Kāore e taea te karo i te aro o ētahi atu? Me ako tātou mō tēnei Mate Histrionic Personality?

I ētahi wā ka pēnei tātou, "Āe, kāore he tangata e aro mai ana ki ahau," tika? Engari mō ētahi tāngata, he tino nui rawa tēnei kare ā-roto. E hiahia tonu ana rātou kia aro te katoa ki a rātou anō. Koinei te momo mate ka kōrerohia e tātou i tēnei rā, e kiia nei ko te Histrionic Personality Disorder (HPD). Kaua e manukanuka, ka kōrerohia e tātou tēnei mea i roto i te huarahi e mārama ai koe.

He aha te Mate Tūākiri Histrionic?

Ki te whakarapopototanga, ko te mate hinengaro histrionic (HPD) he mate hinengaro e tino kaha rawa ana ngā kare ā-roto o te tangata, he kore pumau, ā, he tere te huri. He ahua pōhēhē anō hoki tō rātou. Ko te tikanga o te kupu "histrionic" he "whakaari" he "āhua whakaari" rānei.

Ko te tangata whai HPD he whakaaro mō tōna ake mana, e ahu mai ana i te maioha o ētahi atu ki a ia. Kāore rātou e tino whakaaro he mea nui ki a rātou. He hiahia nui tō rātou kia arohia mai e ētahi atu . Nō reira, i ētahi wā ka mahi whakaari, ka mahi hē rānei rātou kia arohia mai ai.

He maha ngā wā kāore te hunga whai HPD e mōhio he raruraru kei roto i ā rātou whanonga me te whakaaro. Kei roto tēnei āhuatanga i tētahi kāwai e kiia nei ko ngā mate tuakiri "Cluster B". Ko ētahi atu mate o tēnei kāwai e pā ana ki ngā whanonga whakaari me ngā whanonga ohorere.

Ko wai te hunga e tino pāngia ana e tēnei mate? He pēhea te noa o tōna pānga?

Ko te tikanga ka tīmata te HPD i te mutunga o te taiohitanga, i te tīmatanga rānei o ngā tau rua tekau . E ai ki ngā pūrongo he nui ake te kitea o tēnei mate i roto i ngā wāhine. Heoi, e whakapono ana ngā kairangahau ka pāngia hoki ngā tāne e te mate, engari kāore pea i te tino kitea.

He mate tino onge tēnei. E ai ki ngā kairangahau, tata ki te 1% o te taupori he mate pēnei. Tata ki te kotahi i roto i te rau tāngata.

He aha ngā tohu o te mate hinengaro histrionic (HPD)?

Ko te āhuatanga matua o te tangata whai HPD ko te whakaatu nui rawa atu i ngā kare ā-roto me te moepuku hei kukume i te aro o ētahi atu. Whakaarohia tētahi pēnei...

• Ki te ngaro tō aro, ka tino māharahara koe , ka kore koe e maiohahia, ā, ka taea e koe te arahi ki te āhua o te pouri.
• He tino tere te huri o ngā kare ā-roto , ehara i te mea hōhonu, engari he mea papaku noa iho. Tērā pea ka menemene koe i tētahi wā, ā, i tētahi wā ka tangi koe, kāore he take.
• He tino whakaari, he tino kaha ngā whakaaturanga o ngā kare ā-roto . I ētahi wā ka tino kino rawa atu tēnei, ā, ka whakama pea te whānau me ngā hoa i te aroaro o te marea.
• He rite tana mahi ki tētahi "tangata nui" . Ko ia te mea tika kia kitea ko ia te mea tino ātaahua.
• He tino ataahua, he whakawai hoki āna whanonga i ngā wā katoa.
• He nui rawa atu ō rātou whakaaro mō ō rātou āhua tinana .
• Ā rātou akeKa ngana rātou ki te kukume i te aro o ētahi atu mā te whakamahi i ō rātou āhua tinana. Hei tauira, ka mau rātou i ngā tae kanapa me ngā kākahu e whakaatu ana i ō rātou tinana.
• Ki te tini o te tangata ka tūtaki ahau, ka kōrero, ka whanonga i roto i ngā huarahi moepuku kāore i te tika, ahakoa kāore au e hiahia ana ki a rātou .
• He tino whakaari ā rātou kōrero, he nui ā rātou kōrero, engari kāore i a rātou ngā meka, ngā taipitopito rānei hei tautoko i a rātou.
• He ngawari ki a rātou te whakapono ki ngā kōrero a ētahi atu, ā, ka ngāwari hoki te awe o ētahi atu , inā koa ko te hunga e mihia ana e rātou.
• Ki taku whakaaro he tata rawa atu aku whanaungatanga ki ētahi atu tāngata i tō rātou āhua tūturu . Tērā pea ka taea e au te kī "ko taku hoa pai" mō tētahi kua kōrero tahi māua kotahi, e rua rānei ngā wā.
• He uaua te pupuri i ngā whanaungatanga . I a koe e mahi tahi ana me ētahi atu, he maha ngā wā ka kitea koe he tangata teka, he tangata hoki e taunekeneke noa ana i runga i te mata.
• E hiahia ana rātou ki te whai i ngā mea e hiahiatia ana i taua wā tonu . Kāore e taea e rātou te tatari kia whiwhi i ngā mea. Ka tere tonu te hoha me te riri.
• He pātai tonu tā rātou ki ētahi atu i ngā mea pēnei i te "Kei te pai ahau?", "Kei te pai tēnei?", ā, e tumanako ana kia whakaaetia rātou .

Ko te mea nui kia tūpato tātou mēnā ka mau tonu ēnei tauira whanonga, ā, ka pā ki te oranga o ia rā me ngā whanaungatanga.

He aha i puta ai tēnei āhuatanga?

Ko ngā mate hinengaro, tae atu ki te HPD, tētahi o ngā mate hinengaro kāore i te tino māramahia. Heoi, kua tautuhia e ngā rangahau ētahi āhuatanga ka whai wāhi pea ki te whanaketanga o ngā mate pēnei i te HPD.

• Ira : Nā te mea ka puta te HPD i roto i ngā whānau, e whakapono ana ngā kaipūtaiao he hononga tuku iho pea tōna. Ara, he ira pea te ia.
• Te Whara o te Tamarikitanga : Ko ngā whara kino i pā ki a rātou i te wā tamarikitanga, pērā i te tukino i te tamaiti, te matenga ohorere rānei o tētahi mema o te whānau, ka pā kino ki te oranga pakeke, ā, ka noho pea hei wāhanga o tētahi mate hinengaro. He rerekē ngā huarahi e pā ai ngā tamariki ki ēnei whara, ā, mā ēnei huarahi ka ara ake pea he raruraru i muri mai i te ao.
• Ngā momo whakatipu tamariki: Ko ngā mātua e whakatipu ana i ā rātou tamariki i roto i te huarahi kore here, tino ngāwari, kāore rānei i te rite, ka nui ake te tūponotanga ka pāngia e te HPD. Waihoki, ko ngā mātua e whakaari ana, e kore e pumau, e whakahaere ana, e whakaatu ana rānei i ā rātou tamariki ki ngā whanonga moepuku kāore i te tika, ka tūpono hoki ki te pāngia e te mate. E whakapono ana ētahi kairangahau ko ngā raruraru i roto i te whanaungatanga mātua-tamaiti ka whai wāhi ki te iti o te whakaaro ki a rātou anō i roto i te hunga whai HPD.

Me pēhea te tautuhi a ngā tākuta i tēnei?

He mea tonu te whanaketanga o te tuakiri puta noa i te tamarikitanga me te taiohitanga, nō reira , kāore ngā tākuta e tātaritanga i te tangata kua pāngia e te HPD tae noa ki te 18 tau te pakeke .

He uaua te tautuhi i ngā mate tuakiri, tae atu ki te HPD, nā te mea, i te nuinga o te wā, kāore te tangata e pāngia ana e tēnei mate e whakaaro he hē kei roto i āna whanonga, i tana huarahi whakaaro rānei.

Ki te haere mai rātou ki te rapu āwhina, nā ētahi atu take e pā ana ki te HPD. Hei tauira, te manukanuka, te pouri rānei i puta mai i te whakarere, i te wehenga rānei. Ki te kore, ehara i te mea nā te whakaaro, "He mate hinengaro tōku."

Ina whakapae tetahi tohunga hauora hinengaro, pērā i te tohunga hinengaro, te tohunga hinengaro rānei, kei te pāngia tetahi e te HPD, ka pātai whānui rātou. Arā, he pātai kāore e ārai i te tangata, e hanga rānei i tētahi taiao whakahē. Ka pātai rātou hei kohikohi mōhiohio mō ngā mea pēnei i:

• Ngā mōhiohio o mua
• Ngā whanaungatanga
• Ngā taipitopito o ngā mahi o mua
• Te tirotiro i te mooni (arā, te kaha ki te wehewehe i waenga i te ao tūturu me te ao whakaaro)
• Te kaha ki te whakahaere i ngā akiaki ohorere

Nā te mea kāore pea te tangata e whakapaetia ana he HPD tōna e mōhio ana ki āna ake whanonga, ka tono pea ngā tohunga hauora hinengaro kia whakaaetia rātou ki te kohikohi mōhiohio mai i te whānau me ngā hoa o taua tangata.

Ka tātaritatia e ngā tākuta te HPD i runga i ngā paearu i roto i te American Psychiatric Association's Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM) . E ai ki ēnei paearu, me noho kia rima o ngā whanonga pumau e whai ake nei:

1. Te kore whakamarie ina kore rātou e arohia ana e te katoa.

2. Ngā whanonga e whakaohooho ana i te hiahia ā-ira tangata, e whakaohooho ana rānei i te hiahia moepuku.

3. Ngā kare ā-roto e tere huri ana, e papaku ana hoki.

4. Te whakamahi i te āhua hei kukume i te aro.

5. He momo kōrero kāore i te mārama, he mea hangai ki te kare ā-roto.

6. Te whakapuaki i ngā kare ā-roto i roto i te āhua whakaari, i te āhua whakanui rawa rānei.

7. Ngāwari te hinga i te awe o ētahi atu.

8. Te kite i ngā whanaungatanga he tata atu i tō rātou āhua tūturu.

He aha ngā maimoatanga mō tēnei?

He maha ngā wā kāore te hunga whai HPD e whakapono he raruraru ā rātou whanonga. Ka whakanuia e rātou ō rātou kare ā-roto, ā, kāore e pai ki te whai i tētahi tikanga. Ka uaua pea te whai i tētahi mahere maimoatanga. Heoi, ka rapu āwhina pea rātou nā te mea he āhuatanga whakararuraru kei a rātou (tērā pea he pouri nā te wehenga, te korenga rānei o tētahi whanaungatanga) nā tētahi atu raruraru rānei ki ō rātou whakaaro me ā rātou whanonga.

Ko te hinengaro whakaora, te kōrero whakaora rānei, te whiringa maimoatanga matua mō te HPD me ētahi atu mate hinengaro . Ko te whāinga o te whakaora he āwhina i te tangata ki te tautuhi i ngā hihiri me ngā wehi kei muri i ō rātou whakaaro me ō rātou whanonga, me te ako i a rātou me pēhea te whanaungatanga pai ake ki ētahi atu.

He maha ngā momo rongoā hinengaro hei āwhina i te hunga whai HPD:

• Whakaora Rōpū: I roto i tēnei, ka huihui mai tētahi rōpū tāngata, i raro i te tirotiro a tētahi tohunga hinengaro, he tohunga hinengaro rānei, ki te matapaki me te whakamārama i ō rātou raruraru. He tino āwhina tēnei mō te hunga whai HPD, inā koa mēnā ka mahia te whakaora me ētahi atu tāngata whai HPD anō hoki. Ka taea e ia te āwhina i te tangata whai HPD kia kite i ā rātou whanonga mā rātou anō.
• Te Whakaora Hinengaro Hinengaro-ā-tinana : Ko tēnei momo whakaora e arotahi ana ki ngā pūtake hinengaro o te mamae kare ā-roto. Mā te tirotiro i a koe anō me te arotake i a koe anō, ka tirohia e te kiritaki ngā tauira whanaungatanga raruraru i roto i ō rātou ao.
• Hinengaro Tautoko : Ko te whāinga o tēnei momo whakaora he whakaiti i ngā tohu me te pupuri, te hanga anō, te whakapai ake rānei i te whakaaro nui ki a ia anō me ngā pūkenga aro atu ki ngā raruraru. Ka tirotirohia ngā whanaungatanga me ngā urupare kare ā-roto, ngā tauira whanonga rānei.
• Whakaora Hinengaro Hinengaro (CBT) : He maimoatanga hanganga, he whai whāinga tēnei. Ka āwhina te tohunga hinengaro, te tohunga hinengaro rānei i a koe ki te tirotiro tata atu i ō whakaaro me ō kare ā-roto. Ka taea e koe te mārama ki te pānga o ō whakaaro ki ō mahi. Mā te CBT, ka taea e koe te ako ki te tuku i ngā whakaaro me ngā whanonga kino, me te whakawhanake i ngā tauira whakaaro me ngā tikanga hauora ake.

Ahakoa kāore anō kia kitea he rongoā hei rongoā i ngā mate hinengaro, kei reira ngā rongoā mō ngā āhuatanga pēnei i te pouri me te manukanuka ka pā ki te hunga whai HPD. Mā te rongoā i ēnei āhuatanga ka māmā ake te rongoā i te HPD.

He aha ngā pānga taha ka puta mai i tēnei?

Ko te hunga whai mate hinengaro histrionic (HPD) he nui ake te mōrearea ki te whakawhanake i te pouri me ngā mate whakamahi matū (hei tauira, te mate whakamahi tarukino me te mate whakamahi waipiro).

Ko te hunga whai HPD ka nui ake te tūponotanga ki te whakawhanake i ēnei āhuatanga:

• Mate Pūmanawa : I roto i tēnei, ka tino pāngia te tangata e te mamae o tētahi tohu tinana kei a rātou. Tērā pea ka pāngia rātou e ngā whakaaro, ngā kare ā-roto, me ngā whanonga rerekē hei whakautu ki ō rātou tohu.
• Ngā Whakaekenga Mataku : Ko te whakaekenga mataku he mataku ohorere, he wā poto, me ngā tauhohenga tinana kaha hei whakautu ki ngā āhuatanga noa, kāore e mōrearea.
• Ngā Mate Huringa (e kiia ana ko te Mate Tohu Pūnaha Hinengaro Mahi): He mate hauora tēnei e pā ana ki te ngaronga o te mahi a tētahi wāhanga o te pūnaha io. Arā, e whakapono ana tō roro me tō tinana kāore tētahi wāhanga o tō pūnaha io e mahi ana, ahakoa kāore he tohu o te kino o te hanganga.

Ko ngā whanonga rapu aro i roto i te hunga whai HPD ka uru atu ki ngā tūmomo whakawehi me ngā ngana whakamomori . He tino morearea tēnei.

He aha te matapae mō tēnei āhuatanga?

Ahakoa kāore he rongoā mō te HPD, he maha ngā tāngata whai mate pēnei e ora hua ana. Ko te hunga whai HPD e whai wāhi ana ki te kōrero whakaora ka pāngia e ngā hua pai i a rātou e mārama ana ki tō rātou āhua me te mahi pai ake i roto i te hapori .

Heoi, ko te hunga whai HPD kino ka pāngia pea e ngā raruraru maha i te mahi, i roto i ngā whanaungatanga pāpori me/ranei i te whanaungatanga aroha.

Ka taea te ārai i te mate tuakiri histrionic?

Ahakoa kāore e taea te ārai i te HPD, ka taea e te maimoatanga te āwhina i te tangata e pāngia ana e te mate ki te ako i ngā huarahi whai hua ake hei whakatau i ngā whanonga, ngā whakaaro, me ngā āhuatanga whakaohooho .

Ko te mea nui kia maumahara ko te HPD he mate hinengaro. Pērā i ngā mate hinengaro katoa, mā te rapu āwhina i te wā tonu ka kite koe i ngā tohu ka āwhina i te whakaiti i te whakararuraru ki tō oranga . Ka taea e ngā tohunga hauora hinengaro te whakarato mahere maimoatanga hei āwhina i a koe ki te whakahaere i ō whakaaro me ō whanonga.

He maha ngā wā ka pāngia ngā whānau o te hunga whai HPD e te ahotea, te pouri, te pōuri, me te mokemoke. He mea nui kia tiakina tō hauora hinengaro me te rapu āwhina mēnā kei te pāngia koe e ēnei tohu .

Karere Whakamutunga mō te Tango ki te Kāinga

Āe, ko tāku tumanako kua mārama koe ki tētahi mea mai i tā tātou i kōrero ai. Hei whakarāpopototanga:

• He mate hinengaro tūturu te mate hinengaro histrionic (HPD). Ehara i te mea ka mahia ā-tauiratia e te tangata.
• Ko te mea nui e tupu ana i konei , ko tā rātou rapu tonu i te aro o ētahi atu nā te iti o te whakaaro nui ki a rātou anō .
• Ko te hinengaro whakaora te maimoatanga pai rawa atu mō tēnei . Ka āwhina i a koe ki te mārama ki ō whanonga me ō whakaaro, me te whakarerekē i aua whanonga.
• Mena kei a koe, kei tētahi rānei e mōhio ana koe, kaua e wehi, kaua hoki e whakama ki te rapu tohutohu hauora . Mā te rapu āwhina wawe ka māmā ake te oranga.
• Mena he mema whānau koe nō tētahi tangata whai HPD, me whakaaro anō hoki koe ki tō ake hauora hinengaro . Me tautoko anō hoki koe.

Ko te tumanako ka whai hua ēnei kōrero ki a koutou. Kia ora te hinengaro, kia ora hoki te oranga o te katoa!

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