Muri iki gihe, abantu benshi, cyane cyane abashakanye bakiri bato, barimo gusubika gutangiza umuryango igihe runaka bitewe n'amashuri yabo, iterambere mu kazi, n'ibindi. Dukunze kumva ibitekerezo nka "Reka dutegereze indi myaka mike," "Reka twishimire ubuzima gato," "Reka dutekereze ku kubyara nyuma yuko dutuye." Nta kibazo kiri muri ibi. Ariko, hari ibintu bimwe na bimwe by'umubiri tugomba kumenya neza mu gihe dufata iki cyemezo. Reka tubiganireho uyu munsi.
Ese biratinze cyane kubyara umwana? Ese imyaka ifite akamaro koko?
Iki ni cyo kibazo gikomeye abantu benshi bibaza. Igisubizo gito ni uko, yego, imyaka ari ikintu cy'ingenzi cyane, cyane cyane ku bagore.
Tekereza kuri ibi. Sandamali yari umuforomo wakoraga mu mavuriro y’imyororokere. Ntiyigeze atekereza ko kubyara umwana we byamubera ikibazo. Kubera ko we n'umugabo we bari bahugiye mu mirimo yabo, bahisemo kugerageza kubyara umwana uri mu kigero cy'imyaka 30. Ariko nyuma y'amezi menshi bagerageza, Sandamali ntiyashoboye gusama. Amaherezo, inzobere yababwiye ikintu batari biteze. Ni uko ubwiza bw'intanga ze bwagabanutse uko imyaka igenda ishira, bigatuma bigorana gutwita.
Hanyuma, ku myaka 37, bagerageje gukoresha uburyo bwa "in vitro fertilization" (IVF) . Nubwo Sandamali yashoboye gusama, yakuyemo inda kubera ubuziranenge bw'igi. Amaherezo, aho gukomeza kugerageza no kubabara inda no kwiheba, bahisemo gushaka ubundi buryo. Uyu munsi, bafite umubano mwiza n'abahungu babiri beza barera.
Isomo rikomeye dushobora gukura mu nkuru ya Sandamali ni uko uko twamenya kose n'uko twateganya kose, tudashobora kugenzura isaha y'umubiri wacu uko tubyifuza.
Nk’uko bivugwa n’Umuryango w’Abanyamerika wita ku buvuzi bw’imyororokere, bibiri bya gatatu by’abagore bashobora gutakaza ubushobozi bwo gusama mu buryo busanzwe bafite imyaka 40. Impamvu nyamukuru ibitera ni ukugabanuka k’ubwiza bw’igi n’impinduka mu mikorere y’intanga ngore.
Ndetse n'abaganga b'abagore n'abaganga b'abagore bavuga ko bahangayikishijwe cyane n'abagore baza aho bari bafite imyaka 38, 39 bakavuga bati "Tuzabyara mu myaka ibiri." Kubera ko baba bakina batabizi bafite ibyago byinshi. Nubwo intanga ziba zisanzwe, ubwiza bw'izo ntanga buba buke, bityo amahirwe yo kudasama cyangwa gukuramo inda ni menshi cyane.
Ikibabaje ni uko nta kizamini cyo kwa muganga gishobora kukubwira neza "Nsigaje igihe kingana iki?" Rero, abaganga bavuga ko igihe cyiza cyo kubyara abana mu buryo bw'umubiri ari mu myaka 20 .
Ni ubuhe buryo bwo kuboneza urubyaro bugezweho?
Mu gihe cyo guteganya urubyaro, hari uburyo bwinshi bwiza bwo kuboneza urubyaro buboneka muri iki gihe, haba ku bashaka gutinda kubyara ndetse no ku bashaka gutandukanya abana babo. Ni byiza kuvugana na muganga wawe kuri ibi hanyuma ugahitamo uburyo bukubereye. Dore bumwe mu buryo buzwi cyane buhari muri iki gihe.
| Uburyo bwo kuboneza urubyaro | Mu magambo make ... |
|---|---|
| Igikoresho cyo mu nda ya nyina (IUD) | IUD ikoreshwa mu gihe cy'imyaka 5. Ni agakoresho gato kameze nk'aka T gashyirwa mu mura kagasohora imisemburo buhoro buhoro. |
| Urushinge rwa buri kwezi | Inshinge nka Lunelle zirimo imisemburo ya estrogen na progesterone . Ibi biroroshye ku bantu bibagiwe gufata ibinini buri munsi. Ariko, ugomba kujya kwa muganga buri minsi 28-30 kugira ngo uhabwe inshinge. |
| Agapapuro ko kuboneza urubyaro | Uduce nka Ortho Evra dusohora imisemburo mu mubiri binyuze mu ruhu. Uduce tugomba guhindurwa rimwe mu cyumweru. Ubusanzwe dushobora kwambarwa munsi y'imyenda, nko ku nda cyangwa igice cyo hejuru cy'umubiri. |
| Impeta yo mu gitsina | Impeta nto, yoroshye, nka NuvaRing, ishyirwa mu gitsina cy'umugore. Isohora imisemburo mike mu gihe cy'iminsi 21. Hanyuma irakurwamo hanyuma hagashyirwamo indi nshya nyuma y'ikiruhuko cy'iminsi 7. |
Ese intera iri hagati y'abana n'ingano y'umuryango ifite icyo ivuze?
Iki kandi ni ikintu ababyeyi benshi batekerezaho. Umubare w'abana bagomba kubyara n'uburyo bwo kubashyira mu byiciro ni icyemezo gitandukanye bitewe n'umuryango.
Icyuho kiri hagati y'abana
Inzobere mu by’imitekerereze y’abana zivuga ko intera y’imyaka 3 kugeza kuri 3 1/2 ari nziza cyane hagati y’abana babiri.
- Impamvu ni iyihe? Umwana w'imyaka ibiri akunze kumva yishingikirije ku babyeyi be kandi nta mutekano afite ku bana be. Muri icyo gihe, umwana mushya avutse mu muryango ashobora gutera amahane n'ishyari ku mwana mukuru.
- Ariko iyo abana bageze ku myaka 3, baba bafite ubumenyi runaka. Barushaho kumenyera gusangira urukundo n'ubwitonzi bw'ababyeyi babo n'undi muntu.
Mu rwego rw'ubuvuzi, ubushakashatsi bwakozwe n'Ikigo gishinzwe kurwanya no gukumira indwara cya Amerika (CDC) bwagaragaje ko igihe cy'amezi 18 kugeza kuri 23 hagati y'ivuka ry'umwana umwe no gusama undi ari ingirakamaro cyane ku buzima bw'umwana ukiri muto. Abana batwite muri iki gihe baba bafite amahirwe make yo kuvuka bafite ibiro bike kandi bakavuka imburagihe.
Amaherezo, abagore benshi muri iki gihe barareka kugerageza kuba "supermom" kandi bagerageza kubaho ubuzima bwiza no gushyira imbere imiryango yabo. Bamaze kubona akamaro ko kubaho ubuzima buringaniye aho kugerageza gukora ibintu byose icyarimwe no kunaniza bo ubwabo n'imiryango yabo.
Ubutumwa bwo kujyana mu rugo
- Mu gihe cyo guteganya urugo, cyane cyane imyaka y'umugore ni ikintu cy'ingenzi cyane.
- Gutinda kubyara kugeza mu myaka 30 cyangwa 40 bishobora kugabanya cyane ubushobozi bwawe bwo gusama mu buryo busanzwe ndetse n'uburumbuke bwawe.
- Hari uburyo bwinshi bwiza kandi butandukanye bwo kuboneza urubyaro buhari muri iki gihe. Menya neza ko uganira na muganga wawe uburyo bwiza kuri wewe n'uwo mwashakanye.
- Gukomeza intera ikwiye hagati y'abana bigira ingaruka nziza ku buzima bw'umwana mushya mu muryango, ndetse no ku buzima bwo mu mutwe bw'umwana mukuru.
- Umubiri wa buri wese n'imibereho ye biratandukanye, bityo ni ngombwa gusaba inama kwa muganga wawe cyangwa umuganga wawe ku bijyanye n'imimerere yawe bwite aho kwishingikiriza gusa ku makuru rusange aboneka kuri interineti.
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