Kodi munayamba mwamvapo kuti ndinu olemera, osungulumwa, komanso opanda kanthu moti simungathe kuchita chilichonse? N'zachibadwa kumva choncho. Simuli nokha, pali anthu ena ambiri omwe amakhala ndi malingaliro amenewa. Lero tikambirana za kupsinjika maganizo kumeneku, kapena kuvutika maganizo, komanso njira yapadera kwambiri yomwe ingatithandize kuthana ndi vutoli, yomwe ndi 'chithandizo cha anzawo'.
Kodi chithandizo cha anzawo n’chiyani kwenikweni?
Mwachidule, thandizo la anzanu ndi thandizo ndi kumvetsetsa komwe mumapeza kuchokera kwa munthu amene wakumana ndi mavuto omwewo omwe mukukumana nawo ndipo wawagonjetsa. Tangoganizirani momwe zimakhalira zolimbikitsa kulankhula ndi munthu amene wakhalapo pamene muli.
Othandizira anzawo ndi anthu omwe adakumana ndi mavuto amisala ndipo tsopano akuchira ndipo akuchita bwino. Amagwiritsa ntchito zomwe adakumana nazo kuthandiza ndikulimbikitsa ena omwe akukumana ndi mavuto omwewo ngati inu. Zili ngati munthu amene akudziwa njira yomwe ili patsogolo panu panjira yamdima, akukuwonetsani njira.
Pali njira zosiyanasiyana zopezera thandizo ili:
- Magulu Othandizira: Magulu omwe anthu angapo omwe ali ndi zokumana nazo zofanana amasonkhana kuti akambirane.
- Mlangizi Waumwini: Mutha kulankhulana maso ndi maso ndi mlangizi wodzipereka.
- Kudzera m'ma TV osiyanasiyana: Mutha kukumana ndi anthu awa m'zipatala ndi m'makliniki. Palinso mwayi wolumikizana pa intaneti kapena pafoni.
Kodi ubwino wapadera wa njira iyi ndi wotani?
Kafukufuku wapeza kuti anthu omwe amalandira chithandizo chamtunduwu amachira msanga komanso bwino kuposa ena chifukwa cha kuvutika maganizo. Tiyeni tiwone zina mwa zabwino zomwe izi zingakubweretsereni.
| Phindu | Kufotokozera Kosavuta |
|---|---|
| Kumva chiyembekezo | Maganizo abwino amabwera m'maganizo mwanu, "Ngati iye akanatha kupirira izi, inenso ndingathe." Nkhani zawo zenizeni zidzakulimbikitsani kwambiri. |
| Thandizo la maganizo | Ndi mphamvu yaikulu kukhala ndi munthu amene amamvetsetsa momwe mukumvera popanda kukuweruzani. Zimakupangitsani kumva ngati simuli nokha. |
| Thandizo lothandiza | Adzakuphunzitsani za njira zenizeni, zinthu zofunika, ndi zolinga zomwe zawathandiza, ndipo adzakuthandizaninso kukugwirizanitsani ndi anthu oyenera. |
| Kuchepetsa mtengo | Poyerekeza ndi njira zina zothandizira, iyi ndi njira yotsika mtengo yothandizira. Nthawi zambiri, izi ndi ntchito zodzifunira. |
Thandizo la anzanu ndi chinthu chamtengo wapatali kwambiri chomwe chimakuthandizani kuti muzisamalira bwino, mudzimvere kuti mukulamulira moyo wanu, komanso kuti mukhale ndi chiyembekezo.
Kusiyana pakati pa chithandizo cha anzawo ndi uphungu wa ntchito
Apa tifunika kumvetsetsa mfundo yofunika kwambiri : Chithandizo cha anzawo sichilowa m'malo mwa chithandizo chochokera kwa akatswiri monga dokotala wa matenda amisala kapena katswiri wa zamaganizo.
Thandizo la anzanu ndi thandizo lamtengo wapatali lomwe mumalandira kuwonjezera pa chithandizo chomwe dokotala wanu kapena katswiri wa zamaganizo amapereka. Sichilowa m'malo mwa chithandizo chamankhwala.
Tangoganizirani, dokotala akukupatsani mankhwala ndi chithandizo. Pakadali pano, pali munthu ngati mnzanu amene akukugwirani dzanja, kukulimbikitsani, ndikukuthandizani paulendo wanu. Umu ndi momwe njira ziwirizi zimagwirira ntchito limodzi. Chifukwa chake, zonse ziwiri ndizofunikira kwambiri paulendo wanu wochira.
Kodi ndingapeze bwanji thandizo lamtunduwu?
Ngakhale lingaliro ili likadali latsopano ku Sri Lanka, ntchito zotere zikukhazikika pang'onopang'ono. Omwe amapereka chithandizo amadziwika ndi mayina osiyanasiyana. Mwachitsanzo, `akatswiri a anzawo`, `aphunzitsi obwezeretsa anzawo`.
Chinthu chabwino komanso chotetezeka chomwe mungachite ndikulankhula ndi dokotala wa banja lanu kapena dokotala wa matenda amisala amene mukumuchiza.
- Angakutumizireni ku gulu lodalirika komanso loyenerera lothandizira anzanu kapena munthu aliyense payekha.
- Zipatala zina ndi zipatala za matenda amisala zingaperekenso mapulogalamu otere. Funsani dokotala wanu za iwo.
- Palinso magulu omwe amapereka chithandizo chapadera pa nkhani zinazake, monga kugwiritsa ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo.
Musamakhulupirire gulu lililonse pa intaneti.Nthawi zonse onetsetsani kuti mwapeza upangiri wa dokotala ndipo pitani kumalo oyenera.
Inunso mungathandize wina.
Ngati inunso mwachira ku matenda amisala ngati awa ndipo tsopano mukuchita bwino, inunso mutha kuthandiza ena. Pali mapulogalamu ophunzitsira ndi maphunziro a satifiketi omwe alipo. Ndi mwayi wabwino wosangalatsa moyo wa wina ndi zomwe mwakumana nazo.
Uthenga Wopita Nawo Kunyumba
- Matenda a kuvutika maganizo ndi vuto lofala. Simuyenera kulimbana nalo nokha.
- Thandizo la anzanu ndi thandizo ndi kumvetsetsa komwe mumalandira kuchokera kwa munthu amene adakumanapo ndi zomwezo ngati inu.
- Izi zikupatsani chiyembekezo, mpumulo wamaganizo, ndi upangiri wothandiza.
- Izi sizingalowe m'malo mwa chithandizo chamankhwala cha akatswiri, koma ndi chowonjezera chamtengo wapatali.
- Nthawi zonse funsani dokotala wanu kuti mupeze gulu lothandizira kapena munthu amene ali woyenera kwa inu.
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