Roshan (w'imyaka 35) n'umugore we Dinusha (w'imyaka 32) baje kwa muganga wanjye kwisuzumisha bisanzwe kuwa kane ushize. Bombi bari mu gacerere gakomeye. Nabonye ko hari intambara y'ubukonje igaragara hagati yabo.
Ubwo nababajije ibijyanye n'ubuzima bw'umuryango wabo, Roshan yaravuze ati: "Dr. Priya, nyuma yo kubyara umwana wacu wa kabiri, ubuzima bwacu bw'ishyingiranwa bwahindutse urutonde gusa. Bitewe n'ibibazo by'amafaranga n'akazi k'abana, nta mwanya dufite wo kugaragarizanya urukundo. Duhora turwana." Dinusha yarabyemeye, agira ati: "Nta nkunga mbona iturutse kuri Roshan, Muganga, ahora anshinja."
Nabatuje ndabasobanurira nti: "Roshan na Dinusha, abantu benshi batekereza ko ishyingiranwa rigomba kugira icyo rigeraho mu gihe cyo kwiyamamaza. Ariko ishyingiranwa rigira icyo rigeraho by'ukuri ni ikintu gisaba ubwitange n'itumanaho bihoraho. Hari inkingi eshatu z'ingenzi z'ishyingiranwa: Urukundo , Kubahana , n'inshingano . Uyu munsi, reka tuganire ku bibazo bikunze kugaragara mu buzima bw'ishyingiranwa n'uburyo bwo kubikemura neza mu mitekerereze."
🚨 Ibimenyetso bidasanzwe bisaba ubufasha bwihuse bw'inzobere/ubw'imitekerereze
Ni ibisanzwe kugira ukutumvikana mu buzima bw'abashakanye. Ariko, niba ibimenyetso bikurikira bigaragaye, ugomba guhita ugisha inama umujyanama mu by'ishyingiranwa cyangwa indwara zo mu mutwe:
- Kuba hari ubwoko ubwo aribwo bwose bw'ihohoterwa rishingiye ku mubiri, mu magambo cyangwa mu mutwe (Ihohoterwa ryo mu ngo / Ihohoterwa).
- Kugerageza k'umwe mu bafatanyabikorwa kugenzura burundu imari y'undi cyangwa ubwisanzure bwe bwite (Gucunga Uburenganzira).
- Umukunzi uhora afite ihungabana rikomeye cyangwa ibitekerezo byo kwiyahura bitewe n'ibibazo byo mu muryango.
- Gucukura amabuye ni igihe umwe mu bafitanye isano yirinda burundu itumanaho iyo agerageza kuganira ku kibazo runaka.
Impamvu zikunze gutera gusenyuka kw'ishyingiranwa
- Kwikunda: Gutekereza gusa ku byo ukeneye no kwirengagiza amarangamutima y'uwo mwashakanye.
- Kutaganira neza: Kutaganira mu buryo bweruye no gupfukirana ibibazo mu mutima hanyuma bigaturika.
- Imihangayiko mu by'amafaranga: Kunanirwa gutegura neza amafaranga y'umuryango n'amafaranga winjiza.
- Ubusinzi bw'inzoga cyangwa gukina urusimbi: Ikintu cyangiza burundu imari y'umuryango ndetse n'amahoro yo mu mutwe.
- Ubukure: Kwitwara nk'umwana, kutumva inshingano n'ibibazo bizanwa no gushyingiranwa.
- Gushakisha amakosa: Guhora unenga amakosa y'umukunzi wawe gusa, utishimiye ibyiza akora.
Intambwe nziza zo kugera ku ishyingiranwa ryiza
Amabwiriza meza ashobora gukurikizwa mu buryo bw'imitekerereze kugira ngo ishyingiranwa rigire icyo rigeraho ni aya akurikira:
1.Imenye: Uko urushaho gusobanukirwa amarangamutima yawe n'intege nke zawe, niko urushaho gusobanukirwa amarangamutima y'umukunzi wawe.
2. Shyiraho intego n'ibyo mukunda: Shyiraho umwanya nibura rimwe mu cyumweru wo gukora ibikorwa mushobora gukorera hamwe (urugero: gutembera hamwe, ibintu mukundana).
3. Kugaragaza urukundo ndetse na nyuma yo gushyingiranwa: Ntureke urukundo rushira nyuma yo gushyingiranwa. Tanga impano nto, garagaza urukundo, kandi mujyane mu birori byo gusohokana.
4. Kubabarira: Aho guhora ugaruka ku makosa no kurwana, gerageza kubabarira ubikuye ku mutima no kwikosora.
Kugereranya uburyo bwiza bwo kuganira mu ishyingiranwa
| Itumanaho ryananiwe (guhunga) | Itumanaho ryiza (rimenyere) |
|---|---|
| Gushinja: "Ni wowe nyirabayazana w'ibi bibazo byose!" | Kugaragaza amarangamutima: "Mfite impungenge nyinshi kuri iki kibazo. Twagikemura dute?" |
| Gufata umuntu bucece: Kwirinda kuvuga iminsi myinshi. | Gusaba umwanya: "Sinshobora kuvugana ubu, ese twaganira kuri ibi ejo mu gitondo?" |
| Kwibuka ibyahise: Kuvuga amakosa yose ya kera mu gihe cy'imirwano. | Kwibanda ku kibazo kiriho ubu gusa: Kwibanda ku kibazo kiriho ubu gusa no gushaka ibisubizo. |
| Kutumva: Kureba kuri telefoni cyangwa kumuca mu ijambo mu gihe mugenzi wawe arimo kuvuga. | Gutega amatwi witonze: Kwita ku byo umukunzi wawe avuga no kugerageza kumva ikibazo uko abibona. |
Ibyo gukora n'ibyo udakwiye gukora
| ✔️ Ibintu byo gukora (Gukora) | ❌ Ntugakore ibyo udakwiye gukora |
|---|---|
| Ha umukunzi wawe icyubahiro n'ubwitonzi nk'uko umutegerejeho mbere na mbere. | Irinde kuvuga nabi cyangwa kunenga uwo mwashakanye imbere y'abandi. |
| Shaka inama z'abaganga ku buryo bukwiye bwo kuboneza urubyaro mbere yo gutangiza urugo. | Ntukibagirwe burundu isano ry'urukundo mu ishyingiranwa ryawe nyuma yo kubyara abana. |
| Mujye mufata umwanya wihariye wo gutuza nibura rimwe mu cyumweru kugira ngo muganire mu bwisanzure, mwembi gusa. | Ntugakomeze kwiringira ko umukunzi wawe azahinduka kandi akaguha ibyo ukeneye byose. |
❓ Hari ibindi bibazo ushobora kuba ufite (FAQ)
Kuki ubujyanama bw'umwuga ari ingenzi ku bibazo by'abashakanye? ▼
Mu gihe cyo gutanga inama ku bashakanye, impande zombi zigira amahirwe yo kuganira ku bibazo byazo imbere y'umuntu wa gatatu udafite aho abogamiye (umujyanama), kandi zigishwa uburyo bufatika bwo gukemura ibibazo no kuvugana neza.
Ni gute kwiheba bigira ingaruka ku bashakanye? ▼
Iyo umukunzi afite agahinda, ashobora kwikura mu nshingano z'umuryango, kurakara cyangwa kutita ku bandi. Iri si ikosa ry'umukunzi ahubwo ni indwara igomba gusuzumwa no kuvurwa, bityo ugomba kugisha inama umuganga mukuru (Dogiteri) cyangwa umuganga w'indwara zo mu mutwe.
Ese gukururwa n'umuntu ku mubiri byonyine birahagije kugira ngo umubano w'abashakanye ube mwiza ?
Oya. Nubwo gukururana kw'umubiri n'ubuzima bw'imibonano mpuzabitsina ari ingenzi, icyo abashakanye bamaranye igihe kirekire kandi bakagira intsinzi ni uguhuza amarangamutima, nko kubahana, gutega amatwi ibitekerezo bya buri wese, no guhagarara hamwe mu bibazo by'ubuzima.
Ni gute wagenzura uburyo bwo gushakisha amakosa mu buryo bufatika? ▼
Ushobora kugenzura ingeso yo gushaka amakosa ushyiraho umwanya wo gutuza rimwe mu cyumweru, ukandika imyitwarire wifuza guhindura muri mwe n'ubufasha witeze kuri mugenzi wawe, kandi ukayiganiraho nta burakari.
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