Kodi nyumba yosokonezeka ikukulemetsani? Tiyeni tikambirane za njira ya 'KonMari'! (Njira ya Marie Kondo)

Kodi pali milu ya mabuku ndi mapepala patebulo m'chipinda chanu? Kodi nthawi zonse pamakhala zovala zambiri pampando? Mukatsegula kabati , kodi zinthu zimatuluka chimodzi ndi chimodzi? Zinthu zamtunduwu ndizodziwika bwino m'miyoyo yathu, sichoncho? Nthawi zina, ngakhale titaona chisokonezochi, timamva kutopa komanso kupsinjika. Kodi mukudziwa kuti chisokonezo chomwe chilipo chikugwirizana mwachindunji ndi chisokonezo chomwe chili m'maganizo mwathu? Ndicho chimene tikambirana lero.

Kodi Marie Kondo ndi ndani? N’chifukwa chiyani njira imeneyi ndi yotchuka kwambiri?

Marie Kondo ndi katswiri wa ku Japan pakukonzekera. Njira yake, njira ya 'KonMari', yatchuka kwambiri padziko lonse lapansi chifukwa ndi yosavuta komanso yopumulitsa. Iye anati, "Chofunika kwambiri ndikusankha chomwe musunge, osati chomwe muchotse."

Mwachidule, mfundo yaikulu ya njira yake ndi "kusunga zinthu zokha zomwe zimakusangalatsani mumtima mwanu." Kodi ndi zinthu zingati zomwe tili nazo m'nyumba ndi m'zipinda zathu zomwe sitigwiritsa ntchito, zomwe sizili ndi phindu kwa ife, komanso zomwe sizikutisangalatsa tikamaziyang'ana? Tikachotsa katundu wosafunikirawo ndikusunga zinthu zomwe ndi zamtengo wapatali kwa ife komanso zomwe zimatisangalatsa, timamva ufulu waukulu m'miyoyo yathu.

Kodi kuchotsa zinthu zosafunikira kuli bwino bwanji pa mitima yathu?

Tangoganizirani, chipinda chanu chili ndi zinthu zambiri. Zimakutengerani mphindi zochepa kuti mupeze chinthu chomwe mukufuna. Zimenezo zokha zimakupangitsani kukhala ndi nkhawa. Malo odzaza ndi zinthu ngati amenewa amakhudza mwachindunji maganizo athu.

Tikakonza malo athu, chomwe chimachitika ndichakuti maganizo athu nawonso amakhala okonzedwa. Tikachotsa zinthu zosafunikira, timakhala ndi malo ambiri oti tiganizire zinthu zofunika, ubale wathu, ndi zolinga zathu. Ndipo phindu lina ndilakuti mutha kupeza mosavuta zomwe mukufuna nthawi iliyonse!

Kodi mumapeza bwanji zomwe zimakubweretserani chisangalalo?

Chabwino, tsopano mwina mukuganiza kuti, "Ndingadziwe bwanji 'zinthu zomwe zimandibweretsera chisangalalo'?" Marie Kondo ali ndi njira yosavuta kwambiri yochitira izi.

Choyamba, sonkhanitsani zinthu zofanana pamalo amodzi. Mwachitsanzo, sonkhanitsani zovala zanu zonse pamalo amodzi. Kenako, tengani chovala chimodzi . Mukachinyamula, mumamva bwanji? Kodi mumamva kusangalala, kukonda, kutentha? Kapena simukumva chilichonse?

Ngati izi zikuvuta kuzimvetsa, ganizirani motere. Tengani mphatso kuchokera kwa mnzanu wapamtima, kapena chovala chomwe mumakonda kwambiri. Kumbukirani chisangalalo chomwe mumapeza mukachigwira. Chisangalalo chimenecho chiyenera kukhala muyezo womwe zinthu zina zonse zimayezera. Khalani oyamikira zinthu zomwe sizikubweretserani chisangalalo chamtunduwu, ndipo zisiyeni . Izi zikutanthauza kuzichotsa (perekani, zibwezereninso, kapena kuzitaya).

Kodi mumaphunzitsa bwanji ana zinthu zimenezi?

Funso lomwe ambiri a ife makolo timakhala nalo ndi lakuti, "Kodi timaphunzitsa bwanji ana athu za dongosololi?" Marie Kondo akunena kuti tiyenera kuphunzitsa ana athu izi osati ngati chilango, koma ngati masewera, ngati chizolowezi chabwino.

• Phunzitsani ana kuyamikira zinthu zawo: Aphunzitseni kuti zoseweretsa ndi mabuku awo ndi zamtengo wapatali. Aphunzitseni kuzigwiritsa ntchito mosamala ndi kuzilemekeza.
• Patsani chilichonse "nyumba": Perekani chidole chilichonse ndipo sungani malo osankhidwa, "nyumba." Akamaliza kusewera, thandizani mwana wanu kubweza zinthuzo "kunyumba" zawo.
• Gwirani ntchito limodzi:Chitani zinthu limodzi ndi mwana wanu, monga kupindika zovala ndi kuyika zoseweretsa panja. Marie Kondo akunena kuti amapindika zovala ndi ana ake aakazi awiri. "Sindikuyembekezera kuti apindike bwino zovala. Koma ndikufuna kuti akhale ndi malingaliro abwino okhudza kukhala aukhondo komanso kusamalira zinthu zawo."

Kodi nthawi zonse mumafuna kukhala aukhondo?

Mukawerenga zonsezi, mwina mukuganiza kuti, "Wow, kodi sikovuta kukhala wokonzeka nthawi zonse?" Yankho la Marie Kondo pa izi ndi lofunika kwambiri.

Iye anati, "Nditakhala mayi ndi mwana wanga woyamba, ndinakhumudwa kwambiri moti sindinkatha kusamalira nyumba yanga. Pambuyo pa mwana wanga wachiwiri, ndinalibe mphamvu zoganizira za izi! Umayi unandiphunzitsa kudzikhululukira. Chimwemwe chokhala kholo n'chokulirapo kuposa chisangalalo chokhala ndi nyumba yokonzedwa bwino."

Uthenga wochokera apa ndi wakuti dongosolo ndi lofunika. Koma siliyenera kukhala lolemetsa pa miyoyo yathu. Nthawi zina, zinthu zimatha kukhala zosokoneza. Zimenezo ndi zachilendo. Chofunika ndi kuwonjezera chimwemwe ndi mtendere m'miyoyo yathu m'malo moyesetsa kukhala angwiro.