Me whai wā okioki anō hoki koe i a koe e tiaki ana i tō hoa aroha? Me kōrero tātou mō te tiaki wā okiokinga!

Tērā pea kei te tiaki koe i tētahi mema o te whānau, i tētahi mātua e mate ana, i tētahi tamaiti rānei he hiahia motuhake tōna. He mahi nui, he kawenga nui hoki. Engari he mea noa te ngenge me te ngenge ina mahi tonu koe i tēnei. Nō reira, kei konei tēnei ratonga e kiia nei ko "Respite Care" hei āwhina i a koe ki te okioki, ki te mahi i tāu mahi, me te whai herekoretanga.

He aha tēnei "manaaki okiokinga"?

He ngāwari noa iho, he ratonga wā poto te tiaki manawa hei āwhina i a koe ki te okioki i ō mahi o ia rā hei tiaki i tō hoa aroha. Tērā pea he torutoru hāora, he torutoru rā, he torutoru wiki rānei tēnei okiokinga.

I tēnei wā, ka riro i tētahi atu – he tohunga ngaio kua whakangungua – ō kawenga tiaki. Kei roto pea i tēnei ko te hoatu rongoā i te wā tika, te whakarite kai, te kōrero noa rānei ki a koe hei whakamama i tō mokemoke. He tino whai hua tēnei ratonga mō ngā tāngata o ngā reanga katoa, mai i te kaumātua ki ngā tamariki nohinohi, ā, inā koa mō te hunga he maha ngā matea hauora.

Whakaarohia, ki te mea kei te tiaki koe i tētahi pēnei, ka taea hoki e koe te whakaaro ki tēnei momo tiaki okiokinga:

• He tangata whai hauātanga hinengaro, hauātanga whanaketanga rānei.
• He tangata e pāngia ana e te mate whakamate.
• He tangata whai mate e pā ana ki te mahara pērā i te mate wareware.
• He tangata e pāngia ana e tētahi momo raruraru hauora hinengaro (Mate Hauora Hinengaro).
• He tangata whai mate hauora mau tonu.

Ka taea e koe te whakarite i mua i te wā mō te tiaki wā okiokinga, ka taea rānei e koe te tiki i runga i te āhua ohorere. Mā te whakarite i mua ka āwhina i a koe ki te whakahaere i tō oranga pukumahi, ā, ka āwhina hoki i a koe ki te karo i te ngenge o te kaitiaki . Hei tauira, ki te mea me haere koe ki te mahi, ki te tiaki rānei i ētahi atu tāngata i te kāinga, ka taea e koe te whakarite kia whiwhi tiaki wā okiokinga i ia rā, i ia wiki rānei. Ka taea e te tiaki wā okiokinga ohorere te āwhina mēnā ka pāngia koe e te mate ohorere, kāore rānei e taea e koe te tiaki i tō hoa aroha nā te āhua ohorere.

He aha te hiranga o te tiaki wā okiokinga ki a koe?

He huarahi pai te manaaki wā poto hei whakarite kia whiwhi tō hoa aroha i te manaaki e hiahiatia ana e rātou, ahakoa he maha āu kawenga. He wāhi anō hoki tēnei mōu ki te whakahoki mai i tō kaha, ki te mahi i tētahi mea whakangā, ki te noho mokemoke rānei mō tētahi wā.

He maha ngā wā ka whakama ngā kaitiaki mō te okiokinga. Ka wareware rātou ki tō rātou ake ngenge mā te kī, "Āe, kāore au i te ngenge, kei te pai ahau." Ko te take o tēnei he aroha koe ki tō hoa aroha, ā, e maioha ana koe ki tā rātou manaaki. Engari ko tētahi atu take pea ko tō wehi me tō ruarua kei tangohia tō tūranga e tētahi atu.

Kia maumahara, me okioki anō hoki koe. Kia ora koe, ka taea e koe te tiaki pai ake i tō hoa aroha.

Kua whakaatuhia e ngā rangahau he mea nui kia okioki i te tiaki i a koe anō i ia rā (ahakoa kāore he mahi kē atu āu!). Mā te whai wā mōu ake ka āwhina i a koe ki te karo i te ngenge o te kaitiaki . Ka pā tēnei ki te katoa, ahakoa te nui o tō rātou whakapau kaha. Mā te tiaki okiokinga ka āwhina i a koe ki te arotahi, ki te aro, me te arotahi ki te whakarato i te tiaki pai ake.

Ina whiriwhiria e koe tētahi ratonga tiaki okiokinga e rite ana ki ngā hiahia o tō hoa aroha, ka taea e koe te okioki mārie me te mōhio ka whiwhi rātou i te tiaki pai rawa atu ahakoa kāore koe i reira. Tērā pea ka ako koe i ngā tohutohu me ngā tikanga hou mai i ngā kaiwhakarato tiaki hou.

Kei hea ahau e whiwhi ai i tēnei tiaki okiokinga?

I runga anō i ngā hiahia o tō hoa aroha, ka taea te uru atu ki tēnei ratonga mai i ngā wāhi maha. Ko ētahi tauira ko:

• Tōu ake kāinga: Ina whiwhi koe i te ratonga ki te kāinga, ka taea e tō whanaunga te noho ki tētahi taiao mōhio, whakamarie hoki.
• I te kāinga o te kaitiaki: I ētahi wā, ka whakaratohia hoki tēnei ratonga i te kāinga o te kaitiaki. He wāhi whakamarie anō hoki pērā i te kāinga.
• Ngā Pokapū Tiaki Tamariki: E whakarato ana ēnei pokapū i ngā ratonga mō te 8 hāora ia rā i ngā rā wiki, inā koa mō ngā tamariki he hauātanga whanaketanga, he hiahia motuhake rānei. He ratonga tiaki tamariki anō hoki mō ngā pakeke i ngā pokapū hapori, ngā whare karakia, me ngā whare kaumātua.
• Whare tiaki kaumātua, hōhipera rānei: Kei ētahi whare tiaki kaumātua me ngā hōhipera he wāhi noho poto. Ka taea e koe te whakamahere i mua me te whakamahi i tēnei i roto i te āhuatanga ohorere.
• Ngā puni: Tērā ētahi puni ka taea e te hunga he hiahia motuhake te haere atu. Ka whakaratohia he whai wāhitanga ki te ako i ngā pūkenga whai hua me te kimi hoa hou.
• Ngā Kāinga Rōpū: Ka tukuna e ētahi kāinga rōpū he ratonga tiaki wā poto, i runga i te wāhi. He kōwhiringa pai tēnei mō te hunga e hiahia ana kia noho motuhake i roto i te taiao haumaru.
• Whare Tiaki Tamariki: Ka whakaratohia e ēnei he manaakitanga wā ohorere mō ngā pēpi me ngā tamariki nohinohi. He tino whakamarie ēnei mō ngā mātua kāore he kāinga, he mate ohorere rānei, e hiahia ana rānei ki te awhina hauora tonu.

Nā wai ēnei ratonga tiaki wā okiokinga e whakarato?

Kei te wāhi e whiwhi ana tō whanaunga i te ratonga, me te āhua o tāu whakarite. Ko ētahi o ngā kaiwhakarato o tēnei ratonga ko:

• Tērā pea ka tae mai ētahi Kaiawhina Hauora Kāinga ki tō kāinga.
• Ngā kaimahi e mahi ana i ngā whare me ngā kāinga rerekē.
• Kua whakamahere tō whānau, ō hoa rānei ki te āwhina i a koe.
• Ngā tāngata e tūao ana; ngā tāngata e haere mai ana ki ngā kāinga, ki ngā puni, ki ngā pokapū tiaki tamariki, ā, e āwhina ana.

I te nuinga o te wā, ko te whakangungu e hiahiatia ana mō ēnei kaitiaki ka whakatauhia e ngā ture ā-rohe me ngā ture ā-motu. Ko te tikanga, ko te nui o te whakangungu, o te wheako rānei e hiahiatia ana e tō kaitiaki ka whakawhirinaki ki ngā hiahia o tō whanaunga. I te mea ka uaua haere ō rātou hiahia hauora, me whakangungu pai te kaitiaki.

Me pēhea te whiriwhiri i te ratonga tiaki wā tika?

He mea tino nui kia tirohia ngā tohu me ngā whakangungu o te hunga katoa e haere mai ana ki te tiaki i tō hoa aroha.

Mena kei te whiwhi koe i te ratonga mai i tētahi whare wānanga, i tētahi pokapū rānei:

Mena kei te utu koe i tētahi kaiawhina hauora kāinga mā tētahi tari, kei te rapu rānei koe i tētahi pokapū tiaki tamariki, pātai atu ki te kaiwhakahaere i ēnei e whai ake nei:

• Me pēhea te whiriwhiri me te whakangungu i ngā kaiwhakarato tiaki?
• Kei te tirotirohia e koe ō rātou papamuri?
• He aha ngā momo mahi kua whakangungua/kua whai tohu ngā kaimahi ki te mahi?
• Me pēhea te whakahaere i tētahi āhuatanga ohorere, raruraru rānei mēnā ka puta?

Ki te mea kei te whiriwhiri koe i tētahi pokapū tiaki tamariki, i tētahi atu wāhi rānei, me toro atu koe ki reira kia kotahi te wā. Ina mahi koe i tēnā, kia mōhio koe ki ngā mea e whai ake nei:

• Kei te pēhea te ma (e pā ana ki ngā mea e kitea ana, me ngā mea e hongi ana).
• He pēhea te mahi a ngā kaiwhakarato tiaki ki te iwi o reira?
• He aha te momo wāhi me ngā ratonga kei reira mō ngā mahi whakangahau, mō te wā marino rānei?

Mena kei te kawe takitahi koe i tētahi ki te kāinga:

Whakahaerehia he uiuinga mā te waea i te tuatahi, kātahi ka tūtaki kanohi ki te kanohi. Pātai atu mō ēnei mea:

• He aha ngā momo mahi kua mōhio rātou ki te mahi, ā, he aha ngā mea e hiahia ana rātou ki te mahi?
• He aha ā rātou whakangungu me ā rātou tiwhikete (pātai atu mō ngā tuhinga).
• He wheako ki te tiaki i te hunga he mate hauora motuhake tōu (hei tauira, te mate a Alzheimer, ALS) e pāngia ana e tō whanaunga.
• Me pēhea tā rātou mahi i roto i tētahi āhuatanga ohorere?

I muri i te uiuinga, kaua e wareware ki te mahi i ēnei mea:

• Tonoa ngā tohutoro, ka kōrero ki ia tangata.
• Me tirotiro i tō papamuri.
• Tuhia ngā taipitopito mō ngā ratonga e whakaratohia ana, ngā hāora, ngā utu, me ngā tumanakohanga. Kōrerohia ēnei taipitopito me te kaiwhakarato tiaki, ā, ka whakaae tahi.

He aha ngā Ratonga Manaaki Whakangā?

Ko te manaaki okiokinga he maha ngā mahi me ngā ratonga tautoko e hāngai ana ki te tau, ngā hiahia, me ngā manakohanga o tō hoa aroha. He maha ngā ratonga e whakaratohia ana i ngā wāhi rerekē. E ai ki te ingoa, ka hoatu he wā okiokinga ki a koe (te kaitiaki) mai i ō mahi o ia rā. Heoi, i tua atu i te tuku mahi ki tētahi atu, ka whakaratohia hoki e te manaaki okiokinga he maha ngā ratonga ki te tangata e whiwhi ana i te manaaki. Nō reira, i a koe e whakamahere ana i te manaaki okiokinga, he mea pai kia whakaarohia ngā mea e tino hiahiatia ana e tō hoa aroha.

Hei tauira, kei te noho mokemoke ia? Ka whai hua rānei ia i te mahi ā-tinana, i te whakaohooho hinengaro rānei? Me āwhina ia ki te tango rongoā, ki te mahi rānei i tētahi wātaka auau? Hangaia he rārangi o ngā mea e mahia ana e koe mā tō hoa aroha i ia rā, me te take he mea nui ai. Mā tēnei koe e āwhina ki te whakatau ko tēhea momo tiaki okiokinga te mea pai mōu, ahakoa kei te kāinga, kei tawhiti rānei.

I runga anō i te āhua o tāu whakaritenga, ka taea e te manaaki whakatā te whakarato ki tō hoa aroha:

• Kōrerorero, ngā wā o te noho mokemoke.
• Ngā mahi pāpori kua whakaritea pērā i te tuhi, te whakakori tinana, me te kanikani.
• Ngā mahi e tutuki ai ō rātou matea hinengaro, matea whanaketanga rānei.
• Te tiaki hauora pūkenga, tae atu ki te hoatu rongoā me te āwhina ki te whakamahi i ngā taputapu hauora.
• Āwhina mō ngā mahi o ia rā pēnei i te kaukau, te haere ki te wharepaku, me ētahi atu.
• Kai kua tunua (mēnā kei tawhiti koe i te kāinga) āwhina rānei ki te tunu kai (mēnā kei te kāinga koe).
• Te kawe ki tētahi whare tiaki tamariki, ki tētahi atu wāhi rānei.

He aha ngā painga o te tiaki wā okiokinga?

Mā te whakamahere i mua me te whiwhi tiaki whakatā, ka taea e koe te tino mohio kei a koe he ratonga pono ahakoa i roto i te āhuatanga ohorere. Kāore koe e hiahia ki te tere ki te kimi i tētahi, ki te whakatau wawe rānei. Ka taea e te tiaki whakatā ohorere te āwhina i a koe ki te puta i tētahi wā uaua kāore koe i whakaaro.

Haunga tēnei, he maha atu anō ngā painga ahurei o te tiaki whakatā mōu me te tangata e tiakina ana e koe.

Ngā painga mōu hei kaitiaki:

• Ka taea te wikitoria i te ngenge nui o te Kaitiaki mā te ngenge tinana, te ngenge hinengaro, me te ngenge kare ā-roto.
• Ka taea e koe te pupuri i ngā whanaungatanga me ētahi atu tāngata i roto i tōu ao.
• Ka taea e koe te whakatutuki i ētahi atu kawenga, pēnei i te mahi me ngā whakaritenga ki te tākuta.
• Ka taea e koe te whakangā, te haereere, te mahi rānei i tētahi mea kāore i a koe te wā ki te mahi.
• Ka kaha ake ō pūkenga tiaki (nā te mea kua okioki koe, kua whakahauora hoki).
• Ka taea e koe te ako i ngā tohutohu hou mai i ngā kaitiaki mātau i roto i ngā āhuatanga pēnei.

Ngā painga mō tō hoa aroha e whiwhi ana i te tiaki:

• Ka taea e koe te tūtaki ki ētahi atu he rite ō rātou wheako, ō rātou āhua hauora, ō rātou hiahia rānei.
• Ka taea e koe te kimi hoa hou.
• Ka taea e rātou te whai wāhi atu ki ngā mahi e rite ana ki ō rātou pūkenga.
• Ka māmā ake te urutau ki ngā taiao hou.
• E whiwhi ana rātou i te manaaki e ea ai ō rātou hiahia hauora.

E hia te utu mō tēnei? Mā wai e utu?

Tērā pea me utu e koe he moni motuhake mō tēnei ratonga. Heoi, i ētahi wā ka taea e koe te tiki āwhina mō tēnei:

• Āwhina mai i te kāwanatanga, i ngā mana whakahaere ā-rohe rānei (hei tauira, mā te Tari Ratonga Hapori).
• Ngā kaupapa here inihua hauora tūmataiti (tirohia mēnā kei roto i tō kaupapa here ēnei mea).
• Ngā whakahaere taumata hapori me ngā umanga ratonga tūao.

Tērā pea ka taea e koe te kimi āwhina pūtea mā roto i ngā whakahaere e āwhina ana i te hunga whai mate motuhake (hei tauira, te Mate a Alzheimer, te ALS rānei). He wāhi pai hei tīmata mā te whakapā atu ki ngā peka ā-rohe o aua whakahaere kia kitea ai he aha ngā momo āwhina e wātea ana, me pēhea hoki te uru atu ki aua āwhina.

Ko te mea nui ko te mārama ka taea e koe te tono āwhina, ā, kāore he he o tēnā.

Kia pēhea te roa ka taea e au te whiwhi i tēnei ratonga?

Ko te herenga matua mō te tini o te tangata ko te utu. I runga i tō kaha pūtea me te tautoko e whiwhi ana koe, ka taea pea e koe te whakarite i tēnei ratonga mō ētahi hāora, mō ētahi rā, mō ētahi wiki rānei. Kimihia te nui o te kapinga ka whakaratohia e te inihua hauora a tō hoa aroha. Mā tēnei koe e āwhina ki te whakamahere mō te roa o te wā ka taea e koe te whiwhi i tēnei ratonga.

Me pēhea te kimi i tētahi ratonga pēnei?

He maha ngā huarahi hei āwhina i a koe ki te kimi i tētahi ratonga pēnei:

• Pātai atu ki tō tākuta whānau. Tērā pea e mōhio ana rātou ki ngā wāhi e whakarato ana i ēnei ratonga.
• Pātai atu ki te āpiha ratonga hapori i te hōhipera, i te whare hauora rānei o te rohe.
• Pātai atu ki ngā whakahaere hapori me ngā wāhi karakia. Tērā pea e mōhio ana rātou ki ngā ratonga tūao, ki ngā ratonga iti te utu rānei.
• Rapua ngā mōhiohio i te ipurangi. Rapua mā te whakamahi i ngā kupu pēnei i te "Respite care Sri Lanka".
• Pātai atu ki te hunga kua whakamahi kē i ēnei ratonga. Ka tino whai hua ō rātou wheako ki a koe.

Ina kua taunga koe ki te tiaki i tētahi, he uaua pea te tuku i taua kawenga ki tētahi atu. Tērā pea nā te mea e mōhio ana koe ki tō hoa aroha, ki ōna hiahia hauora katoa, ki ōna mea e pai ana ki a ia, ki ōna mea e kino ana ki a ia. Tērā pea nā te mea kei te mataku koe kei hē tetahi mea i a koe e ngaro ana, ā, ka pouri koe mō te waiho i a ia ki te tiaki a tētahi atu. Ahakoa te take, kia mahara, kāore he tangata i te kaha rawa atu. Kāore e taea e te tangata te mahi i ngā mea katoa ko ia anake, ā, kāore he tangata e tumanako ana kia pērā koe.

Hei whakamutunga, ngā mea hei maumahara

He huarahi pai te manaaki wā poto hei whakarite kia whiwhi tō hoa aroha i te manaaki e hiahiatia ana e rātou, me te āwhina anō hoki i a koe ki te whakahaere i ngā kawenga maha i te wā kotahi. Heoi, ki te mea kei te āwangawanga koe mō ngā mea ka puta i a koe e ngaro atu ana, e kore e taea e koe te arotahi ki ētahi atu mahi, te whai wā okioki rānei.Koia te mea nui kia rangahau koe i mua i te whiriwhiri i tētahi ratonga tiaki manawa. Tirohia ngā wāhi pea (i roto i ētahi rā, ki te taea). Kōrero ki ngā kaitiaki. Pātai atu mō ngā whakangungu me ngā tohu mātauranga o ngā kaiwhakarato tiaki. Mā te nui ake o tō mōhio ki ēnei ratonga, ka nui ake tō whakamarie ki te whakaae āwhina hei tiaki i tō hoa aroha. Nā te mea, ina tae mai ki ngā mea pēnei, "he kāinga nui." Kāore koe i te mokemoke, tonoa he āwhina.

Manaaki Whakangā, manaaki nēhi, manaaki, hauora hinengaro, mate mau tonu, manaaki kaumātua, ngenge o te kaitiaki