Kodi nthawi zina mumamva chisoni, kusungulumwa, kapena kukwiya popanda chifukwa? Kodi mumavutika ndi malingaliro omwe amabwera m'maganizo mwanu? Tikudziwa momwe zimakhalira zovuta kuthana ndi malingaliro otere. Nthawi zambiri, izi zitha kukhala zizindikiro za matenda amisala, monga kupsinjika maganizo, nkhawa, kapena matenda a bipolar. Popeza zizindikiro za matendawa ndi zofanana kwambiri, zingakhale zovuta ngakhale kwa dokotala wanu kukuuzani nthawi yomweyo matenda omwe muli nawo. Chifukwa chake, lero tikambirana mafunso ofunikira omwe angakuthandizeni inu ndi dokotala wanu kumvetsetsa vuto lanu.
N’chifukwa chiyani kuli kofunika kuzindikira zizindikiro zimenezi molondola?
Mwachidule, chithandizo choyenera chimadalira matenda oyenera. Chithandizo chomwecho chimaperekedwa pa matenda a kuvutika maganizo monga momwe chimaperekedwa pa matenda a bipolar. Mutha kukhala ndi matenda awiri kapena angapo nthawi imodzi. Mwachitsanzo, nthawi zambiri mumakhala ndi nkhawa limodzi ndi kuvutika maganizo. Choncho mukalankhula momasuka komanso momveka bwino ndi dokotala wanu za zizindikiro zanu, angakuthandizeni kusankha chithandizo choyenera. Zili ngati kupereka mankhwala oyenera a matenda oyenera.
Tsopano tiyeni tiwone mafunso omwe muyenera kufunsa mukalankhula ndi dokotala za izi.
Mafunso ofunikira oti mufunse dokotala
Mukapita kukaonana ndi dokotala, ngati mukumbukira mafunso awa, mudzatha kupeza mayankho a nkhawa zambiri zomwe muli nazo.
1. Kodi zizindikiro za kuvutika maganizo ndi ziti?
Kufunsa funso ili kungakuthandizeni kumvetsetsa bwino za inu nokha. Mwina chinthu chomwe mwakhala mukuchiganizira kwa nthawi yayitali, "Kodi ichi ndi vuto?", kwenikweni ndi chizindikiro cha kuvutika maganizo. Mwachitsanzo:
- Palibenso chidwi ndi zinthu zomwe munkasangalala nazo kale.
- Chisoni ndi kupanda pake komwe kumadzaza mtima nthawi zonse.
- Kuchepetsa kapena kuwonjezera thupi kwambiri.
- Osagona, kapena kugona kwambiri.
- Kumva kutopa nthawi zonse.
Kulankhula ndi dokotala wanu za zinthu izi kudzamuthandiza kumvetsetsa bwino ndipo kudzakuthandizani kwambiri pa chithandizo.
2. Kodi zizindikiro za matenda a nkhawa ndi ziti?
Zimene mukumva zingakhale nkhawa. Nkhawa si mantha okha, ndi nkhawa yaikulu yomwe imakhudza luso lanu lochita zinthu tsiku ndi tsiku. Chofunika ndichakuti munthu akhoza kukhala ndi nkhawa limodzi ndi kuvutika maganizo. Zinthu ziwirizi zikamakhalapo nthawi imodzi, dongosolo la chithandizo lingasinthe. Choncho ndikofunikira kudziwa izi.
3. Kodi matenda a Bipolar ndi chiyani? Kodi zizindikiro zake ndi ziti?
Mu matenda otchedwa bipolar, maganizo anu amasinthasintha pakati pa zinthu ziwiri zovuta kwambiri. Nthawi ina, mumamva kusangalala kwambiri, kusangalala, komanso kukhala ndi mphamvu. Izi zimatchedwa mania . Nthawi ina, mumamva chisoni kwambiri komanso kupsinjika maganizo, monga momwe mumamvera mumtima.
Mukalankhula ndi dokotala wanu za zizindikiro izi, mudzamvetsa ngati pali zinthu zina zokwera ndi zotsika ngati izi m'moyo wanu.
Chithandizo cha matenda a bipolar ndi chosiyana kwambiri ndi chithandizo cha kuvutika maganizo nthawi zonse, choncho ndikofunikira kupeza matenda olondola.
Kuti zikhale zosavuta kumvetsetsa, tiyeni tiwone makhalidwe akuluakulu a zinthu zitatuzi mu tebulo.
| Mkhalidwe wamaganizo | Zizindikiro zomwe zimawonedwa kwambiri |
|---|---|
| Kuvutika maganizo | Chisoni cha nthawi yayitali, kutaya chidwi, kusowa mphamvu, kusintha kwa tulo ndi chilakolako, kudziona kuti ndi wosafunika. |
| Matenda Oda Nkhawa | Nkhawa yosalamulirika, kusakhazikika maganizo, kugunda kwa mtima kwambiri, kuvutika kupuma, mantha okhazikika kuti chinachake choipa chingachitike. |
| Matenda a Bipolar | Kusintha kwa maganizo: kusinthana pakati pa chisangalalo/mphamvu zopitirira muyeso (Kusangalala kwambiri) ndi chisoni/kupsinjika maganizo kwambiri (Kuvutika maganizo). |
Dziwani za chithandizo ndi tsogolo
Ndikofunikira kwambiri kumvetsetsa bwino za chithandizo komanso zizindikiro zake.
4. Kodi zizindikiro zimenezi zimachitika kangati?
Ndikofunikira kumvetsetsa momwe zizindikiro zanu zimakhalira. Mwachitsanzo, kodi zizindikirozi zimachitika kangati? Kodi zimachitika nthawi imodzi kapena m'magawo osiyana? Kodi zimakhudza bwanji zochita zanu za tsiku ndi tsiku? Ngati mulemba zinthuzi m'buku lanu, zingathandize dokotala wanu kudziwa zomwe zikuchitika ndi vuto lanu, makamaka ngati ndi vuto lovuta monga bipolar.
5. Kodi zizindikirozi zitha kuchira popanda chithandizo?
Kufunsa funsoli kumapatsa dokotala mwayi wolankhula za zoopsa zomwe zingachitike ngati sakufuna chithandizo. Anthu ena amaganiza kuti, "Zidzakhala bwino pakapita masiku ochepa."
Koma zoona zake n'zakuti, matenda ambiri amisalawa sachira popanda chithandizo. Amatha kuipiraipira pakapita nthawi. Choncho ndi bwino kufunafuna thandizo msanga.
6. Kodi ndiyenera kumwa mankhwala? Kodi pali njira zina?
Funso ili ndi lofunika kwambiri. Kudzera mu izi, mutha kuphunzira za njira zochiritsira.
- Mankhwala: Mankhwala omwe amathandiza kukhazika mtima pansi.
- Uphungu ndi Chithandizo: Kulankhula ndi munthu wina kuti akuthandizeni kuwongolera maganizo ndi malingaliro anu.
- Kuchita Maseŵera Olimbitsa Thupi: Kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi kumathandizanso kwambiri maganizo.
- Kusinkhasinkha: Kumathandiza kukhazika mtima pansi.
Kawirikawiri, zotsatira zabwino zimapezeka pogwiritsa ntchito njira imodzi kapena zingapo pamodzi.
7. Kodi ndiyamba liti kumva kusiyana?
Funso limeneli ndi lofunika kufunsa. Anthu ambiri amasiya kumwa mankhwala awo patatha sabata imodzi kapena ziwiri chifukwa amaganiza kuti "sakumva bwino." Mankhwala ena amatha kutenga milungu ingapo kuti agwire ntchito mokwanira. Chifukwa chake, ndi bwino kufunsa dokotala zomwe mungayembekezere kuchokera ku chithandizo chanu komanso nthawi yomwe chidzatenge.
8. Kodi ndingauze bwanji banja langa ndi anzanga za izi?
Kulankhula za matenda amisala sikophweka kwa anthu ena. Angaope kuti anthu ammudzi angawachotse kapena kuwamvetsa molakwika. Lankhulani ndi dokotala wanu za izi. Angakupatseni upangiri wa momwe mungafotokozere ena za vuto lanu. Kukhala ndi chithandizo cha banja lanu kungakuthandizeni kwambiri paulendo wanu wochira.
Uthenga Wopita Nawo Kunyumba
- Musanyalanyaze chisoni chanu, mkwiyo, kapena nkhawa zomwe muli nazo monga mwachizolowezi. Zingakhale chizindikiro chakuti muyenera kufunafuna thandizo.
- Musayese kudzifufuza nokha za vuto lanu. Onetsetsani kuti mwaonana ndi dokotala woyenerera.
- Musabise chilichonse mukamalankhula ndi dokotala. Muuzeni momveka bwino za chizindikiro chilichonse chomwe mukukumana nacho, ngakhale chitakhala chaching'ono bwanji.
- Chithandizo sichimangokhudza mankhwala okha. Chingaphatikizepo uphungu ndi kusintha moyo. Lankhulani ndi dokotala wanu za njira yabwino kwambiri yothandizira.
- Zimatenga nthawi kuti munthu achire. Khalani oleza mtima. Musasiye kulandira chithandizo. Ngati muli ndi vuto, lankhulani ndi dokotala wanu za vutoli. Simuli nokha.











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