Kodi banja lanu likuyembekezera mwana watsopano? Kapena ndinu kale bambo watsopano ? Mosakayikira, kutanganidwa komanso nthawi zina kupsinjika komwe kumabwera ndi chisangalalo chimenecho kungakhale kovuta kwambiri. Tonse tikudziwa kuti mayi amalandira 'tchuthi cha amayi oyembekezera' akakhala ndi mwana. Ndi chinthu chofunikira. Koma kodi mwamvapo za tchuthi chofanana ndi cha abambo, chomwe ndi 'Tchuthi cha Abambo'? Lero tikulankhula za tchuthi ichi chomwe anthu ambiri salankhula kwambiri, koma chomwe chili chofunikira kwa amayi, abambo, ndi mwana.
Mwachidule, kodi tchuthi cha abambo ndi chiyani?
Ndi zophweka kwambiri. Tchuthi cha Ubambo ndi nthawi yopuma pantchito yomwe bambo watsopano amapeza kuti azikhala ndi mkazi wake ndi mwana wake wakhanda. Monga momwe mayi amapezera tchuthi cha amayi oyembekezera kuti asamalire mwana wake ndikuchira akabereka.
Tchuthi ichi chingakhale cholipidwa kapena chosalipidwa. Chiwerengero cha masiku omwe mudzalandire chidzadalira bungwe lomwe mumagwira ntchito, malamulo a dzikolo, ndi zina zotero. Komabe, cholinga chachikulu cha izi ndikukupatsani mwayi wokhala ndi banja lanu monga bambo panthawi yofunika kwambiri komanso yotanganidwa kwambiri pamoyo wanu.
N’chifukwa chiyani tchuthichi chili chofunika kwambiri kwa bambo?
Ena angaganize kuti, "Amayi akusamalira mwana , n’chifukwa chiyani abambo ali ndi nthawi yopuma?" Koma si zoona. Ubwino wa tchuthi ichi ndi waukulu kwambiri kuposa momwe mungaganizire. Tiyeni tiwone ubwino umenewo.
| Ubwino waukulu | Kodi chimachitika ndi chiyani? |
|---|---|
| Zithandiza amayi kuchira msanga. | Kubereka si chinthu chophweka. Zimatengera nthawi kuti mayi achire, mwakuthupi komanso m'maganizo. Pakadali pano, kukhala pafupi ndi bambo ndikuthandiza ntchito zapakhomo komanso kusamalira mwana ndi gwero lalikulu la mphamvu kwa mayi. Thandizo limenelo limamuthandiza kuchira msanga. |
| Ubwenzi wapakati pa bambo ndi mwana umalimba. | Masabata ndi miyezi ingapo yoyambirira ya moyo wa mwana ndi nthawi yamtengo wapatali kwambiri yolumikizana ndi makolo ake. Ngati bambo alephera nthawi imeneyi, zingakhale zovuta kumanga ubale umenewo pambuyo pake. Bambo amene amachita nawo ntchito zimenezi kuyambira pachiyambi, monga kusambitsa, kudyetsa, ndi kutonthoza mwana, amapanga ubale pakati pa mwanayo ndi bambo womwe sudzasweka. |
| Ndizabwino kwambiri pa thanzi la mwana. | Kusamalira mwana wakhanda ndi udindo waukulu. Makolo onse awiri akamagwira ntchito limodzi posamalira mwana, chisamaliro ndi chisamaliro chomwe mwana amalandira zimawonjezeka kawiri. Izi zimakhudza mwachindunji thanzi ndi chitetezo cha mwana. Kafukufuku wapeza kuti mayiko omwe amapereka tchuthi cha makolo ali ndi chiwerengero chochepa cha imfa za makanda. |
| N'zosavuta kuti amayi abwerere kuntchito. | Pamene chithandizo cha abambo chatha, mayi nthawi zambiri amasiya ntchito yake yonse. Koma bambo akagawana maudindo apakhomo msanga, mayi amatha kubwerera kuntchito molimba mtima atatha tchuthi cha amayi oyembekezera. Izi ndi zabwino pazachuma cha banja lonse. |
Kodi malamulo ali bwanji pankhani imeneyi ku Sri Lanka?
Chabwino, tsopano tiyeni tiwone malamulo a izi m'dziko lathu. Chifukwa mosiyana ndi America, dziko lathu lili ndi njira yosiyana yochitira izi.
Kawirikawiri, pali kusiyana pang'ono pankhani ya tchuthichi m'maboma ndi m'mabungwe achinsinsi ku Sri Lanka.
Makampani Achinsinsi
Ngati mumagwira ntchito ku kampani yachinsinsi, pali nkhani yabwino kwa inu. Malinga ndi kusintha kwa malamulo komwe kudachitika mu 2018, bambo aliyense wogwira ntchito m'makampani achinsinsi ku Sri Lanka akhoza kupempha mwalamulo masiku 5 a tchuthi cholipidwa mkazi wake akabereka mwana.
Chofunika kwambiri: Tchuthi ichi chiyenera kutengedwa mkati mwa miyezi itatu kuchokera pamene mwana wabadwa. Komanso, izi sizichepetsa tchuthi chanu china (Tchuthi chapachaka kapena Chosakhalitsa). Ichi ndi tchuthi chowonjezera chomwe mumalandira.
Gawo la Boma
Ngati ndinu wantchito wa boma, nthawi zambiri pamakhala njira yomwe imapereka masiku atatu ogwira ntchito opuma pantchito pobereka mwana. Komabe, izi zitha kusiyana pang'ono malinga ndi bungwe lililonse komanso malinga ndi zikalata zovomerezeka. Chifukwa chake, ndi bwino kufunsa dipatimenti yoyang'anira bungwe lanu kuti mudziwe tanthauzo lenileni la izi.
Nanga bwanji ngati masiku a tchuthi awa sakundikwanira?
Masiku asanu sangakhale okwanira. Mungaganize kuti si nthawi yokwanira kuti muzolowere moyo wanu watsopano ndikuthandizira mkazi wanu. Ngati zili choncho, pali zinthu zingapo zomwe mungachite:
1. Kambiranani pasadakhale: Kambiranani ndi bwana wanu kapena manejala wa HR za izi nthawi yomweyo mwana asanabadwe . Fotokozani momwe zinthu zilili ndipo kambiranani ngati mungathe kutenga masiku ena opuma.
2. Gwiritsani ntchito tchuthi china: Yesani kutenga tchuthi chotalikirapo pang'ono powonjezera tchuthi chanu cha pachaka kapena tchuthi chosakhalitsa panthawiyi.
3. Tchuthi Chopanda Malipiro: Ngati kuli kofunikira, lankhulani ndi kampani kuti muwone ngati mungapeze tchuthi chosalipidwa cha masiku angapo.
Chofunika kwambiri ndikukonzekera chilichonse pasadakhale ndikukambirana momasuka ndi kampani. Kenako nonse mutha kupeza yankho lomwe ndi losavuta kwa onse awiri.
Udindo wanu monga bambo umayamba tsiku loyamba lomwe mwana wanu wabadwa. Monga momwe mumapezera ndalama, kukhala ndi nthawi ndi banja lanu panthawi yofunikayi ndi gawo la udindo umenewo. Choncho gwiritsani ntchito bwino nthawi yopumayi ndipo perekani chikondi, chisamaliro, ndi chithandizo chokwanira kwa mkazi wanu ndi mwana wanu.
Uthenga Wopita Nawo Kunyumba
- Tchuthi cha Ubambo ndi tchuthi chapadera chomwe chimakupatsani mwayi, monga bambo watsopano, kukhala ndi mwana wanu ndi mkazi wanu.
- Tchuthi ichi ndi chofunikira kwambiri pa thanzi la mayi, ubale wa bambo ndi mwana, thanzi la mwana, komanso banja lonse.
- Ku Sri Lanka, bambo m'mabungwe achinsinsi ali ndi ufulu wololedwa kukhala ndi masiku 5 a tchuthi cholipidwa mwana akangobadwa.
- Lankhulani ndi dipatimenti ya HR ya kampani yanu kuti mudziwe za mfundo zinazake komanso kuthekera kotenga tchuthi chowonjezera chomwe chimagwira ntchito ku bungwe lanu.
- Musaphonye nthawi yofunika kwambiri iyi m'moyo wanu. Monga bambo, chithandizo chanu n'chofunika kwambiri pa banja panthawiyi.
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