Ese twavuga ku bana bafite ibibazo byihariye?

Buri mwana ni umwihariko, sibyo? Twese tubibona. Ariko se koko tuba dushaka kuvuga iki iyo tuvuze "umwana ufite ibibazo byihariye"? Mu magambo make, ibi bivuga ku mwana wese ukeneye ubufasha bw'inyongera bitewe n'ikibazo cy'ubuvuzi, imitekerereze, cyangwa imyigire. Aba bana bivugwa ko bafite ibibazo byihariye kuko bashobora gukenera imiti, imiti, cyangwa ubufasha bw'inyongera ku ishuri - ibintu abandi bana badakunze gukenera, cyangwa rimwe na rimwe.

"Ibikenewe byihariye" ni iki mu by'ukuri? Reka turebere hamwe.

Tekereza ku bintu byinshi bikubiye mu magambo "ibikenewe byihariye." Ni nk'umutaka munini, ufite imbogamizi nyinshi n'uburyo bwo gufashwa. Hari igihe ibi bikenewe bigaragara, ubundi bikaba bitagaragara neza, kandi umuntu uzi umwana neza ni we wenyine ushobora kubyumva.

Ni nde ukeneye ubu bufasha bwihariye? Reka turebe ingero zimwe na zimwe.

Twavuze ko ibikenewe byihariye bishobora kuba amoko atandukanye. Noneho reka turebe ibyo ari byo.

• Abana bakeneye ubufasha bw'umubiri:

Ushobora kuba warabonye inshuti zawe ku ishuri zikoresha amagare y'abamugaye cyangwa zifite imishumi yihariye yo guterura amaguru iyo bagenda. Abo bana bafite ibyo bakeneye byihariye. Ntabwo bakeneye ibyo bikoresho gusa, ahubwo bashobora no gukenera aho gushyira ingazi, ndetse n'ahandi hantu, ascenseur. Bashobora kandi gukenera bisi yihariye yo kubajyana ku ishuri - ishobora kubazamura muri bisi kuko bagorwa no kuzamuka ingazi. Ibi ni byo twita ibyo bakeneye bigaragara .

• Abana bakeneye ubufasha bitewe n'indwara zimwe na zimwe:

Hari abana bafite indwara z'igihe kirekire. Urugero, tekereza ku mwana urwaye igicuri cyangwa umwana urwaye diyabete. Bafite kandi ibyo bakeneye byihariye. Bashobora gukenera imiti cyangwa ubundi bufasha kugira ngo bagere ku munsi wabo. Bashobora gukenera kwitondera cyane ibyo kurya cyangwa kunywa, cyangwa bashobora gukenera gufata imiti mu bihe bimwe na bimwe by'umunsi. Ibi biri mu cyiciro cy'ibyo bakeneye by'ubuzima byihariye .

• Abana bafite ibibazo byo kutabona, kumva, cyangwa kuvuga:

Abana bafite ubumuga bwo kutabona bashobora gukenera porogaramu zihariye, tableti, cyangwa mudasobwa kugira ngo basome ibitabo. Mu buryo nk'ubwo, abana bafite ubumuga bwo kutumva bashobora gukenera ibikoresho byo kumva. Bashobora kandi gukenera ibintu nk'ubuvuzi bwo kuvuga kuko bashobora kugorwa no kuvuga amagambo neza kuko batumva neza. Ibyo byitwa ibyo kumva .

• Abana bakeneye ubufasha bwihariye mu myigire:

Hari abana bafite imbogamizi zidasanzwe mu myigire. Ibyo tubyita ubumuga bwo kwiga. Urugero, umwana urwaye Down syndrome ashobora kuba ari mu ishuri ryawe mu ishuri risanzwe. Ariko kubera ko afite ibyo akeneye byihariye mu myigire, ashobora gukenera umufasha mu ishuri kugira ngo abafashe. Aba bana bafite ibyo bakeneye byihariye mu myigire .

• Abana batagaragara ariko bakeneye ubufasha:

Ushobora kuba ushobora kumenya abana bake bafite ibibazo byihariye ubanje kubareba, ariko ushobora kuba utabasha kubamenya bose. Tekereza umwana ufite impungenge, bivuze ko ahora ahangayika bitari ngombwa. Nta buryo wari kubimenya iyo umwana atabikubwira. Ariko mu ibanga, ababyeyi b'umwana, abarimu, n'abajyanama bashobora kuba bamufasha kugabanya impungenge z'umwana. Hariho kandi n'ibyo akeneye mu mitekerereze no mu myitwarire .

Mu magambo make, ikibazo cyihariye ni igihe cyose umwana akeneye ubufasha bw'inyongera, inkunga, cyangwa ubundi buryo bwo gukora ibintu nk'iby'abandi bana bo mu kigero cye.

Ubuzima bw'umwana ufite ibibazo byihariye bumeze bute?

Ubuzima rimwe na rimwe bushobora kugorana gato ku mwana ufite ibibazo byihariye. Gukora imirimo ya buri munsi - urugero, gusoma igitabo, cyangwa kujya ku ishuri cyangwa guhaha umwana ufite ubumuga bw'umubiri - bishobora kugorana kurusha abandi.

Ariko, hari inkuru nziza hano! Ababyeyi, abaganga, abaforomo, abaganga, abarimu n'abandi benshi bariho kugira ngo bafashe aba bana. Buri wese ashyiraho imbaraga ze kugira ngo aba bana babeho mu bwisanzure kandi bishimye uko bishoboka kose . Ibyo bivuze kubaha ubushobozi bwo gukora akazi kabo bwite.

Tekereza umwana witwa Niluka akoresha intebe y'abamugaye. Biramugora kujya mu igorofa ryo hejuru ry'ishuri. Ariko iyo ishuri rimuhaye icyumba cyo kwigiramo mu igorofa ryo hasi kandi rikubaka aho bikenewe, abona amahirwe yo kwiga no gukina nk'abandi bana. Ibyo ni ko bigenda iyo afashijwe.

Twafasha dute izi nshuti?

Abandi bana nabo bashobora gufasha cyane abo babyeyi bafite ibibazo byihariye. Babikora bate?

Ba inshuti magara!

Iki ni cyo kintu cy'ingenzi kurusha ibindi . Umwana ukoresha intebe y'abamugaye cyangwa ufite ikindi kibazo cy'ubuzima akeneye inshuti nk'uko nawe ubikora. Na we aba ashaka gukina, kuganira no guseka n'abandi.

Ariko rimwe na rimwe bishobora kugorana guhura n'abantu bashya no kugira inshuti. Bamwe mu bana batabyumva bashobora kubaseka, bakabaca akato, ndetse bakabababaza.

Niba hari umuntu useka, utoteza, cyangwa ushyira mu kaga umwana ufite ibibazo byihariye, nyamuneka ubwire umwarimu cyangwa umuntu mukuru ibyawe.Irungu wumva iyo uri wenyine gutyo rirababaza cyane.

Niba hari umwana ufite ibibazo byihariye mu ishuri ryawe, ku ishuri ryawe, cyangwa mu gace utuyemo, ushobora kumuganiriza, kumusetsa, gukina na we, no kumwereka izindi nshuti zawe.

Ibuka ibi mugihe ufasha.

Niba uzi umuntu ufite ibibazo byihariye, ni byiza kugerageza kumufasha.

• Ushobora kubabaza niba bakeneye ubufasha bwo gutwara ibitabo byabo.
• Nshobora gufasha gufungura umuryango.
• Mushobora gusangira hamwe no kuganira mu gihe cyo kurya.

Ariko, hari ikintu cy'ingenzi ugomba kwibuka hano. Ni ukuvuga ngo "ntukajye gufasha cyane" mu gihe ubufasha budakenewe. Kuki ari uko bimeze? Kuko, kimwe nawe, abana bafite ibibazo byihariye bakunda gukora ibishoboka byose ubwabo, kugira ngo bigenge.

Tekereza ko inshuti yawe Ravi ikoresha inkoni nto mu kugenda. Niba ashobora kwitwaza isakoshi ye wenyine, bishobora kukubabaza gukomeza kumubaza uti "Ese nshobora kuyifata?" Ahubwo, ni byiza kumubaza uti "Ravi, nshobora kugufasha?" mu gihe asa n'aho ahanganye n'ibibazo bikomeye.

Buri gihe ubaze uti “Ese ukeneye ubufasha ubwo aribwo bwose?” Nibavuga “oya,” jya ubwubaha.

Amaherezo, ikintu cy'ingenzi kurusha ibindi: ubwumvikano n'ubucuti

Bumwe mu buryo bwiza bwo gufasha abana bafite ibibazo byihariye ni ukubaka ubucuti nyakuri nabo. Iyo umaranye umwanya nabo, iyo uganiriye nabo, utangira gusobanukirwa uko bumva ubuzima, imbogamizi bahura nazo.

Hanyuma ushobora kubafasha mu buryo bakeneye by'ukuri, ukabasobanukirwa. Kandi, urabizi? Ubikoze, uba wujuje icyifuzo cyihariye buri muntu wese afite: icyifuzo cy'inshuti nziza .

Wibuke ko buri mwana ari uw'agaciro, buri mwana akwiye urukundo, kwemerwa, n'amahirwe. Ibikenewe byihariye si impamvu yo gutererana umuntu, ahubwo ni ukwibutsa ko twese dukeneye gufasha no kumvikana no kubana.

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