N'zovuta kwambiri kupirira chisoni chomwe chimabwera tikataya bwenzi kapena wachibale. Kale, kutanthauza kuti, m'nthawi ya makolo athu, panali miyambo yabwino kwambiri yolimbikitsa banja panthawi ya chisoni chotere komanso kupereka mawu otonthoza. Wina ankapita kunyumba ya maliro, kuika nkhata ya maluwa, nthawi zina kukonza chakudya ndikuchipereka, ndikutumiza kalata yosonyeza mawu otonthoza. Zonsezi zinkapatsa mphamvu anthu omwe anali m'chisoni ndi kumva kuti sanali okha.
Koma zinthu zasintha kwambiri masiku ano. Pafupifupi chilichonse chimachitika kudzera pa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti tsopano. Munthu akamwalira, nthawi zambiri timayamba kuona nkhani pa Facebook kapena pa WhatsApp. Njirayi ili ndi ubwino ndi kuipa kwake. Popeza palibe malamulo omveka bwino oti titsatire popereka mawu otonthoza pa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti, nthawi zina ndemanga yomwe timayika kapena funso lomwe timafunsa lingapweteke kwambiri munthu wolira. Chifukwa chake, ndikofunikira kwambiri kuti tidziwe izi pang'ono.
Kodi malo ochezera a pa Intaneti athandiza kuti zikhale zosavuta kupereka mawu otonthoza?
Ndipotu, malinga ndi Jocelyn DeGroot, katswiri wolankhulana amene amafufuza izi, malo ochezera a pa Intaneti sanasinthe kwambiri momwe timasonyezera chisoni chathu. Anthu ankalembera makalata opita kwa okondedwa awo, kukondwerera masiku awo obadwa, komanso kukumbukira tsiku lomwe anamwalira. Chimene chikuchitika panopa n’chakuti zinthu zomwezo zikuchitika m’malo monga Facebook ndi Instagram.
Pali zabwino zambiri pa izi.
- Kudziwitsa aliyense nthawi imodzi: Tangoganizirani momwe zimakhalira zovuta kuyimbira aliyense foni ndikuwauza kuti, "Pepani kumva kuti mwamwalira" pamene mukulirabe. Mwa kuyika nkhaniyi pa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti kamodzi, aliyense amene akufunika kudziwa angamve. Ndi mpumulo waukulu.
- Thandizo lochokera ku gulu lalikulu: Pa nthawi ngati iyi, mawu otonthoza ndi ndemanga zomwe abwenzi omwe nthawi zambiri salankhula kwambiri zimapatsa banja mphamvu zambiri. Amamva ngati "tili nanu."
Koma kumbukirani, pamodzi ndi zabwino izi, palinso mwayi wambiri woti zinthu zichitike zomwe zingatipangitse kukhala osasangalala komanso kuvulaza malingaliro athu.
Kodi timalakwitsa chiyani popanda kuzindikira?
Popeza malo ochezera a pa Intaneti ndi malo otseguka, nthawi zina khalidwe la anthu lingapangitse munthu amene akulira kumva kuti alibe thandizo.
Choyamba ndi kufufuza zinthu zosafunikira.Pali anthu ena, si mabwenzi anu apamtima kwenikweni, koma ndi mabwenzi pa Facebook. Koma amaganiza kuti ali ndi ufulu wodziwa chilichonse. Amafunsa mafunso monga "Mwataya bwanji?", "Chavuta ndi chiyani?", "Chachitika ndi chiyani pamapeto pake?" monga ndemanga yomwe aliyense angaone.
Monga momwe Ms. DeGroot akunenera, "Ngati muli mabwenzi apamtima ndi munthuyo, mwina adakupatsani tsatanetsatane mwanjira ina (monga kuyimba foni) musanalankhule za Facebook. Ngati muyenera kuwafunsa pagulu kuti, 'Chachitika ndi chiyani?', zikutanthauza kuti si nkhani yanu."
Chinthu chachiwiri ndi kunena zinthu zosayenera komanso zopweteka . Anthu ambiri m'dera lathu saphunzitsidwa momwe angasonyezere chisoni moyenera. Choncho anthu ena amanena zinthu zopweteka mosazindikira. Mwachitsanzo, munthu akamwalira bambo ake, wina amati, "Inenso ndikumva ululu wanu, galu wanga nayenso anamwalira sabata yatha." Zimenezi zimapangitsa kuti imfa ya bambo ake ikhale yochepa. Zingawapweteke kwambiri.
| Zochita | Zosayenera kuchita |
|---|---|
| Perekani mawu anu otonthoza mwachidule komanso moona mtima. Chinachake chonga, "Pepani kumva za izi. Mupeze mphamvu." ndi chokwanira. | Musafunse chifukwa cha imfa kapena zinthu zina zosafunikira pagulu. |
| Gawani kukumbukira kwanu ndi munthu ameneyo. (Chitsanzo: "Anali munthu wokoma mtima kwambiri, ndikukumbukira tsiku lina...") | Musapereke uphungu monga, "Ali pamalo abwino tsopano," kapena "Ndi bwino kuchoka popanda kuvutika." |
| Ngati n'kotheka, tumizani foni kapena uthenga wa meseji kuwonjezera pa uthenga wa pa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti. | Musayerekeze chisoni chanu ndi chisoni cha munthuyo, ponena kuti ndi nkhani yosagwirizana ndi chochitikacho. |
| Funsani kuti, "Kodi pali chilichonse chomwe ndingakuthandizeni nacho?" | Samalani mukamagwiritsa ntchito emoji. Pewani kugwiritsa ntchito emoji yomwe imakusangalatsani kapena yosayenera. |
Ndiye, kodi tingasonyeze bwanji chisoni chathu?
Pali zinthu zosavuta zomwe tingachite pa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti kuti tithandize ena popanda kuwapweteka.
1. Lankhulani mwachidule komanso moona mtima
Simukusowa mawu akuluakulu kapena ziganizo zazitali. Kungonena mawu ngati akuti, "Pepani kwambiri kumva nkhaniyi. Izi ziyenera kuti zikukuvutani kuzipirira. Ndili pano ngati mukufuna kulankhula." Chofunika kwambiri ndikunena moona mtima.
2. Perekani uphungu, musadzitamande.
Izi ndizofunikira kwambiri. Anthu ena amaganiza kuti zomwe akunena zidzapangitsa kuti chisoni cha munthuyo chichoke. Musanene zinthu monga, "Ali pamalo abwino tsopano," "Chilichonse chidzakhala bwino pakapita nthawi," "Musalire, khalani olimba mtima." Monga momwe Mayi DeGroot akunenera, "Simungasangalatse aliyense. Muyenera kuwalola kumva chisoni chawo." Ntchito yathu si kupangitsa chisoni chawo kutha, koma kuwapangitsa kumva kuti sali okha pachisoni chawo.
3. Musakhale chete.
Mukhoza kungolankhula ndi munthuyo pa Facebook. Koma musanene chilichonse chifukwa choti simukufuna. Ngakhale kusiya kakalata kakang'ono, ndemanga ngati "Pepani chifukwa cha imfa yanu," kumathandiza kwambiri munthuyo panthawiyo. Chinthu chokhacho chabwino ndikumva kuti winawake akumuganizira.
Pomaliza, musalekere pamenepo chifukwa choti mwasiya ndemanga pa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti. Ndi chiyambi chabe. Ngati n'kotheka, imbani foni patatha masiku awiri kapena atatu. Siyani uthenga ndikufunsani kuti, "Muli bwanji?" Funsani kuti, "Kodi pali chilichonse chomwe ndingakuchitireni? Kodi muyenera kupita kusitolo? Kodi mukufuna thandizo ndi china chake kunyumba?" Monga momwe anthu athu ankaphikira chakudya cha maliro, kupereka chithandizo chochepa ndikofunikira kuposa ndemanga zana pa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti.
Uthenga Wopita Nawo Kunyumba
- Mukamapereka mawu otonthoza pa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti, fotokozani mwachidule, mophweka, komanso moona mtima. Palibe chifukwa chofotokozera zambiri.
- Pewani kufunsa chifukwa cha imfa kapena zinthu zina zaumwini pagulu. Zingakhale zochititsa manyazi kwambiri kwa munthuyo.
- Pewani kupereka uphungu monga, "Chilichonse chidzakhala bwino." M'malo mwake, aloleni kuti amve chisoni ndipo muwasonyeze kuti muli nawo.
- Ngakhale mutakhala kuti simuli pafupi ndi munthuyo, ngakhale uthenga waufupi wonena kuti “Pepani” ungakhale wolimbikitsa kwambiri kwa iye.
- Musamangolankhula za uthenga wongocheza nawo pa intaneti, koma ngati n'kotheka, sonyezani chithandizo chanu chochokera pansi pa mtima mwa kuyimba foni kapena kuthandiza pamasom'pamaso.
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