerekē i tō whakaaro kino mō te 'hē'. Ka taea e tō kaiwhakaora hinengaro te āwhina i a koe kia kite ko ētahi o ngā mea e whakaarohia ana e koe he "hē" he whai wāhitanga ki te ako me te whakapai ake. Ka taea hoki e rātou te whakaako i a koe i ngā tikanga hei āwhina i a koe ki te whakahaere i te wehi me te manukanuka, pērā i te manawa hōhonu me te whakaaroaro.
- Te Whakaora Whakamārama: Kei roto i tēnei ko te whakaatu mārire i a koe ki te mea e wehi ana koe. Ka taea e tēnei te āwhina i a koe ki te whakaiti i tō urupare wehi. Hei tauira, ka tono pea tō kaiwhakaora hinengaro kia whakaarohia anō e koe tētahi wā i whakaaro ai koe kua hinga koe. Ka mahia tēnei i roto i tētahi taiao haumaru, tautoko. Ma tēnei ka āwhina i a koe ki te kite ehara te hinga i te mea whakamataku, i te mea mōrearea rānei.
- Rongoā: Mena he raruraru hauora hinengaro anō tōu, pērā i te pouri, te manukanuka rānei, ka taea e te rongoā te āwhina i te whakahaere i aua tohu. Heoi, kia maumahara ehara te rongoā i te rongoā tuatahi mō te mataku. Ko te hinengaro whakaora te rongoā tuatahi.
He ara hei ārai i te Atychiphobia?
He uaua te ārai katoa i ngā mataku. Heoi, ka taea e koe te mahi i ēnei hei whakaiti i tōna kaha:
- Hangaia he whatunga pai o ngā hoa me te whānau e tautoko ana, e pono ana .
- Āta karohia te kawheine, te waipiro, me ngā raau taero. Ka taea e ēnei te whakanui ake i tō ahotea me tō manukanuka.
- Kia mōhio tonu koe kei te pāngia tō oranga o ia rā e tēnei wehi e pā ana ki a koe, rapua he awhina i te tākuta.
- Kia kaha tonu te mahi, kia kai i ngā kai hauora, kia nui hoki te moe. He mea nui ēnei mea mō tō hauora hinengaro.
Ka taea te wikitoria i tēnei āhuatanga? (Matapae/Tirohanga)
Ko te rongo pai, he maha ngā tāngata e tino pai ana te urupare ki te maimoatanga mō tēnei mate, arā, te 'Atychiphobia'. Ka taea te whakakore mā te hinengaro hinengaro, ngā huringa āhua noho, me te rongoā, mēnā e tika ana. Inaa, kua whakaatuhia e ngā rangahau ka taea e te 'Whakaora Whakaaturanga' (whakaora whakaaturanga) te āwhina i te 90% o ngā tāngata whai 'Phobia' ki te wikitoria i tō rātou mate. Ko te tikanga tēnei kāore he mea hei wehi, ā, he nui te tūponotanga ka taea te wikitoria i tēnei.
Ko ēhea ngā wā me toro atu koe ki te tākuta?
Mena ka pāngia koe e tētahi o ēnei tohu, me toro atu koe ki te tākuta:
- Nā te wehi kei 'hē' koe,Mena kāore e taea e koe te mahi tika i ngā mahi o ia rā.
- Mena kei te pāngia koe e ngā tohu o te 'Panic Attack' (te mataku nui ohorere) .
He aha ngā pātai me pātai atu koe ki te tākuta?
Ina kite koe i te tākuta, ka taea e koe te pātai i ēnei pātai:
- Kia pēhea te roa e hiahiatia ai he maimoatanga?
- He pai te whakaora-ā-hinengaro mō te Atychiphobia?
- He aha pea te pūtake tūturu o tōku wehi kei 'hē'?
Ko te 'Atychiphobia' he wehi nui ki te kore e angitu. Tērā pea ka karohia, ka whakaroahia rānei e te tangata whai mate nei tētahi whai wāhitanga e kore e taea e rātou te angitu 100%. Tērā pea ka whakatakotohia e rātou he whāinga teitei rawa atu mā rātou, ā, ka piki ake te tūponotanga o te korenga e angitu. Mēnā kei te tino pouri koe, kei te mataku, kei te manukanuka rānei ina whakaaro koe mō te 'korenga e angitu', me kōrero ki tētahi tākuta. Kia mahara, he maha ngā tāngata ka taea te wikitoria i tēnei 'Phobia' mā te hinengaro hinengaro.
Kia maumahara tātou ki te whakarāpopototanga (Karere hei tango ki te kāinga)
He tino mamae te wehi o te 'rahunga', te 'Atychiphobia' rānei, mō ētahi tāngata. Engari ko te mea nui, ehara i te mea me noho ko koe anake, ā, he maha ngā maimoatanga whai hua mōna.
Ki te whakaaro koe kei a koe tēnei wehi, kaua e whakama, kaua hoki e mataku ki te kōrero ki tētahi e whakawhirinaki ana koe mō tēnei mea. He pai ake te rapu āwhina mai i tētahi tangata pēnei i te tākuta, i te kaiwhakatakoto whakaaro rānei. Kia maumahara, ehara te tono āwhina i te ngoikore, engari he kaha!
He rite tonu te hiranga o tō hauora hinengaro ki tō hauora tinana, nō reira kia tiakina.
` Atychiphobia, Wehi ki te Raru, Phobia, Manukanuka, Pouri, Whakaekenga Mataku, Hauora Hinengaro











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