I ēnei rā, ka rongo tātou katoa i ngā kupu hou e kōrerohia ana i runga i ngā pāpāho pāpori me te pouaka whakaata, tika? I ētahi wā ka whakamahia e tātou ēnei kupu ahakoa kāore tātou i te tino mōhio ki tōna tikanga. Waihoki, ko tētahi kupu kua rangona i roto i ō tātou taringa i ēnei rā ko "Cisgender." Kua rongo pea koe i tēnei kupu i mua. Nā, he aha rawa te Cisgender? He kaupapa uaua tēnei? Kāore rawa. Me kōrero tātou mō tēnei i tēnei rā, me te ngāwari, me te marino, kia mārama ai ngā pātai katoa kei roto i ō tātou mahunga.
He aha te tikanga o te kupu Cisgender?
He tino māmā noa iho. Ko te tikanga o te Cisgender he whakaae tō hinengaro ki te ira tangata i whakaritea ki a koe i te whānautanga.
Me whakamārama ake tātou. Whakaarohia i tō whānautanga, i tuhia e ngā tākuta te kupu "wahine" ki tō tiwhikete whānau. I a koe e pakeke haere ana, ka whakaaro koe, ka rongo hoki he kōtiro koe, he wahine rānei. I taua wā, he wahine cis-gender koe.
Waihoki, ki te mea i whānau mai koe he "tāne" i runga i tō tiwhikete whānau, ā, i a koe e tipu ake ana, kei te whakaaro tonu koe he tama, he tāne rānei, he tāne cisgender koe.
Ko te nuinga o te tangata o te ao e taka ana ki te kāwai cisgender. Ko te kupu Latina o tēnei kupu, "cis", ko tōna tikanga "i tēnei taha". Ko te kupu rerekē ko "trans". Ko tōna tikanga "i tērā taha". Arā, ka karangahia e tātou te hunga e tautuhi ana ki te tuakiri ira tangata he rerekē i te ira tangata i whakawhiwhia ki a rātou i te whānautanga he 'Transgender'.
He rerekē te taatai me te ira tangata?
Āe! He mea whakapoauau tēnei mō te tini o te tangata. He tokomaha e whakaaro ana he rite tonu te "ira tangata" me te "ira tangata". Engari he rerekē rawa ēnei ariā e rua. Kia mārama tātou ki tēnei rerekētanga.
| Ariā | Whakaahuatanga |
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| Ira tangata | He mea koiora katoa tēnei. Arā, e pā ana ki tō tinana. E rua ngā wāhanga e wehea ana: te wahine me te tāne. Ko te pūtake o tēnei:
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| Ira tangata | He mea pāpori katoa tēnei. Arā, e pā ana ki ngā whanonga, ngā tūranga, me ngā tauira whanonga e tumanakohia ana e te hapori mō ngā wāhine me ngā tāne. Hei tauira, ko ngā whakaaro kua whakatōkia ki roto i a tātou e te hapori, pērā i te "kāore ngā tama e tangi," "me mau ngā kōtiro i ngā kākahu," me te "me kaha ngā tāne." Ka rerekē ēnei i ia ahurea, i ia ahurea. |
Ko te Tuakiri Ira Tangata ko te tirohanga a roto i a koe anō, ko te kōrero ki a koe anō (ia, wahine, rātou). Kāore te ira tangata me te tuakiri ira tangata o te katoa e ōrite.
Nā, ko wai te Nonbinary?
Ko te "Non-Brandy" he kupu whānui e whakamahia ana mō te hunga kāore ō rātou tuakiri ira tangata e uru ki roto i ngā pouaka tuku iho o te tāne, te wahine rānei. Tērā pea kei waenganui, he huinga o ngā mea e rua, he tuakiri rānei kei waho rawa i tētahi o aua mea.
Ētahi tauira:
- Ira Tangata: Ka rerekē pea ō rātou tuakiri ira tangata i ngā wā katoa.
- Ira Tangata: He tuakiri e neke haere ana i waenga i te tuakiri tāne me te tuakiri wahine.
- Āpiha: Ngā tāngata kāore e whakaatu i ō rātou tuakiri ira tangata (tāne, wahine, aha atu rānei).
- Bigender: Ko te hunga e whakaatu ana i a rātou anō he tāne, he wahine rānei i te wā kotahi, i ngā wā rerekē rānei.
Tuakiri Ira Tangata me te Aronga Ira Tangata
Ko tētahi atu mea tēnei e whakapoauau ana i te tini o te tangata.
- Tuakiri Ira Tangata: Koinei koe . Arā, ahakoa he tāne koe, he wahine rānei, he tuakiri kē atu rānei.
- Te Aronga Ira Tangata: Ko te tangata e arohaina ana e koe . Ko te tangata e kukumea ana koe e te ira tangata, e te kare ā-roto hoki.
Hei tauira, ko te tangata whakawhiti ira tangata (he tangata he rerekē tōna tuakiri ira tangata i tōna whānautanga) ka kukume pea ki te ira tangata kē (he tangata tika), ki te tangata takatāpui (takatāpui/wahine takatāpui), ki te tangata takirua rānei. He tino motuhake ēnei ariā e rua.
Me ako anō hoki tātou mō te āhuatanga e kiia nei ko te Intersex.
Ki tā ētahi he rua noa iho ngā ira tangata i roto i te koiora, arā, ko te tāne me te wahine. Engari he rite tonu ki te whānuitanga. Ko te "Intersex" he āhuatanga e whānau mai ai te tangata me ngā āhuatanga ira tangata (ngā ira tangata, ngā homoni, ngā ira tangata rānei) kāore e tino ōrite ki te tinana tāne, wahine rānei. Ehara tēnei i te tuakiri ira tangata, engari he rerekētanga koiora . Ki te hiahia koe ki te mōhio atu mō tēnei, he pai ake te pātai atu ki tō tākuta.
He aha te "Mana Motuhake mō te Ira Tangata"?
He kaupapa pākiki tēnei. Ina kī ahau "mana motuhake," tera pea ētahi e whakaaro ana he pai ake te hunga ira-kore i ētahi atu. Kāore rawa.
Ko te Mana Motuhake mō te Ira Tangata (Cisgender Privilege) ko te mana motuhake me te mana motuhake e pā ana ki a koe nā te mea e uru ana tō tuakiri ira tangata ki roto i te anga "noa" e whakaaetia ana e te nuinga o te hapori. Kāore he take e manukanuka ai te hunga ira tangata mō ngā uauatanga, ngā pātai, me te whakahāwea e pā ana ki te hunga ehara i te ira tangata i ia rā, i ia rā.
Ahakoa te mana o te ira tāne ki te ira wahine, ehara i te mea kei te hē tāu mahi. Ko tōna tikanga, nā tō tuakiri ira tangata, ka wātea koe i ētahi o ngā arai e pā ana ki ētahi atu.
Me titiro tātou ki ētahi tauira:
- Kāore koe e manukanuka kei titiro tauhou mai tetahi ki a koe, kei pātai mai, kei whakatoi mai rānei i a koe ina haere koe ki te wharepaku tūmatanui.
- Ina tūtaki koe ki tētahi tangata hou, kāore tetahi e pātai ko wai tō "ingoa tūturu".
- Kāore koe e manukanuka mēnā ka whakamahia e tetahi te kupu whakakapi tika (ia/ia) ina kōrero ana mōu.
- Kāore ētahi e pātai ana i ngā pātai whaiaro kāore e tika ana mō tō tinana, mō ngā pokanga rānei i mahia ki a koe.
- Ina kite koe i tētahi whakaahua o koe i a koe e tamariki ana, kāore koe e hiahia ki te whakamārama ki tētahi, "He aha koe kāore i pēnei i a koe ināianei?"
Ahakoa he mea noa ēnei mō te tangata cis-ira, mō te tangata whakawhiti ira tangata, mō te tangata ehara i te ira tāne, ira wāhine rānei, he ahotea ēnei o ia rā e nui ake ai te mōrearea o te whakawhanake i te ahotea, te pouri, me ētahi atu raruraru hauora.
Me pēhea tātou e whakaute ai, e tautoko ai hoki i te katoa?
Hei tāngata e ira tāne ana, ka taea e tātou te mārama ki ēnei rerekētanga, ā, ka āwhina i te waihanga i tētahi hapori whānui ake, whakaute ake hoki. Kāore e hiahiatia kia nui rawa te raruraru. Me tīmata tātou ki ngā mea iti.
- Kaua e whakaaro: Kaua e whakaaro he cis-ira te hunga katoa e tūtaki ana koe.
- Kia whakaute: Kia whakaute ki te āhua o te whakataki a te tangata i a ia anō. Karangatia rātou mā te ingoa me te kupu whakakapi e pai ana ki a rātou. Ki te kore koe e tino mōhio, kāore he he o te pātai mārire, "Me pēhea koe e hiahia ana kia karangatia koe?"
- Kaua e pātai i ngā pātai kāore e hiahiatia:Kaua e pātai mō te tinana o tētahi, mō āna pokanga, mō ōna mōhiohio hauora rānei. He take tino whaiaro tēnei.
- Kia tūpato: Mā te pānui i ētahi kōrero mō ēnei kaupapa, me te mōhio hoki, ka taea e koe te ārai i a koe anō kei pānui pōhēhē i tētahi mea ka whara i ngā kare ā-roto o tētahi.
Hei whakamutunga, he tangata katoa tātou. Ko te mea nui ko te whakaute i te tuakiri o tētahi ki tētahi, me te mahi i runga i te atawhai me te māramatanga.
Karere Tangohia ki te Kāinga
- Ko te tikanga o te cisgender he ōrite tō tuakiri ira tangata ki te ira tangata i whakaritea ki a koe i te whānautanga.
- He mea koiora te taatai , ā, he mea hanga pāpori te ira tangata . Kaua e whakapoauau i ngā mea e rua.
- He rerekē rawa ngā ariā e rua o te tuakiri ā-ira tangata me te hōhonutanga ā-ira tangata.
- He mea nui kia whakautehia te tuakiri o te katoa. Ka taea e koe te tautoko i a rātou mā te karanga i a rātou mā te ingoa me te kupu whakakapi e pai ana ki a rātou.
- Mā te mārama ake ki ēnei kaupapa, ka taea e tātou te hanga i tētahi hapori mārama ake, aroha ake hoki.
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