Te taha kare ā-roto o te mate pukupuku kāore e whakaarohia ana e tātou

Ina kitea he mate pukupuku tōu, he rite ki te uira e pā ana ki tō oranga. I roto i te wā poto, ka hurihia ngā mea katoa i moemoeāhia e tātou. Ko tā tātou arotahi kei ngā maimoatanga , ngā pokanga, me ngā rongoā. Engari i muri i ēnei mea katoa, he mea kāore e whakaarohia e tātou, he mea e pakaru pinepine ana i a tātou mai i roto. Ko te taha hinengaro tēnā o tēnei haerenga. I tēnei rā, ka kōrero tātou mō tēnei pakanga kare ā-roto, i runga i te kōrero mō tētahi wahine taitamariki i pā ki tēnei wheako.

Te hurihanga o te ao

Koinei te kōrero mō tētahi wahine taitamariki ko Carissa tōna ingoa. I mua i te pānga mai o te mate pukupuku, he rite tonu ia ki a tāua, e rua tekau ōna tau. I taumau ia, e mahi ana i tētahi whare ataahua, ā, e noho harikoa ana me āna hoa. Kua neke ia ki tētahi whare hou me tana hoa tāne, ā, e moemoeā ana ia mō tana marena. He tino pai te haere o te ao.

I tētahi rā i a ia e kaukau ana, ka rongo ia i tētahi puku i roto i tōna ū. I tana haerenga ki tētahi whare hauora, i kīia mai kāore he mea kino nā te mea e 30 noa iho ōna tau, ā, ka hoki mai anō ia i roto i ngā marama e ono. I whakaaro ngā tākuta he pukupuku momona pea, he "(Lipoma)" ehara i te mate pukupuku.

Engari i muri i ngā marama e ono, ka kite ia i te rahi haere o te puku. Kāore i taea e ia te toro atu ki te tākuta i te wā tika nā te COVID-19 . Ahakoa kua tīmata ia te mataku, i whakamanawa ia i a ia anō, nā te mea he taitamariki ia, ā, kāore he tangata o tōna whānau e pangia ana e te mate pukupuku, kāore he raruraru.

Hei whakamutunga, ka kōrero te tākuta, ka hoatu ki a ia te rongo kāore ia i hiahia kia rongo. "He mate pukupuku tōu." Kāore e taea te whakaahua i te ohorere i pā ki a ia i taua wā. Ko te haerenga ki te kāinga e rima meneti te roa, he rite ki te wā mutunga kore. I a ia e whakaaro ana ki tana marena, ka rongo ia he momo mate pukupuku ū tōna e kiia nei ko te `(Stage II Invasive Ductal Carcinoma)`.

Ko te raruraru nui rawa atu mōna ko tana aro atu ki ēnei mea katoa i tōna tau. I tana tīmatanga ki te chemotherapy , ko ētahi atu tāngata i haere mai ki te rongoā he wāhine kei roto i ō rātou tau 50, 60, 70. Ko ia te mea pōtiki rawa atu i roto i te rūma. I titiro mai rātou ki a ia me te mea, 'He aha tā tēnei tamaiti iti e mahi nei i konei?' I tino whakaaro anō hoki ia ki taua mea.

I pahemo aua rā, pērā i te moemoeā.

I muri i te tīmatanga o te maimoatanga, i pōuri ahau. Me te mea kei te titiro ahau ki ahau anō mai i waho o tōku tinana. He maimoatanga tonu, he pokanga, he rongoā... he tākuta e ako ana i ahau mō ngā rongoā, me haere ki ngā akomanga, me homai he mea hei pānui māku, me te tini o ngā mea hei whakarite wā mōna. I puta katoa ēnei i te wā o te COVID-19, nō reira ko au anake te tangata i mahi i ngā mea katoa.

E ai ki a Carissa, i taua wā kāore rawa ōna kare ā-roto. Pērā i te karetao.

Ngā wero anō i pā ki a koe i te wā e rongoatia ana

• Te whakaaro ki ngā tamariki: I mua i te tīmatanga o te chemo, i whakatiohia āna hua manu nā te mea kāore e taea e ia te ngaro te whai wāhi ki te whānau tamariki ā muri ake nei. He kawenga nui te tukanga IVF, me ngā werohanga tonu a tana hoa tāne ki a ia.
• Te ngaronga o te makawe: Pērā i te nuinga o ngā wāhine, i kite a Carissa he uaua te ngaronga o ōna makawe. Hei tohunga whakapaipai, i whakahīhī ia ki ōna makawe roa, matotoru. I te tīmatanga o te hinganga o ōna makawe, i mōhio ia kua tae ki te wā hei tapahi. I te heunga o tana hoa tāne i tōna mahunga, i hiahia ia ki te mutu me te tangi. I a ia e whakarite ana i tētahi marena, ka kite ia i te uaua o te hoko kakahu marena kāore he makawe.

Me pēhea te whakatau i ēnei wā uaua

I te ngaromanga o te ngoikore i pā ki a mātou i te wā o te maimoatanga, he tino pouri. I a mātou e rongoatia ana, kei roto mātou i te "aratau ora". Kia mutu rā anō taua mahi, ko te wā tēnei ki te whakaaro ki ngā mea kua ngaro i a mātou. Me te mea nei kei te pouri mātou mō tō mātou oranga tawhito.

Engari i mārama a Carissa ki te pēhanga. Kei te kite ia i tētahi kaiwhakaora hinengaro, ā, he mema ia nō tētahi rōpū tautoko me ngā tāngata mātau. Ko te whānau me ngā hoa tōna kaha nui.

Inaianei kei te tango ia i te rongoā homoni. He pānga taha tōna. He werawera, he rerekētanga o te wairua, me te kore moe. He maha tonu ngā rā e tangi ana ia i roto i te wharepaku. Engari kei te ako ia ki te ora i ia rā, i ia rā. Mā te whakarongo ki tētahi waiata pai, te kōrero ki tētahi hoa, me te whakamahere i tana marena ā muri ake nei ka hari ia.

"He uaua tēnei, engari e ngana tonu ana ahau ki te whakaaro ki te taha pai. Nā te mea e mōhio ana ahau ko te hinengaro te mea nui."